A Solicitation for Participation in Pride -- All About Trans. Don't look for the word 'gay.' You won't find it.

Dromedary · 2022-04-21T07:00:41+00:00

I filled out the form with my name, You're Erasing Gays &Lesbians, my email which is You'reErasingGays&Lesbians@FuckYou.org, my Twitter handle @You'reErasingGays&LesbiansFuckYou.

Hilarious: *We are prioritizing BIPOC ,trans led groups and organizations., as well as other marginalized communities. How would you define your groups identity background? *

Yep, still no gays or lesbians to prioritize there. A heterosexual millionaire say Google engineer of Indian, Asian, Lation heritage- anyone nonwhite in other words- is a "marginalized" person, as opposed to a middle aged homosexual like me who went through hell growing up and still suffers from depression from that. Feeling abused and ostracized by society seeing the toll of AIDS, I suppose none of that happened, apparently I rule the world and have never been marginalized.

I fucking despise these people.

Dromedary · 2022-04-01T05:48:05+00:00

Total raging narcissist. "I just don't feel safe in my gender with you," I said tearily. What kind of asshole speaks that way to a partner? She sounds brainwashed.

I have to laugh at the happily-ever-after ending. "My new genderqueer friends and pansexual lovers understand the REAL me"- sure they do, sweetheart. You're a dime a dozen, a new mark to exploit, another cult member to lovebomb and use. I'm sure your house of fantasy cards won't collapse into remorse.

Dromedary · 2022-04-01T05:35:34+00:00

It's really insane. It's not even the Her app trying to make accommodations for trans "women". Now it just seems like they are just straight-up taunting and denigrating lesbians. Unless they are amenable to being forcet to accept ladydique. Yuck. Boycott that shit, delete the app and let the bearded weirdos date each other. Insane that Her is actually saying the Cotton Ceiling is a problem and they want to help transbians overcome this problem from lesbians being difficult. My god, it's noxious.

Dromedary · 2022-02-25T09:36:25+00:00

"On a scale of one to ten how stoked where you the first time you got to use the urinal?

"Hahaha! That’s the one this im still waiting on. I have a fistula that it getting repaired in april. I’ve done it in the shower and aiming rules."

A fistula, how charming. "Well I was pissing blood for a while, but urinals are the best!"

Some other clown: "Doctors have been expertly doing these surgeries longer than you've been alive!" They really believe this is an ancient art and science, rather than the seat-of-the-pants chop n sew Frankenstein thing by ghoul quacks. Complication rates for these surgeries are, let's face it, 100 percent. It should be a crime to mutilate the mentally ill like this.

Dromedary · 2022-01-30T08:38:50+00:00

Absolutely this. It's for comedy, a really old thing from when people didn't have a million things to entertain themselves. I've seen pics of "beauty pageants" on US destroyers during WWII, and I think cross-dressing was part of a ritual for newbie sailors crossing the Equator for the first time. People shouldn't read too much into old photos taken out of context this way. But I get the feeling the person who wrote the article is young and dumb with a brain steeped in identity politics. It's a really stupid age we live in.

Dromedary · 2022-01-23T06:31:57+00:00

Evan Urquhart is a lunatic FTM who rules Slate's comment section with an iron fist. SO many times I saw Evan chirp things like "Puberty blockers are totally safe and reversible! Science says so!" And if you try to say politely that no, science has not proved this, it's a huge unknown and you shouldn't really be saying that, oh forget it. Censored, comment obliterated. Absolutely no dissent allowed from the ideology. Big part of why Slate has become such a non-essential degraded rag.

Joe "Grace" Lavery is another one desperately trying to stir outrage and attention to himself on Twitter by declaring that Meat Loaf was "queer" despite that being 100 percent bullshit. Crunts gotta crunt. Just a horrible vapid asshole that one.

Dromedary · 2022-01-22T10:26:04+00:00

Anyway, feeling quite depressed. So tired of the transphobia everywhere.

Good. I'm glad reality makes this person depressed, tired, demoralized. Maybe she'll get the hint to stop badgering gay guys for sexual attention. It's so dishonest- she only briefly slips in that it's about "dating", and all the rest of it and the other pathetic specimens piping up is "they're genital fetishists who hate us and want to holocaust us". Cry more I DGAF. These are wretched loons.

Dromedary · 2022-01-15T06:28:03+00:00

I hate this fucking guy. 20 or 25 years ago I thought his going to Russia was very brave, but maybe he's just disordered. He creeps me the fuck out with his intense attention to getting rid of age of consent laws, I wonder what skeletons are in his closet. Has he campaigned for "Minor Attracted Persons" to be added to the rainbow alphabet yet? Now he's pro-troon at the expense of gays and women. I want distance, he is Bad For The Gays.

Dromedary · 2022-01-15T06:22:34+00:00

"Going feral"- I don't know if it's the T or the psychiatric disorder, but the manlets often seem to have anger issues, they're always expressing themselves wanting to hit or punch or beat up something. Emotionally unstable people.

Dromedary · 2022-01-15T06:17:42+00:00

Seriously. These people are totally full of shit. "I'd totally date a transman with a vagina?" Oh yeah? Why aren't you doing it then? No, it's always some airy hypothetical about "falling in love with the person" blah blah. They know they'll never have to prove this, they'll never do it in reality, they just want the virtue points. Blergh.

Dromedary · 2022-01-11T09:28:25+00:00

Seriously. "Who's really the woman here, the female person or this imaginary grab-bag of feminine stereotypes I just made up?"

Dromedary · 2022-01-08T08:56:15+00:00

George's old estranged androgyne friend Marilyn piped up to tell George he's full of shit, people can't change sex. Pretty based. Then I fell down a rabbit hole checking out what Marilyn's been doing, apparently a lot of drugs. Acting like a maniac, filming himself lurking outside George's mansion gate on a frigid Christmas Eve night, cackling. So weird but entertaining.

Dromedary · 2022-01-08T08:51:18+00:00

Yes, and these are the people that TRAs are actively trying to destroy words like "mother" for. Mentally ill women who abuse their bodies with radical mastectomies and testosterone who think they're a man. Who constantly are so careless/stupid that nearly always they get pregnant accidentally. These are the people we should listen to? I'm sure the T us great for the fetus. Even if they pause it when they discover they're pregs months later. It's so sad and sick. THESE are the people who they want to erase the concept and words mother and motherhood for? Trash like this?

Dromedary · 2022-01-05T10:14:07+00:00

I see. Not a gay man then, ha. A boy as you say. I dunno, he sounds like he's brainwashed from being constantly online and absorbing a lot of "lessons" from the gendergoblin bluehair teenz how he should be. Sad really.

Dromedary · 2022-01-04T09:56:18+00:00

I utterly disbelieve that this was written by a gay man, it overwhelmingly sounds like it was written by an AFAB trans man (aka a female). Such a long comment is the first tipoff. And oh, complaining about gay men? Where have we ever seen that before, gosh. All this flowery drivel about dates and flowers and holding hands - I mean, please. A woman larping as a gay man wrote this. No gay dude is going to refer to his own dick sneeringly and dismissively as a mere "piece of flesh". We actually quite like our dicks and at 18 we're pretty horny. Something that's absent from this. Like a lot of young women deluded into thinking they're not women, there's a fear of sex (which is fine) but boy, do they talk about it a lot. I mean, WHAT a lecture this 18 year old gave us about ALL the sexualities like an expert. Comical. Typical.

Dromedary · 2022-01-02T05:29:08+00:00

"I kinda forced myself to read wlw porn (it caused severe dysphoria, would not recommend :D). "

Just rampant, untreated mental illness.

Dromedary · 2022-01-02T05:26:52+00:00

Lol! Too funny because true.

Dromedary · 2022-01-02T05:25:02+00:00

"The intricacies of my gender presentation" = I like necklaces, earrings, and big pink sunglasses. I am so complex and intricate!

Dromedary · 2022-01-02T05:21:33+00:00

George Chauncey's "Gay New York" was so brilliant and magisterial when I read it so many years ago in the 90s. Really invaluable scholarship. So it's with some dismay I see the updated edition has this huge new introduction that is one long tortured mea culpa apology for not centering The Trans in the book. All the writing about cross-dressing gay men (and boys) in NYC from the late 19th century on? Yeah, they were ALL Trans now, he writes and he is SO sorry he says. He flagellates himself, saying when he was researching the book for over a decade, it was a different time, the 80s. And no one talked about the trans.

So if a respected scholar spends 15 years writing a groundbreaking gay history and the concept of "trans" doesn't even OCCUR to him, what does that say about the wild claim that trans people have ALWAYS been a big part of history, ALWAYS existed?

Dromedary · 2021-12-28T06:22:54+00:00

Ugh. Any young person who wants to know about that stuff has the entire internet in their pocket already. They don't need this pervert's book in the school library. I used to really like The Guardian but I can barely stand it now.

Dromedary · 2021-12-19T10:12:13+00:00

Living your truth by killing the dreams of hard-working female athletes with your unfair physical advantages. HRC is such a scam and disgrace. What does this have to do with human rights, at all? No, it's not a human right for males to thrash women in sports by sheer brute force. Sick. Someone on Twitter noted that HRC's post on Facebook was so flooded with comments saying "Uh, this is really unfair to women, actually" they deleted the post. And while I'm glad to see then getting similarly ratio'd on Twitter, Twitter does this annoying thing they do when there's a controversial thread where the T side looks bad: you have to click "See More" every 4 or 5 reply tweets, so you don't see endless negative comments. It's really sneaky. Yeah, they're so oppressed.

Dromedary · 2021-12-18T10:34:21+00:00

Ugh. I read this in November but annoyed all over again, lol. What an entitled little asshole this deluded chick is, calling gay men "fags". They always have this homophobic hostility, they love the slurs. Because no gay man wants to fuck them, and they want to make it a civil rights outrage. Bwaha, suffer, you dumb bitch. These sorts are also fantasists, I hear slash fiction and yaoi is a thing with girls, writing fiction around gay make characters. Romantic stories that get crushed on immediate contact with the real world, lol. 'The fags at the bar all hornily eyed me their eyes burning with lust for my hotness". Yeah, that happened. Well, they are attracted to PRICKS!
The Stranger really sucks so badly, it makes Seattle seem like Woke fucking Hell, filled with nightmare people like this loon. The Stranger was where Katie Herzog wrote a piece that was deemed twansphobic and she was nearly literally hounded out of town. So I guess they're tripling down on their editorial devotion to the Church of Trans.

Dromedary · 2021-12-13T08:51:47+00:00

So grotesue, so unfair. The balls of these people. Part of the prob! How in the hell can anyone take pride in this. He has a man's lungs, heart, muscles, is he proud that he beat women? Sarcastic clap. Such a farce. "Beat women" is a funny phrase to look at, besides the meaning of "winning" it's also just kind of abuse. Leave women's sports alone, cowards. Go get your sorry asses kicked by the men again.

Dromedary · 2021-12-11T12:38:43+00:00

"As a 2d year Forensic Psych student.." 2 years! I've been gay for 40 years, and what a stupid crunt. Yeah, fuck this chick acting like that has ANY authority while trying to tie pedos to gays, it is monstrous and reprehensible. And you KNOW she thinks of herself as the wokiest wokester who LOVES the gay/lesbian community. But she's laundering something heinous we gays have forever WANTED NO PART OF. EXPRESSLY!

Something that really bothers me, is that feminists like Anna Slatz do good stuff on trans lunacy, but she does these reports on NAMBLA and such and she has this young person's idea that the gay community was all as networked and wired and even a THING for most gays (or any group) in the 60s and 70s as they are today. It's a (really dumb) conception of the world before the internet. There WAS no real "gay community" in the 70s that could get together and vote out NAMBLA. Most gays were busy throwing off their repressive childhoods and fucking a lot- they weren't active members of a groups, writing letters and licking stamps to be politically active, jeez. It took effort to be "involved" in something like the gay rights movement and there were GREAT costs and risks to it if your friends/family/neighbors/employers found out you were gay. This isn't understood or appreciated by young women like Slatz, at all. So if NAMBLA got a foothold in the nascent gay rights movement of the 1970s, 99 percent of gays had no fucking idea about that. And when they learned it, the pedos were kicked right the fuck out. I hugely mistrust straight women who pretend to be gay allies and act like enemies, Slatz and Miss PhD Pedo-defender here. Jesus, just get LOST.

Dromedary · 2021-12-06T11:31:52+00:00

"Omg, Hope you're okay! Mentally and physically" "Mentally a mess 😓 thank you"

Uh, so what else is new? This shit needs to be outlawed. I swear it's always a horror story.

Dromedary · 2021-12-06T11:29:11+00:00

It's totally hostile to women and it's a psychotic wish based in a kink and fetish to want to appropriate these things. Every sane person, even children (depending on age of course) know that pregnancy and menstruation are distinctly female things that only women experience. These perverts want to make it about themselves, again. Dismal excuses for human beings. Failed men.

Dromedary · 2021-12-06T11:23:20+00:00

Interesting and true. Except: the writer feels like the "gaslighting" has power over them. Maybe they're a young person, and I'm sympathetic to that. I'm 52, i think I just see it as a torrent of lies and bullshit. I'm not gaslit. And neither are you (or this writer) if you fully see it's just lying. "Gaslighting" is overused and misused. It's just lying.

Dromedary · 2021-11-22T09:20:54+00:00

And, where's the kids mother? Something very very off here.

Edit: Yeah, I read a bit more and whoever it is really seems to enjoy creating a whole elaborate backstory that's weirdly cheery. Says "he" was 11, the mother was 17, she lived with his family for a while but was kicked out for "bringing strange men over" and now "last i heard she was homeless and addicted to drugs I dunno". Really breezy about it. The whole story seems more ludicrous the more you think of it. The girl had no parents? The authorities were never involved, he says, though he was a child. I think it's all bullshit. This would have been tabloid news, it's too peculiar to believe.

Dromedary · 2021-11-22T09:16:07+00:00

"Fat girl using slurs that aren't hers to reclaim" was one of the replies, good.

Dromedary · 2021-11-02T07:09:43+00:00

I thought that was a very odd and unsupportable thing - gay men are less likely to fail sexual performance of intercourse with women than straight men? I really wonder where the hell he got that idea.

But it's a good read overall, with lots of fine interesting points. I liked this:
"Q is for Queer

Queer is so obviously wrong, that arguing against it is almost demeaning. Here we have a word that was and still is one of the most hateful in the American language. “Dirty queer” is what many gay men heard as they were being beaten to death. Although “queer theorists” talk of “reclaiming” the word, this is impossible, since it never belonged to us in the first place; it was always the word of our enemies."

Dromedary · 2021-11-01T08:32:42+00:00

I just sense and take for a fact that 99% of T's are active on Twitter and everywhere else, they are Extremely Online all day and night because that's where they get their validation and like-minded comrades. They far prefer it to real life, understandably. Where actual people shatter their fantasies about themselves. They are expert at brigading and distorting opinion, especially when all opposition (Gender Critical) is muzzled and silenced and driven out. And they're automatic upvoters/followers of each other, no matter what is said. 1,500 likes/upvotes is extremely easy to believe.

Dromedary · 2021-10-26T10:31:13+00:00

Ha. When I was a teenager I probably would've found this person fascinating. If I ever could meet her I'd probably find she was an asshole. Mentally ill narcissist.

Dromedary · 2021-10-26T10:27:11+00:00

So appalling, this bullshit propaganda that trans people are "denied health care" if they don't get their gruesome cosmetic surgeries ASAP, or gender-nonconforming kids aren't immediately put on chemical-castration drugs. Sick.

Dromedary · 2021-10-26T10:21:31+00:00

That was good. I rejected Reddit sheerly on aesthetic grounds 20 years ago, it was such an eyesore. Kind of glad I avoided it it seems like a hellscape. Yeah, I hear it's useful for a lot of things, but the troonacy seems wildly out of control. And it's wild that we gay and lesbian people are being censored and banned there. Fucking crazy.

Dromedary · 2021-10-26T10:12:40+00:00

"believe that everyone must be pansexual" - isn't that the weirdest thing? Everyone's secretly bisexual and promiscuous in these loons' fantasies. But reality doesn't bear that out, people know what sex turns them on early and tend to stick with it. You never see troons trying to pressure straight men to suck dick, lol.

Weird thing in my life: I'm a NYC/Hamptons/San Francisco urbanite, I think I've met only one or two bisexual guys in my entire life, I'm 52. Inevitably they have a girlfriend or wife and are extremely so quiet about it I'm not even sure. I'm so bad at signals though. A few times my straight brother has had to tell me "Uh that guy was hitting on you, and once it was a M/F couple. Really annoying people I couldn't stand but there was always this vibe I couldn't recognize. Weird shit.

Dromedary · 2021-10-26T10:00:44+00:00

Lol. They're so gross and unattractive, so mad that no one on Earth wants to fuck them. SUFFER, you chose this lunacy.

Dromedary · 2021-10-23T10:01:36+00:00

You really have to listen to the audio clip of the Pink News editor making an utter fool and bell-end of himself.

"Stonewall has tried to pretend that it is above answering these very significant questions. But it is not. One clip from Nolan demonstrates this above all. It’s with Ben Cohen, the founder and Chief Executive of Pink News. The legacy online gay publication likes to act as a sort of ideological enforcer for Stonewall, pursuing their perceived opponents and otherwise engaging in activism in the guise of journalism. They attend the same black tie dinners and Downing Street receptions.

But worth the price of listening to the Nolan show alone is the moment in episode three when Nolan asks Cohen to define a couple of the gender-bollocks terms that Stonewall and others expect everyone in the UK, including BBC presenters like Nolan to be able to understand and all those “Diversity Champions” out there. What is “two-spirit?” Nolan asks Cohen. Cohen cannot explain. What about “genderqueer”? Again Cohen is stumped. While undeniably funny, this moment also represents something very serious in Stonewall’s wider collapse."

Dromedary · 2021-10-21T09:42:20+00:00

These people don't read books. Like, books on LGB history with real scholarship? Forget it. They just absorb propaganda on social media like sponges. And of course they love the false narratives where they're the heroes, and (white) gay men are the villains, because the trans movement is seriously homophobic.

Dromedary · 2021-10-21T09:38:28+00:00

I'm just thinking of gay bars of Yore, where the clientele faced police raids, arrests, public disgrace, hooligans, gay-bashers, arsonists. "QUEEER" kids today feel UNSAFE if someone looks at them wrong.

Dromedary · 2021-10-21T09:33:43+00:00

So transparently (npi) a male fantasy. Trans person is SO attractive a lesbian hits on him, asks for his number. I guess maybe people still ask for "numbers", you know the kids today love phone calls.. It sounds middle-aged, this fantasy.

Dromedary · 2021-10-18T07:10:25+00:00

That was good, by which I mean as a showcase of tap-dancing freaks. One of my fave bits was where Arielle shows and reads a bit from Pink News, saying I guess in the UK for trans treatment there's a wait list of "26-years". Because you know it's supposed to read "2-6 years" but Pink News is written by sloppy sub-literate morons, gendergoblin fanatics with no writing or editing skills. Spreading falsehoods and lies as usual. There's no wait list for anything on Earth that's 26 fucking years, that would be stupid.

Dromedary · 2021-10-07T10:05:11+00:00

"Is there any LGBT sub left on reddit that isn’t a basket case full of people pushing gender and trans issues? Just had a look at that sub and they all sound like they should be talking to a therapist."- Well said there.

Dromedary · 2021-10-07T09:58:18+00:00

Haha. I love "Educate yourself!" from TRAs, because when normies do read up, they're even more horrified.

"Wait, they take part of your colon to form your..? And it ca semell like..? And how often are their complication? Really! And a phalloplasty is..? Wait, they do what with your arm? Let's see what it looks like.. OH MY GOD MY EYES! And you want kids on the path to THIS, ans well as permanent sterility and loss of sexual function? Medical patients for life? Jesus!". The more people read, the more they're peaked!

Dromedary · 2021-10-06T09:26:14+00:00

Seriously! Calls herself a guy but.. she's really girly, because she actually is a woman? And other people are the ones who are stupid for not "getting" her mental problems and personality disorder?

Dromedary · 2021-10-06T09:20:00+00:00

I'm thinking of Karen's beautiful, sweet, very funny ballad, "Lady Dyque". 😂 It's so good, love her music.

(You're Kidding, Right?) 🎶"Lady dyque's not a thing/ It's a peeeniiiis.."🎶

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ufySCJOPPs

Dromedary · 2021-10-05T10:16:56+00:00

Yeah, they all need a half a million dollars over a lifetime for the most incredibly invasive and disfiguring surgeries there are- splitting your penis and shoving it in to fashion a vagina! Shaving bone off your skull and jaw and cartilage off your trachea! Complications from all of these and like, 75 "corrective" surgeries, forever, and the taxpayer should foot the bill so they can be their TRUE SELF!!.

Unbelievable amount of money and effort to be their TRUE SELVES.

Plus tons of hormones for their whole lives, and cosmetics and costumes and they STILL don't pass, will never pass. And these artificial approximations of the opposite sex that everyone can clock from 50 feet, the spidey-sense tingling that's something's weird and off, that's they're TRUE selves? Astonishing how much artifice it takes to be "real"!

All while they appropriate the benefits of the noble and real fight and hard struggle gay and lesbian people worked to achieve , what? Almost 100 years in the modern era, Oscar Wilde's brutal treatment as society's judgment, more like 120 years? And these cross-dressing, autogynephile hetero tap-dancing freaks march in and take over, it's the LGBTQIA2++ now and gays and lesbians have no say? Sorry for ranting, I am just so fed up.

Dromedary · 2021-10-04T07:29:55+00:00

Sort of funny, since Matt Lucas failed to pry a penny from America with his comedy.

Dromedary · 2021-10-04T07:24:26+00:00

It's because the people in charge of making these films, comics etc. are creatively and intellectually bankrupt. They are out of ideas and can't deal with complexity, or the skills to write actually compelling stories. They're also lemmings, following and copying whatever other noisy franchises do. "Let's make Superman a disabled lesbian Latina!" (sorry, LatinX) is proabably an idea that's been thrown around, and it is so lame and dire.

Dromedary · 2021-10-04T07:16:04+00:00

She should definitely let her insane ideology destroy her marriage, so in ten years when she's alone and undesirably aged out of "pansexuality" she can ruminate about how she wrecked the marriage arguing about tampon boxes.

Dromedary · 2021-10-01T09:12:33+00:00

Prep could also mean "PrEP", or Pre-exposure Prophylaxis. It's an effective medication to prevent HIV transmission/ infection before sex.

Dromedary · 2021-10-01T09:07:28+00:00

Great question! And if trans women of color were so influential and organized- think of all the paperwork!- to solve the AIDS crisis for us, why are they giving street blowjobs for nickels now?

Dromedary · 2021-09-30T11:15:25+00:00

It's really sad and gross -straight people overtaking gay spaces- but I can't cry too hard when gay millennial men and younger have been trashing gay bars as antiquated, obsolete, ridiculous places for well over a decade now. "We have Grindr now, Grandpa! You're such a dinosaur, lol!". As if their apps replace what gay bars once were- community spaces to dance and drink and gasp- you could make friends there, people you don't actually fuck! Plus fundraising, camraderie, a port in the storm, a local gay business. I can only speak of gay men in the US here- gay bars and spaces have been devalued and scorned by younger gay men for so long, it's hard to be upset when straights and blue-haired Qs and the Ts all move in. You didn't value it. You have your childish apps for ordering sex like a pizza. Good for you, because your dick is the most important thing, right?

I'm 52, gay bars have been formative, important, fun places for me my whole adult life until maybe 10, 12, 15 years ago. Many have shut down, (I live in the Hamptons where incredibly, there are NO gay bars anymore. The classic one called The Swamp shut down over 10 years ago, there was actually a memorial party for it recently, because it's so dire. Rich gays go to dinner parties as a replacement, which sigh, fuck me. Not the same, duh.) Yeah so, the younger gays just don't care. They think they're too good for gay bars, they think gay bars are for sad old men. So yeah, other people are going to move in, a business needs customers.
And the OP starts by saying he disdains the place and rarely goes except midweek for a drink or 3. Like, that doesn't count? Ok. Sad all around.

Dromedary · 2021-09-19T06:14:41+00:00

Infuriating, a man beating up a woman and that's entertainment. And not only that, it's.. some progressive triumph for LGBTQIA2++ rights? You mean, ME? No, fuck you.

I read something about this fucked-up dude. Apparently he was gender non-conforming as a child, so every weekend he was dropped at a relative's farm where he could be toughened up roughhousing with the older boys there, and he was raped repeatedly in the barn. I don't know what to do with this information and I'm not using it to hold against him- it's a horrible story- but this is an unbalanced, damaged individual.

Dromedary · 2021-09-18T10:29:35+00:00

It's really bizarre. But ALL THIS reminds me that .. heterosexuality is just a law of the universe and Nature, for understandable reasons. The continuation of the species. And for we gay/lesbian people, that can be OPPRESSIVE.

What is honestly true and fucking HEROIC about gay and lesbian people is that we FIGHT immense societal pressure our whole lives, we face real discrimination historically and still today, , we DEFY Nature, we are HUMANS who have MASTERY over Nature. We aren't animals beholden to basic Nature, we transcend that and because it's hard we have to fight and ASSERT that. Constantly.

So when the FTMs and the MTFs all obey the basic heterosexual rules of Nature and the universe, being really BASIC and LAZY, they're stealing the valor of every gay and lesbian person who has to struggle and FIGHT to be themselves, to be above nature as much as they can, to DEFY social norms and reproductive urges. These people are HETEROSEXUALS with blue hair and a fear of being boring and that's not the same fucking thing at all. You're "queer"? No, you're a basic bitch who wants to be different, and that goes for the dudes too.

Dromedary · 2021-09-17T07:21:12+00:00

Did Alexis really get the chop? Hm. Asking just because 95% of them don't. I'm sorry he died but may I say when alive I thought him really annoying, a West Hollywood scenester that was really shallow and sort of nasty. His detransition was interesting, but his sisters still seem to boomerang back and forth on what his deal was.

Dromedary · 2021-09-14T08:34:17+00:00

Took me a second to realize this is isn't an exchange, it's just one person talking about herself to herself. At least we here are listening, hon! 😅

Dromedary · 2021-09-11T10:25:39+00:00

Jules Gleeson is a blithering idiot. I've been reading plentily about this awful dumb interview and its sheer bad faith and dishonesty. The one part that really stands out is that Gleeson bragged that she offered to the Guardian that she would change the question as long as they kept Butler's long rambling answer that called gender critical people fascists. This is hideously unethical, it's not journalism, and I hope Jules Gleeson is never hired again to write for any reputable outlet. Gleeson has shown they are a fraud and a hack and an activist, not a journalist. Oh and Gleeson offered to do this "for free", which is a laugh. The Guardian is very fucking iffy on the trans issue. Some say that the UK (real) Guardian has gone all TERFy, but I really don't see that at all. Seems some think that because the US version of the G's staff is radically pro-TRA. Whatever. I'm a longtime reader of the Guardian that is really drifting away quickly from the paper, it's a lot mushy ID politics and braindead wokeness. I've always considered myself a liberal, but if this is what it means, I don't know anymore.

Dromedary · 2021-09-09T09:54:03+00:00

Yeah, and I'm so sick of it. I'm seeing more and more noting and mockery of this erasure of the words "woman" and "women", even normies are noticing, so hopefully we're approaching some tipping point over this nonsense. The abortion travesty in Texas has all sorts of freaks popping up saying "Men have abortions too!" and "As a trans woman I wish this debate would center ME for a change" and people are rightly laughing and scornful.

Dromedary · 2021-09-09T09:48:59+00:00

It's such bullshit. She's slept next to her snoring, farting hubby for 16 years, then he puts on a lace teddy and false eyelashes and suddenly it's a magical NEW world of sensual lesbianism? This is phoney balogna.

Dromedary · 2021-09-09T09:45:18+00:00

Haha. Someone commenting at Linehan's place about Owen vs Butterworth: "What the fuck is wrong with Owen Jones? I swear he used to be simply a journalist but now he's a remarkably horrible Twitter bitch on the wrongest side of history known to woman."
I thought this was great, especially "remarkably horrible Twitter bitch " because it's true- he's just absolutely nasty all the time while thinking he's on the side of angels. Deluded twerp.

I didn't know who Butterworth was but saw he's big on "Evict Granny from her home, young people need the housing stock and she'll die soon anyway", so he's kind of a jerk too.

Dromedary · 2021-09-05T08:16:55+00:00

Agree. I had a bit of sympathy, but they all seem to eventually blow up in frustration with some choice antigay slurs. They're dumb immature assholes utterly deluded about what it is to be a gay man, and the fantasy that they can be one too is of course, ludicrous.

Dromedary · 2021-09-05T08:13:55+00:00

Bwahaha. Come sit next to me.

Dromedary · 2021-09-05T08:09:02+00:00

"Go ahead, call me a woman, call me a monstrosity, go ahead and show your contempt for me!!"

Ok?

I wouldn't say monstrosity, just deluded. I hope someday she grows up and feels betrayed by the dishonest activists who led her down the primrose path, that becoming a (gay) man was at all possible. Who promised her trying to be a gay man would be fab rainbows? It wasn't gay men. I'd almost feel bad for her but of course she ended by calling us c----suckers, so she's an asshole, lol. Oh, you mean that in a bad way? Haha, get lost, sis.

Dromedary · 2021-09-05T07:59:57+00:00

Strong agree; not attractive at all. I don't know why thus gay male bathhouse thinks this is going to attract new customers, more likely keep them away in droves. Her? No thanks.

Dromedary · 2021-09-02T10:39:17+00:00

I would look into Deneuve magazine, which started in the 90s iirc for lesbians. (Great name but Catherine herself was mad, lol.) Anyway a while ago I saw a spat where the Editor was a total jerk to someone who protested that trans women seemed the focus at the expense of lesbians. The editor was vituperative. Sorry i don't have links at hand.

Dromedary · 2021-09-02T10:35:03+00:00

I like how the guy stated his case, put it clearly, and stood his ground when the mewling babies did their lying bullshit thing. "How dare you day trans people are filth who deserve extermination!" He responded well.

Dromedary · 2021-08-28T10:43:47+00:00

the US flag being there at all could be read as a form of imperialism. Let's not forget that said flag don't merely represents the US as a country, but a set of values related to being American. Why do you think they put the damn thing in the moon?

All embassies fly their nation's flag at whatever fucking country they're fucking in. Stop crying "Waaah, imperialism", it's idiotic. The US planted the flag on the moon because they were the ones who achieved the feat. And the crucial famous point was ".. FOR ALL MANKIND". The astronauts didn't chant "GoUSA!".

I'm getting really fucking sick of the braindead knee-jerk off-topic anti-Americanism around here. It's constant and tiresome- make your critiques of course- I have plenty- but when someone in another thread is caling Biden a "pedophile President" and some other dick had a long screed about how he hates the dirty Yanks and said *hope my American chums forgive my outburst lol!" I just feel like maybe I really should piss off from this place.

Dromedary · 2021-08-28T10:32:30+00:00

"the sinister LGB Alliance"- Fucking homophobe,- gays and lesbians are sinister and Nazis. What fucking year is this? This woman is a wretch.

Dromedary · 2021-08-28T10:27:14+00:00

" A pedophiliac president "- Just stop with this ridiculous shit. I'm glad that the pediatricians group is doing this. But vicious fuckhead MAGA slurs like this I'm not down for. Disagree with Biden all you want, hate him if you want, but stop with this garbage.

Dromedary · 2021-08-27T09:08:00+00:00

Same feeling, surprised and glad to see her back! It's awful how gender critical people are targeted- some trans person was spreading tips on how to get people banned, a lot of dirty tricks. I guess Vanessa will be extra careful now- it's understandable how a person could lose their cool and then get banned- "She misgendered me!" and boom, you're gone. And the T activists will laugh and titter about it- they're not really offended, they just fight dirty.

Speaking of Vloggers, Karen of "You're Kidding, Right?" is a master class at keeping her cool and speaking eloquently without giving the crazies any ammo to ban her. And now I see that Karen is actually getting ads before her videos from the algorithm- this means she must be doing good numbers. Google/YT is loath to place ads near "controversial" content so.. maybe the climate is changing and GC viewpoints are not quite as censored as they have been.

Dromedary · 2021-08-21T09:56:38+00:00

"It's Raining..Whoever."

Dromedary · 2021-08-21T09:54:43+00:00

It's really something that that the entry for Feminism has an illustration depicting a protest where the most prominent figure holds a sign, "Trans Women Are Women". Literally depicted as the forefront of feminism. Another sign is "Black Lives Matter". Which fine, but it's not feminism. Such an insult.

Dromedary · 2021-08-19T07:38:18+00:00

"I am begging you. BEGGING you. You don't have to date us but.." He's totally begging lesbians to date him.

Dromedary · 2021-08-19T07:32:39+00:00

Sausage party, lol. They all want the validation of an actual lesbian, desperately. But think of it: what do these AGPs have that a lesbian would ever want? (Leaving out the one thing lesbian's DON'T want.) Conversation about makeup and push-up bras and dress goes spinny? Can you imagine anything LESS appealing to an actual lesbian? Yeesh.

Dromedary · 2021-08-19T07:27:32+00:00

Baseline is, people like this are mentally ill. Screaming at the world that people won't indulge their illusions, won't date them. Here's a great example why. ^ They become big furious babies, unhinged crackpots. I'm glad they make we gays and lesbians look normal and boring, lol. But yeah, drop the T. Bi guy in this anecdote didn't deserve such abuse, ffs.

Dromedary · 2021-08-16T10:08:06+00:00

Lol. I hope the boyfriend drops this nutty bish ASAP. She's hectoring him with workbooks and jargon and she's MIFFED that he says he "needs time"? How dare he! All she's doing is turning him gay , that's all. His girlfriend suddenly demanding he consider her male. VALIDATE MAH MASCULINITY! Ugh, poor guy. Hit the road, Jack.

Dromedary · 2021-08-14T07:59:14+00:00

I said, "I perceive as French". I knew someone would contradict me. "DEFINITELY not French, DEFINITELY you're wrong".

Dromedary · 2021-08-13T08:23:47+00:00

And if anyone needs mental health care.. hoo boy. The dysphoria is only part of it, they have more issues than a newsstand.

Dromedary · 2021-08-13T08:18:48+00:00

Me too. Superbly well reasoned and said. (With what I perceive as a French accent). Almost not a fair fight, the spazzy wee pinkhair was a mess. And not in a manly way, lol. I hope she and other TikTok-ish manlets and enbies keep making ludicrous videos like this. If only for the laughs. I'll be looking for more from Masked Guy.

Dromedary · 2021-08-12T09:32:59+00:00

Well said. Man, fuck Dennis J Reilly or Riley Dennis or whatever that geeky dude's name is. In the name of archangel Magdalen Berns, screw him.

I've noticed a similar misogynist thing- one wouldn't get likes and asspats for saying "Women are stupid", but tweet "Yo, WHITE women be trippin' dingbats!" that'll get tons of "LOL- it's true, we're so lame!". From young white, liberal, dime-a-dozen types who read Jezebel and consider themselves ultrawoke and TWAW and the whole Basic toolkit. I'm not a woman but I'm tired of it. "Karens" and "Wine Moms" and the way it's broadly culturally acceptable to be a nasty misogynist as long as you say "WHITE" women and seem merry and "Lol!" about it.

Dromedary · 2021-08-11T10:13:46+00:00

Yes, I know well what you mean. "It affects us as well" seems, hmm, maybe. Ok. It once did, in the Cold War say, but does it really effect you in your daily life? I say this as a 1st generation American with PLENTY of serious criticism of our MANY problems. But sometimes people abroad go so far the other way, just reflexive Yank-kicking that's just dumb, bitter, uninformed, from people with NO experience of American life. They think we're all Yosemite Sam religious fanatics and that African-Americans are being lynched every day. ANYWAY, at least we're not dull, lol.

Dromedary · 2021-08-11T10:05:02+00:00

Now I understand the Salem Witch Trials. These chicks also remind me of the Manson Family girls. Cultists. Ugh.

Dromedary · 2021-08-11T10:02:44+00:00

Lol. Like we should take advice- ORDERS- on life and sex from a weirdo homophobe incel with some chromosomal disorder and obvious passion for carbs. Dropped on their head as a baby.

Dromedary · 2021-08-10T09:50:52+00:00

Lol. What would we do without them? Transgender women of color gave us all of our rights AND solved the AIDS crisis!

Dromedary · 2021-08-10T09:47:49+00:00

"clinically offensive scientifice [sic] term"- Too funny, what a dingbat. Picturing doctors in white lab coats, "Sex? That's clinically offensive!"

Dromedary · 2021-08-10T09:44:53+00:00

Yeah, I saw the homophobic tweets from that stupid bitch a few hours ago. But I decided not to get exercised over someone named "Canadian Girl" with a Trump avatar. Fuck whoever that is.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T10:04:50+00:00

It really is mental illness, or heterosexuals that just can't stand not being special.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T09:58:53+00:00

It's absolutely more than okay you're not conforming to masculine stereotypes and WE LOVE YOU FOR THAT. Please, always be yourself, your true self, always.

I think you're kind of young? Compared to me at 52 you probably are. I can't imagine all the genderqueering bullshit on the scene today, my sympathies. All I can say is, being gay is a tough row to hoe whether you're masculine or feminine. I'm towards the masc end of the scale, (not in the bearded shirtless circuit dumbass clone way, and I can let my hair down too) and my romantic life has been a disaster area. This sounds like a cliché, but BE YOURSELF ALWAYS, and learn to be VERY FUCKIN' ALL RIGHT with yourself. Love may come or not- most likely it will come and it will go. Sorry to be sounding such a downer, but it's what we all seem to have to deal with as gay men. It's very hard, but it's key to love yourself first and always. Not in a selfish way, just accept the worst and be amazed by the best. Because it will come along. Maybe not forever but do NOt give up hope. And thank god you're not a T------ wanting to chop his dick off. Best to you! Sincere hug.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T09:41:49+00:00

Ok, ask the man who's fucking a woman in this heterosexual relationship (nothing wrong with that!) how he feels about being called "queer" and I'd bet you'd get a different story.

Unless he's a soyboy hipster wimp, in which case lol fuck him, he deserves whatever his GF dishes out.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T09:28:27+00:00

Gotta admit, my fellow gay men are experts at not giving a fuck. In a bad way- look how all LGBT organizations have been captured by the QUUEEER and TRAAANS interest groups. You think a young Manhattan or Brooklyn gay cares? Of course not, hedonism is a BIG part of who we are and that can be regrettable. Who's steering the ship we created, who's minding it? Not gay people, we are HIJACKED by the T, people demanding medical experiments on gay or gender non-conforming kids and no one gives a fuck.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T09:22:16+00:00

These people suuuuuuck.

Dromedary · 2021-08-09T09:18:53+00:00

Trying to imagine a vagina poking through a glory hole, failing. Then again the idea of glory holes seems like some raunchy 70s shit that wasn't clearly explained to me in the Gay Handbook. Freaks with razors I would worry about. But that's why FtM Aydens will never get it- when we were a forbidden pariah class, gay men went to extraordinary, murderously risky lengths for sex. Not me even, at 52- I mean before my it's before my time. I can't imagine these sheltered white gurls calling themselves gay men on TikTok having 2 percent of the crazy horny adventurousness gay men had when they were outlaws. Just, no way.

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T06:40:23+00:00

Caledonia is I gather a really rural part of Scotland. Places like that can be very behind the times, though I see the domestic violence program started in 2009. Not the most cosmopolitan of places I suppose.

Gee, I wonder what they were arguing about.

(I don't mean to make light of domestic violence. But was the (F) partner always non-binary, or did she announce it recently? Did the guy react badly realizing he wasn't dating a woman anymore? What did that make HIM? he may have wondered. That's absolutely no excuse for violence, ever. But I really wonder, was her non-binary status part of the discord?)

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T06:16:21+00:00

Oh my god.That's all I can say.

(Ok, something else..perusing the T Sideshows at KF for a long while now it's noted that.. tidy habitats are not priorities for these people. Their rooms are like dirty hamster cages but with more flotsam and garbage strewn about. Always. And they don't care, posing for pics in their basement dungeons and trash-heaped bedrooms. So ick.)

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T06:06:49+00:00

He literally says he can't afford to buy the bitch drinks all night, he should grow the balls to tell her that. He sounds like such a pushover. Sure, drive away your boyfriend and be stuck with this chick forever instead. What's in it for you? Ugh, how do these kids get through life?

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T06:01:25+00:00

the gays already have so many rights

You know what? Whoever wrote this whole graphic is just a stone fucking idiot. ALL the little bullet points just suck, are dishonest, have no nuance.

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T05:58:52+00:00

Nature is transphobic, lol. Sexually dimorphic species existing makes them feel "unsafe", aw.

Despite clownfish and species of mold with more than two "sexes", people get uptight about lewdly flashing dick at little girls at the spa. Can you BELIEVE how transphobic that is?

Dromedary · 2021-08-07T05:52:39+00:00

Lol. Sad, true. What a freak show.

LGB: No, we don't "recruit" kids, please- that's an ancient slur that's untrue.

TQ+: WE'RE COMING FOR YOUR KIDS. YOU WON"T RECOGNIZE THEM BY THE TIME WE"RE THROUGH.

Dromedary · 2021-08-06T08:06:39+00:00

I've read in multiple places that Trans History Month is in fact satire, but most people cannot tell, understandably? (I'm not on FB so haven't seen it.)

Dromedary · 2021-08-06T08:03:52+00:00

Oh, it's totally political bullshit. Clickbaity trendy shit for Yahoo. To look woke and "enlightened" but it's part of the denial of reality that suffuses the whole anti-intellectual "Queer" movement. As PenseePansy says, heterosexuality IS the norm; we gays are the exception, and very rock n' roll that way, lol. The new ideology just deperatelt tries to push that everyone is bisexual and genderfluid and that's simply not true for 99% of humanity, but.. we're in a very strange time.

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