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[–]pacmanla 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As a heterosexual male, I definitely find it horrendous that you have straight men shaming & trying to guilt lesbians into sleeping with them. I feel the same with women during the same to gay men. As far as the attempt into shaming & guilting straight people into being into "identities" & not sex, yeah, that ain't happening & they know it. Doesn't matter how much trans billionaires pour into this nonsense, it's not happening. The heterosexual men & women harassing the LGB community, is weird & strange to me as well. I sorta get the straight dudes larping as lesbians (classic predator behavior of getting off on making women uncomfortable), but the women shaming gay men into wanting vagina, I sorta don't get. Women don't have any problems getting a man & there are plenty of men more than willing to "take the vagina". So why force it on the group of men who's not interested & can't be? Narcissism? I honestly don't know.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I assume the testosterone use and crushing psychological need for external validation are factors here. As a heterosexual women, I don't 'get' the desire for gay men (or anal sex, for that matter). Yes, a lot of gay men are objectively attractive, but to me, gay guys are just an automatic 'no-go'. I can't even envision how that dynamic is supposed to work.

I guess a lot of these people (likely teenagers) are just immersed in a fantasy world of yaoi or whatever (I don't really follow manga and anime, but I'm aware it's a factor) and completely detached from reality.