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[–]LesbiSilly 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I have dreamed of holding hands. It is the thing I want to do most. I never had any internal homophobia, but more worried about external responses.

I want to hold hands more than sex at this point. It's so sad, but true.

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    [–]queerone 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This.

    [–]Graythoughts 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    An ex girlfriend of mine once fell asleep in my arms while we were watching tv. Fucking loved that.

    [–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It’s so nice. I woke up with my ex sleeping curled into my chest (she fit perfectly in this one position) and I was so comfortable I didn’t move for an hour

    [–][deleted] 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    Hand-holding. Being big spoon (or jet pack if my partner is bigger than I am). Hugging from behind. Hand on lower back. Drawing on her back with my fingertip. Resting my face against her neck under her jaw, lips pressed there but still

    [–]censorshipment 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Literally lending a hand. To paint a visual picture... when a woman in heels wants/needs to hold my hand to keep her balance such as while walking on cobblestone or walking upstairs or downstairs without railing.

    [–]VioletRemi 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    The most I love is actually sniff neck or hair. From touches, I like to do gentle hug around waist, and to receive I mostly like when someone is holding my hand.

    [–]Freetochoose 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Hugging/cuddling. Gosh, I love hugs!

    [–]oofreesouloo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Me tooo!!! Hug me 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    [–]Ricky_Ticky 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Giving neck and shoulder massage :) Especially when a woman comes back home from work tired and exhausted and just falls into my arms

    [–]PassionateIntensity 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I love hands and fingers, and holding hands.

    [–]SailorMoon2020 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    You get a lightbulb, and you get a lightbulb. Everyone gets a lightbulb!!!!

    These are some good answers and I really enjoyed reading them. For me, it would be when she...okay, I don't know what this motion is called...but you know when an evil character in a movie or show has a beard and he constantly rubs his beard from up to downward? I like it when a woman does that to me.

    [–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Lol, I love this! That's one of my favorite ways to pet my cat, never thought of doing it to a woman :D

    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I love when they come up behind me and put their arms around my waist

    [–]Jinera 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Holding hands. Whenever I had a relationship, all the damn time. Nothing feels as good as just simply holding hands as you walk with someone. I am not so good with hugs or very affectionate, but this is something I need and my way to show that I need them to be close to me and appreciate them.

    But I've also had the pleasure of being comforted by a large chested woman and that was amazing as well. So?? Soft??!

    [–]MyLongestJourney 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Hugs.Hugs are the best.

    [–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I love cuddling, playing with each other hair and of course holding hands... honestly I like everything everything, I value non sexual affection just as much as sexual one and thinking about all of this makes me wish I wasn't single.