I always used to roll my eyes and sigh at the peeps who say porn is bad but

submitted by SailorMoon2020 from self.Lesbians

Edit: TMI(so as to be polite)

...my orgasms have gotten weaker in the past two days. Two days ago when I pleasured myself, my orgasm was ruined. That is a horrible feeling and some what painful. You're going to a high to a crash suddenly. Yesterday when I did it, it was just lackluster.

Maybe I was rushing it or maybe it is the porn.

I read a comment some time ago on here where an user said her orgasms became much stronger when she stopped watching porn. Think I'm going to go ahead and attempt that.

Although there's not a lot of good lesbian porn, the home made stuff, I've found by intensive amounts of searching, allowed me to build up a good bookmark list.

Or maybe I'm getting old! I'm about twenty years away from menopause. Hmm, I'm unsure...really...

I didn't lable this nsfw, because there's nothing explicit. It's fine.

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[–]Lesbianese 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Good luck!

Porn can have some pretty gnarly effects on some people so perhaps it's for the best that you've decided to nip it in the bud. Even if you are watching arguably the most tame porn, people can escalate when they don't get the same physical response from the porn they consume and start watching more outlandish stuff, so it's good to see you're taking a step back and considering quitting instead of delving in deeper.

[–]SailorMoon2020[S] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The consumption of porn and working from home because of the pandemic, gives me more time to browse. Even found two image based websites I bookmarked in my phone.

It'll be hard...I can step away from the videos buyt the images and even the written erotica, will be tough. I am hoping my desire and need for visual lesbian fornication will decrease to where I can enjoy myself more calm-like.

Thanks for the support!

[–]candiedDagon 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

If you don’t want to label it explicit could you at least put “tmi” in the title?

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    [–]VioletRemi 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I saw few studies that regular consumption of porn is making people harder to get aroused by "regular" stuff, and many of porn addicts are going more and more weird categories with time, for some people that was including real sex as well.

    So most likely it can be the cause, or maybe it is just weather, mood, nerves, period cycle, anything. So removing porn from consumption for some time may help, or may not. It is not harmful to try, tho.

    [–]SailorMoon2020[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yes, I've seen such studies. The only time I've searched for "non regular" stuff is when I'm extremely aroused which is usually during my cycle. I've been watching porn since I first gain access to the internet. I even searched during a friend's birthday party when in middle school one time; so needless to say, I have sense began to get aroused by anything and everything regarding the female anatomy.

    Maybe I'm overreacting my last two orgasms were lacking but I believe Lesbianese and you are correct. Regardless of the reasons for my lacked orgasms, it probably is a good idea to finally step away from the porn after all of these years.