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[–]Rage-Xion 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What would happen if lesbians were willign to date them out of pity? Would that make them really feel better?

[–]Tikiri 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’ve wondered about that, actually. I’ve read online anecdotes about how they know people complement them out of pity, but it’s not genuine. As for dating, all I’ve seen is either a) ranting online about how they’re “ghosted”, or b) claiming that any woman who’s romantically involved with them is a default lesbian because that’s what they are, etc.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Such a straight male perspective, the idea that your sexuality trumps your partners. Lesbians aren't out here screaming that every woman who dates us is a lesbian, many of us date bisexual women.