Colonization🎶 Your attraction is something I never could fight, and it's starting to pull me apart~ 🎵

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[–]julesburm1891 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Here’s what I don’t get. The world is set up for straight people. The overwhelming majority of women are straight and there are straight ladies who’d date a guy who cross dresses. Why expend all your time and energy chasing the one group of women who will never want you? You can get super weepy on TikTok all you want, dude, but no lesbian is ever going to want you.

[–]jim_steak 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think for a lot of these men the point is forcing people to do things they're uncomfortable with. It's the same mentality as a flasher, the appeal is knowing that you've violated a woman's boundaries.

[–]julesburm1891 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah. It’s just there are many easier and less absurd ways to prey on women. I suppose trans is the one stop shop that combines fetish, homophobia, and misogyny while also providing a crowd of cheerleaders and endless get out of jail free cards.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. TRAs have the most flying monkeys at their disposal at this time. And narcissistic abusers do love the path of least resistance + most narcissistic supply. Such abusers target the weaknesses other people have, and by default, being at risk of ostracism, losing your job, etc. makes you automatically weak if you use critical thought to assess the validity of TRA arguments and the appropriateness of their behavior. Since you can be subjected to mob rule invoked by themselves as pretend victims, you are defenseless in their eyes.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Dating people who are attracted to them doesn't validate their self ID

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why expend all your time and energy chasing the one group of women who will never want you?

Fetish.

[–]DimDroog 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't get it either.

I would have no problem with dating a man who cross dressed, as long as he wasn't creepy.

[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

He's so homophobic he's basically crying about lesbians being lesbians. How do these men get this fucked up?

[–]Tikiri 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

At this point I’ come to the conclusion that they get fucked-up because they don’t get fucked. Simple as that.

[–]Rage-Xion 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What would happen if lesbians were willign to date them out of pity? Would that make them really feel better?

[–]Tikiri 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’ve wondered about that, actually. I’ve read online anecdotes about how they know people complement them out of pity, but it’s not genuine. As for dating, all I’ve seen is either a) ranting online about how they’re “ghosted”, or b) claiming that any woman who’s romantically involved with them is a default lesbian because that’s what they are, etc.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Such a straight male perspective, the idea that your sexuality trumps your partners. Lesbians aren't out here screaming that every woman who dates us is a lesbian, many of us date bisexual women.

[–]Dromedary 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

"I am begging you. BEGGING you. You don't have to date us but.." He's totally begging lesbians to date him.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 7 insightful - 9 fun7 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Look now those terfs have gone and upset Harriet potter!

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't notice any crying here. What I did notice was smug delight at succeeding at abusing people who have said no.

[–]KingDickThe2nd 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Looks and sounds like Brian David Gilbert