Apparently not stripping in front of TIMs is "transphobic". I never thought that they'd come up with something more rapey than the "cotton ceiling", but here we are.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-26T01:15:13+00:00

What I would like to know is this. Why is it totally ok and understandable to ask women to remove or hide reminders of female biological function because it distresses trans women so much?

But NOT OK to ask trans women to remove or hide reminders of male biological function because it distresses women who have been raped or otherwise harmed by male-bodied people?

Look TBH I don't like changing in front of other females that much and I'd sadly be a bit more on edge if I knew that woman was a lesbian. It would be even MORE uncomfortable if that person was a boner owner.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-12T04:23:42+00:00

At no time does this person give an example of their parents using their birth gender. It's all what if. Having had a parent with dementia who died without forgetting who I was, I know I used to worry about how I would cope with that. But this person is being incredibly self centred. Yeah they won't know who you are, they'll call you the wrong name, deal with it. Your gender identity and new life have no bearing on this.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-01T19:21:01+00:00

And how are readers supposed to know who Elliot Page is and why he's in the news if they don't??

This deadnaming thing is nuts. The prohibition on it was supposed to be to protect trans people from abuse and being tracked down by hateful family etc. Ellen Page has a substantial body of work under that name.

I mean even Poppy Z Brite sticks with that name instead of Billy Martin for writing. Because they aren't completely deluded.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-24T18:53:50+00:00

They stock them for people to buy online? How is that not selling? How is that not contributing to the dissemination of the writers' ideas and to their coffers? The not stocking JKR stuff is 100 percent a cynical marketing spin from a current event.- buy from us, we're so moral.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-07T00:09:11+00:00

I see no problem at all with this. And far better than nonbinaries accepting women's awards when it suits despite supposedly hating being seen as women.

Trans people can have trans things.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-04T04:50:20+00:00

I'm loving the comment that says rising numbers of TIMs are due to soy in the diet, as if Asian countries are 90 percent ladyboys.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-23T20:42:40+00:00

They were created by a WOC as well.

Nobody has Barbie pink genitals. The pink was for femininity.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-16T22:12:44+00:00

It's frustrating to me that the acronym LGBT is used here when the only people impacted are trans.

And decoupling birthing from the category mother me very anxious.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-02T17:44:11+00:00

Sam Smith is a tedious attention seeker.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-08T23:54:59+00:00

Non-binary really does seem to be the new term for butch masculine-presenting women.

It's so obvious when more and more people talk about "women and nonbinaries" in the context of oppression, assault etc that they mean female people.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-09T23:24:50+00:00

Interestingly I know the child of one and she ALWAYS uses "prostitute".

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-18T19:17:30+00:00

I would say: keep the internet warnings to being careful about revealing who she is etc, people can lie about who they are, so she needs to be cautious about dodgy folk. Support her support for gay and yes trans people - she's showing her kindness and acceptance. Give her loads of examples of how women can be badass and non-comforming. Alert her to the risks of early transition (Jazz Jennings is a great example of negative side effects from blockers) Talk to her about completely unrelated things!

Keep it light. Don't try to stop her being trans. She might be happier that way one day but she needs to grow up first. Remember that what people post online is not always reflective of tbeir reality.

Japanese girls read yaoi voraciously and don't then decide they're men. It's a way of easing into sexuality, nonthreatening.

And see if you can get her doing some stuff offline. She's entering the icky years and exercise, getting out of her brain a bit, will help.

Don't panic.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-06T01:20:23+00:00

Are they front holes?

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-22T05:55:50+00:00

But it's no fun without GC to stalk! This community is their literal raison d'etre and being here means they don't have to switch sites you see. That is a bit too hard for them.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-22T18:49:36+00:00

Not to mention that heaps of gay people were fighting for their rights both before and at the same time as Stonewall. It's not like all gay people on the planet cowered in the closet till some Americans had one riot and then were freed.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-09T00:06:01+00:00

I have never seen the term "wombyn" used on Ovarit or here or GC Reddit. The only time I've seen it has been in discussions by and about First Nations Americans. Where did the writer get the idea it's a radfem tbing?

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-15T19:08:46+00:00

Well it's major surgery and prone to complications. I wish that movies and TV with trans characters wouldn't suggest that you simply pop into hospital, recover for a fortnight and voila! As to the manner born. It gives people a very false sense of it being really easy routine surgery.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-03T06:32:46+00:00

I wish I was allowed to define the boundaries of my existence without centering transwomen's ideas of who I am ahead of my own lived experience.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-06T01:21:05+00:00

Homophobia really.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-08T23:51:35+00:00

He's just fishing for compliments.

But it makes me really sad and concerned that so many people who don't feel they fit in - which is most of us at some stage- are being urged to see a trans identity as the answer to their problems. I do believe some people are genuinely trans and of those people some are happiest with hormones and/or surgical interventions.... But a whole lot more are just misfits looking for something, anything, to make them whole and transition is not the answer for them.

I can just see this poor dude being urged to order hormones online and coming out to his parents after two nights on Reddit.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-24T23:27:29+00:00

Teen me would 100 percent have been non-binary. It just means you're a normal person who feels Not Like The Others to some degree because you don't 100 percent align with some of the things society is telling you people with your genitals should be like.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-09T03:19:00+00:00

Why would you?

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-25T22:12:55+00:00

Different mouth feel = flaccid.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-17T22:42:08+00:00

I really hate this "lots of" bullshit. No "lots of" people are not attracted to trans people whose bodies don't match the sex those people are generally attracted to. "Lots of" straight women are not hot for men with vsginas. "Lots of" straight men don't want to sleep with women with cocks. "Lots of" gay men are not here for a soft squishy lover without a dick.

Some people are but it's not the general way of things.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-10T21:38:42+00:00

Beauty contests are irrelevant and outdated. Who cares.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-28T22:50:57+00:00

Yes but he's cancelled for playing a transwoman anyway. The article writer clearly despises him and JKR, too.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-16T09:08:44+00:00

Well of course they do. Everyone feels a bit "different" and this gives you all the cool points of being a minority and none of the real-life oppression

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-08T18:31:11+00:00

The worst of.it? These alleged "feminists" don't give a shit about the oppression of people with vaginas fka female humans.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-25T22:31:50+00:00

Teen me would one million percent be a trans enby pansexual. Which would translate into a straight girl with theoretical bi-curiosity who likes playing male roles because they're more interesting and isn't completely obsessed with getting married and housework and the usual pop icons.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-21T20:45:37+00:00

Survey of one, but I cried very easily as a girl and was vilified for it. It's not applauded or encouraged.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-04T05:44:57+00:00

And yikes to the poster who says "there is only trans and cis". Sounds awfully BINARY to me.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-27T20:38:04+00:00

The thing i find most telling is that for all the trumpeting of us being equals in the bedroom, colder, more detached etc, it's somehow only us who are supposed to want to be choked and beaten

Where are the young men's magazines teaching them how to like being pegged? Suggesting that their female partner might like to strangle and slap them so they should learn how to enthusiastically consent? Implying that saying no to these things is a little uptight? Giving them tips for sex with girls who have penises?

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-06T06:22:32+00:00

I admit, I thought "Lush Edinburgh" was a drag queen or NB activist person at first.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-29T05:25:46+00:00

I'm reminded of Richard O'Brien, cancelled for saying he's still a man, who has always been an effeminate bisexual male and who now as a elderly person takes some oestrogen while identifying as part man part woman. He's been fortunate to have a bespoke approach. Why can't men like this guy be encouraged to embrace their ambiguity instead of urged into an all or nothing transition?

There have always been ambiguous people. How much kinder to everyone to celebrate difference instead of rewriting what a woman is?

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-03T23:32:58+00:00

I believe the old term for it was kinda butch lesbian.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-06T05:15:07+00:00

YES. Essentially they still see us as second class citizens.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-18T03:32:49+00:00

I am loving the bot response to the "What is a woman" question.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-22T03:44:44+00:00

This reminds me of some furore I saw around a shared post saying "it's not for cis women to tell transwomen they don't get periods". As soon as someone said "yeah but obviously they dont though" there was a huge pile on about estrogen affecting smooth muscle and not defining periods by a waste product (even though a PERIOD is literally THE BLOOD BIT of menstruation) and ra ra histrionics from trans and handmaid alike.

But, I thought, that's not what the meme was saying. Everyone knows TW do not bleed from nonexistent uteri at any time. The meme is actually saying "if they say they have a period ie they want to call some cramps or whatever a period, that is their thing. Just smile and nod and say nothing because making a big deal about biology will make them sad."

At best they want kindness. They want us to look the other way. All these desperate wellmeaning attempts to redefine our bodily functions are a mess that does nobody any good. People should just stop with it.

Unfortunately the loud minority are the problem.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-13T21:43:46+00:00

Shudder.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-30T04:42:38+00:00

This language is so clunky! If they must divorce parts from gender why not "if one of you has a vulva"?

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-30T02:30:07+00:00

His boyfriend could also be a TIF.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-09T03:27:11+00:00

Well husbands don't own us and are ot responsible for us, so...

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-17T05:49:13+00:00

Well at 17 he's not a man, he's a child.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-26T02:10:11+00:00

The thing that peaked me. Till that moment I had no idea we were supposed to pretend TW are identical to us in every way. And terfwise I'm pretty dsmn libfemmy

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-30T02:26:49+00:00

Well this is the thing. Trans people have unique needs and demanding that society slot them into opposite binary boxes is shortsighted.

Also if you're a female man demanding to be treated as a woman is a minefield given that organisations have been told not to misgender you

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-22T05:59:20+00:00

Oh we already are. After all it's not our concern and we don't live their truths. Trouble is, as women, we live ours and we're not going to quietly sit back and stop fighting to eradicate sexbased inequality and abuse.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-22T05:54:23+00:00

Aww. They missed us.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-04T23:17:34+00:00

Yeab. Welcome to womanhood. The guy you think is hot, well if he also thinks he's hot? He's not going to date you if he thinks you're not hot. Unpretty girls don't generally attract handsome men. And most of us take no for an answer.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-09T04:36:35+00:00

And they could have avoided it all by using "staff"...

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-22T02:23:14+00:00

I really do think girldick is a far healthier response to transness than SRS for most people. Keep it! Enjoy it! Accept that lesbians don't want it! Be discreet with it in shared spaces! Simple!

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-25T22:33:25+00:00

Who DOESN'T like to think of themselves as rare and special?

I'm an individual and so are my friends who dress like me!!!

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-04T23:25:21+00:00

YES. Imagine the indignity. They should have wings instead for followers of particular sports teams, and for those who enjoy handicrafts, and those who love to read. Because prison is a health retreat

Shesstealthy · 2021-01-09T20:59:41+00:00

If he calls everyone dude and complains about gendered langiage then he's being very hypocritical.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-24T20:29:56+00:00

"She begged not to be put into a box. Today's activists have done the opposite" My issue with this movement in a nutshell.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-24T00:19:40+00:00

My experience of HAES has been primarily about women gaining confidence to exercise, eat well etc without shame for being overweight or in some cases underweight, not being as fast or looking as good in lycra. The goal is to remove a focus on locking slim and to replace with living well, with good food and exercise. Being fat and eating healthy foods and going to the gym is better than being fat and staying on the couch eating Doritos.

Shesstealthy · 2021-01-19T05:10:34+00:00

Do small boys not have stuffed toys where they come from?

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-29T22:27:53+00:00

When i was a kid I wore what I was told to wear. I did have some choice but it was cunningly steered by my mother.

I see kids out in dress-up clothes all the time now which is nice for them I guess but I am also mindful that I simply was not ALLOWED to wear impractical tulle and bridesmaid dresses to the supermarket... and I think that's OK.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-05T01:25:44+00:00

Treated like a cis woman... so roofied, strangled, gang-raped at worst, ghosted or stalked... strangely I am sure that if a TW was choked to death it wouldn't be reported as "sex game gone wrong btw she was slutty", more likely as a "hate crime".

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-21T20:49:02+00:00

"Biologically transition to man" - that's not what happens.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-19T04:33:34+00:00

All I can recommend is finding stuff to do that has nothing to do with gender or sexuality or identity. Step away from the internet and go outside - bike ride, hiking? Grow some plants? Cook? Build a set of shelves? Do something else that will focus your mind and healthily, non-genderedly, use your body. Get yourself tired out and have a good sleep. Do these things regularly.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-26T01:19:02+00:00

That poor little kid.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-31T21:33:43+00:00

If you could never tell, there would be no need to legislate gender identity acceptance.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-19T04:24:49+00:00

So it's something like: Tim: hay gurls, not to hate but my custom-made vagina is much better than your organically grown ones hooray for my tight porn-ready BOX snap snap Woman: nah fam mine is better, it's self-lubricating and stretchy and explicitly fit for purpose Tim: OMG HOW DARE YOU COMPARE US YIU HATEFUL BULLY

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-03T06:30:54+00:00

Appropriately chastised and determined to check their privilege and Do Better, I expect.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-11T07:02:45+00:00

Also I have seen The End of the Fucking World and it's also devoid of gender speshulism. It's also quite glorious.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-03T06:24:05+00:00

I am a post-menopausal feeeeeemale who takes probably the same drugs as a TIM. Amazingly, despite my possession of an actual uterus, I am yet to experience the.magic estrogen cramps or any sense of a cycle.

I believe them when they say they have these side effects. I'm just saying that as a person with experience of an actual menstrual cycle, I'm not experiencing it on their drugs.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-22T02:17:40+00:00

From my cultural studies days I can imagine some QT people eye evobiologists askance because there is a strong tendency among them to ascribe social roles to biology, thereby conveniently reinforcing the sexist status quo ("it's natural for men to be attracted to young fertile women! Females are small so they need protection inside the home!")

Nonetheless biology IS biology.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-09T23:31:11+00:00

"Tajikistan, where she had failed in an attempt to join the Northern Alliance in the fight against the Taliban". I. Just. How was that compatible with the spinny skirt needs? Also that person receives the equivalent of a high average wage for sitting on their arse. I can't believe the entitlement.

Shesstealthy · 2020-07-31T01:11:18+00:00

Ugh this frustrates me so.much. TIMs say they get PMS-like side effects from their meds and I believe them. However a period is THE BLEEDING. I've seen wokegirls trying to explain that it's wrong to define something by its waste product like digestion is not defined by poo - but defecation is totally defined by the presence of poo.

We all know what a period is. It's not bloat and aches and the blahs. It is blood coming out of your uterus.

I'm not going to meanly wellactually at them but all females know there is a Very Significant Difference. Period poverty isn't about insufficient funds for good chocolate.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-25T00:11:32+00:00

MY favourite is the one that says all TW have puberty blockers so never have male puberty.

Which gives an idea of how little people understand about how gender dysphoria is treated in the real world.

Shesstealthy · 2021-01-15T05:02:51+00:00

I feel like so much of this is, in some cases, a reaction to anti-racist and feminist politics. Many people feel like victims though the stats don't support their feelings. So instead of being a reviled white woman, killing black men with her misplaced tears, one can be a genderqueer demiboy and immediately claim marginalisation. As a marginalised person one can again confidently centre oneself in all discussions.

Similarly transcels think that if they're "strong independent lesbian women" rather than cis white men they get permission to neckbeard aggressively all over the place without being chastised

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-27T19:11:07+00:00

I kinda feel like Blaire just didn't want to say 'sperm' based on watching the vid. Which is weird since Blaire doesn't deny being male but otoh does tend to use euphemisms for genitals etc so I think this was the same.

Obviouslu Blaire has DNA Blaire just doesn't have the delivery system for using his DNA to create a child any more. He has the insrminator but it shoots blanks so to speak.

I thought it was oddly worded but I don't think Blaire truly believes they could commit a crime and leave no DNA evidence.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-15T19:05:03+00:00

Poor kid. I hope Jaz gets some solid time away from the cameras and focuses on studies and wellness.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-20T19:28:34+00:00

The thing that concerns me most is the implication that being trans is common. It isn't. Why not embrace themselves as rare flowers or something?

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-29T22:22:11+00:00

I have a friend also raising their daughter to be a strong clever independent kid while wearing nice clothes that suit her complexion and mama's love of a nice neutral. Currently mad for pink possibly due to other kids st day care or even GASP nascent personal preference.

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-11T07:00:59+00:00

Excuse me that is a Kinks song from the 1960s. They can borrow it if they want- it's glorious - but it doesn't stem from queer theory etc.at.all.

Yes, The Kids have been rebelling against being Put In A Cage By Society Man since forever.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-31T01:58:45+00:00

I just don't understand how me shooting and killing a stranger who conveniently turned out to be a bad guy would make it OK.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-30T04:44:08+00:00

God status yes that's right. Nobody really believes in us and we're largely ignored until someone wants something.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-06T06:27:02+00:00

I'm pretty sure using that term for trans people isn't cool round these parts (it certainly wasn't on GC Reddit). And it just makes us look like assholes if we do. Let's be better than that.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-24T19:23:15+00:00

Bet he's not getting death threats.

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-18T21:49:08+00:00

I think it got deleted! Wikipedia bot replied with "an adult human female"

Shesstealthy · 2020-09-12T00:40:39+00:00

And yet so many fat men have moobs.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-03T22:56:37+00:00

God that's depressing. I've seen a few "edgy" TV series by younger women lately where all the sex is penetrative and from behind, and it bothers me immensely. Ladies! You shave that thing bald, he has no excuse not to go down there!

Shesstealthy · 2021-01-13T23:02:27+00:00

I hate to be a natal-fem Norah naysayer, but I think we have to rethink sarcastic titles like this. Seeing people posting the horrific stuff written on Parler makes me realise that GC Saidit can be made to look just as bad really easily.

Saidit is not a nice place and I think we should be really careful not to look like we're inciting violence even as a joke.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-27T20:58:11+00:00

As vulnerable citizens who often have kids to protect, women have become adept at outwardly playing by the rules.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-26T03:04:54+00:00

So in other words they're ordinary everyday people who never needed a special label.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-25T22:12:04+00:00

This is probably peak virtue signalling more than anything else.

I follow Dominic Noble's book and movie reviews on YouTube. He's very woke - to the point where he was all "I completely owe my career to JKR because of Harry Potter but now that she is so terfy with her whole don't call me a menstruator thing I can no longer produce HP content ever again" - but his reviews are often sharp and funny and he has a nice soothing voice.

Anyway he has just pulled a presumably humorous review of a presumably m/m book about a sexy lumberjack because... he just found out that the author has come out as NB so his video misgenders and deadnames and makes assumptions about their gender so he has to redo it.

FFS.

I'm guessing this was a typical m/m sexy romance written by a woman who no longer identifies as one, so all his observations about how the characters don't act like men have to be reviewed. That's what I'm guessing.

I hate this obliteration of people's lived experience just so they can be "who they really are" no matter how recently they made their gender decision. If you're born and raised as a girl you're formed by that no matter how NLOG or manly you think of yourself as being.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-07T00:43:36+00:00

"What I don't like is the erasing of female bodies, female voices and female experience and our ability to name it" And that's what made me a terf.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-02T04:42:02+00:00

Tbh having seen lots of.joy outside the terfnet, I think two things are going on here. One, E.Page has for reasons known only to themselves decided that they're a bit of a man and has made a public declaration of that fact. People are naturally rushing to be supportive of a person they assume has been suffering. Maybe they have. And Page deciding to identify as a man is OK. It will largely limit their career to indie and Netflix shows but that's pretty much their niche anyway.

Secondly you get a lot of lesbians who are really disappointed to lose a public figure and role model. And that's also OK. Nobody should HAVE to be a role model but in the LBG world there are so few. People are allowed to be sad about it.

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-22T22:33:44+00:00

Nobody tell these kids about the 60s and 70s and 80s and 90s. FFS.

For what it's worth TW, I use the presence of a bra to determine whether an obvious male in feminine attire wants me to use "she".

Shesstealthy · 2020-11-21T04:42:28+00:00

More likely just young and idealistic trend followers

Shesstealthy · 2020-10-29T04:42:42+00:00

This reminds me of a kerfuffle I saw where a BLM protester was identified as a "wombyn" and libfems rushed to denounce it as a terf dogwhistle till someone said the protester was Indigenous and that the Indigenous community used that term for wbw. Whereupon it was deemed OK and that TERFS had stolen it.

So if you're Indigenous you are allowed to acknowledge your.womb presence in text.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-19T23:06:07+00:00

This is why instead of hiding biosex because of stigma, GI activists should be fighting to REMOVE stigma and ensuring that people can have both sex and gender on their records. PROBLEM SOLVED.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-19T00:52:17+00:00

You know what binary Whitey did impose? Mind-body. Cartesian dualism.

All of this mind vs meat sack stuff stems from that.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-18T00:32:52+00:00

"Gentle reminders". Ugh.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-13T06:29:05+00:00

No. I believe some people are trans. There are multiple genders but only two sexes. I'm fully in support of people saying they feel more feminine or more masculine or like a mix etc. What bothers me is the deepening expectation that one always needs to DO something about that, to alter the body. To medicalise something normal and sign up to lifetime costs.

I don't understand why a male who presents as male but feels.feminine inside needs to use women's toilets. I'm down with TW who are presenting a different gender using them. I'm not down with TW forcing women and kids to call their exposed bodies female. I'm not down with medically transing kids. I'm not down with working class girls saying goodbye to sports scholarships.

Shesstealthy · 2020-08-11T05:25:11+00:00

Yeah. Chad and his Black equivalent, Tyrone, are hyper masculine alpha males who have no difficulty scoring chicks. The trancel types would be more likely to be Trans Stacy (hot lesbian model) in their minds.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-02T04:48:11+00:00

Please don't tell me Currer, Ellis and Acton are not brave transmen. I mean those are very transy names. Clearly not women /s

Shesstealthy · 2021-01-13T23:06:07+00:00

He doesn't - or shouldn't. But when he puts stereotypical feminine accoutrements on he's signalling to people that he wants them to call him "she". I get that. It does get very tangled because we don't have to. But I suspect it's the same reason that TIFs like beards or working out to look hyper masculine. So people judge the exterior as trying to fit into that binary.

Shesstealthy · 2020-12-31T21:39:47+00:00

Yeah that photo gives me a bit of a Joan Sutherland vibe jaw-wise. Some women are "mannish" to look at and that's ok.

Certainly the TIMs I have met have been mostly very easy to clock. There is one in my town though who I wouldn't were she not well known to be trans. As a result her height and deepish voice become giveaways... otherwise I'd just assume she was a big female.

Shesstealthy