AGB user goes on a date with a trans man, but learns the hard way that progressiveness has little to do with reality

crodish · 2021-05-02T10:26:34+00:00

I use archive.is, here's the mirror too just in case:

crodish · 2021-05-02T10:16:07+00:00

Archive Link for posterity: http://archive.is/qMRUm

The appropriation is truly sickening. They double down so hard in the comments, too. Words mean nothing.

crodish · 2021-02-08T04:56:36+00:00

I agree with him completely, but sometimes I wonder what the end goal would be. There's a whole discourse about how "good trans" don't/shouldn't get a free pass to their desired pronouns, because that's hypocritical (that they're at the end of the day still biologically male despite their presentation). In a world where trans rights are supported but do not trample over women and LGB's rights as well, what would that look like?

crodish · 2020-12-01T23:38:55+00:00

Yep, it is. They go against everything the LGB fought so hard for, about loving ourselves for who we are as we are, and are doing everything the christians and republicans said about sLipPeRy sLoPeS. Look at fucking MAPs trying to encroach in on us and how many of them tend to masquerade under the trans umbrella. :/ Everything they do gets reported under LGBTQIA12345 as well so it's dragging down the group as a whole and most normies don't realize the inner divisions.

Check out s/LGBdroptheT if you haven't already! Hang in there. Sanity and facts will prevail over feelings.

From a lesbian that came out of the closet and is shamefully retreating back inside to not be associated with the T

crodish · 2020-12-01T09:26:05+00:00

This is some wattpad worthy shit

crodish · 2020-11-30T02:33:52+00:00

This is the photo the title is referring to, for anyone OOTL. :/ I'm still mad.

https://www.mic.com/articles/127671/meet-the-gay-men-embracing-a-new-meaning-for-this-famous-gay-slur

From here: https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/6wjw/though_gallagher_is_transgender_he_feels/

crodish · 2020-11-29T16:24:20+00:00

User immediately went to r/honesttransgender after the fact to baaaw and get asspats and reaffirmation. The resulting post is equally cringey. https://www.reddit.com/r/honesttransgender/comments/k2du1x/wow_these_people_suck_i_dunno_why_i_expected/

crodish · 2020-11-29T15:41:35+00:00

That's a fucking disgusting t-shirt she's wearing. "Three-holed fxggxt". What the actual fuck was she thinking, and who the hell made that? It's fucking vile, how brainless do you have to be to not only objectify yourself - but objectify yourself using a word that WAS EVEN NOT YOURS TO "RECLAIM" in the first place. If my asian lesbian ass were to walk around wearing a shirt that said "chxnk fxggxt nxggxr" I'd get fucking murdered on the spot. Wanna bet she custom made that shirt herself. That goddamn smug smirk on her face, like this was a stroke of genius. It's unspeakably disturbing how proud she seems wearing that shirt.

God I am angry. I hate everything.

Edit: more angry ranting about how of COURSE she refuses to use the word "trxnny", because suddenly it matters when it's personal, doesn't it? But no, go ahead and appropriate "fxggxt" while guilt tripping gay men into being with you.

crodish · 2020-11-29T11:01:34+00:00

OP, I'm sorry for the shit you're going through. What MarkTwaniac has suggested is pretty great already, but if you want to cross post to Ovarit, which has a much wider female audience and therefore more shared experience / advice and listening ears, I've sent you an invite code. There are many women there who are more than happy to listen to you and share your frustrations (I'm not contributing to the conversation personally as I have neither experience nor advice on this matter, only empathy.) You are not alone.

crodish · 2020-11-29T10:47:01+00:00

You keep talking about what a loser this dude is, and not to defend him, but you yourself are kinda coming off kinda like a guy who talks a big game about how male and manly he is because he's SO man. Nothing you said is of comfort to this poor woman, you're just shitting on the dude. Not to mention she didn't even say she was breaking it off or looking for a new relationship, so good job implying and assuming she needs or wants to be hitched to someone else at all. Excellent job especially on implying that her age is of any factor of her independence. Your misogyny is showing.

And as an asian, fuck off outta here with that racist shit.

crodish · 2020-11-29T10:37:56+00:00

I'm disappointed at the lack of orGRSM jokes to be found here

Idk man if they stay away from LGB and women, they can call themselves whatever they want

crodish · 2020-11-28T11:22:53+00:00

I can't even with this garbage news. Fucking mastercard. Really?

All those people already taking advantage of self ID laws definitely aren't going to abuse this one, no sirree

crodish · 2020-11-27T22:48:26+00:00

That's disappointing to read. Buck was very vocal about acknowledging her female biology and that without it, she wouldn't BE trans. Penis in vagina sex is always gonna be straight or bi sex, otherwise you're basically subscribing to girldick and man pussy theory.

crodish · 2020-11-27T12:24:01+00:00

Gay bros who date trans bros are valid and also not gay, but straight or bi. Still valid, just not gay.

crodish · 2020-11-21T16:14:13+00:00

It's babylon bee, a satire site

crodish · 2020-11-17T02:26:01+00:00

It's honestly getting to the point where I will avoid any series solely because it has LGBTQIWTF in it. Perhaps I have iNtErNalIzEd hOmOpHoBiA no I'm just sick of the extreme woke pandering.

crodish · 2020-11-14T16:30:17+00:00

They're at least using the right lingo (no TRA speak like "clitorised bodies" rolls eyes) but one of the comments (likely male) was convincing an OP that "large clits are so hot right now" or some shit? And there's a bunch of posts where women OP are sharing that they're doing this in secret without telling their doctors. It sounds like grooming for another sick kink that women didn't need, just with body-altering medicine this time. This is really worrying.

Edit: on their wiki/about:

Growing Your Clit
Why Grow Your Clit?
About Clit Growing
Anatomy of the Clit
Real Life Results
Clit Growing Using Androgens
Clit Pumping
Where to Get Cream
Recommended Doctors
These articles were taken from the Clit Enlargement Fetlife group with minor modifications and updates.

Fetlife is a fetish site isn't it?

Under using androgens/T:

The early signs of androgen side effects (overdose) in females are: frequent or increased sexual thoughts, increased libido, oily skin, increased pubic hair growth often described as “bushy”, voice change to a husky or deeper pitch, and hair growth on the upper lip. These are early warning signs which you should heed. Some tolerate these effects and just accept them. The physical effects of voice change and hair growth are permanent. Further masculinizing effects are much more severe and are more typical of what an FTM transsexual experiences.

The fuck, they're not even hiding it. This ISN'T as safe as they claim it to be. It's fucking hormonal russian roulette.

crodish · 2020-11-13T16:39:58+00:00

Do I spy a NSP reference? :'D

crodish · 2020-11-08T15:03:49+00:00

orientation =/= preferences! What is this backwards slip n slide hellhole urgh

crodish · 2020-11-05T10:47:23+00:00

ugh this, god I hate it when they zoom in on genitals. Just show me their faces and reactions and that's normally good enough for me, I don't need to know exactly how sloppy it is down there or anything, just how much both parties are enjoying themselves

crodish · 2020-11-05T00:36:18+00:00

Uhhhhhh sooooo genuinely not trolling here, but I've liked some yaoi and gay porn before, however my attraction to irl men is like, non-existent. I only like looking at gay porn because somehow female porn seems degrading to watch what with the heavy male gaze and objectification. Good lesbian porn is rare but preferrable. In a way I'm a full on fujoshi but I in no way want dicks near me personally? I also get turned off by men running shirtless and I've never actually physically been with a guy before. Idk. I'm irl in a lesbian relationship and find female bodies way more attractive, have always been attracted to females, etc. Maybe I'm a closeted bi or something? Something something spectrum? ._.

I don't even know what my logic for this is either lol, just that if it's two dudes on screen going at it with each other (my interest drops almost immediately if it becomes a MFM threesome), they're not in my real life and it doesn't affect me, so I can enjoy watching it because sex is sex? But I have no attraction to male bodies sexually, like I can appreciate good anatomy and muscle structure artistically, but I'd very much rather bury my face in boobs and vajay than look at a dick irl? idk man I consider myself a lesbian because I only want to be with women irl regardless of the material I consume

Edit: expounding on why I can't watch female porn - I just end up feeling bad for the woman involved. Like is she okay, she doesn't look like she's enjoying this, is she faking, is she hurt, how much of this is scripted, was she forced to do this, etc. And a lot of times the women just sound incredibly dramatic for the sake of getting dicks hard (like dirty talk, daddy talk, begging, etc). With gay porn like... you can physically see the arousal, it's rare to hear male moans, if there's objectifying shots I don't find myself identifying with it because I don't have those parts (I guess this answers my question of why women get objectified in male porn so much? And also makes me a hypocrite?)

I'm aware it also brings around the point that the men in those scenes could very well also be under coercion, aren't enjoying it, getting hard doesn't equal pleasure, etc. idk man, I don't understand it either. Just trying to sound off why my brain is like this.

crodish · 2020-11-03T11:03:43+00:00

What the fuck did I actually just read

do you think we can beat hypergamy by literally becoming women and using trans identity to gain close proximity to women?

But I thought No OnE dOeS tHiS

crodish · 2020-11-02T06:43:20+00:00

so he/him lesbians aren't men?
no! as i've already said, he/him lesbians are women OR female-aligned people (or even non-aligned)!

So, men. Got it.

Such fucking horseshit in 2020 smdh

crodish · 2020-11-01T22:39:30+00:00

Didn't that "smol" bullshit start with talking about animals in baby speak? Like "what a heckin pupper, such a good doggo, smol precious baby uwu" and then it just contaminated everything else

crodish · 2020-11-01T06:43:36+00:00

Could we just assign all male gynecologists who went into the line solely to look at vagina all the transwomen then? I mean transwomen are women so no difference there /s

crodish · 2020-10-30T13:09:58+00:00

So inclusive that they became unintentionally racist and homophobic

crodish · 2020-10-28T01:34:58+00:00

raises hand

It's despairing to see how much a picture with tits and ass and bedroom eyes gets mass upvoted and produced, even badly drawn. It's so sickeningly popular

crodish · 2020-10-21T11:41:43+00:00

We were not chased off (in the sense of 'we can still post there but just don't'). We were literally deplatformed and banned. We didn't choose to leave reddit, every attempt at making a new subreddit there has gotten deleted. Don't call us spineless for something that was beyond our control and which agb was not subjected to.

crodish · 2020-10-21T11:38:46+00:00

It is the only sub that hasn't been banned yet for doing so.

Lots of subs and users stood up to this until we got banhammered and deleted. Even now users that speak against TRA rhetoric on unaffiliated subreddits are getting banned.

crodish · 2020-10-17T11:25:07+00:00

It was just onomatopoeia, but sure haha!

crodish · 2020-10-15T16:40:14+00:00

Right?? But I ThOugHt TheRe weRe nO AdVanTagEs??!?

crodish · 2020-10-15T10:40:14+00:00

Needs an overlay of like the sea lion actually vocalizing "AWRK AWRK AWRK AWRK" as what they really sound like vs what they think they sound like lolol

crodish · 2020-10-14T03:37:53+00:00

Very. If I could have a "normal heterosexual lifestyle" that didn't involve being ostracized and having to pretend this side of me doesn't exist? Why would I pick hard mode. The fact that it's circled right back around to "it's a preference, you CAN choose who to be attracted to" is such a backwards landslide for LGB rights.

crodish · 2020-10-13T15:42:24+00:00

Oh. So that's what an enlarged clit on T looks like. ): This is really fucking sad.

Edit: I'm baffled by how many fully female bodies are on there using "dick" for their clit. I guess it's the reverse of straight up men in lesbian spaces. I don't see much of the transmen side so... yeah. Eye opening how equally insane it is.

crodish · 2020-10-13T15:37:28+00:00

"My vagina looks A LOT like a penis with two testicles" = "girldick"

This reality is sad.

crodish · 2020-10-10T02:25:48+00:00

Of course they did. Sigh.

crodish · 2020-10-07T16:23:11+00:00

Tempted to comment DD just because, lol

crodish · 2020-10-01T13:38:49+00:00

More balls than Stephen King for sure

crodish · 2020-09-29T04:24:48+00:00

I want to sympathize but at the same time, were all these people who regret it just plugging their ears when GC disagreed with them? So many times I keep hearing things like "no one stopped me or told me I didn't have to" but it's all OUT THERE.

I'm very surprised this dude's family is still together for him, I hope once he does drop it that he'll have a more peaceful life.

crodish · 2020-09-24T16:15:41+00:00

It's basically real, uncensored, very raw footage of the surgeries of how neo vagina and neo penis are made.

Neo vagina require the penis and crotch area be cut up, de-gloved, and inverted inside out in a number of ways. I believe there's a section showing a transwoman getting "unpacked" after surgery as well where the surgeon basically keeps... pulling out wad after wad of gauze and god knows what out of the neo hole. I thought it was a video of a woman giving birth at first glance.

The other half is how neo penis is made. It involves grafting a large section of skin from the arm or thigh in order to form what is the rough equivalent of a thick, floppy meat dildo that may still have hair follicles on the entire shaft. The donor graft sites are also reduced to looking like very dry, shriveled jerky, especially the arm sites, which look closer to an eaten chicken drumstick than an arm by that point.

When people insist that bottom surgeries are in no way "multilations", I hope they've watched this.

crodish · 2020-09-20T06:28:28+00:00

I used to think the Q stood for Questioning; somehow or other Queer became the word instead. Not offended by it myself but I can see how it would be an issue. This flips flops all the time imho, there was a time when gay, faggot, dyke, and homo were slurs as well, but now half the time I see them being used self mockingly ie "yeah i'm a big ole faggot and proud of it", "big dyke vibes", and all that shit.

The entire community is just exhausting to be around.

crodish · 2020-09-20T01:52:14+00:00

OP literally did a "sorry not sorry" from the get go, these people have no fucking shame.

crodish · 2020-09-17T13:34:18+00:00

No offense but how did he survive the harsh realities of life to 17

crodish · 2020-09-14T14:09:37+00:00

grumpycat.jpg GOOD.

crodish · 2020-09-12T15:13:47+00:00

Wasn't this also the case of NikkiTutorials? She only came out to her partner when she was being blackmailed about it and by then they were already engaged. I feel bad for the dude since he'd be subject to internet pressure and cries of tRANsPhoBiA if he changed his mind after the fact.

crodish · 2020-09-12T03:15:04+00:00

Urgh, no. If they identify as non-binary they have dropped being male/female from their game and I don't want to pander to some genderfluid aroace nb snowflake every day on how they're feeling on that particular day. They can join TQ+ in sorting themselves out.

LG = he/him male/male, she/her female/female combos only. B = can be either pairings or he/him male/she/her female, it's not a choice the sex of the person they eventually fall in love with.

Things were so fucking straightforward!

crodish · 2020-09-10T03:58:39+00:00

I remember something from a video that said only male intersex people had the SRY gene anyway, so couldn't they just test for that?

crodish · 2020-09-08T14:22:59+00:00

That IS really surprising. More proof that they're just getting triggered for the sake of it than actually getting triggered

crodish · 2020-09-06T19:11:33+00:00

Also transmen who get offended by the reminder of their actual biology. Those are the worst, just females sabotaging their own kind

crodish · 2020-09-06T19:09:43+00:00

Better still, are they admitting that trans ARE basically just doing drag "but real, so you can't do it for fun while admitting you aren't really a woman/man"? lmfao

crodish · 2020-09-06T13:34:30+00:00

This aggravates me as much as "he/him lesbians are VALID uwu"

Like I've seen "gay" used interchangeably with "homosexual", so like "two gay girls" is understandable, and some people say "oh hurr some really butch women go by he/him pronouns!" but every time I see "he/him lesbian" it just screams "transbian" and "I'M SPESHULLLLL!!!1"

crodish · 2020-09-06T13:25:09+00:00

The hurdles some trans men and gender-nonconforming people who menstruate say they face include the high cost of period supplies, lack of access to the products, safety concerns and inadequate medical care.

Also

Some transgender and gender-nonconforming people who menstruate, like Jones, say when the products are categorized as women’s products, they can feel alienated — and may even avoid purchasing them altogether.

So the products ARE accessible, you just don't want to fucking use them because it's not in a color you like. ffs. All the other issues are faced by women, too, none of us like our periods! Of course I'd be happier if I didn't have to bleed like a murder victim five days a month every month, or constantly worry about if I've stained myself or if people can hear my mega overnight pad crinkling inside my jeans, or have cramps, or anything of the numerous things that transmen and nb "afab" people say doesn't "justify" them having periods!

Also this fucking paragraph is just delusion or sheer uneducatedness, or both, at its best

“I didn’t believe that having periods would be a part of my lived experience,” Jones told NBC News. “I felt isolated; everything about periods was tailored to girls, yet me, a boy, was experiencing this and nothing in the world documented that.”

Woody voice: YOU! ARE! A! WOMAN!!

You're still a fucking toy even if you think and believe you're a real space ranger!!

crodish · 2020-09-06T04:14:04+00:00

If it involves two different genitalia it's not homosexual, honey

God I hate translogic

crodish · 2020-09-03T14:10:02+00:00

It's so fucking stupid because the period is literally defined BY the shedding of the blood-lined uterine wall, there can't BE a bloodless period, much less a bloodless period WITHOUT A UTERUS (main point)! How is 2020 so batshit insane argh

crodish · 2020-08-31T06:17:13+00:00

I'm glad he's alive and didn't hurt himself, but I'm also sad that he jumped right back into surgery as a cure-all despite already suffering a botched SRS. I hope his restorative surgeries go as well as can be expected and that this poor person finds peace with themselves. It's so sad to witness.

crodish · 2020-08-30T04:53:36+00:00

"I got my lesbian wife pregnant, oops" - if a penis went into a vagina that's straight heterosexual sex, honey

crodish · 2020-08-28T14:03:31+00:00

Call me when a "AMAB" trans woman and a biological "cis" "AMAB" man make biological babies together without the help of a surrogate and any input from someone female, and we'll discuss how sex is a spectrum

crodish · 2020-08-24T04:57:17+00:00

I cannot wait for the lawsuit era.

The world's insane.

crodish · 2020-08-21T01:45:33+00:00

For those who actually don't want to click, it's a google search term of "Dr. Rumer results" and shows all the mastectomies TIF have undergone.

crodish · 2020-08-19T18:09:29+00:00

I feel bad admitting this but... I feel the same about the reverse, too. (GoFundMes for MtFtM and vice versa). Actually, like someone else said, I feel bad about any of these types of GoFundMes, because they're ultimately all selfish at their core, if the only beneficiary is the sole recipient. I'd rather donate to an organization that needs food and necessities for the underprivileged than someone needing a surgery or item that isn't life threatening. But the post-trans ones irk me a lot. Like... yeah, maybe it sucks that you were conned into the ideology, you were too young to know, everything, right? It also sucks for like, everyone else who had a shitty hand dealt to them. And probably 70% of them also have a GoFundMe up. Like... idk man this just turned into a rant about e-begging, I'm a salty broke lower class and the whole asking for money out of the goodness of peoples' hearts just rubs me the wrong way every time

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:44:34+00:00

Seconding this, this this this!

/u/please_help TW for talking about ED, talking about it because it's relevant - when I was struggling with it, the advice I got was to be "more mindful" and not constantly ruminate about the topic that was making me feel like shit, ie eating. Of course the immediate reaction is to go, "but how can I possibly NOT think about it?!" and it's hard, it's hard af, but you can DO IT

You know those times when you're watching a new movie for the first time, and it's so fucking good or funny or awesome you get totally caught up in it, and all your thoughts are just solely about the movie and the characters? Or you're playing a game or doing some physical activity or whatever and you get so caught up grinding or reaching goals that's all you focus on? Yeah, do that! Maybe it'll only work for a little while, that's fine! The point is to keep doing it little by little every day, until it becomes a part of your normal routine that you just... do it, because it's what you do!

Like... typing. Typing's easy now, but remember the first time you had to use a keyboard, and how hard it was to remember what keys were where and how to type without looking down, typing is so slow, why can't we just write? (Might not apply if you used smart phones from birth)

or when you start a new game and everything is confusing af because the interface is new, but after a week or so you know it like the back of your hand. It's the same thing. Stop indulging in stuff that makes you feel bad, and focus on things that make you feel good!

That said, it's easier said than done. Get the support you need - friends or family you feel you can talk to about this - and don't beat yourself up if you "fail", because failing is just another step towards success. You gotta grind a while to level up. It's good that you realized this early, so hang in there! Really hope you get the peace you're seeking with yourself.

Also, yeah, puberty fucking sucks. I hated my boobs when I was 16, too, and still don't really care for them, to be honest! just... ignore them best as you can. Sounds stupid, right? Life be like that doe. "They're there. It's normal, and it's okay to dislike them. Everyone has somehing they don't like about themselves, and I'm not going to let that stop me from enjoying things."

Sorry for the ramble. Just stuff I wish my teenage self would have heard, if I was in your situation. Hang in there! You are perfect the way you are!

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:06:24+00:00

Right???!?!? I'm so fucking aggravated argh

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:03:04+00:00

I was like, ‘what are you talking about?’”

"You have a uterus."

"What is that?"

"It's an organ in your body. Females usually have one."

"But I'm not female. That's ridiculous."

"You're clearly not intersex, because there're no male organs. So. You're female."

"I'm a man!"

"I have a fucking MRI of your fucking uterus in my hand, stop wasting our goddamn time and resources!"

crodish · 2020-08-19T16:57:01+00:00

Wow, yeah, totally the doctors' fault for missing "he" had internal female organs, when "he" lied on his admissions paper, or didn't even think to ask if "his" being transgender would affect anything. Fucking biology doesn't play dumb. "I should have been somewhere in the middle between male and female ranges because I was taking male hormones" fuck off with that.

I really want to see it come down to "oh, okay, I guess an obvious solution would be to include AFAB / AMAB / transgender etc boxes then, to be inclusive", and then get a whole bunch of triggered snowflakes yelling that they don't want to out themselves and that they can't be stealth. You can die diagnosed as the "right" gender or live with your biological, immutable "wrong" one. Fucking choose.

God the way this article is worded, like it's such a fucking tragedy. I mean it IS, but not for the reasons the writer is trying to inflect. Lie about your health, get consequences.

crodish · 2020-08-17T14:31:00+00:00

It's a TIF :/

I was born into the wrong body, or more likely without the proper hormones, and ended up with a vagina where my penis was supposed to be.

Gagging noises

crodish · 2020-08-09T05:22:13+00:00

They ALWAYS do this!! It's so fucking maddening.

"This never happens!"

"Here's proof it does."

"Okay but those are like outliers."

"Here's proof it does, in spades."

"Okay now that's ChErRyPiCkInG"

LIKE HELLO?!?!!?!?

crodish · 2020-08-07T14:26:11+00:00

Speaking from the perspective of a creative-ish, who has dabbled in fandom before coughyaoicoughfictionalincestcough, it swings both ways. I understand both sides of the argument, but I have to go with "for", ultimately because it's still censorship if you try to stop fictional things from being created.

Yeah, it might have an impact on the real world. Does that mean all movies shouldn't have pets featured in them any more? Does every scene or violence need to come with a disclaimer? For the same reason it's not womens' faults for speaking out against trans agenda that causes transpeople to be murdered by men, it's not creatives' fault if people decide to act in real life with real consequences.

There's also people who create this type of work to begin with (myself included) as a form of self therapy or an outlet for expression and exploration. It doesn't mean we condone it, obviously.

I personally feel the real issue is when people can't separate the two. Fiction is not reality. It can be inspired by reality. It can come about as a result of wishing reality was different, and it might shape the future of reality. But it should never fall on the creator to be personally faulted. For example people who've committed real copycat crimes based on fictional murders.

I admit I'm not entirely convinced by my own stance. I've seen and read the arguments that aren't in favor (for example, many, MANY fandoms have an incest ship somewhere that undoubtedly ends up being one of the most popular ships) and argue that the creation of the material is what promotes and perpetuates the grooming behavior, etc. It's really a chicken and egg scenario for myself, personally. All I can say is that I can take accountability for myself that I'm not hurting anyone. If someone acts on their own accord based on what they read of my work, that's on them.

I welcome debate. I treat this issue like religion. It works for some, it doesn't for others, but in the end you're the only one it should matter for. Otherwise you end up like the religious people who keep actively trying to convert others because they believe they're saving others. For me, anyway.

crodish · 2020-08-06T02:07:00+00:00

Okay so

I really dislike the "NO ONE EVER DOES THIS" line because there's ALWAYS outliers. They're not prevalent, but there are.

I do play with my boobs sometimes

But it's either cos I'm just teasing my girlfriend with them or I'm in the strip down stage before showering and I'm just being an idiot in front of the mirror for a few seconds

THAT BEING SAID

I don't call my boobs "my girls"

I don't feel anything or think about anything when playing with them except maybe "ah fuck that damn hair is growing back" or "yay no lumps to take note of at least"

I definitely don't roll around in bed squeeing about them urgh

And I'm only comfortable having them because I've grown into my body, I hated them during puberty

I don't even think about them half the time, they're just THERE, like my fucking elbow. As it is now I don't LOVE them, they're just there. Fetishisizing your own body is weiiiiird

crodish · 2020-08-02T14:00:30+00:00

Amazing lyrics, and video presentation, especially the age part at the end! Thank you for making this.

crodish · 2020-08-01T15:01:42+00:00

Yeah kiwifarms has no pc chill at all, which is kinda awesome in some ways because they're brutally honest about everything. They don't really take sides either

crodish · 2020-08-01T08:05:42+00:00

A woman who's infertile, been shaved bald, had a double mastectomy and full hysterectomy is still more of a woman than they could ever hope to be. They can strip us of everything that they think defines us as a female and we'd still be female at the end of it, even in death. They'll never have our fucking chromosomes, DNA, bone structure, gametes, etc

crodish · 2020-08-01T07:58:12+00:00

I just imagined someone yelling at the space between someone else's legs lol

"ARE YOU A HE/HIM OR SHE/HER CERVIX???"

crodish · 2020-07-31T04:07:03+00:00

They could very well both be natal women, but I hate how the prevalence of TRA is making me second-guess and doubt myself on every photo and headline now.

On that note, it's a really unpopular opinion in GC circles, but I absolutely cannot roll with the notion of, "Women are NEVER violent!" or "Women would NEVER do this!" It's the same as "am I the only one who does this / not all X" rhetoric. The percentage chance is small definitely, but it's not NIL.

Edit: I'd say they're both GNC leaning feminine since I can't clock either of them for anything

crodish · 2020-07-31T00:26:47+00:00

It's honestly really sad how deluded they are, and equally terrifying much strong the message of "transitioning before puberty is the only way to pass at all" these people are being brain washed with. Not that they would need to transition or pass AT ALL to begin with if they were just taught to love and accept their own bodies.

This is the super fucked up version of women who desperately want boob jobs because their boyfriends said it would make them more attractive

crodish · 2020-07-28T05:07:41+00:00

Inb4 defacement, unfortunately

crodish · 2020-07-27T05:44:43+00:00

Deadline 2030 is what got me lmao

crodish · 2020-07-26T15:16:49+00:00

There's also the reverse uno of "oh, so you WANT trans men like Buck Angel to use the women's restroom! And trans men to compete in women's sports! Aha, gotcha! Stupid terfs!" like fucking - the whole thing about sports regulation and doping is that as long as you took stuff your body wasn't already producing on its own, it isn't fair.

The whole toilet situation is messy and annoying because then it falls on gatekeeping how people "pass" in general, even if common sense tells you if you don't look like the sex you're trying to emulate, don't go in there. Just... we had no issues before any tom dick and harry started calling themselves women and started demanding our spaces. Can we go back ten years

crodish · 2020-07-26T15:02:50+00:00

What are you talking about, no one ever confuses sex and gender /s

crodish · 2020-07-26T03:12:38+00:00

Holy fuck this makes me mad. This is propaganda. To kids!! And the child featured in this is way too fucking young to be dealing with this gender shit!

Of course it was written by a fucking transwoman

crodish · 2020-07-26T03:02:27+00:00

Urgh this this this! I'm so fed up with the whole pronouns bullshit and they/them crap. You're not non-binary you're just a fucking snowflake like the millions of other snowflakes who think being an 'other' is cooler than what you literally are

crodish · 2020-07-25T12:40:34+00:00

Something something men can't be feminists, but he's likely an ally

crodish · 2020-07-25T03:58:06+00:00

Honestly? Fucking go for it. Have fun dealing with possible organ transplant rejection and failure, necrosis, permanent medical reliance, and god forbid if those transplants ever can carry a healthy, functioning baby to term, experience the whole labor and delivery process in its unmedicated glory. It hurts enough going through organs that were actually evolved to accommodate birth. Let women become a separate society where we can do our own shit, since there's now AGP and TW willing to take over those roles for us. We'll leave behind a whole world full of men fucking other men who look like women, and maybe they can finally leave us alone.

You know that breed of bulldog that's only able to procreate because of human intervention, otherwise it'd die because it can't give birth without a cesarean? That but worse. And those are FEMALE bulldogs.

crodish · 2020-07-25T03:45:31+00:00

A well-meaning cis friend will say, ‘Welcome to being a woman.’ And that can be problematic because I have experienced being a woman and not being seen as a woman for years. And these things make it seem like my womanhood is contingent upon presentation,” Tess says.

So what the fuck do they actually want

We validate them and they say no, not like that

Can you imagine if this article was about cancer? "You're lucky you don't have to experience cancer" "BuT Im MiSsiNg OuT oN tHe FULL CANCER EXPERIENCE tHatS nOt FaiR"

crodish · 2020-07-24T05:45:15+00:00

What the absolute fuck am I even reading

Someone actually typed this out unironically and sincerely and hit send

Kill me

crodish · 2020-07-23T01:07:50+00:00

"AnYthInG aFtEr A 'bUt' dOeSn'T coUnT, yOu tRaNspHoBe!!!!1111one"

crodish · 2020-07-23T00:56:30+00:00

Oh, yikes, I didn't realize how sexist he was until you mentioned this! I looked it up and... yeah urgh. How to land a good man by being everything the patriachy has advocated. Most of his recent tweets with regards to racism and all that seemed pretty level headed and agreeable, and he seemed rational overall. It's a pity this doesn't extend to his views on women...

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:48:22+00:00

Holy fuck the comment in that picture is absolutely disgusting. The original context was bad enough.

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:46:14+00:00

Is that his child or girlfriend or both next to him

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:41:15+00:00

The giggle app's stance towards feminism is flipping like a pancake every couple days

crodish · 2020-07-21T00:04:41+00:00

Let's not forget the ultimate zinger: okay, TERF /s

crodish · 2020-07-20T20:04:12+00:00

A woman is a woman is a woman is a woman is a woman is

crodish · 2020-07-19T19:51:23+00:00

I hate that it essentially boils down to "they'll only make noise when they can't find people who want to fuck them / can't find people they actually want to fuck, but until then shrug.gif"

Like imagine the shitstorm once every woman on every dating site is a transwoman and all the fed up straight men will finally understand what LGB has been facing

crodish · 2020-07-19T14:28:49+00:00

But we lItErAlLy ErAsE tHeiR ExiStEncE if we misgender them

crodish · 2020-07-19T02:36:25+00:00

The whole pronouns shit is just exhausting garbage. I really wish it stuck to tumblr and died there.

crodish · 2020-07-19T02:29:22+00:00

This place started out rational but I've been seeing more and more conspiracy shit, BIG BOLDED TEXT SHOUTING POINTS, anti-mask rhetoric, racism, and the like. Half the comments are the bottom tier of the pyramid debate. I just stick to the subs I want to follow now. The s/all is a shitshow.

crodish · 2020-07-15T01:38:27+00:00

HAHA OMG me too!!!! Stupid thing was that I was banned for an EDIT to an actual lengthy comment I made about LGBT issues, and replaced it the hashtags so I could mass delete them later. I literally got banned for fucking hashtagging #RedditHatesWomen... as HATE SPEECH

crodish · 2020-07-13T23:37:11+00:00

Wow holy fuck, weren't THEY the ones who came up with that stupid 'x' replacement in "gendered" language to begin with?! They're fucking orobourosing themselves

I don't know whether to laugh or head desk, maybe both

crodish · 2020-07-12T06:52:43+00:00

This is what we learn in art school too, when we have to draw women who distinctly look female and men who distinctly look male. There's no shame in drawing nonconforming characters, but there's a reason why the Disney princess line and anime girls do so well in merchandising.

I wonder how facial feminine surgery will play a part in the future, as far as digging up skulls and examining them go. I'm sure they can probably tell surgical work was done, but still.

crodish · 2020-07-12T06:41:14+00:00

I had a couple times where my head was full shaved (as a show of support for children with cancer). I'm pretty flat chested and am not conventionally attractive by female standards. I got called sir and "little boy" a lot lmao and it was always weird to see people's horrified reactions, like chill, I present so fucking masculine, there was no reason for you to assume I was female and I'm not offended since it wasn't done out of spite!

crodish · 2020-07-09T05:39:39+00:00

r/caphillautonomouszone is pretty much my exhibit A for this. Everything is downvoted immediately by the brigade, discussions are impossible to maintain because dozens of trolls will obfuscate or derail any discussion, and people have abandoned the subreddit rather than deal with constant harassment. So a place that used to be a source of good information was immediately destroyed once the great ban occurred.

oh you mean like men coming into our subs and derailing our conversations to make it all about them so that's why we had to leave and get our own space for ourselves? no, can't relate

crodish