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SailorMoon2020 · 2021-01-12T05:17:30+00:00

I don't know...it would seem the actual lesbians turned the thread into a strap on topic. That was smart of them. I guess they're evolving.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-14T11:50:16+00:00

A late bloomer isn't someone who figures out she's gay, it's someone who accepts she's gay. She's often someone who:

-forms a relationship with a male due to societal expectations and obligations

-having no sexual or romantic feelings for her partners, simply going through the motions so as those around her are happy

-putting others above her own happiness

Everybody's situation is different. I believe we are born this way. I do not believe in sexual fluidity. I believe people simply hide, supress, or deny their urges and/or feelings due to the negative consequences that could or will arise within the environment of the individual. Once an individual is in a more tolerant environment, they often come to terms with who they are and for the first time begin to think of their own happiness and it becoming a reality.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-03T21:05:07+00:00

Agree. I also think that when they call us TERFS, we call them RCA=Rape Culture Advocate. Think this name is quite accurate to the likes of them.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-16T21:16:27+00:00

They need to make that sub private or it'll be gone in less than a month.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-04-13T17:22:39+00:00

There's already a sub called r/cislesbians and it's private.

I think a sub could survive if the mods play through game right. There's a game to Reddit and those who do not play right get banned.

Create a public lesbian sub reddit. Shadow ban people and keywords.

I have a bot called Res that you can get on google. I've filtered out keywords like dick, trans, terfs, trans women, girldick, etc. I may also filter out bi, bisexual, etc too but we'll see. So any post that has these keywords, any comments that has these keywords won't show for me.

Reddit is much more pleasant now.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-12T01:36:58+00:00

This sub reddit is just old timing bisexuals in denial of their bisexualism.

The comment about breeding is interesting. I haven't the desire to breed with a male but do desire to create an off spring with a female. Like in the Sims 4.

You know, in Japan, they've been experimenting with female sperms for a while. Maybe one day, it'll happen.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-11-19T03:32:45+00:00

Women aren't children, darling; they, we can hold our own. If your wittle weelings wre wurt then you're no different than those women who like to treat other women with passive aggressive behavior, or condescending statements as if every thing has to be explained to them like they're five.

Grow up.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-18T17:02:01+00:00

You know, this is something I'm curious about. What rights do trans people not have exactly? We as gay peeps can get married and now we're not able to be discriminated against at public employment positions due to the recent ruling. Good. That ruling also includes trans people. So what rights do they not have? The bathroom bullshit? (Which isn't a problem for passing trans.)

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-17T00:10:05+00:00

I don't see how anything would happen to this place unless the mods fall asleep or elect other mods to mod without verifying them. That's what happened to AL, the mods just fell asleep and put men in charge. What happened with Reddit in general is their stance on inclusion. For this site to care about inclusion or lack of free speech, there would need to be a massive growth in numbers and advertisers.

Besides, there are sites like Ruqqus, Voat, LSA, DL, L Chat from what I know. And of course there will be others as sites continue to grow and evolve.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-05-27T20:56:53+00:00

Kelani was getting dragged to pieces. Maybe if there weren't vids of her talking about "sucking good d*ck", "he can nut in me anytime", constant drama for stealing some woman's man, people might have taken her sexuality more seriously.

To me, she's just another bisexual tired of men. I rather have Elliot Page on my time line than fake lesbians. I can deal with fake trans peeps.

Edit: My apologies. Lesbians can like dick now.Totally forgot. (Also I didn't mean to reply directly to you. I accidentally hit the wrong reply button while browsing the comments).

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-29T11:51:59+00:00

I believe it's something else. Ellen had a problematic history for her show since the beginning. Complaints can be found years, years ago regarding sexism and racism. She was untouchable, and most if not all the complaints were brushed under the rug. It was usually always the gay men and black people/employees who would often file these complaints, or speak openly about mistreatment. Now with BLM, the studio was rumored to have been made aware an article was going to be published by former black employees. They were warned and I think the studio wanted to get ahead of the curve by saying, "we're looking into it" before it got too out of hand.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-30T20:25:12+00:00

I also feel like them saying 'bottom' is an easy and acceptable way of saying pillow princess.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-21T22:23:47+00:00

I concur yet also see a different pov. There was a post on AL that read, "Transwomen are more supported on this sub then WOC".

That post got dozens of awards, reached the front page, and had a thousand or so upvotes. So needless to say, if dozens of WOC who are bisexual or homosexual feel they can't post because they won't receive the same support as trans, then maybe there are tons of women lurking and not posting.

I personally believe the MODS of AL are blocking post and uplifting trans ones since the MODS are trans.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-05T01:29:30+00:00

Those people just want something to bitch about. They complain about diversity then when they get it, they don't support it.

Example: they were all bitching about that Kristen Stewart movie being all white (and it is), but when A New York Christmas Wedding came out...silence.

It's not like people didn't know about that movie. The same forums, threads, and websites that mentioned Happy Go Lucky Swimming in the Sea Seasons, also mentioned A New York Christmas wedding.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-19T17:45:07+00:00

I concur with Violet. Also how did you find this place because most of the peeps here have been kicked out of main stream lesbian places? Since you believe what you believe, you'll do fine in main stream online lesbian places. We're outcast and do not associate with LGBT culture, with some may be associating with LGB. If you're not an outcast, if you believe the beliefs of that of lgbt main stream culture, what is your motivation for wanting to come here? You'll be welcomed in other spaces....we won't.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-09T17:29:44+00:00

I was actually skeptical of the 15,000 sub count. Once it got over 5000, I no longer believed it was homosexual women subscribed. Although I was not subbed but just browsed, in my opinion, that number was just way too high for it to only be homosexual women. Same with this place. Once it goes past 5000, I'm gonna become skeptical.

I like that people leave us alone here. I also like there's no trans talk here. Before Reddit told subs to not bash trans, TL constantly had post about what transbians were saying, etc. I don't care about trans people; I don't care what they're saying nor doing in regards to a community I'm not apart of (lgbt+). So once Reddit banned TL from trans bashing, the sub got a lot better. There was more discussion, more quality post about female homosexuality. Then two weeks later Reddit banned it.

I do not think this sub is dead. It will take time for it to grow as all things. The post here have more quality discussion. The post here are honest and up front because we're not walking on egg shells. I like it so far.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-16T00:34:06+00:00

Agreed, but I also think it has to do with lesbians since the first documentation of female same sex attraction were always secretive with only a select group being welcome into the fold.

It's like a luxury for lesbians to be with other lesbians, and if one doesn't have the money then their options are small and few.

Also, I think we don't really support businesses aimed at us. I know trans people are all over sites like Reddit but in real life, have y'all actually met one? The reality of it is most of those trans women on Reddit are ridiculously unattractive and unappealing to look it. Rarely do they ever have the balls to leave their keyboard. I understand the desire to blame the trans on this one but the reality of it is, lesbians tend to just not gravitate to places geared for us or targeted toward due to already having inner circles being established.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-07-29T19:06:04+00:00

Agreed. In fact, there was an article years ago that mentioned boys in the U.K did this because it was so hot. Girls apparently have the option to wear skirts or shorts but boys apparently at this school only had the option to wear pants, so they went to school one day in skirts.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-19T17:53:19+00:00

It is suspicious since op says

but if you guys are uncomfortable with that and want a space free of people with my beliefs then i can find somewhere else to go

there are dozens of forums, websites, etc that believe Op's beliefs. Why choose the one place that differs from the current norm? =/

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-11-04T13:17:05+00:00

This. Although I don't do online dating and haven't done it in a long time, there is an app I'd like to try if it ever comes out. If it does get released, I'm going to be putting "HP fanatic" in my profile. It really is an easy way to weed out a lot of the bs I have no interest in.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-18T19:37:08+00:00

Agree. Also think confidence and self esteem in one's sexuality plays a role. I too find some men attractive and I will say, "he's very handsome". That's it. There's no romance, no sexual attraction there at all. Lord knows I've tried back when I was young and ashamed of myself.

I feel the same way about gender identity too. The reason we have over 100 genders is because people believe you can not be this if you do that. You can not be that if you do this. This lack of assurance and confidence in just saying, "hey, I'm a woman and I like to have short hair and not shave my underarms-so what". Or "I'm a man and I like to wear skirts and paint my nails-so what" is what prompted so many of these new labels of agender, binary, nonary, gender fluid, even trans. It's fear of not being the average and/or idol woman or man.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-21T21:43:13+00:00

Well, r/cislesbians, r/reallesbians, r/homosexualwomen, are there but private. R/lesbianspace, r/actuallylesbian, and r/lesbianactually are up. These subs have more women than trans because one sub is mellow. The other one one isn't allowed to mention they're trans because it's irrelevant, and the other is filled with women posting pictures. Picture subs don't tend to have too many trans because they don't pass and often get downvoted.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-15T06:14:50+00:00

I honestly think it's because the sub didn't go private. Sub likes cislesbians and homosexual women are still up, just private. My favorite sub and the only reason I went on Reddit besides for browsing True Lesbians now and again was r/Drama. It went private because two post about trans people went to r/all and Reddit admins came at them. Oh how, I miss r/drama.

Oh, I miss thee.

For I'd read you while I sat in a tree.

On the toilet about to pee.

R/drama

Without you, where do I go to read about stupid people doing stupid stuff

Woe is I for life is now tough

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-18T14:25:30+00:00

This dude has gotten numerous surgeries based off of his post history. He got surgery on the face, the boobs, and the butt. He looks like he wants to be a Kim K knock off. Looks like a porn star. No woman wants a pornstar.

Funny because there are plenty of pretty actual woman posting in that sub and they barely get 100 upvotes. But these men are getting brigades and getting thousand of upvotes.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-17T00:14:56+00:00

To be honest, if OP doesn't post the sub then I'm gonna assume this is just an "I'd like to be the opposite sex for a day because" joke, kind of like in that L Word episode where the British women asked them all at Kit's diner what would they do if they had a dick, how big, etc. Shane said, "I don't need a dick to fuck girls." I know me and my friends played that one night driving to campus.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-13T00:45:21+00:00

It's not bad per se; it's like white boys who call themselves gangstas, until they actually meet them.

There's a whole culture to studs which is associated with black and Hispanic and/or those who grew up in such environments.

Stud culture centers around masculinity and misogyny; where as, white lesbian culture centers around feminism, regardless if the lesbian is butch or femme, generally speaking.

I don't think I ever heard a white butch call another woman a bitch in a broad, pride, arrogant manner. When you're in an environment with studs, you will. Bitches, hoes, whores, sluts, it will be said.

Going to Dinah Shore then going to Houston Splash is like going to two different countries.

I think the people who do not like white studs are those who think the studs are cultural appropriating, are ignorant, or are breaking up a community that was once very much against masculinity, misogyny, patriarchy, hetero normative roles and confirming to a community that is the complete opposite.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-17T00:03:35+00:00

I like how you say 'Christian'. I'd love to find a woman who also believes. It doesn't matter if she's Christian, Jewish, or heck, even Muslim.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-15T23:00:56+00:00

This is for the best. Let them eat each other up and turn on one another.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-21T21:51:56+00:00

Because transmen aren't as aggressive as transwomen. They still walk with their tail between their legs. Another thing is those gay subs allow for transmen to post and interact, it's just the population of the sub prefers to not fuck with them. It's like r/lesbianactually or r/actuallylesbian, they(trans) can post and interact there but rarely do because the population rather not fuck with them like that.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-01T21:58:30+00:00

It's a pretty bad one since El is an adult, 30 years or so. Kiera was a kid when she started hormones.

Call me a skeptic but I honestly do not believe El is getting on hormones nor getting surgery. I also think this is why El emphasis being 'neither man nor woman'. It's a way for El to be trans but not...trans.

Let's give it six months.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-16T22:46:36+00:00

No ma'am. The mods were arrogant too and insisted they weren't gonna get banned after the changes they made. Lgbdtt remained open too but they chose to do that and even was advertising saidit for a few months due to the modbot shouting it to the hill tops. TL was just in denial about it all.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-27T18:18:44+00:00

One thing I never understood is why people do not communicate sexual compatibility prior to doing anything sexual. Whether its a one night stand, a friends with benefits, or a committed relationship, communication of the wants and needs prior to getting in bed with one is important.

I, myself, am not really into giving oral so as a result, I tend to search for women who are either pleasers or submissive because these types of women tend to not care about receiving oral. I don't have time to be writing post on Reddit or Saidit about red flags that even those all the way in Tibet could see.

You say yourself the sex is phenomenal. Apparently not if you made this post. So which is it? Is it phenomenal and you're okay with your woman not going down on you for the duration of the relationship or is it lackluster and you in fact do want her to go down on you?

I'm not going to write a book but from this post and your previous post, this is an unhealthy relationship. You are a woman, an adult female, if you are not able to take charge of this relationship nor act accordingly to what this relationship is demanding of you then I look forward to your next post.

Step up. Tell her what you want. If she says, 'no' then the two of you sit and form a compromise. If she does not desire to compromise or even you then one or the other, or both needs to end the relationship.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-21T21:34:27+00:00

Holy fucking shit balls.

See they should have made it private.

Edit: The problem is, they did the same mistake as TL. Thought civil discourse would save them. No, if you want a lesbian sub, you have you make it private. Stop playing nice ffs.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-26T17:47:59+00:00

Not gonna lie. Tiktok has some fine ass homosexual women on there. Most of them don't succumb to the tra bs either, so it's a plus.

As for this rapper, well, even straight rappers go on and on about sex, I mean WAP=wet ass pussy is still beating the charts.

There was also this Swedish lesbian rapper who's hit song was literally her saying, "I smoke weed and eat pussy all day" through out the entire song. Young Ma is the same. Talking about, "you wanna fuck, I got my strap in the closet"..."You call her Stephianie, I call her Headphonie.." lol, I like that line though.

The entire rap genre genre (outside of Christian rap) is pretty much based around sex and drugs with few exceptions.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-22T02:15:15+00:00

I don't have a favorite lesbian movie; I don't watch a lot of movies to begin with. I've rewatched Below Her Mouth numerous times(on mute) but I really like the sex scenes in that movie. But my favorite non lesbian movies are The Lion King and The Prince of Egypt.

So let's just say Below Her Mouth (sex scenes) and The Lion King and Prince of Egypt. I honestly can't think of any similarities these two animated movies have with Below Her Mouth.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-12-01T21:24:32+00:00

He's a dick so it makes sense he desires to be one. Once I started reading her comments about people who believe in God, go to church, forever riding Chris Pratts' balls, it was a no go.

I don't care about this person. Always thought they were just Kristen Stewart 2.0. I don't care for her either. Maybe she'll transition soon.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-19T18:04:03+00:00

Yep, you're a troll. Playing the victim when no perps are around. Let us not entertain this person. They are not geniuine. Report and move on. Something tells me this person is from another place and is trying to stir up drama for the sake of that other place. Y'all know what I mean.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-10T19:53:42+00:00

This already happens. You just gotta be social and get in with them. I'm not gonna name names on here but lesbian make up gurus, are forever having parties in LA, Houston, Atlanta. If they have an Instagram, they're probably into gatherings. Hit 'em up. There are two very popular make lesbian gurus...just saying.

In fact, there was this one make up guru trying to get a party going during now(Covid 19).

If you're in Europe: Københaven, Stockholm, London, Praque.

Also depends on the type of scene you're into and ladies you're into.

Social gatherings are everywhere but you have to be social. If you're looking for it, it's there already. I'm not just talking about relationships but connections in regards to careers, living arrangements, sponsorship, etc.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-08T17:33:43+00:00

I honestly did not want to be the weird one...although I don't think it's too weird.

For me, I like having my chin stroked. Having my stomach rubbed. Also women performers specifically dancers and theatre actresses. Watching a woman on stage is divine. And a woman's laughter. These are my four mellow turn ons.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-26T13:05:10+00:00

Seeing is believing This is probably the closet I could find of my hair type. My curls are tighter, a bit more volume, less red but over all pretty accurate.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-24T17:54:28+00:00

And the person looks like this

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-10T23:01:32+00:00

We're having an influx of trolls. Wonder if mods can set sub to private prior to getting invites. Kind of reminds me of this book where these women go and live on new planet only for a ship of two men come onto the planet. One of the men attempts to rape a woman inhabitant of the planet. The men are killed while the woman of the crew remains on the planet.

Now op's post could be authentic but given the previous new post along with a comment, and all three having been from very new accounts. Nah.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-10T18:35:55+00:00

During that time she identified as 'queer' and didn't identify as a lesbian until she met me.

You already answered your question, Op. It's up to you to admit it to yourself.

It's easy for women to say they're queer. It's easy for women to say they are a lesbian. It's extremely difficult for women to say, "I am a homosexual female". It's even difficult for women to say, "I am gay".

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-19T17:07:15+00:00

I too didn't watch the video(on phone, will watch soon) but if this is the case as you and another pointed out, this is disappointing.

It's disappointing because about two or so days I made a comment on another thread saying along the lines, 'why are we (lesbians) so passive compared to our brothers (gay men)?'

If this was an interview of the mods of r/askgaybros then it would be much more in your face.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-24T14:47:24+00:00

Lol, I thought you were gonna go into detail,op.

Anywho, I'd prefer a woman who believes, who has faith regardless if who their entity is. A woman who is active and tries to live a fit, healthy lifestyle. Upon working from home, I've been able to do more work out and exercisng. I even have a v-cut, a goal of mine that I had since working from home. I'm attempting to be able to do the splits. Also notice, stamina and endurance has increased greatly. Now can last much longer when playing tennis or swimming. So being active can really provide numerous benefits both physically and even mentally.

Someone who also speaks another language. I'm able to speak Spanish and Danish. Currently learning German. Someone who is more feminine than I. I'm not a butch/stud by any means but just average woman. Woman who wear high heels or, make up, hair and nails done, the stereotype of what it means to be feminine.

Regards to a relationship besides the above, I seek monogamy, and a partner who can be a bit adventurous regarding sex. Someone who is independent and has their own hobbies, that preferably aren't the same as mine except reading and exercising. I think space is important and helps prevents co-dependency.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-18T21:29:33+00:00

If a woman touches you and/or plays with her hair when speaking with you, she's flirting and/or interested in you depending. Pay attention to culture if its relevant. I work in a department that deals with languages so I have employees who are from Africa, South America, Asia, Europe and of course, good ole' USA. One woman who was/is from Ukraine would talk to me and touch me, and laugh and play with her hair a lot. Besides from what Gaycation w/ Ellen Page taught me, I don't know a lot about Eastern Europe besides for Praque, but I do know their stance on LGBT.

So when this Ukrainian woman would touch me and giggle, I noticed(as well as my co-workers especially my eastern European co-workers but that's whole 'notha story). She would invite me to lunch. She bought me a new wallet because she noticed I had a turn up wallet when we went out to eat one time. She enjoyed having me over and playing with her VR and kill zombies while she watched. She was married. The man she is with is the only man she's ever been with. She is not happy in it. She kind of felt forced in it. He is Russian.

Another example is when this Mexican American woman I dated. She was/is from a conservative Baptist upbringing which was already strange to me since Mexican Americans tend to be mostly Catholic and Latins in general. Because she came from this ultra religious background, again, her touching me and playing with her hair were all acts that is a no-no due to the lack of modesty, sexual implication, lack of purity, etc.

So in other words, body language: touches, hair, laughter.

Culture and/or religious background: how normal is it for such actions to take place?

Another example, women from Asia China, Japan, S. Korea, India, Iran etc tend to be touchy with each other; so if a woman from one of these countries is touching you or laughter, etc. I wouldn't look too into it.

Now American women are touchy, and open with women they're friends with. If a woman who is not your friend is being overly touching and/or open with you, she's probably interested. Women who let you use their car. I dated this one woman back in college because I figured she was into me when I told her I was going to Gamestop to get a video game. I was going to walk because I didn't have a car then. She then sent me a text and told me to stop by her class to get her keys.

Hope this helps, sorry for the essay.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-17T01:40:42+00:00

I'll end up in the Slytherin probably house since ever since I was a kid, every time I took the test, I always ended up in Slytherin. So excited. I'm hoping we can also form romantic relationships within this so we'll see.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-27T19:27:47+00:00

This is interesting. Same, even as an adult, I still get that but from women. It was always girls/women saying that.

Like you, gaining friends and being social wasn't hard. I often didnt have a set clique I hung out with but interacted with majority of those in my grade and others. Even now I don't know how I was weird(besides for being a bit aggressive and forward-but hardly call that weird), but one thing that stands out that when I was in high school during lunch, a girl said, "If you were a guy I would totally fuck you" and to see all the other girls at the same table as I agree was just really weird to me.

Women are weird around other women they deemed to be 'weird'.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-23T19:03:03+00:00

That last tidbit reminds me of when this one transgirl got upset that every one was hug boxing her on that sub. She said she had to go to 4chan and get honest feedback about her looks. Lol

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-03-28T16:15:32+00:00

Y'all keep saying this but no one has yet to provide proof. If it is true these users post cp, then why haven't y'all taken screenshots or screen recordings, and submitted them to the FBI, or better yet, the media.

Y'all said this about the Super Straight sub and I was on that sub even as it went banned. I was browsing new post and then when I refreshed, the sub was banned. Never saw any CP or porn in general on the sub.

The FBI isn't going investigate heresy. Rape and child molestation are serious accusations. So unless someone is able to provide a zip folder of undisputed evidence then I suggest dropping it.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-21T18:10:17+00:00

Oh lord, we got our stereotypical bisexual here now. One who is confused and doesn't want anything serious with women beyond that of sex.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-17T16:07:33+00:00

I don't remember that. I do remember it going private after the first ban wave then they stupidly opened back up to the public. They had a sticky post of all the new rules and regulations. When users in the comments asked if they should remain private or create a back up, the Mods kept saying, "no, we made the changes...all will be well" etc. Then two weeks later it was banned. And the folks in r/drama laughed.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-18T18:17:33+00:00

I watched a documentary last night that is on Netflix(I don't have NF so I watched it through other means). Anywho, the documentary was produced by Ryan Murphey; he's the creator and producer of shows like Popular, Glee, American Horror Story, Feud to say the least. The movie is called A Secret Love. It's about these two Canadian women(they moved to Chicago early in their relationship) who fell in love during the 1940s and didn't tell a soul until about four or so years ago. They had been together for about 64 years by the time the documentary was produced. They got married last year or 2018.

The documentary is absolutely beautiful and sad because one of them does pass on in 2019. I would say this is positive because the women met, fell in love, remained faithful to one another, and stayed together until death. Their families were supportive when they finally confessed; they had loving friends to lean on as well, with solid careers that allowed them to live comfortably.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-16T01:27:07+00:00

In Danish love=elsker. To be in love/infatuation= forelsker. Kan godt lide=like. Lesbian=lesbisk(e) for plural. Bøss(er)=gay. This is a word that kind of just came about after lesbisk came about in like the 1970's or so in Denmark.

Spanish, love=amor, to like=gustar. Lesbian=lesbiana. I actually don't know what gay men use for gay in Spanish. I have a co-worker from Spain and he just uses homosekuel(he's not gay). I know when we moved to Puerto Rico from Denmark, I heard Chingada Madre when used on boys who were feminine or thought to be gay, but that means fucking bitch. I can't believe it...I've been around so many Spanish speakers and I can't think of any (non derogatory) word that may have been used for 'gay'.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-21T19:21:48+00:00

Here two threads focused on books:

https://saidit.net/s/Lesbians/comments/5sk7/looking_for_new_good_lesbian_shows_movies_or_books/

https://saidit.net/s/Lesbians/comments/5ecs/lesbian_books/

There was another thread of foreign lesbian books but couldn't find it. A couple of books I'd add to the list:

The Lies We Tell

Passing For Black

After Dorloas (contains female/female rape)

Herself When She's Missing

Babyji (contains female/female rape)

The books I named I don't believe I suggested yet in the two other threads. They are WLW books regardless of the sexual orientation of the characters.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-11-05T23:35:25+00:00

Op, you right, wtf? No wonder the sub's numbers are going down every day.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-09T01:25:34+00:00

Below Her Mouth because there are so many problematic occurrences in that movie that I'd like to discuss.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-16T00:39:52+00:00

It's funny you mentioned Emma Watson because Hermonie Granger was my one in middle school. I remember reading the Prisoner of Azkaban, and saw there was a chapter missing from the book since it belonged to the library. The chapter was called 'Hermione's Secret'. My little gay self thought the chapter was torn out of the book because Hermione was gay and liked Ginny. Since it still taboo to be same sex-ed attracted, I thought it was torn out to "protect the children".

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-21T01:26:29+00:00

I don't know what happened to Strikeydykey or Bucklehead something, Violet and Flor(hopefully, they hooked up by now because that sexual tension was ri-di-cu-lous )spend their time on other communities. The Swedish woman and the Russian/French speaking Jewess seem to still post here, as well as Movie Night Woman. There are also people who are new and people who aren't new but kind of engaging. It is slow. Maybe because of the holidays, or the bans some peeps got, or the thread deletion.

To answer your question: when I was in 8th grade or 9th grade, there was a night I wanted food. So I went into the kitchen and was about to open the cabinet when I heard my name within the darkness. I looked and no one was there. I didn't get my snack and went back to bed. Told my mom the next morning, and she just said I had the devil in me.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-20T16:45:59+00:00

They gave a shout out to Sailormoon. Hmm hmm hmm.

This was a funny video. I actually used to be into yaoi as a kid and tween because they had more developing stories. However, as I began to adjust and come to my own sexuality, I lost interest in yaoi once I entered high school and started watching shoujo-ai/yuri.

My taste from fanfiction went from Naruto x Sasuke and Harry Potter x Draco Malfoy to Tenten x Tamari and Hermonie x Ginny as I got older.

I had no idea Hinata x Sakura was popular. Currently now, I like shipping Sarada(Sasuke's daughter) with Kieri.

My comment is random but the video is worth watching. It's hilarious and calls out problematic behavior.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-19T02:05:55+00:00

Wait, a minute. Why are you going to r/actualyuri? That sub was literally created to be a trans yuri sub due to the backlash trans people were getting on r/yuri. Yes, r/classicyuri was created to go against the backlash of the backlash the MODS were getting for allowing trans to post on r/yuri.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-23T13:16:23+00:00

I believe in equal rights so if one has it and/or can legally do it then all should have it and legally do it. If one doesn't have it and can't legally do it, then no one can have it and legally do it. Exceptions may have to be changed depending on the amount of racism and/or discrimination one class may have from that of another.

The need for marriage in western society became no longer a need when women were no longer seen as property. Even still, benefits and advantages are granted to those who are married, and unless those same benefits and advantages are rolled over to long term partners then many will still see the benefit of marriage.

When it comes to children, I think it's better for children to be raised in a two parent home, as well as a home in which both male and female role models can be present in the child's life. I think it's very important for a male child to have both a male and female positive example and I think it's important for a female child to have a male and female positive example. When children lack one or the other, we see problematic behavior as the child gets older and transitions into adulthood.

I know this is possible for same sex couples. For example, I have a good lesbian friend who has been married to her wife for 14 years. They have three children all from the same donor. This donor is a family friend and still is involved with the children's life(as in being that male role model as the children get older). If the child ask, "can I see my daddy /do I have a daddy", the parent can say, "he's up the street".

As for adoption, again, I see nothing wrong with same sex couples adopting children with the hope the child will have those roles models. When it comes to cross race adoption, I'm more skeptical depending on the country and the environment. Culture is taught by environment so that's not important(to me). Race is not taught for when the child gets older, they'll begin to obviously see a difference.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-08T16:38:24+00:00

The first girlfriend I met outside of high school, was from a porn website. We both were in the same city. When we spoke, we found out we were going to the same univiersity. We met on campus. She was French Canadian. We broke up because she wanted to move back to Sept Ils. I didn't want to live there beyond the time I've had, so I left.

The second was a Chinese international student, we met at the library on campus. I was studying Chinese with some Taiwanese friends. Her and her friends overheard and began to make comments about Taiwanese not speaking good or correct Chinese. A while fight broke out between the two groups of nationals...fast forward, we broke up because I didn't want to remain in China. I did but she wanted to live in Luzhou, I wanted to live in Chengdu. We didn't compromise.

Came back to the states, got a job at Petco. Met a woman who worked for an org called Austin Pets Alive. She was a feminist...we stopped because she was too promiscuous for my taste even if we weren't committed.

Since moving from Austin to another city, I haven't dated. There was potential with a woman from work but we were co-workers. If I would have known covid was gonna happen, and we'd all be sent home, I would have kept it going.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-28T11:36:43+00:00

Well to be fair, many movies such as these, one woman is actually with a man yet it's often marketed as a lesbian movie when it's often the gay girl who falls for the bi chick.

In fact, has their actually been an actual lesbian movie where both female characters had zero history with men?

I can't think of any.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-25T20:37:44+00:00

Op, I feel ya.

I lost my virginity at 21 to a man. I was in denial about my sexuality. Although I didn't realize it until I got older(high school senior year), the girls I had positive happy feelings for in elementary school or in my CCD class was because I actually liked them, and even would flirt with them.

I didn't want to accept myself though due to my faith in religion. I didn't want to accept myself because of the negative stigma lesbians had that didn't seem to go beyond Jerry Springer.

Once I began to have relationships including sex with males, I felt nothing...with men, it was nothing, no emotion, no love, no arousal, no desire, no want. I would feel empty with men, lonely, and wrong.

Men offered security though because of societal expectations so I pushed through with men, but still, I'd felt empty, lonely, lost, unaroused, no desire, no wanting.

Finally, I said, " I'm gay"...still young, I formed relationships with females and these women had me yearning, longing, wanting, desiring them even more. I didn't feel empty, lost, nor lonely with women. I was happy and felt complete.

Op, if what I said describes your situation above then you could be in denial and gay, a lezzie.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-19T17:17:18+00:00

You get a lightbulb, and you get a lightbulb. Everyone gets a lightbulb!!!!

These are some good answers and I really enjoyed reading them. For me, it would be when she...okay, I don't know what this motion is called...but you know when an evil character in a movie or show has a beard and he constantly rubs his beard from up to downward? I like it when a woman does that to me.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-17T11:42:58+00:00

Speed/agility. I don't care about picking up women. That's what the red pill is for. I'd much rather actually save people whether it be from human trafficking, clean up a neighborhood from gangs and crime lords, partner up with another hero that maybe has the brains to do crazy gadgets that could aid not only us in making the community a better place but also law enforcement(the non corrupt ones who had their butts handed to them).

Peter had all these crazy gadgets in PS4 Spider Man but only kept it to himself. I never understood that, same with Miles. The only excuse that was kind of mentioned was if Spidey were to sell or patent his creations, he'd have to give up his identity. I'd risk it. Afterall, he is protected by the Avengers.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-01-17T04:18:03+00:00

From what friends have told me if you're Christian, conservative and/or reserved, professional then this would be a good site.

My two friends have been with their wives for almost five years or so. I'm a firm believe in "you get what you pay/invest for".

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-01-12T15:22:55+00:00

Kiwifarms is a website that makes fun of people, most trans people and fat people. The fan art thread lol, is them laing all kinds of horrendous art of him.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-11-06T20:58:02+00:00

The consumption of porn and working from home because of the pandemic, gives me more time to browse. Even found two image based websites I bookmarked in my phone.

It'll be hard...I can step away from the videos buyt the images and even the written erotica, will be tough. I am hoping my desire and need for visual lesbian fornication will decrease to where I can enjoy myself more calm-like.

Thanks for the support!

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-11-01T19:11:25+00:00

If this video is for men, why are you posting it here?

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-10T18:19:56+00:00

Rachel Robinson of Road Rules @rachel_fitness, also has a wife and kids

Jackie Warner @jackiewarner10, also has been on some podcast

Lisa Yang and Yek Hernandez who I found on Reddit hanging out in r/flexinlesbians r/queerwomenofcolor and r/lesbiasians. They're married and met at the gym and even are in articles like Penis News, my bad, I mean Pink News, Advocate. I can't find their Instagram though at the moment.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-10-06T13:32:01+00:00

It was awesome!!! I loved high school and I loved elementary school. Middle school was boring. Spent a lot of time stealing books from the library or browsing Harry Potter and Sailor Moon websites, reading fanfiction during lunch since my friends didn't have my lunch.

For HS, it was cool. I was involved in sports and other organizations, so I traveled throughout the U.S. to numerous states and cities for competitions, games, and conferences.

My friend group was small on purpose; however, I still intermingled with different cliques and groups. The school was racially and economically diverse, so you met a lot of kids from different backgrounds.

The school was very open minded. I had plenty of gay male friends. Knew of bisexual and homosexual females. A lesbian couple won couple of the year in one year because everyone loved them together.

Senior year was my play year. Lol I did nothing because I had all my credits already. I was graduating at the top 10% of my class so I was automatically accepted in the college I wanted to go to. And I began to date three girls.

It was innocent though for the most part since none of us knew how to have sex until much later in the year.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-02T17:23:39+00:00

Kind of like that porn thread where lesbians are telling other lesbians it doesn't make them a lesbian if they use certain devices during sex, etc.

There's always going to be stereotypes and rules and regulations of a community regardless of how ironic it is.

Kind of like that movie If the Walls Could Talk 2. In the second part, they debated how butches were horrible, and confirmed to hetero-normative roles. One femme falls for a butch...and well...a whole lot of conflict for her and the community she thought she was apart of.

In other words, there are no rules or regulations to being gay beyond that of same sex attraction. Some people have a closed mind to what is to what isn't. If you don't confirm to a community, do not be afraid to step away from that communinity, scene, or even group of friends. Be you, be true!

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-29T11:36:20+00:00

Europe in general is very different when it comes to rape. For the most part(mostly western Europe, Eastern is a bit more brutal), the rapist will simply be ordered to pay a fine to the victim and if a minor, the victim and family. It would be easier and probably more satisfying for the victim to get her/his own justice. If caught, they'll probably get one to five years in jail, if that, or simply probation.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-22T13:21:00+00:00

I understand. I went through something similar a few months ago and now. I became good friends with this woman and daughter both work colleagues, and the daughter stopped talking to me. I reached out and never got a response.

Last week, the woman of the daughter got upset that I wished another co-worker congratulations due to her not liking this co-worker. She seems to no longer be interested in speaking with me.

I'm not upset, nor mad. I am disappointed. However, OP, it is an escape from a potential red flag situation. These women(the mother and daughter) already had red flags swirling around them. I chose to ignore it. Though nothing detrimental happened, it was enough to say, "This is for the best". People who ghost are red flags regardless of the reason. Why? Because it means they lack communication. Communication is important for any successful relationship. Hope this helps!

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-20T16:18:22+00:00

Hey, that's a good point. When I lived in China for a few years, I used an app called Rela. A Swedish friend of mine used a Swedish site. Forgot the name. A Christian app called Believr is releasing soon(they've been saying that forever). Compatible Partners has good reviews. Let me go search for Spanish apps. And see what I find.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-07-16T12:50:41+00:00

I think we have ourselves to blame for this. Gay clubs and even clubs in general have no problem telling people they don't desire 'no' at the front door even if it's straight up discrimination like the clubs in LA that don't let black women in, or the gay clubs that don't let femmes in.

Everyone knows the gay male community is discrimatory, ignorant, and arrogant and generally speaking, they're okay with having this shallow image portrayed onto them.

So what is it we are afraid of to tell people we do not desire 'no' at the front door? Are we afraid of harrassment, the negative publicity, etc?

Discrimination laws are great but it makes it even harder to exclude those you do not desire without creating an elitist group such as the Hollywood Sewing Circle.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-03-29T14:37:14+00:00

C: 'I think black people are ugly because African features are unattractive to me' - not racist (and what many don't consider an option. This is how most non-racist people who have this specific preference think)

This is racist because it's implying all Africans have the same features. This is incorrect. Africa, known as the birth place of humans, has the most diverse genetic make up on this planet.

Scientist have found features from various different tribes that contribute to the theory of evolution as well the theory of migration. Some African tribes have what is known as European features, others as Asian features, etc.

Another reason this comment is just as racist because it implies any person mixed with black will have "African features". Again, we're not all a monolith and again, due to being mixed our genes are even more diverse. Because black people especially in North and South America are mixed with so many groups, there is no black person who is third our fourth generation that has "African features".

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-09-11T08:53:43+00:00

This is quite accurate since one of the main characters Anthy, has an incestuous sexual relationship with her brother. Utena also has sex with him as well so I'm unsure why OP is saying that characters are lesbian or has lesbian overtones. Even in the manga, Utena is determined to be a 'prince' so as to get with the prince she encounter when as a child.

It's a good anime; the movie is better at show casing the female on female love. However, I wouldn't call it a lesbian anime. It's a shoujo-ai which means girls' love regardless if the characters are homosexual or bisexual.

One episode after Utena witnesses them having sex, the next morning, they talk about the possibility of poisoning each other for this man whom they both love.

There is one character though who actually is homosexual but the woman she likes does not desire her back.

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-17T13:54:46+00:00

You literally just made a comment about turning any girl into a lesbian just so they can fuck you with your super power...

SailorMoon2020 · 2020-08-10T21:37:36+00:00

I agree with this as well. I don't know why it difficult to say homosexual or bisexual but lesbians falls off the tongue so easily. But it's something I noticed with women, especially low self esteem, lack of confidence, not wanting to be shamed-women.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-05-11T02:14:29+00:00

I'm a fan of true crime especially when it involves the lgbt community, and even more so when it's female on female. Female on female sexual assault and rape does happen but rarely does the woman get jail time unless it's statutory rape. This is because woman don't report it or when they do, they're ignored and not taken seriously.

This case of Gordon fascinates me, hopefully that doesn't sound too twisted, because this is a woman that chose to kill another woman because the woman told her 'no'. When women demand sex, they will either force it or be forced away. This is the first time I've heard of a woman killing another woman (not man because there are several cases of women killing men who refuse them sex, usually a spouse or lover) because she didn't want to have sex.

Gordon could have raped the woman. She had the weapon; the victim, Netts, more than likely would have complied. No, Gordon chose to kill her, painfully as well, since the victim was alive for twelve hours as she bled to death from what reports of the autopsy say.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-04-17T00:44:26+00:00

Twitter already has a feature: https://help.twitter.com/en/using-twitter/advanced-twitter-mute-options. However if you search for the word, it'll show. Have you tried this for Twitter? If it doesn't work, I'll search for the bot.

SailorMoon2020 · 2021-03-25T03:14:10+00:00

For Reddit to fall, more attention will have to be bought to their child abuse situation they have on the site. For this to fall, people will have to recognize there is a pedophilia problem in the trans community. For Reddit to fall, Serena Williams have to be affected negatively by it.

Reddit is looking to go public and to keep their IPO safe, they have to stay firm on their site being clean from such controversy.

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