A dick-loving lesbian's dream

Athelhilda2 · 2021-06-16T07:50:06+00:00

If it were possible for lesbians to like penis, I have be married a man right out of high school.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-06-12T04:42:16+00:00

Attracted to the same sex (males & males and females & females).

Athelhilda2 · 2021-06-10T07:04:44+00:00

Um.....

Athelhilda2 · 2021-06-01T02:56:56+00:00

He looks like a fucking circus freak.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-28T23:56:09+00:00

It is fetishisation, and as an object of the fetish I find it insulting and dehumanising ... BUT sexual fantasies are what they are - I can partly understand why it speaks to some women, particularly given the treatment of women in relation to sex in society.

But women reading yaoi or gay fanfiction doesn't necessarily mean that two men together or men at all is a part of their sexual fantasies.

But there are no gay men in these stories to sympathise with. There are only women and thier projections dancing for the sexual pleasure of other women.

I've seen slash fanfiction (which is mostly written by women) of characters originally created by men, sometimes even gay men.

It is no different for men watching lesbian porn made for straight guys. They are not watching lesbians, they are watching two women perform for thier sexual pleasure.

I wouldn't really say that the two are the same, at least not entirely. I would have to say that yaoi and related genres such as slash fanfiction have more in common with cheesy romance novels and romantic movies like Titanic than with hardcore porn. Porn aimed at men tends to be more focused on sex, whereas women's tends to be more focused on romance with sex as an added bonus. Most women that I've met who are into yaoi or slash fanfiction are focused on the romance between the two characters, although there are women who just read it for the sex.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-28T21:25:10+00:00

I wouldn't necessarily say that she is fetishizing gay relationships via yaoi. It's entirely possible that she genuinely relates to the men in these stories in some fashion and has misunderstood this as being mentally a man herself. Perhaps she has a lack of female role models or the role models she does have leave much to be desired. This is a bit embarrassing, but I too was into yaoi at one time, and still favor ships that involve men. You would expect from this information that I would be either heterosexual or bisexual, but actually I have no interest in men and am likely either asexual or a lesbian.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-27T18:12:41+00:00

I don't see any trans women "reclaiming" the word dyke.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-25T05:37:53+00:00

If I paint a horse in black and white stripes and cut it's mane, that doesn't mean it is now a zebra.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-15T10:57:19+00:00

I'm in a similar situation as you are, minus the abuse and having had sex. Unlike you, though, I don't know what my sexuality is. I wouldn't say it's too late, perhaps you should try joining a MeetUp or maybe even try online dating. You'll have to go through all the unicorn hunters, men, and trans women, but it will at least help you get your feet wet.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-13T00:04:37+00:00

Are there even any lesbian spaces anymore? Tried looking in my city and just found gay bars.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-08T08:02:58+00:00

I'm pretty sure the whole point of being LGBTQ+ is being sexually attracted to the same, opposite, both, or neither sex. I swear to god, if tomorrow morning gay rights were reversed back to how it was in the 1950s, these "queers" would become homophobes overnight.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-05-04T05:36:30+00:00

Same. I used to read yaoi, but it was never a fetishitic thing for me, I just find it easier to relate to male characters. Plus, there aren't a lot of good stories with good characters in lesbian fiction and yuri manga.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-28T23:47:13+00:00

He said that because Nasheed is a piece of shit who hates white people and sees any negative interaction between whites and blacks as rooted in racism.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-28T14:09:40+00:00

Where are you from, out of curiosity?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-28T14:08:49+00:00

Same. Trying to figure out one's sexuality in this environment is especially difficult.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-28T13:33:06+00:00

Denial and repression is a powerful thing 🤷‍♀️

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-27T11:27:19+00:00

All the apps are filled with men, couples, and trans though. :(

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-21T05:09:00+00:00

Did they not realize that the girl is a real person who could of had her life destroyed based on a malicious lie?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-15T05:12:25+00:00

Sicilians are technically Italians, but it's complicated. From what I understand, Italians and Sicilians have historically not gotten along well.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-12T06:21:18+00:00

She didn’t say all white people, the point is that it’s obviously a group for black peoples and a white person is trying to participate in it despite it being obvious it’s for black people.

Segregation ended decades ago, no one gets to have spaces where only one ethnic group is allowed anymore.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-12T03:27:17+00:00

I fail to see how this is our problem.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-04-09T00:16:36+00:00

Well, do you think it's possible you might eventually develop feelings for her? It's only one date, it's not like you have to be her girlfriend if the date doesn't go well.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-03-31T01:59:09+00:00

Not well, although I wasn't doing that great before the pandemic.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-03-29T19:42:18+00:00

By "tribes with European features" are you referring to North Africans? If my memory is correct, they're more closely related to people from the Middle East, particularly from the Levant.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-03-10T04:19:11+00:00

They're the ones who primarily benefited from the USSR's expansion into the rest of Eastern Europe. This is like asking the British how they feel about th he British Empire.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-03-07T09:22:11+00:00

Yeah, that would be because the definition was changed and the old definition memoryholed.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-02-21T01:58:44+00:00

Ever stop to think the LGB alliance groups are run by LGB people who have heard about what's going on in the West and don't want that in their countries?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-02-06T13:05:29+00:00

Same. I am likely either asexual or a low libido lesbian, and everything I've seen regarding the asexual community and LGBTABCWTF+ community in general has made me think that a large majority are either mentally unstable or have very fucked up ideas about sex and sexuality.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-31T20:30:33+00:00

Why wouldn't they?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-31T07:17:29+00:00

She could have been asexual for all we know.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-31T06:58:12+00:00

You do realize that breasts are not genitalia, yes?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-26T01:19:57+00:00

Then what are they, because most white people would consider them black.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-26T00:07:39+00:00

Idk, some of those vaginas looked surgically constructed to me.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-24T12:07:15+00:00

Are any of the women on that sub actually women? Seems to be a lot of trans people.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-22T16:10:17+00:00

Trans people are banned from the military because they have to take hormones and, if they're trans women who have bottom surgery, dilate daily. What do you think would happen in the middle of a deployment if they were unable to get access to their hormones? Sue the trans women's fellow soldiers can't afford her having a dysphoria attack or developing an infection because of her neo vagina in the middle of a warzone, it could get them killed. Gay people do not have these medical issues, which means they are free to join as long as they can pass the physical test and mental evaluation.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-21T07:58:40+00:00

Trans is not the only demographic that can't join the military, though. You can also be banned for having autism, mental illness, diabetes, asthma, and needing glasses.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-21T02:23:59+00:00

Get a restraining order against this person. He isn't going to stop.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-10T08:48:22+00:00

Balkanization. This is what happens when you have too much diversity in a country and not enough in common to hold it all together. Tribalism takes over and people begin to separate like oil and water.

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-09T01:11:37+00:00

If only a small percentage of the population is lesbian, I wonder why it seems that the gay male population seems so much larger? Are a lot of lesbians deep in the closet and in denial, or is there some sort of evolutionary trait that makes women less likely to be homosexual?

Athelhilda2 · 2021-01-07T09:42:13+00:00

I would argue that a woman being interested in or relating to a gay male relationship is not necessarily straight or bisexual. Some people just naturally relate better to the opposite sex, myself included.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-25T10:35:56+00:00

PMAM?

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-22T06:10:56+00:00

Hopefully, most of them will grow out of it like my generation grew out of being emo.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-21T11:59:47+00:00

The more they try to silence people, the more they will be hated.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-19T07:39:24+00:00

If you walked up to someone anywhere outside of the western world and told them that biological males can be women, they would laugh at you hysterically.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-18T04:37:08+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if we eventually have a massive surge in teen pregnancies because of this being taught.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-09T09:33:42+00:00

I've also noticed that many of them seem to have issues, such autism or mental health issues.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-06T12:16:20+00:00

Please seek help for your obvious mental illness.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-06T00:04:43+00:00

Well I guess most people are non binary then, because the vast majority of people don't "feel" like men or women.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-05T23:57:57+00:00

How do you know it's babushka?

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-02T01:31:32+00:00

Women can't be misogynistic, genius.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-01T06:12:58+00:00

1) It matters because by not being born male, trans men don't have the same identity or experiences as cis men, especially not cis gay men. Trans men grew up as girls and women, and society is more forgiving of gender nonconformity and homosexuality in females than it is in males.

2) Little girls don't get told that they shouldn't cry, that they can't wear certain clothes, that they need to "act like a man", or that they're sissies for liking things made for girls and women. Gay boys and men worry about getting beat up for being perceived as gay, girls and women don't. All boys and girls regardless of sexuality are socialized a certain way.

3) First off, it's fairly easy to tell if someone is trans once you know what to look for. What I mean by society not seeing them as really men or women is that they aren't treated the way cis men and women are. A cis man that gets in a fight with a trans gay man is more likely to go easier on them than if they were fighting another cis man. Society tends to be more okay with their "gay" relationships because it's seen as "straight but with extra steps". The same does not hold true for trans women. Trans men are seen in the same light as tomboys and lesbians, as silly women who will eventually grow out of their sillyness and settle down with a good man. Trans women are seen in the same light as effeminate boys and gay men. If society truly saw them as real men and women, they would treat them as such.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-01T04:34:25+00:00

Being female isn't an identity, it's a biological fact. You're born female or male, and an identity is something you chose.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-01T04:20:33+00:00

They aren't beaten and raped because they're trans, they're beaten and raped because they're biologically female and defying gender norms.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-01T04:17:34+00:00

They weren't born male or raised with male socialization as a child and despite what society says, no one sees them as really men or women. So no, they don't understand what it's like to be treated like an f-word.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-12-01T03:55:22+00:00

There is no such thing as an "internal female identity", being female is biological. It's not an identity.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-29T07:16:54+00:00

Yeah, I'm pretty sure this person is neither gay or trans, just some homophobe shitposting. Let's all tell the breeder to leave.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-29T07:09:17+00:00

Sexual coercion by cis women doesn't make me want to vomit the way trans women and cis men do, so.... Also, if you don't want us focusing on the bad behavior of trans people, might I suggest stopping said behavior?

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-29T01:47:55+00:00

The main problem Europe and the diaspora seem to be having is due to lowered birth rates. If we can get those up to an acceptable level, we should have no problem taking back our homelands. We also need to encourage people of European descent to return to Europe, as it's hypocritical to demand they leave while living in other people's land.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-27T22:32:13+00:00

They occupied Spain and Portugal for 300 years. We kicked them out then and we will eventually do the same again.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-26T04:10:09+00:00

When I was around the age of six, my family and I had to move in with my grandmother due to financial reasons. My dad had a giant photo of a naked woman lying on top of a python in his room from college. Six year old me really, really liked that photo, and I would wait until my parents had left the house and my grandma was distracted to sneak in there and look at it. I don't think I was ever caught or that anyone knew, although there were a few close calls with grandma. Wasn't happy when we eventually moved out and dad gave it to my older cousin. 🙁

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-24T08:06:08+00:00

Autistic people sometimes have issues understanding sexuality and gender, that or they live a very sheltered and socially isolated life.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-22T09:33:03+00:00

I'm pretty sure my great uncle was gay, but we only met a handful of times and he spent most of his time outside of the country.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-18T05:07:54+00:00

I don't really notice anyone in real life, although in all fairness I've always been a bit of a loner. Perhaps this person is the same?

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-18T04:59:46+00:00

I'm questioning if I'm a lesbian or asexual.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-13T05:26:27+00:00

It's sad that they've been sold a lie. A neopenis or vagina can never resemble the real thing. They will never look, taste, feel, smell, react, or function the same as an actual penis or vagina. And no, a prosthetic (dildo) doesn't cut it.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-11-12T05:14:18+00:00

There are countries where people can't leave the house, masked or not, without notifying the authorities. Governments don't give up that sort of power when the crisis is over.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-26T02:12:31+00:00

I don't know if I've ever experienced sexual attraction, so there's a possibility I may be asexual.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-22T08:31:36+00:00

Most people would argue that there's a pretty big difference between having breast implants and having a neopenis/vagina

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-21T18:18:36+00:00

I'm not bisexual, I am in no way, shape, or form attracted to men.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-21T14:00:40+00:00

Well, I have some intimacy issues and am still trying to figure out my sexuality, so friends with benefits or a one night stand would be ideal.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-21T07:16:38+00:00

I'm pretty sure that wanting to kill "facists" (most of which aren't either facist or antisemitic) makes you the facist.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-18T15:52:50+00:00

I don't know why they keep asking questions they already know the answer to.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-17T15:50:16+00:00

You know, most people don't worry about being a predator, so if you feel that way, maybe you are one?🤷‍♀️

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-13T15:34:17+00:00

No porn.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-12T00:11:32+00:00

I really, really hate how being a part of certain demographics have become political stances. Being gay, Black, or whatever has nothing to do with politics.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-11T04:21:00+00:00

Gotcha. I changed it.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-11T02:58:18+00:00

I fantasize about women when I masturbate, but I spend a lot of time in my own little world, so I don't stare at or get butterflies with anyone. There was one time when I was talking to a woman and felt hot, like someone had turned a heater to its highest setting, but I'm pretty sure I was just anxious at the time.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-11T02:33:38+00:00

Not asking if I'm a lesbian, just what sexual attraction is and feels like.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-10T00:22:51+00:00

They don't seem to realize that a good chunk of those people don't actually seem them as the gender they claim to be. The only reason they're saying those things is out of either pity, wokeness, or to keep their personal/professional lives in tact. If any of those people were ever in a position where a trans person asked them out, they would have several excuses on hand as to why they won't date them.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-09T06:50:11+00:00

While I do think sexuality can be fluid for some people, it's obvious that it's rare. The vast majority of people remain the same sexuality they've always been.

Athelhilda2 · 2020-10-09T04:56:50+00:00

This has always bugged me. If you "identify" as say asexual, and it turns out you're actually straight, you were never asexual in the first place.

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