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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Not the first time I read from a transman who believed to be a lesbian and then started to be into dudes after transitioning. Might be they didn't want to be with dudes as females as they didn't like the hetero dynamic?

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is very common trend that I have talked about before here, basically "ex-lesbians" dont have any dating pool since normal women won't date them then they turn to men.. also many of them say hrt made them attracted to males, not sure how sexual orientation just changes but oh well.. the reverse isnt true tho, gays who transition still remain gays in permadrag, maybe its a side-effect of testosterone

[–]shveya 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The whole “testosterone made me want dick” phenomenon is so weird.

[–]Dromedary 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's really bizarre. But ALL THIS reminds me that .. heterosexuality is just a law of the universe and Nature, for understandable reasons. The continuation of the species. And for we gay/lesbian people, that can be OPPRESSIVE.

What is honestly true and fucking HEROIC about gay and lesbian people is that we FIGHT immense societal pressure our whole lives, we face real discrimination historically and still today, , we DEFY Nature, we are HUMANS who have MASTERY over Nature. We aren't animals beholden to basic Nature, we transcend that and because it's hard we have to fight and ASSERT that. Constantly.

So when the FTMs and the MTFs all obey the basic heterosexual rules of Nature and the universe, being really BASIC and LAZY, they're stealing the valor of every gay and lesbian person who has to struggle and FIGHT to be themselves, to be above nature as much as they can, to DEFY social norms and reproductive urges. These people are HETEROSEXUALS with blue hair and a fear of being boring and that's not the same fucking thing at all. You're "queer"? No, you're a basic bitch who wants to be different, and that goes for the dudes too.