ColonizationExcuse me, lesbians, can you overlook my transness and date me, pwease? 🥺 It's just a label, after all!

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[–]hufflepuff-poet 40 insightful - 3 fun40 insightful - 2 fun41 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Ok then why don't you "look beyond the label" and date a straight or bi woman who could actually be attracted to you, why does it HAVE TO BE A LESBIAN?! Oh, because it's a fetish and not a genuine sexual orientation, so tired of these disgusting predators and their incessant whining, grow tf up. 🙄

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

why does it HAVE TO BE A LESBIAN?!

Fetish.

[–]Chipit 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eh, I don't think it's a fetish.

What it is is a tremendous longing to feel accepted. Being a "lesbian" and being with a bona fide lesbian would be a dream come true for this person. These weirdos are weird af, that's why they're always wanting to be a part of someone else's ingroup. They're not attracted to their own kind - of course! Kinda grosses them out, honestly.

[–]MyLongestJourney 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"I worry no lesbian will want me because I am trans".

No.Lesbians will not want you because you are male.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Another example of TRAs twisting language for their own needs, by framing it as though the lack of attraction is due to the person's"transness" instead of the reality, that the lack of attraction is due to the person's biological sex. They use that to then shame young impressionable lesbians into believing that their sexual orientation is bigoted and "exclusionary". Lesbians aren't attracted to males regardless of their gender identity but many lesbians have no problem dating "trans men".... because they're female. So yeah, lesbians aren't transphobic but most trans people are deeply homophobic.

[–]pacmanla 29 insightful - 14 fun29 insightful - 13 fun30 insightful - 14 fun -  (1 child)

A good portion, probably a majority of "cis" lesbians would date trans lesbians.

I smell gas

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 16 insightful - 12 fun16 insightful - 11 fun17 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

I smell cope.

[–]Rag3 21 insightful - 12 fun21 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

Date a transbian then. I’ll wait. 😂

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Perverted straight man with a lesbian fetish. Go fucking date bi or straight women who actually like men, leave lesbians the fuck alone.

[–]Mermer 13 insightful - 10 fun13 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

On behalf of bisexual community, we decline.

[–]serf_n_terfStraight Ally - Surf’s up! 🏄‍♀️ 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s a no for me. 😐

[–]our_team_is_winning 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty sure straight women want men, not guys in drag with severe LARPing disorders. Same for bisexuals -- attracted to healthy men, healthy women -- not messed up fetishists.

The dating pool for cross dressing fetishists is limited to those with really low self-esteem (potential victims).

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

Ugh, the use of that emoji in this context makes me want to vomit, lol.

[–]censorshipment 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (13 children)

"Date whoever wants to date you (based on your sexuality, ofc)" has been my advice for anyone in this situation.

My girlfriend isn't my preferred type... she's more masculine than me lol... but I was soooo tired of dating femmes and tried a new type. She brought out my soft/feminine side and dominates the fuck out me. 🥵🤣

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

Awww you got a soft femme side. Who knew. By domming do you mean you getting dildo invaded? lol I still can't stand the bullshit this thing of associating being femmine or soft with submission.

[–]censorshipment 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

Oh no, no toy usage. I mean in general... like she makes me sleep when she sleeps instead of me staying up until 6am. She literally says "go to sleep", and I close my eyes. Dominance.

I believe in stereotypical gender (masculine and feminine) traits... and being submissive and soft will always be feminine to me. 🤷

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

Sexist gender roles are cancer.

Could never tolerate someone telling me what to do.. I didn't even like to obey my parents as kid and always wished for my 18th birthday, let alone obeying a woman. But wouldn't even want to tell someone else what to do. I believe in believe in freedom and relationship that doesn't control. But it's nice you found a new part of yourself who likes to be bossed around lol

[–]censorshipment 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

Not sexist at all. Just gotta own it. 🤷

And well, I am the same... I hate authoritative people, but there's something about this specific woman telling me what to do... maybe because she's been told what to do all of her life, even now in her 40s, and now she gets to boss someone around. I enjoy being that person she finally gets to control... and her lesbian therapist said we may be a good match.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Thats definition of sexism to say feminine is submissive and masculine is dominance.

It's cute that you giving her a sense of control she never had. You really got a sensitive soft side. Who tell her what to do, as an adult though? Lesbian therapist sounds cool. My therapist was super cool too, but an hetero male psychiatrist who smoked tons of fags in front me. Hope he won't die for lung cancer LMAO

[–]censorshipment 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

It's biological... not sexist.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

That's like saying that women oppression is natural and fair and women are biologically meant to be controlled by the masculine part of the population. It's beyond repulsive bullshit.

[–]JulienMayfair 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I read posts like these, it sounds like someone unintentionally engaging in an act of public self-diagnosis. Look at the wording: "I realized that I am a lesbian because I feel a sense of longing whenever I see or think of other lesbian couples."

This is someone whose erotic/romantic life is lived through elaborate fantasies of what relationships should be like -- and who is afraid that these fantasies cannot be sustained in the real world. It's a 25 year-old who's still ruminating on relationships like someone in their early teens.

[–]Mermer 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

OH MY GOD ANOTHER TYPE OF PICK ME

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ya know what? I get a feeling when I see a young gay couple. More like a longing for something that will not be. I am happily in a relationship with an opposite sex partner but I do sometimes wonder if I would have found a pretty girl when I was young if I wasn't so afraid, indoctrinated by religion and uncomfortable expressing that side of me.

I am happy those young kids are so cute and in love and that they can walk down the street without people harassing them (just creepy old me nodding my head as if to say we've come so far in my 30+ years on this earth)

Now we are going way too far with these weird ass men who can't separate fantasy from reality.

Leave these lesbian girls (and gay boys) alone!!! Go perv on other middle aged balding princesses or transdudes with fake peckers respectively.