HomophobiaBisexual decides to give T a chance, regrets it immediately

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[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 43 insightful - 27 fun43 insightful - 26 fun44 insightful - 27 fun -  (2 children)

Trans people: some women have penises

Trans people: a man dating a TW isn’t gay

Trans people: nobody wants to date us because they’re bigoted

This poor guy: I accept you and want to date you

Trans people: bigot (or chaser)

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TW- I wish the people I want to date could accept me as a woman and be comfortable with my ladydique

Guy who accepts him as a woman and is comfortable with his ladydique: I do!

TW: eww not you, f*g

Please make it make sense.

[–]pacsatonifil 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly! No matter what they need their conversion therapy form of validation. This is literally a perfect match.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s what they say they want us all to be like lmao

It just doesn’t make any sense for the TW to be upset about this

[–][deleted] 44 insightful - 8 fun44 insightful - 7 fun45 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Oh I remember this. This is why I won't date trans people. Because half the time they're chasing a gay/straight person and because we like both we don't dispense enough of that sweet, sweet, validation. Then there's the whole mismatched parts thing on top of the psycho personality. No thanks.

[–]pacsatonifil 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a trans friend and way back in the day I was like just date a bi man. She was so against that. They need to be GAY

[–][deleted] 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

How dare that evil bi man be attracted to both sexes!

They really only want to be with people that aren't attracted to them. It's psychotic.

[–][deleted] 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They get off on rape thats why. Consent ruins it.

[–]Dromedary 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Baseline is, people like this are mentally ill. Screaming at the world that people won't indulge their illusions, won't date them. Here's a great example why. ^ They become big furious babies, unhinged crackpots. I'm glad they make we gays and lesbians look normal and boring, lol. But yeah, drop the T. Bi guy in this anecdote didn't deserve such abuse, ffs.

[–]linda_senora 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

I am so happy that AGP's night was ruined. I hope he seethed days, weeks after the fact.

Poor bisexal guy, he deserves better than having to deal with another repugnant individual.

[–]usehername 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Seems like a HSTS to me.

[–]linda_senora 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I was under the impression that some AGPs could experience attraction towards men.

Well, if this guy is HSTS, at least he is not targeting lesbians.

[–]usehername 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

AGPs may have fantasies involving men and may go so far as to actually have sex with them, but it's only because that's part of their fantasy of them being a woman. The man isn't really the focus. It seems like this guy is genuinely interested in men which makes me think HSTS. But honestly, it could be either.

edit: I've since changed my stance on this. If a man who's attracted to women enjoys being fucked by another man, there's no "well but it doesn't count because xyz" he's just bisexual. I think the whole "doesn't count because..." rhetoric is a problem amongst bisexuals and it obscures reality.

[–]linda_senora 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Duly noted.

I was confused because there is an AGP who identified as a lesbian, but who has also made videos about dating guys.

I forgot his name but he is revolting.

[–]usehername 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Could be bi with traits of both AGP and HSTS

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's a good point. I don't know why but I hadn't even considered that scenario.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 20 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

The funniest part if the heightist one LMAO Play the het woman perfectly.

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"This is what straight women must act like, right? Right?!?!"

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yeah I remember that post lol. Honestly just goes to show you that if they weren't obsessed with validation they would be better off.

[–]pacmanla 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You think I'm just some gay guy in costume

So a biological born male who's attracted to other biological born males hates himself so he doesn't want to be seen as gay? I've seen a number of gay men deny their homosexuality & announce that they're not a gay man anymore, but a "straight woman". It's sad to see these men hate themselves for their same sex attraction, so they go into delusional mode & say things of this matter.

[–]shveya 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Even the way he freaked out when he didn't get a response after 2 minutes (in the first screenshot) was a huge red flag.

[–]usehername 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Classic example of homophobia from a HSTS.

[–]Retardation_station 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The truth is transphobic. Honesty is transphobic. Reality is transphobic.

[–]fuck_reddit 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Fellas, are you a man if… a man cosplaying as a woman is taller than you???

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Transwomen really do hate being tall.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

No good deed...

[–]JulienMayfair 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When your entire value as a human being to another person is to validate their fragile identity, that is the core definition of pathological narcissism.

[–]nautilistic 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Let's not overlook this:

9:11: There is something I have to tell you

9:13: You there?

9:18: Hello?

Red flag right there.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What a total asshole. All the guy said was, he suspected the other guy might be trans! How is it his fault for noticing???

And then the mind-reading. "Because you noticed that I'm trans, you must think I'm a gay guy in a dress!" What an assumption to leap to. The bisexual guy never said that. Even though it is, likely, the truth (I suppose this MtF could be bisexual rather than gay).