This is the top upvoted post on r/MtF in the past week. Over 1000 people thought this was completely normal behaviour. Not a fetish at all...

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[–]Killer_Danish 31 insightful - 10 fun31 insightful - 9 fun32 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

So, naturally, I squish em and play with em because,,, that’s what we trans women do

BuT iT's NoT a FeTiSh, YoU gUyS!!!

[–]crodish 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Okay so

I really dislike the "NO ONE EVER DOES THIS" line because there's ALWAYS outliers. They're not prevalent, but there are.

I do play with my boobs sometimes

But it's either cos I'm just teasing my girlfriend with them or I'm in the strip down stage before showering and I'm just being an idiot in front of the mirror for a few seconds

THAT BEING SAID

I don't call my boobs "my girls"

I don't feel anything or think about anything when playing with them except maybe "ah fuck that damn hair is growing back" or "yay no lumps to take note of at least"

I definitely don't roll around in bed squeeing about them urgh

And I'm only comfortable having them because I've grown into my body, I hated them during puberty

I don't even think about them half the time, they're just THERE, like my fucking elbow. As it is now I don't LOVE them, they're just there. Fetishisizing your own body is weiiiiird

[–]Comatoast 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There and painfully noticeable while doing crunches or push ups without a sports bra that crushes them in.

[–]Comatoast 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Won't lie, I play with mine. Not even a sexual thing, they just feel neat. I also distinctly remember praying for huge boobs when I was little though, I mean every woman in my family is/was curvy so maybe I saw it as part of growing up.

I'm not a fan of the trending trans rhetoric of assuming bio-women's spaces expecting to be accepted or the language policing that's gotten to be authoritarian. I'm also not going to be pissed at someone for enjoying their own body parts, as long as they're not impressing them on minors or those that don't want them.

[–]Tovasshi 5 insightful - 7 fun5 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

Yea, I play with my own boobs once in a while in a non- sexual way. I'm just an immature silly person once in a while. I have attempted to make slapping noises when I get out if the shower.

I'm the type of person that if I woke up with a dick I'd definitely try helicopter dick before anything else.

[–]Comatoast 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yes! Helicopter dick would definitely top the list. Otherwise, what's the point in even having it?

[–]TurtleFuzz 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed! I would absolutely do all the stupid stuff with a dick: helicopter, peeing in the toilet from 3 feet away, masturbate, etc.

[–]Peakedalltohell 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I played with mine while I was pregnant (because they were relatively huge and it was a novelty to me as they’re usually quite small). It also wasn’t sexual at all, nor was it notable - that was 3 years ago and this is the first time I’ve thought about it since then.

[–]Comatoast 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pregnant boobs were great, and could be used as assault weapons with enough effort.

[–]Eurowoman24 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

lmao I don't know one girl that's done that..

[–]terfy_delight 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I squealed and rolled around in joy for a while y’all I adore my girls!!!!!!!!!!!

No woman has ever said or done this about her breasts unless she was filming a porno.

[–]Heteronormativefuckt 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

They're disgusting. You know what girls feel when they start getting boobs? SHAME. Fear from the male gaze. Sickos. I read another guy say he was taking his progesterone RECTALLY. fucking rectally. Tooootally not a fetish

[–]Comatoast 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Why though? See this is really upsetting. Getting breasts, no matter the size, is part of coming into womanhood and the last thing that should be felt about them is shame or disgust. This is the train of thought that makes us afraid to explore our own bodies, and potentially what keeps us from having a good idea of our own genitals and what they look/feel like outside of looking at the crude manual inside of the tampon box. Learning about ourselves before being touched by another person, to figure out what we enjoy and what feels gross is part of that natural exploration and we should never be ashamed of that despite the possibility of male gaze. You can hide breasts under modest clothing, but maybe dismissing them altogether for yourself and who you later chose to share your body with (if you do) should be given a second thought.

Please let us not perpetuate shameful feelings for our bodies. We're role models for younger girls that might end up seeking out transition for the same feelings.

[–]Heteronormativefuckt 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Another word...fear. Fear of your period, acne, being able to get pregnant. I got made fun of by all the girls in the locker room for developing earlier than them. It was hell. And the perverted men started with their comments immediately. I was afraid of being raped. Men were already touching me inappropriately. I had major issues with puberty and most of the women I know had similar experiences. Even more stressful if they developed late

[–]Feather 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think we should say that all girls feel shame when they develop breasts. Developing breasts is the start of being subjected to the male gaze for many girls, and that's upsetting and can make a girl feel ashamed, but a lot of adolescent girls feel good when they first start developing breasts. They feel more grownup and beautiful.

I know I did. When I started to develop breasts, I felt beautiful. I looked more like my mother, who I thought was very beautiful.

The upsetting feelings came later based on how others treated me, and even how others talked about their own breasts. My mother talked about her breasts (and by extension, all breasts) the way you describe in your comment and it was deeply confusing and disturbing to me as a young girl. Feeling happy about my breasts but being told girls and women are ashamed of their breasts was not good for me.

[–]terfy_delight 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Lol, I just read some comments in TIFU where men had a side convo talking about what they would do if they were a woman for a day. Basically, finger themselves and play w/ their boobs. All I could think about was how they sound exactly like the transwomen on Reddit. And we're not supposed to believe these guys aren't just like any other man, all just bc they say they're women. Yeah, they're totally women and its not a fetish at all.

Here's the comments if anyone cares https://old.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/i3i5kp/tifu_by_accidentaly_revealing_my_reddit_to_one_of/g0bhdu4/?context=3

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

To be fair if I was suddenly a man for one day only I would masturbate to see what it felt like, do funny penis dances for a while, and then drive to the snow to pee my name into it.

[–]112223sps 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I honestly can't understand how any actual women can read this kind of shit and still think 'yeah TIMs are just like us! This isn't creepy behavior at all!'

[–]Literallyawoman 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (5 children)

I use mine to keep my hands warm when I’m sleeping or to store snacks; they’re cumbersome af and the reason I can’t sleep on my stomach

[–]Comatoast 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I've seen a lot of women use them as wallets.

[–]Literallyawoman 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

This triggers my ptsd from working retail-those sweaty bills augh

[–]Comatoast 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hah, I know that feel too well.

[–]CigarsofthePharoahs 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Urrrrrgh, me too!

[–]lefterfield 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I love the mental image of boob-pocket you've got here :D

[–]Jalaces 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Am I the only one who doesn't think this is weird? I mean not any weirder than TiMs generally? When I was a teenager I was really impatient to grow breasts and when finally I passed the "pencil test" I felt very happy. Later I realized how much of a trouble it could be but at that moment I was very excited to feel "womanly" or whatever so it is possible for me to relate this feeling.

[–]BiologicalMolecule 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That's rare. Most girls feel embarrassed when theirs grow.

[–]Jalaces 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How rare is it though? Is it studied, or are we each just generalizing from our own experiences and the girls we grew up with?

[–]BiologicalMolecule 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Go look on r/twoxchromosomes.

[–]11mile_house 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

He’s probably just fat.

[–]BiologicalMolecule 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

The thought of a grown fat man rolling around with his moobs makes me laugh lmaooo how pathetic

[–]MezozoicGay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Last week I saw similar discussion under one of youtube videos related to gender ideology, and it was about "When I am depressed, I squish my boogs, and it is best thing to raise my mood and not only mood". And many answerst to there "Yes, I too!". I thought back then that it is most likely TiMs, and now with this post, I am pretty sure it was actuly only TiMs there.

[–]Realwoman 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No woman feels happy when our breasts bounce when running. It's extremely uncomfortable and even painful, even for those of us with small breasts

[–]jkfinn 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So, this is why "ladies" has come back into circulation. It's the cult's way of bypassing "women" as too explosive a term. He and his 1300 cheerleaders are called "Ladies" and their 2602 breasts are called "girls." All Heil the cult.

[–]GConly 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

You'll notice the fascination with having big tits they all seem to have.

Personally anything over a DD is overkill.

[–]Feather 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As many men have said to me when trying to make me feel bad about my naturally large breasts.

[–]GConly 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My boobs are so large that I look like a cartoon parody (GG)

I have to say I've never had a complaint about them from a guy, if anything they've been attention magnets. And magnets for gropers too.

If the surgery wasn't so major I'd have them reduced.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It’s not my fault :(

[–]Feather 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Ignore that person. "Anything over a DD is overkill," is stupid and mean.

It's conflating a thing you cannot control (natural breast size) with things like makeup. That person is demoting breasts - human female body parts - to something like makeup. They're describing their opinion of breasts as being in the same category as, "Too much eyeshadow is overkill." As if we have a choice.

Women with naturally large breasts are often treated as though we chose to make them large. We didn't. Our bodies aren't "overkill."

[–]GConly 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Anything over a DD is overkill," is stupid and mean.

That person has been cursed with GG cups since she was 19.

Can't run with them, huge dents in my shoulders from bra straps. Crooked posture because I'm pulled over by the weight and back pain. They are a bigger risk for breast cancer too.

So far they haven't sagged, but they'll be on my knees in a couple of decades.

And on top of that the unwanted sexual attention, and casual sexual assaults they attracted by men who grabbed at them as they walked past me in a crowd.

So you'll excuse me for pointing out the physical inconvenience and discomfort of very large breasts and saying 'anything over a DD is overkill'.

[–]Feather 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I apologize for assuming you were just insulting people's looks.

[–]IAmSatan 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eh ok. I mean, I squish my moobs sometimes to make fun of myself.

[–]our_team_is_winning 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If I were a man for a day, I would go on a ton of job interviews! Then I might go for a walk at night alone. Men get attacked too, but I wonder if they look over their shoulder all the time. Maybe I would walk back and forth in front of a construction site, just to experience being ignored. And I would take my car into the shop and not be mansplained to.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Good god. How many kink subreddits can they possibly have about TIMs?

[–]Panchino 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I now know waaaaaay too much about taking progesterone rectally. Ouch and eww.

[–]Cicerosolo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Someone help me here. They're not avtially breasts right? Like breasts are. Kre than just fatty deposits, they have complex insides that regulate a bunch of stuff whereas tranny is just fat, right?

[–]TurkishCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Nope, that's actually a thing. So, estrogen can cause the development of breast tissue in either sex. This is not the same as being so fat you have something kinda like boobs, but like, actual C cups on a skinny transwoman can be a result of hormones (might be surgery. but can be hormones. legitimately).

But this is because both males, and females, have breasts in humans. Like, the actual size/shape of them is different but the anatomy is largely there. Theoretically (and very theoretically I dont think anyone has proven this) you could get a male to lactate (at least, according to a biologist I was speaking to and it wasn't about trans issues at all) but it would be a really far from natural state. That part of sexual development is hormonally controlled and doesn't require different anatomy.

[–]TurkishCoffee 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A transwoman will never have a natural vagina, labia, clitoris, and will not with current (or forseeable future) medical technology get a fake cervix, uterus, or ovaries - those are all you gotta developmentally lack the SRY gene (CAIS wont even get you the right internal organs, so. anyhow - so, X, XX, XXX, without SRY crossover. usually XX but anyhow..assuming some other normal biological/sexual development steps as well)

[–]Cicerosolo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I've heard that they can lactate with the right drug combination but really interestingly the stuff they secrete has no benefit whatsoever nutritionally speaking for the child. I don't really understand why but yeah, interesting