TRAs still trying to shut down r/detrans. Forced them to remove long-time mod, DetransIS

MadLass · 2020-07-27T23:06:51+00:00

Oh and they are REALLY narrowing in on detrans now and constantly try to promote their "version". I have never posted there and never would since it isnt my space but it extremely upsets me that people arent allowed to voice their own frustrations and fears with eachother. Sometimes its therapeutic just to get it all out especially with people who understand.

MadLass · 2020-08-06T11:08:13+00:00

See shit like this is where I get upset when TRA say these people are outliers and doesnt represent them. I call such bullshit. They need to be policing their own community but noo its ALL valid. I guess this is the representation they want rife with unchecked mental illness.

MadLass · 2020-07-14T10:24:54+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing here. Im so glad you were able to find a therapist that wasnt biased. I think this is going to be a major issue in the future I read so many stories in detrans about how easy it was to have one appt with a therapist and be prescribed HRT.

MadLass · 2020-07-29T22:55:24+00:00

I feel like this is a good move but Im also worried about it splintering us even more. After reddit it sorta diverged to spinster, twitter, or here on saidit. I also like a place I can still access lbgdropthet and any of the dude voices who wouldnt be welcome on ovarit. Anyway didnt mean to be a downer Im still sad about the loss of our numbers on reddit and the other communities that didnt seem to make it.

MadLass · 2020-10-26T22:24:35+00:00

This is what Ive been saying about moving their goal posts. At first it was twaw tmem now its actual female and male. Those seemed to be left alone before but not anymore. I saw a post a bit ago asking for medical advice in med specific subreddit where the OP mentioned their stats and that they were female. Something about the way they spoke sent my spidey senses tingling so clicked profile, of course it was a tw. Sorry but your sex most definitely matters in medicine. 🙄

MadLass · 2020-07-14T00:17:47+00:00

"The proper terminology would be mother." About this sick TIM. Literally just made me want to throw up. So now hes a mother?! Im sorry just fuck no this poor woman. There was a thread the other day in MTF about a guy taking only 4 days after this "egg" cracked to tell his wife. She dressed him down good though and told him to gtfo. Its so sad women are too afraid of the woke police.

MadLass · 2020-09-26T22:09:38+00:00

Ya I dont either the comments made me nauseous.

MadLass · 2020-09-23T19:19:50+00:00

Sanity has left the chat

MadLass · 2020-07-09T22:51:52+00:00

Unfortunately its just the easiest for an all in one. I hop over here for you guys in GC but I still enjoy perusing other subs especially for my hobbies. When we get our own womens forum up and running I really hope we can expand so I can get rid of reddit once and for all.

MadLass · 2020-10-28T16:07:37+00:00

That comment was literally my tipping point to posting this here. Its all just too much to believe sometimes.

MadLass · 2020-07-02T23:44:00+00:00

What I find super ironic about these "woke" feminists is how 99% of them would never consider actually dating a TIM. Theyll dance around and hem and haw and how its "not them its me". I lean mostly left but consider myself politically homeless with how far the left has taken PC and cancel culture. Ive never spoken out about how I feel on GC but I drop tid bits and nuggets for my IRL friends to think about. The dating thing is one thing I learned where they all say they couldnt do it.

MadLass · 2020-10-16T16:49:07+00:00

Fucking Y-I-K-E-S. Btw just noticed a ton of articles posted in the last few weeks about how the rate of murder for trans women is up from last year. Its 32 for this year btw I think last year was 28. Murder is always terrible and awful but how many women are killed in a year due to domestic violence alone? Its difficult for me to even find a number let alone countless articles crying for justice. What is an epidemic is is the amount of young women looking to transition with their peers. Biden will just parrot what the party tells him so I shouldn't be so disgusted but I just am.

MadLass · 2020-07-10T22:27:10+00:00

Ya I really feel politically lost in all this.

MadLass · 2020-07-30T22:33:55+00:00

Unfortunately they truly believe giving birth is right on the horizon for them. I have the SS to prove it. Seriously can not believe some of the shit they spew.

MadLass · 2020-10-03T23:39:11+00:00

"Claims it may violate guidelines". What a joke. They call themselves female now anyways so why even change it imo this will just peak more people. Now was the man definition also changed?

MadLass · 2020-08-05T23:22:08+00:00

Its definitely why Im still so bitter we lost reddit when TRA are literally exploiting and grooming children. But we are the bad guys muh validation. I noticed for the most instead of moving off reddit, signing up for another site, people just tried to find other subreddits. Unfortunately I personally tried that but there really is no sanity left there. Hoping with time maybe we can claim a space back or more people move over here.

MadLass · 2020-07-15T21:09:32+00:00

Tumblrinaction absolutely has to be next on the chopping block same with gaybros. I honestly wouldnt be surprised if the smaller trans subs get banned next like truscum and transmaxxing. I did notice with us gone they seem to be attacking eachother now a bit more.

MadLass · 2020-07-14T22:10:46+00:00

Its awful. Ive seen the extremely young kids posting their photos all over the trans subreddits and Im still in absolute shock of that. I figured there had to of been at least a 16 (still icky) or 18+ rule but NONE of them did. These are the same kids posting in egg_irl. Can someone tell me how our subs were banned while the obvious grooming of young children in the trans cult is acceptable? One side I promise is doing actual harm.

MadLass · 2020-07-29T23:31:22+00:00

Thank you for your quick work on it! Eventually id love to make a femalefashion sub on there or here for anyone else so inclined. I miss talking about that stuff. 😫

MadLass · 2020-08-05T19:30:09+00:00

The entire thread including the comments made me ill. Saw a lot of celebration "Oh there are two trans in the family how amazing!" Like this KID IS 5. Good lord my sons as traditionally boyish as they come but even he loved playing in my makeup at a young age. Honestly to me this is absolutely him leading his poor son to be like him.

MadLass · 2020-07-17T22:03:21+00:00

I think its sorta ironic how these guys were likely the ones bullied in childhood and now that they can dress as women they get to bully women because "twaw".

MadLass · 2020-11-08T23:43:52+00:00

I thought this too. Plus having to constantly take hormones. It just doesnt make sense. I remember before I even discovered GC I heard about this "issue" and all I thought was well duh they shouldnt. Lol and they were trying to make cuts and save money on their healthcare just wait till they get in to demand all the surgeries and time off to recover. 🙄

MadLass · 2020-08-02T00:09:58+00:00

Wow my heart shattered into a million pieces. What makes me just absolutely seething the threats and violence werent taken in a more serious manner. While TIMS cry foul constantly and have an entire football field ready to come coddle them and attack whomever "invalidated" them. I just feel like so few people see what is really going on and it especially concerns me in the youth being brought up in this woke "norm". Youve definitely opened my eyes to another side of TIMs I had never considered the type they were going after for their hit of validation. How much further will this pendulum swing before people realize that no trans women are not women... never.

MadLass · 2020-06-29T23:30:18+00:00

Im here now too for GC. :) I really wanna delete my reddit altogether but I still enjoy my hobby subs. Hoping maybe this place will grow.

MadLass · 2020-10-06T19:31:22+00:00

The contrast to Jennifer’s own childhood was staggering, “Where were all these trans kids who were not allowed to be their true selves when I was in school in the 1980s? There were no suicides in my high school. We have to question why this is suddenly happening.”

Wow what a great article I feel like every parent needs to read this. Its so easy with social media to get sucked right in to any group its just unfortunate that this one is life altering. Not a little dyed hair and a few edgy piercings.

MadLass · 2020-07-18T00:51:50+00:00

I hate that this is true. Spinster is pretty female centric at least. Besides muting a few extreme anti mask/conspiracy theorists it definitely feels like a community of like minded women.

MadLass · 2020-11-11T00:25:15+00:00

Just groaned out loud. I actually had to take a break from all this after seeing a disgusting post about a 5 year old transitioning on reddit. I know you guys understand but it was like I just needed to get away. Now an entire week? How many more kids/teens will join in on the fad after that week I wonder?

MadLass · 2020-09-01T21:38:40+00:00

Oh their delusion is past the point of return. I noticed one TIM asking for medical advice stating that they were female but as we know medical advice can differ based on sex. Their post history clearly told a different story.

MadLass · 2020-09-23T16:55:35+00:00

They do have a distinct smell but a healthy one should never have any strong odors. Unless someone is very unhealthy youd have to be really up close and personal to know.

MadLass · 2020-09-23T16:52:50+00:00

LOL. The mental hoops they jump through. Reminds me of a comment I just read correcting someone furiously over THIS IS NOT A MANS PENIS ITS A LADIES NOW APOLOGIZE.

MadLass · 2020-07-18T00:54:34+00:00

Wow thank you for mentioning this. I unknowingly clicked on a link to a google album (the link didnt even mention so I assumed imgur) and noticed it said "logged in as xyz@gmail. I sorta freaked out and backed out but it had my heart racing as the email name could 1000% dox me.

MadLass · 2020-07-15T00:04:50+00:00

Holy fuck what a degenerate. I am so confused about a few of those remarks but my brain wont even go there so Ill leave it. Unfortunately this is not the first post. Ive seen similar so he is correct about that. Saw a post the other day about validation through cat calls.

MadLass · 2020-07-23T00:31:22+00:00

They are so far in their echo chamber they truly dont believe most people disagree. I wish theyd understood a good majority believe trans should have every human right being for being who they are. They dont want THAT word (trans)woman though, they don't just want their own spaces, they want ours. All of it just for validation.

MadLass · 2020-11-10T00:54:56+00:00

LOL the just "No" makes it even better. Thankfully my eyes dont need to be dropped in a vat of acid this is just pure comedy to me.

MadLass · 2020-07-22T22:44:46+00:00

I also agree my stance being transwomen are transwomen. I dont mind having them out of the men category. I just dont understand the hijacking and why they cant let it be.

MadLass · 2020-07-02T11:23:33+00:00

Seriously it was banned? I just dont understand how reddit can be so blatant and people not understand why this is huge issue. Even if GC isnt something you agree with its essentially been a manhunt on us. Even the donald got way more courtesy and respect.

MadLass · 2020-10-09T09:57:26+00:00

It really is. How every rad fem sub was banned but they dont see how predatory egg is really helped peak me.

edit: Ew. I avoid that sub like the plague but I took a look. One of the top 3 posts is about sneaking into their sisters room to take their clothes. 🤢

MadLass · 2020-09-29T10:39:21+00:00

Now correct me if Im wrong but doesn't someone whos had grs have to stay on hormones for life even if they detransition? I hope he can talk to a doctor about if he decides to go through with it.

MadLass · 2020-09-26T22:03:35+00:00

I feel like your the Patron Saint of GC. Anytime I see a well put together comment I scroll back up and go oh yup its /u/MarkTwainiac!

MadLass · 2020-09-16T16:54:03+00:00

And its worked. Even female feminization surgery is covered on a lot of plans now.

MadLass · 2020-09-13T22:23:13+00:00

I just.. Wut?

Can I hit the eject button yet?

MadLass · 2020-09-13T03:01:50+00:00

Ya seriously lol. I really hope it brings more people over to saidit at least.

MadLass · 2020-07-30T00:56:22+00:00

Ive seen this guy posting around and Im 100% sure its a fetish for him.

MadLass · 2020-09-09T22:27:00+00:00

Pudding heads I cant 😂. I feel you on that I lose so much respect for women who crawl backwards over coals to pander to these AGP men.

MadLass · 2020-07-04T16:51:58+00:00

LOL just no.

MadLass · 2020-08-03T13:47:02+00:00

Oh its bad whats happening to all these confused teens and preteens. I went down a really deep rabbit hole recently and these kids are absolutely self destructing their life including their families. If any opposition is met in their "coming out" which most seem to decide to do via text or a letter they usually turn to transdiy or runaway. Ive seen countless posts for gofundmes and encouragement to "find a way to be your true self" from adults within the communities. There is no longer any voices of reason left on reddit in this regard so these kids are being told how to find ways around invalidating family members or many encourage threats of self harm as a way to get parents to bend to HRT. This is unprecedented times and weve gone from generally non permanent modes of self expression in the younger generation like scene kids, goth, etc to HRT.

MadLass · 2020-10-13T00:03:41+00:00

Oh my gosh I can imagine the actualtransbians data. Just this morning they had a post about how much they love girldick. 🤢

MadLass · 2020-09-25T00:52:24+00:00

I believe Washington state as well.

MadLass · 2020-09-10T10:45:24+00:00

Im glad you did! I dont have a ton of resources on hand so I wasnt really sure what to even say to her. I just know she didnt deserve to get dogpiled on. I imagine she knows her daughter better than a bunch of wackadoos anyways.

MadLass · 2020-07-16T10:40:28+00:00

We're the anti science ones? 🙄

MadLass · 2020-08-05T23:15:52+00:00

Ya its the only reason I havent gone to overit. Feel bad leaving my homies behind.

MadLass · 2020-07-15T22:57:07+00:00

Could you imagine a completely unsuspecting person knowing not much of either movement diving into gendercynical first. Id probably think it was a satire or troll sub.

MadLass · 2020-07-06T00:16:39+00:00

People on my FB are making insane comments saying shes in support of conversation therapy for kids. Even when I clicked on the article they didnt give any direct quotes. Im not on twitter can someone tell me what actually was said?

MadLass · 2020-12-05T03:31:10+00:00

Can we get our own version of this? I know we have some crafty ladies on ovarit!

edit: forgot to say not the mashing but Id love a GC plushie lol

MadLass · 2020-10-14T12:39:20+00:00

Have you seen r/transpassing? The hugboxing is unreal there. I find it concerning that within their own community they can't even find a bit of tough love and honesty. They always say they are better at spotting trans features and that normal cis people would never know they are trans. I hope no one ever gets into a dangerous situation going off of what that sub tells them.

MadLass · 2020-10-05T00:21:02+00:00

Congrats saidit. Mostly happy to be here. :)

MadLass · 2020-09-07T23:33:49+00:00

I am zero percent shocked when I saw the username. If you go through his post history this kid is desperate for any and all kinds of attention which can be dangerous. He obviously has some serious issues that he posts and crossposts to 100 other subs. It really pisses me off that our community is the one that was banned when we were the ones that brought up these concerns about teens and young kids getting sucked into the TRA cult. Unfortunately I think for this kid in particular he would have latched onto any community that gave him an iota of attention. Anyway Im no psychologist so I wont dig deeper to say what is and isnt true on what he posts but if you take a look for yourself youll see what I mean.

MadLass · 2020-08-17T16:05:01+00:00

Oh I had no idea it wasnt in all of them! I just checked it out via overdrive through my local library. Yes there was a bit of a wait as well.

MadLass · 2020-08-11T00:05:39+00:00

Its pretty clear just by going to reddits lgbt sub its just all trans people posting their photos to be called stunning and brave. Or the usual fuck terfs hurdur upvote. So sad to me when one subgroup has clearly taken up the entire space. There is just no room when the TQRS+++++++++++ are there which is why many of us looked for other spaces that were more narrowed in but of course THAT wasn't inclusive enough.

MadLass · 2020-08-08T00:38:00+00:00

Jesus there is literally no middle ground with TRA. Its all or nothing especially with some of these parents. Asking if theyve seen a psychiatrist is a perfectly VALID question.

MadLass · 2020-07-26T02:28:10+00:00

I really wish youd edit that last part out. This is just going to be plastered somewhere how TeRFs really are tHreAtEniNg us.

BUT as a mom to a special needs son my heart literally started beating faster when you mentioned its always us that are blamed never the fathers. That really resonated with me especially as a single mom even I catch myself doing it and its an awful cycle. I feel your pain resources already fall short for us as women and mothers it makes me sick seeing them watered down further for men to live out fantasies.

MadLass · 2020-07-14T12:22:33+00:00

Its happening in the YA genre too. The woke crowd goes after authors for not being "inclusive" enough if they dont include lgbtlmnopq+++++ in their fictional stories.. Its a huge thing and I remember one author recently scratched an entire story after an attack.

MadLass · 2020-09-20T01:24:05+00:00

Cat gaming headset included.

MadLass · 2020-07-03T00:35:53+00:00

Im sad Im not in that sub anymore but Ive collected a ton of new "material" just not sure the safest way to link images here. Would imgur be good?

MadLass · 2020-10-19T01:15:23+00:00

I agree with this as well. Transwomen are transwomen and just about every single person I know has the same mild stance. No one really actually believes tw are real women but no one wants to offend or is bothered enough to rail against woke culture.

MadLass · 2020-10-12T12:35:49+00:00

I feel like this was probably a tough decisions for the mods. The more diverse voices we have could lead to deeper discussions over there. I have many opposing views from a lot of radfems and I just got the feeling ovarit wouldn't be for someone more on the border of things.

MadLass · 2020-09-24T02:01:54+00:00

Wow that video! What we already knew he really did drive that point home though hopefully to others. I honestly feel so bad for people who do these surgeries truly thinking it will be just like a cis.. There are no opposing or negative views on GRS allowed on reddit so Ive seen it time and time again the posts asking for help on complications, revisions, and depression which seem to be worse of all. :(

MadLass · 2020-08-05T18:15:44+00:00

Ill try this next time thanks! I felt icky giving reddit clicks to people who dont want to go over there.

MadLass · 2020-08-05T12:12:04+00:00

No and I see that a lot too. Especially in the teens. :(

MadLass · 2020-07-30T22:46:02+00:00

Good lord I went bike riding in a very plain dark blue sleeveless romper and even got catcalled and whistled at by some college kids including women! I stared at myself forever in the mirror when I got home wondering what it was about this outfit and I still have no idea as its not even that short. I remember picking it out for the reason it seemed casual.

MadLass · 2020-06-30T17:57:15+00:00

Agreed I tried spinster but I cant keep up with it. I prefer the topic/threads type discussions.

MadLass · 2020-07-19T21:57:11+00:00

I do like that tie dye cat shirt.

MadLass · 2020-12-05T23:30:59+00:00

And how do I get on ovarit? I at first didnt want to keep switching sites I visit but I feel saidit just isnt getting the same traffic as ovarit.

MadLass · 2020-10-25T01:48:43+00:00

I think this has a lot of merit. Id love to participate in saidit more but it just isnt so inviting. It has gotten a little better since the blame the Jews sub left at least.

MadLass · 2020-09-25T00:36:10+00:00

Yes Ive found the same thing. I honestly dont talk about it often with people but when I do Ill start with, "man all these different genders popping up is getting ridiculous." Usually met very receptivity which I can usually segway to sports etc.

MadLass · 2020-08-02T13:19:08+00:00

Wtf is this entire thread. I stumbed to the wrong part of saidit again.

MadLass · 2020-09-12T22:43:02+00:00

Honest question if they wanted to wipe out the Uyghurs wouldnt it have been easier if it was.. well deadlier?

MadLass · 2020-08-21T01:13:12+00:00

Dem hips dont lie 😫.

MadLass · 2020-11-11T14:07:51+00:00

I take a lot of surveys for side cash (especially around the holidays) and Im seeing it more and more. Almost all of them have female, male, and other but too many are going even more in depth. Some have the typical with transgender added as an option and for other: write in. I always chuckle at that though because you know they just pick whatever they want and not the transgender option. So many important surveys probably really skewed on demograph. Some just leave gender as a write in and I always make sure to put female instead of woman.

MadLass · 2020-10-18T21:59:20+00:00

Wowza you weren't kidding. I at least expected to see more of TW/W but it was mostly straight up cocks cocks and more cocks. Lol. They sure love their anime because at least there they can really look like a woman from waist up.

MadLass · 2020-09-13T02:58:14+00:00

I feel like I understand and agree with a lot of what you are saying but climate change (healthcare a close second) is my #1 issue so I am very torn. I wish voting independent or green was a viable option. Unfortunately even with Biden in I dont think it will be enough. This election has me super depressed and never have I questioned my political alignments this much in my entire life.

MadLass · 2020-09-10T19:07:20+00:00

Oh my I didnt check her post history. Thats awful and I agree kids pick up on that stuff. I hope she can get to a regular counselor because it sounds like she will need it. :(

MadLass · 2020-08-27T12:13:20+00:00

I seriously cannot believe they are blowing this so out of proportion. Absolutely insanity all so they say "TeRFs THrEatEnED uS".

MadLass · 2020-07-04T20:18:23+00:00

Yup spinster is ok but its impossible to have topics and discussions there. Im not thrilled with saidit either. To be completely honest losing reddit is a huge blow to the rad fem GC community. People arene going to be able to find like minded anymore. I take solace knowing many will silently disagree with how far TRA have gone at least.

MadLass · 2020-07-19T16:16:32+00:00

Legit almost spit my water out after reading the title then the post. This is just getting so ridiculous. 😂😂😭

MadLass · 2020-12-06T01:00:32+00:00

Tanks!

MadLass · 2020-10-25T01:39:26+00:00

Huh! I dont know why but I always thought she went all in on all the surgeries. Tbh shes smart enough to know the GRS is... not yet there.. at all.

MadLass · 2020-09-11T21:56:10+00:00

Yes they definitely do. I have seen many of them say they are as much biologically female as one born that way. 🙄

MadLass · 2020-08-08T00:33:12+00:00

I pretty much just dont bring it up in real life and if I do I test the waters a bit. All things I could quickly play off if needed. I think in real life there are more of us that deep down feel some aspects of the TRA is obnoxious and unpalatable but if it hasn't really affected someone personally it literally is just a single quick thought then its back to the regularly scheduled program. Also mob justice has been getting more and more popular even mentioning it in real life could bring your name down by just one twitter tag. Its begun encroaching in more and more past the LGB circles and into mainstream. I think we are just early settlers before this blind acceptance and woke bubble bursts. Its lonely now I know but Im thankful we have these communities.

MadLass · 2020-07-23T23:50:50+00:00

I seriously dont understand how there are so many trans super mods. Like even with the rise of people identifying as trans they are still a very very small minority in real life. Yet their online presence seems to be in every corner now.

MadLass · 2020-07-11T01:19:53+00:00

I dont disagree at all. I find saidit pretty awful. The mods of GC have a website they are working on and have our own subreddits created there. I see saidit as more of a band aid for now.

MadLass · 2020-07-10T23:18:19+00:00

This is so stupid. Literally was recommending a book series to someone as my last comment there. That was the least offensive sub I can even think of besides detrans.

MadLass · 2020-11-02T01:21:38+00:00

We are talking about here on saidit correct? Probably climate change and environmental concerns. Im sure if its even brought up the blame the Jews people will pop out. Probably healthcare be would another one.

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