everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them

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[–]Jessica1993 21 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 3 fun -  (29 children)

I've seen another twitter post that was railing against a tiktok that said bisexual people fetishise WLW relashionships and without even looking up the fact the tik toker in question was herself a bisexual, they couldn't wait to unleash their full on lesbophobia including an absolutely hilarious post that said lesbians are jealous that they have a smaller dating pool than them. Imagine us being jealous of them being attracted to men, i would rather have a smaller dating pool and remaining single for life than ever loving a disgusting creature like a man, men are the absolute worst trash around, just look at anything, the news,outside, literally anywhere and you would see how great men are . And the tik toker was only referring to bisexuals that don't take their female relashionships serious or talk about wanting a gf while being into a relashionship with a man .

[–]oofreesouloo 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (22 children)

i would rather have a smaller dating pool and remaining single for life than ever loving a disgusting creature like a man

being a lesbian =/= hating men. Just putting an emphasis on this part, as there's still many people (I'm not saying necessarly here but overall) that think someone's a lesbian because of hatred to men.

[–]Jessica1993 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I would still hate men even if i wasn't a lesbian, personal experience and other people's experience already certified that, i hope you aren't one of those people NoT All MeN, maybe not all men but a great majority of them are trash, that's unfortunately a fact !

[–]florasis 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't hate men. Plenty suck,it's true, but there are also good one. That's being said, I don't envy hetero women who have the need to deal with them.

[–]oofreesouloo 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I wasn't disagreeing with you lol.

[–]VioletRemi 12 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 7 fun -  (17 children)

As one old lesbian here said "I do not hate men, I despise them" :D

[–]oofreesouloo 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I dont hate or despise them. I simply don't care. If I find a respectful guy to be friends with, fine. If not, don't care. But I usually hate universal statements such as "men are all disgusting pigs" (and this applies to everything, not only men). I can understand though how a women who has been abused by men could form an aversion towards them and I fortunately have not had any severe bad experience with men. I just don't care.

[–]VioletRemi 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Well, I have few male friends (they are gay or bi, tho), so I am pretty fine with men too. I am just not interested in them romantically or sexually. For me they exist, that's it. I had bad experience with men, tho.

[–]LesbianInExile 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

Are you sure they weren't a political lesbian? I'm not saying no lesbians hate men but (as a pretty old and long time out lesbian) I've never heard a lesbian say that in real life but I've heard loads of straight and bi women complaining about what men are like and saying they hate men - I think it comes from dating them whereas I think a lot of lesbians tend to hang around with other lesbians or only associate with men who aren't misogynist a**holes (we don't have the reasons of being in love with them or being married or having kids with them to make us stick around any men who are unpleasant). The only time I have heard this kind of thing in real life was from a radical feminist who was bisexual (but always seemed to date men). Then she had sex with a woman, announced to me that she had become a lesbian and tried to bond with me over how much us lesbians hate men. I don't think she grasped that my attraction to women and my lack of attraction to men has nothing to do with my views on what men are like.

[–]VioletRemi 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (13 children)

That was a joke, when one man asked why lesbians hate men. Or, at least I thought it was a joke.

I dated once straight political lesbian, just because of curiosity, it was disasterous :)

And I can't really call them feminists, even thought they are calling themselves radical feminists. How can you be feminist, if you are running and hiding, and doing everything only to help yourself and only yourself?

[–]Jessica1993 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

How did that even work if she was straight, did you even had sex together ? And god do i hate those type of people who call themselves lesbians just because they hate men and aren't even bi, they completely make a mockery of our sexuality .

[–]VioletRemi 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

We did once, I was even able to make her orgasm once, but all her body and actions were telling that she is really not enjoying this and that she feeling disgust to this, all I read in her was "but men are even worse, so now I am left only with 'this' instead of sex". I didn't really feel very good about that (and in general I got depressed afterwards), as I felt myself acting rapey, and it reminded me my time with man, but I was not disgusted, it was just "nothing" to me, no feelings, while with her I was clearly reading disgust and hard self-force. She was asking that herself, tho. I said to her aferwards that she is acting pretty stupid with torturing herself. I wonder what is happening with her right now.

[–]Jessica1993 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Yeah, i recommend to not bother with straight girls, you're only doing both a disfavor despite how she claims to hate men at the end of the day we can't change our sexualities which is why homophobic people are so dumb to believe the gay agenda is turning straight people gay, but the fact that she called herself a lesbian is a big no no, you should have reined her in imo and explain to her why it's wrong and hurtful to do that if she isn't actually a lesbian .

[–]VioletRemi 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Well, I was pretty young in lesbianism, and was exploring myself, plus it was interesting to me (I am extremely curious) how straight people are with their sexuality and why someone call themselves lesbians and trying to hardforce themselves into homosexual relationship. I did know that everything will be bad, tho, as I did know how it was with my own sexuality. Maybe that lesson was enough to her to realize that sexuality can't be changed and she is just being stupid and self lying?

[–]Jessica1993 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

How many years ago are we talking about, because this whole being LGBT and "kweer" only became a trend in the last decade or so, maybe even less.

[–]RedditHatesLesbians 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't hate men myself, I've had plenty of close male friends throughout my life. I also have 2 brothers who are very decent guys. So because of those experiences I can't relate to the man blanket-hatred, even though I've also had some very negative experiences with men. And I completely understand why any woman would hate men. When women hate men, they simply say it amongst themselves. When men hate women, they murder them and other despicable acts. But yeah I agree with you, I'm a lesbian because I love women. Has nothing to do with how I perceive men and even if all men were angels I'd still be a lesbian.

[–]PopeyesChicken 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Wow lol I definitely do not hate men the way you do... what a strange viewpoint almost like political lesbians

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

There's gay male MRAs who hate women. I don't think anyone would accuse them of being political gay men lol. lesbian doesn't equal hating men, but hating men doesn't equal political lesbian either.

[–]PopeyesChicken 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The social context of the two are different... but I would be skeptical of gay men who hate women too. It’s very strange to hate half of the world.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think it's that strange to hate half of the world, but I'm someone who simply hates all people soo...yeah. I agree that the social context for gay men/men would be different but my point still stands, hating men doesn't equal political lesbian. It's getting tiring to see those kinds of assertions all the time.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my Lorde, do women (lesbians) always have to #notallmen even in our own spaces? I get it you have a good dad/brother/friend. Someone hating men isn’t murdering them OR A POLILEZ

[–]Jessica1993 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So because my experience with men has been different than you that means i'm a polilez, fuck off, blocked ! Imagine being so dumb and self absorbed that you couldn't graps the fact of why a woman might hate men, i already said i would hate them regardless of the fact that i'm a lesbian or not, i didn't say you have to hate men to be a lesbian but since you're probably someone who likes to stir shit and start fights for no reason i won't bother with you anymore, it's beneath me .