Apparently biology doesn't matter, because plenty of transwomen are indistinguishable from cis women & men fantasize about them, without knowing their trans status.

pacmanla · 2021-09-01T19:51:28+00:00

A good portion, probably a majority of "cis" lesbians would date trans lesbians.

I smell gas

pacmanla · 2021-10-11T03:00:24+00:00

an obvious girl

Um.......obviously no.

pacmanla · 2021-09-20T23:13:05+00:00

This gotta be a joke right? "You still see me as a girl". "Maybe I do". 🤦‍♂️

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T22:44:08+00:00

😂😂😂 They don't even believe this nonsense.

pacmanla · 2021-12-22T23:54:38+00:00

Imagine telling someone they "got to", when it comes to who they're going to be sexual with. Transwomen (males) "got to" recognize they're males & lesbians aren't within their sexual orientation. But, we know these men don't care, otherwise when it comes to who someone have sex with; "got to" wouldn't be in their vocabulary.

Please tell heterosexual men they "got to" understand that some heterosexual women come with dicks. I mean EVERYONE "got to" understand that right? 🤷

pacmanla · 2021-10-12T14:34:41+00:00

Being gay is Liking men, not dicks

Yeah.....I don't want to be here anymore.

pacmanla · 2021-11-03T22:43:34+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I stand with Gold Star Lesbians.

pacmanla · 2021-10-27T05:20:06+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 Loved the "Nooo!!!" Part

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T22:50:04+00:00

Hell, there are TRAs who call anti-woke non-white people "traitors". Fuck em.

Yeah, black people & other non-white people, should support & put white males' desire to be seen as "real" women, on the same level as their problems. You know, the history of slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, racist housing covenants, etc; to white males not being able to bang or date lesbians. How dare those "traitors"!!!

pacmanla · 2020-12-30T16:47:00+00:00

LOVING the comments, lol.

pacmanla · 2021-02-09T19:27:16+00:00

They're both, unfortunately.

pacmanla · 2021-02-04T08:53:21+00:00

Saw a Twitter comment about Canada being renamed Tranada, lol.

pacmanla · 2021-10-15T23:21:49+00:00

Huh??? I think the "cis" dude would have the same reaction, & tell you he's not gay as well. 🤣🤣🤣 As a heterosexual "cis" male, you can't blame "cis" women for the reality of sex. I can also tell you that those "cis" women's "toxic" reactions, might have saved you from a more severe "toxic" reaction, from males not living in your delusional fantasy land.

pacmanla · 2021-09-14T16:02:10+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 This HAS to be a troll post??!! 😂😂😂 Right???

pacmanla · 2021-03-11T07:51:44+00:00

I agree, but even not wanting children, there's a fundamental difference between natal sex women & transwomen (natal men). There is truth that biological attraction has the idea of pheromones. Dogs, babies, & people in general smell the difference between females & males. There was a TikTok video of a transwoman distraught that "her"/his dog could smell that he was still male. The comments were delusional & hilarious calling the dog transphobic. You can't make this up. But, even natal sex males & females who don't want kids, sexuality is & will always be based on biological sex.

pacmanla · 2021-02-07T03:52:52+00:00

As a male, I think it's insane & completely unfair to blame women, for insecure men not accepting their own sexuality. These men who are knowingly having "relations" with transwomen (males) are either gay or bisexual males. Nothing wrong with that, but they're not heterosexual (which they like to tell themselves). It's not women's fault, that these men who are ashamed of their true sexualities, are harming or worse, murdering transwomen. Blame the men, & let them know that they need to come to terms with themselves. Also, transwomen unfortunately have a high propensity to work in the sex trade. This calls for them to meet men, who have fetishes around the idea of male genitalia attached to a "woman". "Sis" porn (I think it's called that) reflect this. These are simply men attracted to male genitalia, but like the men to appear as "women" to deny their homosexuality/bisexuality & lie to themselves that they're "straight".

pacmanla · 2021-02-04T12:49:56+00:00

As a heterosexual male, this is an interesting theory to me, & an insight as to why there's no "smoke" or heavy intent, to come after heterosexual males as other groups. The thing with TRAs attacking biological females as they are, do they honestly believe that heterosexual males with significant others are going to sit back & let biological males "replace" females, lol. VAST MAJORITY of heterosexual males are not buying these males as women & a tipping point will be reach where you have delusional males attempting to "replace" females in part "replacing" these heterosexual men significant others, lol. Do they honestly believe a large group of men who don't buy them as women anyway, will sit back & let that happen? They will sooner or later HAVE to face straight men, there's no avoiding that.

pacmanla · 2021-01-26T21:07:24+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to your friend, & this is why I confront men who claim they're "straight", but also say they're "trans attracted". These "straight" men are attracted to the fact that these are men (because they're gay/bi) who appear as "women". And nine times out of ten, still have their male genitalia attached. But, since they appear as "women", these guys (in their minds) are "straight".

pacmanla · 2023-10-28T13:53:27+00:00

Good for those women. This has to happen more often, & it's unfortunate for the females, but a point has to be made.

pacmanla · 2023-06-07T16:32:02+00:00

😄😄 Wow!!! One comment told him to stop trying to "change parts" & fighting reality. Can't believe those comments are still up on Reddit of all places.

pacmanla · 2021-12-02T13:28:58+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I REALLY wish they would say this idiotic, rapey nonsense to heterosexual men. Basically, having a sexual orientation leads to violence against trans? "Get over your sexual boundaries & sleep with trans to show support". How any sane person supports this nonsense ideology is beyond me.

pacmanla · 2021-11-30T07:59:08+00:00

I really don't understand how anyone believe you can go from being a gay man to a "straight woman". It's idiotic, nonsensical, & delusional. These men are just exhibiting their hatred for themselves & when reality & others remind these men, that they're still males (by denying them sexual/romantic interest) they go into depression, or fatally harm themselves. Sane & living in reality gay men understand they're simply same-sex attracted. They understand that "transitioning" into a woman (which they'll never be) doesn't change the fact that they're still males attracted to other males, regardless of "identity" or surgeries. They're still males sexually attracted to males.

pacmanla · 2021-06-14T20:03:10+00:00

Great, way more thumbs down than thumbs up. People aren't buying this nonsense, & when people aren't drinking the "kool-aid" the comments are disabled.

pacmanla · 2021-04-24T03:33:42+00:00

Owner said it was a billing error. This actually makes me feel better, if true.

pacmanla · 2021-04-12T15:58:17+00:00

And........this is not a mental illness???

pacmanla · 2021-03-22T03:11:20+00:00

I'm paraphrasing, but the gist of it was how men need to stop being ashamed for their attraction to transwomen & hiding their relationships with them. "She" had to walk it back & clarify that she was referring to men who are attracted to transwomen, but hide it. The ironic thing about her/his post was that after telling men to stop being ashamed of their attraction to transwomen, she followed by saying that "gay is beautiful". Implying that transwomen are in fact males.

pacmanla · 2021-03-16T08:50:18+00:00

Black women & black people in general, are not buying into the trans nonsense.

pacmanla · 2021-03-07T11:19:14+00:00

What did I tell you, LOL. TRAs are losingtheir minds over there & heterosexuals are NOT CARING whatsoever. Lol.

pacmanla · 2021-02-13T19:39:14+00:00

Seriously???....I just have no words anymore.

pacmanla · 2021-02-03T14:38:14+00:00

Excuse me if I'm wrong, but there are those who believe this trans narrative is being pushed to usher in transhumanism. Then there are those, who believe that giving kids the "choice" to choose what gender they are & choosing what to do with their bodies, is ushering in pedophilia. That comment, also, about future attractions being "genderless", sounds like a "free for all" & no one's boundaries are to be respected.

pacmanla · 2021-01-29T19:43:33+00:00

Yeah, look like a troll account

pacmanla · 2021-01-29T18:47:26+00:00

The username was TiffanyTim. It could've been a troll account & was soon deleted after I blocked the account?

pacmanla · 2021-01-27T08:47:30+00:00

Vice versa with transwomen (males) as well. I also don't understand the encouragement of the delusion game. When these individuals get into the real world where people are dating & having sexual relationships based on sex/biology & not "identity", then what. All this pontificating, trying to shame, bully, or just whine, won't change nature. People are just not into modified bodies of individuals who are portraying a sex they're not. Also, one theory of mine is that the human brain on a subconscious level, don't like deception. No matter how much these individuals "pass", the brain knows it's a deception. I honestly believe, people really hate this & it's very weird to see someone born male or female go out of their way to resemble a sex they're not.

pacmanla · 2021-01-08T05:30:49+00:00

I.....have no words for the foolishness I just read. It's very scary that laws are being put into place for these individuals.

pacmanla · 2021-01-07T05:31:52+00:00

He's a biologically born male sexually attracted to other biologically born males. Yeah, he's a gay man & his denying it doesn't change that.

pacmanla · 2020-11-18T17:31:44+00:00

But.....it's just like a cis person genitalia. Cis men & women genitalia is disgusting as well, you bigot. I can hear the "counter-arguments" now.

pacmanla · 2020-11-03T02:21:18+00:00

Some dating/hook up sites already do. Trans people just simply avoid listing they're trans. I definitely agree, & honestly, if there's pushback, it's going to come from the trans people themselves. Which is silly, imho, because why would you waste time on people who aren't interested in you.

pacmanla · 2020-10-27T02:19:45+00:00

People who like to con & deceive others, don't want clear set definitions on anything. Because once clear cut definitions are in place, you can't con people anymore. These individuals don't want to distinguish between biological men & women, because that way, those of us with boundaries within our sexual orientation can't rule TRAs out.

Trans "rights" has basically boiled down to the "right" to go out to lesbian, gay, heterosexual spaces, & not have to disclose your biological birth sex, because damnit - screw your boundaries - I deserve casual sex as well.

I saw this coming five years ago, when the website VOX posted a story about transwomen attempting to date on Valentine's day. After reading that article, I was sick. It was a bunch of biological men trying to intellectualize & shame people for their sexual orientation. I couldn't believe they were actually attempting to make this a civil rights issue. That's basically all it is at this point.

pacmanla · 2024-02-02T19:32:12+00:00

Pretty soon, & the next logical step of this lunacy, is a book about how straight men (transphobes) are "dying" out. Anyone not wanting someone "identifying" as something that's not their biological sex, is a "transphobe".

pacmanla · 2024-02-01T02:51:43+00:00

No such thing as "sex assigned at birth". Your biological sex is observed, & that's it.

pacmanla · 2023-11-28T17:54:11+00:00

That's what I don't get. Even the "best" looking most "passable" trans-identified males, look like males. I remember being shocked when a bunch of women said they didn't know Nikki tutorials was trans. What?? I knew by the thumbnails that Nikki Tutorials was a dude identifying as a "woman", who was giving makeup advice. I never watched a single video, but knew on the thumbnails alone.

Blaire White NEVER passed to me & certainly doesn't nowadays. I remember getting effeminate gay male vibes from him, when seeing one of his videos popup. Bailey Jay could be argued the "best" "passable" one, but I remember seeing an unfiltered photo & video. Both screamed male, especially the video.

This Hunter Schaefer doesn't pass to me all that well either. Before I knew who he was, I saw an interview with him & felt that something was "off". I googled the name & sure enough I got the picture. Trans-identified males age just like males as well. They have to continuously have surgical procedures to try & maintain their "passability". It rarely if ever works. Biology, DNA, genes, etc. are hard to get away from & quite simply can't.

pacmanla · 2023-10-21T19:01:46+00:00

First off, the OP posted on a subreddit aimed towards mentally ill men, posing as "women". There's no "ladies" in that subreddit. As a heterosexual male (an actual real one) I missed the days when gays were fighting to be seen as the same as everyone else, just same-sex attracted. Nowadays you have obviously gay men ashamed of their sexuality & fighting for one male to be seen as a "woman", to alleviate their internalized homophobia.

As far as straight men not wanting a "man" with a vagina? There's no such thing. Those individuals are females hopped on testosterone, who believe they're "men". They're still females, & no I wouldn't sleep with them, because of their desire to be seen as men, as to go so far as to pump one's body full of hormones. I wouldn't sleep with the majority of female bodybuilders either. Guess what, they're still biologically female & trans "women" are still males. Therefore a "straight" male engaging in intimate relations with another male, isn't straight. Doesn't matter if said male pumps himself full of estrogen & inverts his genitalia. From my understanding of the Reddit post from OP, his "girlfriend" didn't even do that & still has HIS male genitalia. Doesn't matter either way, he's clearly in denial about his sexuality & I really wish gay/bi men didn't fight this. You're attracted to effeminate males.

pacmanla · 2023-08-03T00:43:58+00:00

I sincerely hope so. I really do.

pacmanla · 2023-07-22T15:42:56+00:00

I've never understood this ideology, & it's stupid to me. They're still gay males who are still attracted to other males. Doesn't matter what you have them do to their bodies, they're still males. "Trans the gay away" mindset is very idiotic to me & makes no sense. Same with people who are here, who have the same mentality towards being gay. It's dumb to mutilate a body for something it will never be, than rather them having a healthy, natural body & accepting their sexuality.

pacmanla · 2023-05-24T00:32:43+00:00

I agree, & thought straight men laughing at feminists for "opening the door" for trans, was stupid & shortsighted. If they're trying to force lesbians to be comfortable with "girldick", you really believe they won't attempt to do the same straight men? Though straight men & even gay men don't care about calling us "bigots", etc. It won't work, which brings up the going "stealth" route.

pacmanla · 2023-05-24T00:28:50+00:00

I respectfully disagree.

pacmanla · 2023-04-15T13:46:19+00:00

👏👏👏

pacmanla · 2023-04-05T14:11:14+00:00

They've been easing over to that "female" side for a while now. The old "I've been on estrogen for X amount of years, so my body is more "female" than male now" argument. No, you're still a delusional male who has mutilated himself chasing to be something, you never will.

pacmanla · 2023-03-25T15:56:46+00:00

Wow, never thought a city subreddit would be overtaken by this nonsense.

pacmanla · 2023-02-23T02:04:12+00:00

You still don't & will never have a vagina. They keep moving the goalpost. First it was "We know that gender & sex are different", now it's "Well I've been on estrogen for X amount of years, so my body is more female than male". No, it isn't. You're still a male, with male genitalia, whether intact or mutilated.

pacmanla · 2022-12-31T18:43:07+00:00

He didn't know after attempted sexual intercourse? I say attempted, because any man who has seen porn or been intimate with a biological female, know that a neovagina isn't a real vagina.

pacmanla · 2022-12-31T16:44:09+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I've never understood why HSTS believed they actually were getting with "straight" men. It's clear as day, that they're getting with bisexual men or closeted gay guys into feminine males. I guess it's a coping mechanism? Sad that they have to lie to themselves like that.

pacmanla · 2022-12-24T23:58:56+00:00

This was definitely the tipping point for me. As a heterosexual male, when the whole 'SuperStraight' thing started, I saw people on Twitter saying that it was "stupid" for straight men not wanting to be with other MALES, because said male "identified" as a woman. Yes, apparently, a heterosexual male wanting an actual female with a vagina for sexual & romantic purposes, is "stupid" in this day & time.

pacmanla · 2022-10-16T11:17:01+00:00

I thought pansexual was a bad word? Didn't trans identified individuals hate "pansexual", because it allowed the "bigots" an excuse not to include them in their sex/romantic lives?

pacmanla · 2022-08-20T23:28:47+00:00

And it's still not a "vagina" & they're still male.

pacmanla · 2022-08-08T11:05:37+00:00

Honestly, any man knowingly & willingly sexually attracted to or dating a transwoman (male) is gay or bisexual, by definition alone. Nothing wrong with that, but for the umpteenth time, that man is not a heterosexual male. I don't care about "feminine" energy, surgical procedures made to make a male appear as a woman or whatnot. It's the sex part that makes the sex act between two males a homosexual act. Transwomen (males) will never have a vagina, an inverted scrotum & penis is not & will never be a vagina. These people are so delusional that now saying as a heterosexual male, that you don't want penis of any kind (inverted or not), is "genital discrimination". This is pure evil & sick & delusional. Again, a lot of trans individuals seem to not know how sex & sexual orientation works.

End of my rant, but I see your point in your statement. Just hate that adults don't know how sex works, but we are talking about "adult" males who believe they're really women, so, not surprised.

pacmanla · 2022-07-13T15:49:35+00:00

What?!?!

pacmanla · 2022-07-13T01:56:21+00:00

Great comment & analysis on Blaire White. I remember someone posting a video of him back some years ago. He still presented as male & was just an effeminate young gay man. He stated how tough it was for feminine gay men in the gay dating market. I've heard a lot of feminine gay men say this & state that's why a lot of HSTS trans identified individuals think identifying as a woman would be easier. I honestly don't see that, & Blaire stated after his "transition", he was essentially passed around by closeted bisexual men who were ashamed of him.

pacmanla · 2022-06-09T18:50:53+00:00

I am also perplexed by how this abstract justifies a conclusion of heterosexuality after saying they have "more" attraction to women than to men.

I've never understood this saying as well. If you're attracted to males who happen to look "feminine" & attracted to biological females as well, you're basically just bisexual. I've never really dwelled on "scaling" attraction, like people saying "well I'm MORE attracted to females, but every once in a a while I like males who are traditionally feminine looking". Doesn't matter, you're still engaging in sexual activity with males, who just may have an effeminate "aura" or presentation to themselves. Basically you're bisexual in my book.

pacmanla · 2022-05-30T16:43:23+00:00

Wow. Sad & unfortunate that detransitioners go through this, but the cynic in me also believe that a few of these tales could be "terfs" or "bigots" trying to warn others? I do believe the majority are real, because we know detrans individuals have come out & spoke how they made a terrible mistake.

pacmanla · 2022-05-29T16:21:55+00:00

Good for him that he's going back to presenting (since he never stopped being male) as his natal sex. Too bad his SO wants to continue the charade as presenting as a "straight" couple. I wish guys like him would just admit that they're attracted to feminine presenting males & acknowledge they're still attracted to males. Just males who may have artificially made themselves appear as "women". I honestly don't have a problem with that & wish them nothing but the best. It's the lying to themselves & others, as well as trying to redefine sexuality that I take issue with.

pacmanla · 2022-05-28T13:10:37+00:00

So he didn't know? I just don't believe it, but I'm happy for the couple from what I gather from the comments. Didn't watch video, just read the comments. "Love is love", but sex is sex also & two males shouldn't have to lie to themselves that they're in a "straight" relationship with each other.

pacmanla · 2021-12-31T06:41:58+00:00

And black people aren't having it. Black female centric forums & black forums in general have already been lambasting the trans "movement". Malik Yoba got HEAVILY criticized from black centric media about being "trans" attracted & "expanding" the definition of heterosexuality. Yeah, TRAs really shouldn't do that, because they'll be in for a rude awakening.

pacmanla · 2021-12-31T06:33:54+00:00

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 STANDING OVATION👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

pacmanla · 2021-12-31T06:18:51+00:00

Are these people serious? I mean....really? I don't even know what to say. I've never seen a "movement" where it's "civil rights" issue, is that of having others being sexually available to them.

pacmanla · 2021-12-11T13:44:40+00:00

It's a deceptive jedi mind trick they try to enact on others. The word "trans" means to transition to something else. But, you can't transition into another sex, & you're still a female. So, you're not going to be in a gay man's sexual orientation. These people, continuously play dumb, or just don't care.

pacmanla · 2021-12-05T07:40:11+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I definitely find it horrendous that you have straight men shaming & trying to guilt lesbians into sleeping with them. I feel the same with women during the same to gay men. As far as the attempt into shaming & guilting straight people into being into "identities" & not sex, yeah, that ain't happening & they know it. Doesn't matter how much trans billionaires pour into this nonsense, it's not happening. The heterosexual men & women harassing the LGB community, is weird & strange to me as well. I sorta get the straight dudes larping as lesbians (classic predator behavior of getting off on making women uncomfortable), but the women shaming gay men into wanting vagina, I sorta don't get. Women don't have any problems getting a man & there are plenty of men more than willing to "take the vagina". So why force it on the group of men who's not interested & can't be? Narcissism? I honestly don't know.

pacmanla · 2021-12-05T03:33:24+00:00

Again, this is not a civil rights issue. Gay men don't want to sleep with you, because you're FEMALE!!! I miss the times when gay, lesbian, & straight, meant what was to be implied. Gay men are same-sex attracted. If you are a female, then gay men need not apply. Again, this whining, & article writeups, will not change 99.5% of society's sexuality being sex based. It just won't & this continuously charade of trying to make it a civil rights issue is laughable.

pacmanla · 2021-11-22T01:50:46+00:00

Exactly. I get sick & tired of hearing the "what about post-op" argument/talking point/nonsense. They're still males & it's STILL not a vagina.

pacmanla · 2021-11-18T09:08:44+00:00

Why do they believe the only difference between males & females are genitals? They never bring up secondary sexual characteristics that separate males & females.

pacmanla · 2021-11-13T23:10:26+00:00

So basically, a sexual orientation.

pacmanla · 2021-11-06T03:49:22+00:00

I think in the social climate today, people just want to be seen as "different". I'm with you on this as well & it's like living in the twilight zone, with so many heterosexuals not wanting to be seen as such.

pacmanla · 2021-11-04T19:16:09+00:00

Are you serious??? Wow, can't believe it has come to this.

pacmanla · 2021-11-01T20:21:36+00:00

You're in "fear" because gay men won't be sexually attracted to you, because you're female? I wonder if she's sexually attracted to transmen?

pacmanla · 2021-11-01T07:19:12+00:00

Even Blaire White doesn't pass without lighting & certain camera filters. There was a picture someone posted of him sitting somewhere, without camera filters & just him in a natural setting. You could see that it was Blaire, but he was obviously male, who looked like a male dressed as female.

pacmanla · 2021-10-30T02:16:14+00:00

Agree 1000%

pacmanla · 2021-10-29T06:23:56+00:00

If you find that when dating, you are writing off entire groups of people, like people of colour, fat people, disabled people or trans people, then it’s worth considering how societal prejudices may have shaped your attractions.

"People of colour", fat people, & disabled people, are still their biological sex & aren't denying that. Trans are the only group asking others, including the group this person tried shoehorning them into, to deny biological sex & show sexual/romantic interest in them. "People of colour", disabled & fat people, are still men & women, who themselves aren't going to deny their sexual orientation is based on sex. By definition sexual orientation is exclusive. "Societal pressures" have nothing to do with inate sexuality & someone being sexually attracted to females (meaning females' sex organs which includes vagina 🙀🙀🙀), & not being attracted to males (including their sex organs which includes penis).

Sexual orientations are exclusive by nature, being based on sex & all. Always have, always will be. Whining about lesbians being lesbians, gay men being gay, or heterosexuals being heterosexual, get with those into you; because you're not getting rid of sexuality being based on sex. It's just not happening.

pacmanla · 2021-10-27T21:09:24+00:00

So basically, he's happy he found a gay or bi man.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T23:01:04+00:00

" Genital preferences" is the dumbest thing I've heard of. It's called a sexual orientation & whining about it will not change that. This is just bullying, coercive talk. I just saw a thread where a transman was complaining that a transwoman had "real men only" in their profile 😂😂😂. You can't make this up, they even know this crap is nonsense.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T18:29:30+00:00

Basically, still harassment by males.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T00:23:20+00:00

This is so stupid. My sexual orientation is based on sex. Calling people "transphobes" isn't going to get rid of sexual orientations, & trying to make this an issue is very silly. You can't police others bedrooms, & no one is owed sexual or romantic interest.

pacmanla · 2021-10-24T21:41:35+00:00

How is this not seen for what it is: self-internalized homophobia.

pacmanla · 2021-10-23T02:39:57+00:00

Yes, this. I really want Reddit to enforce this in heterosexual male dominated subreddits.

pacmanla · 2021-10-21T19:33:04+00:00

😄😄😄 Really, I've never noticed this. What's the issue?

pacmanla · 2021-10-21T19:31:28+00:00

I just type their biological sex in parentheses, when discussing them. Example: transwoman (male); transman (female).

Just something I do myself, because I simply can't refer to a biological male as a "woman" anything & not clarify it.

pacmanla