I need advice about my situationship

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T21:52:35+00:00

Yeah, i hate to make assumptions but she sounds like another one of those curious straight girls who fantasise the idea of liking or being with another girl but when it comes to committing, reality hits them in the face .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T21:35:42+00:00

I tend to stay away from people who are all about the no labels crap, that's always a red flag to me when it comes to relashionships and that she's just a confused person but you do what you want to do . Also the fact that she flip flops between a day or two also tells me she's not a very serious person so another red flag for that.

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T20:29:03+00:00

Bisexual lesbians are not a thing and will never be a thing

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T20:25:33+00:00

You're completely full of shit and just making stuff up, i will block you so i won't have the displeasure of reading anymore of your dumb posts, you're just as bad as the TRAs claiming they can be lesbians

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T20:24:04+00:00

If you don't believe lesbians are female homosexuals why are you even on a lesbian sub you moron ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T16:34:39+00:00

And they are also homophobic and lesbophobic too, they claim to be with us when they talk about trans but they secretely talk shit about us and group all of us with them, they aren't our real allies

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-04T03:04:20+00:00

I mean safe in terms of society standards, if they act like they are straight they won't have to deal with homophobia and prejudice in their lives so they choose the easy way.

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T22:34:19+00:00

I think those are trolls to be honest, even most bi women i know have better things to do than do stupid shit like that but the free time and incelness of male trolls knows no boundaries . Also maybe some of those were referring to comphet attraction, as in they believed they were attracted to them because that's what society taught them but when it came to do anything with a man they backed down .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T22:32:51+00:00

She's bi with a preference for women but like most in that category, they choose the safety and het privilege over being free to actually love who they love

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T19:48:43+00:00

Please do this post there, even if it's only up for an hour it would be so interesting to see what their responses are .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T19:47:02+00:00

Because we have to pretend science and nature doesn't exist and trans women are women and not mostly straight white men with a fetish cosplaying as women .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T19:36:14+00:00

Lots of assumptions based on nothing, i think i can get you on the block side since you don't seem like a person who wants to discuss things on good faith, sure the problem is with me and everyone else is in the right, any more lame ass wannabe shrink advice anyone else wants to give ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T16:25:51+00:00

I already know that, i was just explaining it from their mentality which doesn't make sense and it's contradictory

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T16:20:26+00:00

Yeah, but they also allow for as they call it "cis" men to post, which is weird as fuck, i mean they consider transwomen as women but actual straight men men is like wtf ? They don't even pretend to care anymore

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T15:16:59+00:00

The fact that they have an "ally" flag for actual men to post is an absolute atrocity, they know damn well those men are only there for one thing but they don't care because they only care for the sub count and attention and not having dignity and providing safety for a minority to be able to be in a community of their own . Lesbian Actually is a little bit better because that one is mostly pics and not actual discussions to melt your brain and luckily very few trans post there .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T15:13:45+00:00

I just do not understand those freaks, don't they have their own sub or hell like 5 different ones, why would they post on a sub called ACTUAL LESBIANS, the name sub seems more like a parody and not only that but there's also a lot of bi or pan people commentating again on a sub called ACTUAL LESBIANS because we can't be "gatekeepers", even though if a, as a lesbian would comment on a bisexual sub for example, there would be hell to pay, bisexuals are allowed their own community but not us .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T15:06:51+00:00

If you actually bothered to read the rest of the comment instead of just conveniently only quoting just a part of it, you would have seen that i said by other lesbians. Also i don't date people who don't appeal to me and don't care what you dress like, this post is completely pointless

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T02:21:53+00:00

Oh, it's a thing, especially if you watch all those tiktok lesbian or bi teenagers, they love those nose rings, i'm in my mid 20's but i've also seen people my age and older wear those . It's only a matter of time before the straighties jump on the trend just like they jumped on the pink and other weird coloured hair or andro looks and they will have to find something else to feel special .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T02:19:29+00:00

Thank you, it seems this person wants to feel offended for no reason when my post was meant to criticise just some stereotypes in our community, i wasn't talking down to people like her .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T02:11:01+00:00

You've clearly misinterpreted my post, i already said i don't care what people like to wear or how to look if that's their thing, but i do care when people judge me based on an expected lifestyle type of look .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-03T02:04:58+00:00

How about you don't tell me what to do and how i should feel, also don't assume my mental state just on a personal opinion, also about every young person having nose percings and tatoos, we are clearly not living on the same planet

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-02T19:15:43+00:00

Huh, that's interesting, i never got that behaviour from other femmes personally, then again i guess it depends on the country and culture .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-02T18:23:09+00:00

I never said those people aren't valid or you can't like them, the problem is there is kinda of an expectation that once you come to terms with your sexuality you immediately have to change your whole look and style that you had before, start shaving your head or do other crazy stuff and i'm like but why.... i just like the same sex but i'm still the same person that i was before i came out .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-01T19:24:59+00:00

OMG, i love you, you said exactly what's on my mind, the worst ones are the ones who want you to get into threesomes with guys when you specifically tell her you're a lesbian and have no interest in a man, apparently a sexuality for a woman where dick sucking is not involved is too hard to comprehend .

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-01T15:15:31+00:00

But are you straight passing or they are just ignorant ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-09-01T11:15:55+00:00

So because my experience with men has been different than you that means i'm a polilez, fuck off, blocked ! Imagine being so dumb and self absorbed that you couldn't graps the fact of why a woman might hate men, i already said i would hate them regardless of the fact that i'm a lesbian or not, i didn't say you have to hate men to be a lesbian but since you're probably someone who likes to stir shit and start fights for no reason i won't bother with you anymore, it's beneath me .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T22:31:30+00:00

I honestly sometimes wish i was born into an alternate universe where it's the opposite around and everyone was gay and kids would be created in a different way . If you believe in the alternate realities theory maybe it's still possible for one day to slip into one like that, not while we're alive unfortunately .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T22:16:19+00:00

Was the friend a lesbian also ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T17:05:22+00:00

Maybe they are afraid that gay people will have less shittier marriages than them and they don't want to look bad . I mean the domestic abuse stuff will certainly be better than them that's for sure .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:52:02+00:00

Oh so we're neighbours, i'm from Romania, another shithole when it comes to gay rights and movement, but yeah even here things got better in the last few years although it's not likely we will get civil unions and not to mention marriages very soon, we just had a referendum 2 years ago that said that marriage is only legal between a man and a woman but luckily it didn't pass because not enough people showed up at the voting, still at least we don't have to be worried we're going to be killed by stones like people from Arab countries .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:40:09+00:00

Hope you don't mind me asking, but what country are you from exactly ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:32:06+00:00

How many years ago are we talking about, because this whole being LGBT and "kweer" only became a trend in the last decade or so, maybe even less.

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:25:06+00:00

Yeah, i recommend to not bother with straight girls, you're only doing both a disfavor despite how she claims to hate men at the end of the day we can't change our sexualities which is why homophobic people are so dumb to believe the gay agenda is turning straight people gay, but the fact that she called herself a lesbian is a big no no, you should have reined her in imo and explain to her why it's wrong and hurtful to do that if she isn't actually a lesbian .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:14:13+00:00

I think it was a typo and she wanted to say bisluts

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:12:35+00:00

How did that even work if she was straight, did you even had sex together ? And god do i hate those type of people who call themselves lesbians just because they hate men and aren't even bi, they completely make a mockery of our sexuality .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T16:02:50+00:00

Lol, no one said you have to, calm down, i was just asking people's opinion on the subject

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-31T00:18:31+00:00

They call us genital fetishists, what the fuck does that even mean, even the plain old homophobes didn't come up with crazy terms like this, "you don't like men, well you are a genital fetishist" or the reverse if it's a gay guy, why can't the trans date bi or pan people, i meann they already like dick and they also like women(which they think they are), perfect match right ? But no, it specifically has to be lesbians, otherwise how will they live out their long life fantasies of being with a lesbian, the good old toxic male and gross mentality which they claim they aren't but all their actions indicate exactly that .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T23:17:42+00:00

That's cool, thanks for sharing your experience, it's nice to also see an opposite view which is why i said people shouldn't judge other people for what they are into . Also is the wife in question also involved or are you only with that woman ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T23:15:46+00:00

Lol, you're wild !

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T21:14:58+00:00

Would you refuse someone straight who just want to experiment ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T19:28:52+00:00

So you're more like stemme, but i understand why you don't feel you fit into either

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T19:04:24+00:00

Are you butch or femme ?

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T18:27:54+00:00

I would still hate men even if i wasn't a lesbian, personal experience and other people's experience already certified that, i hope you aren't one of those people NoT All MeN, maybe not all men but a great majority of them are trash, that's unfortunately a fact !

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T18:16:41+00:00

I've seen another twitter post that was railing against a tiktok that said bisexual people fetishise WLW relashionships and without even looking up the fact the tik toker in question was herself a bisexual, they couldn't wait to unleash their full on lesbophobia including an absolutely hilarious post that said lesbians are jealous that they have a smaller dating pool than them. Imagine us being jealous of them being attracted to men, i would rather have a smaller dating pool and remaining single for life than ever loving a disgusting creature like a man, men are the absolute worst trash around, just look at anything, the news,outside, literally anywhere and you would see how great men are . And the tik toker was only referring to bisexuals that don't take their female relashionships serious or talk about wanting a gf while being into a relashionship with a man .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T18:08:29+00:00

You know, i wouldn't be surprised if this "woke" type of people just stop giving a shit and say lesbians should date men or be available to men, i mean they already started with the whole transbians thing and the whole all women sexuality is fluid, might as well go the full circle and go full homophobia, "just imagine a man as a woman, totally the same thing", poor oppressed straight men, all these evil lesbians rejecting them finally have some people who care about them and fight for them, it's not like they have 90+% of women that are not lesbians and that are available to them, those remaining percentages really do hurt them and their feelings, let's all weep for straight men, the most oppressed "minority" in all existence .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T16:28:10+00:00

What the fuck are they even talking about, have bisexuals run out of things to be offended of again or find other ways to self victimise once more ? Of course the "evil" and "exclusionary" lesbians are once again the main culprit like usual, anti-trans, if anti-trans means me as a lesbian have to be forced to sleep with a mentally ill man in drag then fine i'm anti-trans or you know just a lesbian who doesn't like penis, such shocking discovery, lesbians not liking penis !

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T15:28:13+00:00

Well i guess some people have more game than others, lol !

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T12:00:25+00:00

I mean tbf, anything is sexualized, even normal lesbian relashionships, does that mean we should stop loving who we love because some pervert out there might get off at the idea of us being together ? And yeah i agree about your last point .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T11:47:52+00:00

I mean if it was the typical FFM threesome or relashionship i would agree with you, especially how it's so male centered but three girls without any man involved in it, i don't see how it's fetishised or pushed on us but every person is different, just because we are all lesbians doesn't mean we are a monolith, just like straight people, we have different views and lifestyles and we should respect that and not shame one another, especially in such a small community like ours .

Jessica1993 · 2020-08-30T11:36:43+00:00

Well for some, even being gay is heresy and blasphemy, i'm willing to be more open minded even though i'm not involved in it, like i said as long as it doesn't concern me, people can do whatever they want and i shouldn't be able to judge them just based on my notions .

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