MtF on another "lesbians" subreddit: "I feel like I'm not attracted to women the same way other woman are" yeah no shit, you have male socialization by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 64 insightful - 23 fun64 insightful - 22 fun65 insightful - 23 fun -  (0 children)

sometimes I feel like a straight dude in a lesbian's body... and it makee me feel icky.

That's because you are straight dude in a straight dude's body.

AL: "Men can identify as lesbians!" Also AL: "Why are there so many men on our lesbian subreddit??" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 65 insightful - 6 fun65 insightful - 5 fun66 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

We want this to be a safe place for lesbians to talk and share pictures, but unfortunately men think they belong everywhere.

If you question a man as to why he's on a lesbian site, you just get abuse.

... Unless those men start identifying as "women", then suddenly it's all fine and dandy.

They really can't complain about AL being inclusive of everyone when their sub description is literally "a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!". You reap what you sow.

Transbian Eddie Izzard on "learning how to perform his gender in the public eye" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 57 insightful - 18 fun57 insightful - 17 fun58 insightful - 18 fun -  (0 children)

At the help group I had been talking to a young lesbian woman I liked and I had thought, Hey, can I have a relationship with a lesbian woman? Does that work?

He needs to ask himself, "would I be sexually attracted to a male like me who wears dresses and makeup?". If the answer is no, why on earth would you think a lesbian would be attracted to that.

Apparently it's outdated to be a homosexual by EzukiRaen in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 60 insightful - 10 fun60 insightful - 9 fun61 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

TBH I think the concept of gay and lesbian will eventually just fade out once the gender binary is abolished, bc the concept of gender based attraction wouldn’t make sense anymore when there is no gender.

Well good thing we are same-SEX attracted and that biological sex is real. So no, homosexuality will not "eventually fade out".

Listen Sappho cis-lesbians... by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 53 insightful - 21 fun53 insightful - 20 fun54 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

They really think a limp dick suddenly becomes attractive to lesbians lmao. P in V isn't the only problem here, it's the P. It doesn't belong in a lesbian relationship.

And even if a trans woman isn't on HRT or had any surgery, there's also all the mental stuff.

Yeah, and it's just as repulsive.

T*RFs are just jealous because my silicon milkshakes bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 46 insightful - 29 fun46 insightful - 28 fun47 insightful - 29 fun -  (0 children)

  • They are mad that trans women get more girls than them

  • I can say with certainty that is NOT the reason they’re mad because I get zero girls

I was ready to clown on them, but they made my job easier.

Its so tiring by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 44 insightful - 26 fun44 insightful - 25 fun45 insightful - 26 fun -  (0 children)

And as a cis man, I can happily say that there's nothing stopping me from being attracted to anyone who identifies as a woman.

Hey "cis" man, I heard Eddie Izzard and Jessica Yaniv are single. Why not slide into their DMs?

Trans guys lay some incredible pipe. No, really. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 40 insightful - 25 fun40 insightful - 24 fun41 insightful - 25 fun -  (0 children)

TRAs: Putting pronouns in bio helps trans people! They’re not a joke!

Pronouns in bio: he/it/they

"If I feel like a woman then boom I'm a woman bc it isn't real" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea[S] 48 insightful - 9 fun48 insightful - 8 fun49 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

impossible to explain, I just know I am one in the same way gay ppl know theyre gay and straight ppl know they're straight

gay = same sex attracted

straight = opposite sex attracted

It's that easy.

No comment by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 40 insightful - 24 fun40 insightful - 23 fun41 insightful - 24 fun -  (0 children)

I’m vegan and I love animal products get over it :)

I'm just a scared widdle wesbian girl - suck my massive clit ya cunts by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 39 insightful - 22 fun39 insightful - 21 fun40 insightful - 22 fun -  (0 children)

Lol his account got suspended! 🎉

Edit: he's "scared" lesbians won't date him, but of course, he wouldn't date other transbians because he loves pussy

Seems like super appropriate and normal content for a lesbian sub. Totally nothing like a bunch of straight men larping as lesbians would post. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 48 insightful - 3 fun48 insightful - 2 fun49 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If a cis man wants to assault women in public bathrooms he can just... walk in.

But now with self ID, women aren’t allowed to feel uncomfortable or threatened and wouldn’t be able to kick him out until it’s too late. They really prioritize predatory AGP’s feelings over women’s safety.

You gotta get ‘em while they’re young by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 44 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 0 fun45 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I went to check the CN twitter account to see if this was real... I wish I hadn’t.

So does this mean Gigi isn’t a big old out and proud lesbian after all? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 34 insightful - 20 fun34 insightful - 19 fun35 insightful - 20 fun -  (0 children)

They went from being a straight couple, to being a straight couple. Brave and stunning.

Trans rights activists defending the r/lesbians porn sub on reddit are my favorite type of "lesbian" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 36 insightful - 10 fun36 insightful - 9 fun37 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Don’t forget dudes commenting like “I wish I was there too” like bro if we’re playing into the illusion that those are real lesbians they 100% don’t want you there

I used to think similarly to that. Turns out I’m trans!

Bro same! I was a borderline incel in middle school then I hit 9th grade, had a year long gender crisis and walked into school at the beginning of 10th grade a girl with actual respect for women

This is "I’m not like the other girls", but the r/AL incel version.

Edit:

transbian: This is why I stick to asmr and hentai. irl porn is just disgusting for me personally.

The backbone of the gay community by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 33 insightful - 15 fun33 insightful - 14 fun34 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

"nobody wants you around if you can't respect history that I completely made up buddy"

Awwww, she's going to have to present as a girl to get a real boyfriend by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 36 insightful - 8 fun36 insightful - 7 fun37 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

They complain about not getting laid, but they also never once consider dating each other or other "mascs".

The right side of history showing their compassion by trying set lesbians on fire by spanishprofanity in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 24 insightful - 30 fun24 insightful - 29 fun25 insightful - 30 fun -  (0 children)

I can't believe the brick Marsha P. Johnson threw landed all the way to France.

Some trans sanity. I for one, am happy to see. by milknciggies in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 26 insightful - 23 fun26 insightful - 22 fun27 insightful - 23 fun -  (0 children)

What are you a fucking 9 year old?

Don't give them ideas

Oh please, please, please, PLEASE!! We've been begging non-stop for a decade now. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 34 insightful - 5 fun34 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

That’s right TRAs. The only way to defeat us evil transphobicterfcisbigots is to leave us alone. Now go away.

“I am and have always been a woman” by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea[S] 25 insightful - 21 fun25 insightful - 20 fun26 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

“if you yell at her because that’s not an accurate use of lesbian, I will come after you.” 🤡

The cis fag and the neuroqueer gigadyke by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 31 insightful - 9 fun31 insightful - 8 fun32 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

That picture reminds of those old YouTube skits where a guy plays all the characters by dressing himself up.

"I want to date lesbians" is a valid reason for transition by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 29 insightful - 10 fun29 insightful - 9 fun30 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Enjoy getting attention only from other transbians. Good luck!

AL: "Men can identify as lesbians!" Also AL: "Why are there so many men on our lesbian subreddit??" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 30 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 7 fun31 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

His username is "JessWhoIsTrans" and posts in trans and fetish subs like bimbofication. Shocking, I know.

What makes a man a man? Well for starters, a vagina is essential. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 31 insightful - 6 fun31 insightful - 5 fun32 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I really admire gay men who don't care if the boyfriend has a vagina.

Bible thumpers and conversion therapists would agree.

She has rights! And sexy times with real gay men is one of them. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 29 insightful - 9 fun29 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Also from what I've seen a lot of gay trans guys prefer cis guys anyways, so like... being exclusively t4t is not going to necessarily match me with people who are actually ok with me being trans, it'll just limit my dating pool.

... You don't say!

Sorry, but our mouths are already full of that 🐈 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 30 insightful - 7 fun30 insightful - 6 fun31 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

She's explicitly saying she only likes cis women

.

Glad she's embracing neo-Nazi horseshit.

There's an entire group of AGPs who only go after real women and refuse to date each other. What does that make them?

"It’s important to remember the feminine penis is very different than a man’s penis. A lot of the cis lesbians I’ve been with have been pleasantly surprised by the softness, texture, and yes the mouthfeel." by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

What's so great about the "feminine penis", aka a limp dick, if transbians don't even want to date each other? And they love claim "a lot of lesbians date tranwomen", but if that were true, they wouldn't need to constantly make a reminder about how great their dicks are. Lmao

"I don't want to be labelled as a freak, or worse... GAY." by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 26 insightful - 10 fun26 insightful - 9 fun27 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

"The hardest part about being a woman is figuring out what to wear" -Caitlyn Jenner

What words/phrases are you sick of hearing, and/or can't take seriously anymore? by OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haaate the word gatekeeping now. It would make sense in the context of pretentious people saying certain people can’t enjoy a genre of music, for instance. It doesn’t make sense for sexual orientation. Words have meaning.

So does this mean Gigi isn’t a big old out and proud lesbian after all? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Hannah Hart, a lesbian YouTuber, recently uploaded (and now deleted) a drawing of a cracked egg on Instagram, and people were posting the trans flag in the comments. I really hope she doesn't go down that road.

“I am and have always been a woman” by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea[S] 24 insightful - 11 fun24 insightful - 10 fun25 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I read that he came out as non-binary before. I wonder if he also said that “he is and have always been non-binary.”

Violent Trans Activist Who Kicked Lesbian out of Pride Org. Quietly Detransitions by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So does he still get to make violent threats towards lesbians, or is he now considered a filthy "cishet" man by TRA's standards? Why does one get a pass to be homophobic and the other can't? What's the major difference between the two? Hmm 🤔

Apparently it's outdated to be a homosexual by EzukiRaen in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Have you seen GLAAD’s glossary of terms?

Heterosexual An adjective used to describe people whose enduring physical, romantic, and/ or emotional attraction is to people of the opposite sex. Also straight.

Homosexual (see Offensive Terms to Avoid) Outdated clinical term considered derogatory and offensive. The Associated Press, New York Times and Washington Post restrict usage of the term.

Big Brother Aiden's really pushing that fake history... That's totalitarianism for ya by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 24 insightful - 6 fun24 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Who are the transbians that gave us our rights? Did they add in new characters in their Stonewall fanfic, or did they create a new headcanon that Marsha was actually a transbian?

"Holes" disrupt lesbian and bisexual women's event by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 22 insightful - 9 fun22 insightful - 8 fun23 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Didn't think "we're here, we're queer" could get any worse. Now we have "we're here, we're holes".

Edmonton puts feminine hygiene products in bathrooms. They can't say women or females so refers to them as "menstrators". Comment section full of people who don't like that term. by insta in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

You know how TRAs lie about literally everything? Yeah, that's just one of their blatant lies. They create nonsense, gets backlash, then blames it on "TERFs". Rinse and repeat.

here's a meme to illustrate it

"Actual Lesbians" by _Moon_ in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 21 insightful - 9 fun21 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

They gotta worship their own dicks since lesbians won't do it.

The difference between two sites reporting the same story. by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea[S] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep I did, and I don't mind at all! Go for it 👍

T*RFs are just jealous because my silicon milkshakes bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 19 insightful - 10 fun19 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

They think we "gain a lesbian" whenever a heterosexual male comes out as a "lesbian"...

r/AreTheCisOk - The mUh tRaNspHoBiA series by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 21 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I love how they have a tag for gender stereotypes. I could pull out multiple screenshots of TRAs perpetuating gender stereotypes, but that’s not allowed apparently.

Lesbians not liking dick is nothing but empty TERF rhetoric by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 20 insightful - 5 fun20 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Lmao that one TRA telling people to "mind their own business". Take your own advice and leave lesbians alone.

New Year, New Peak-Trans Thread by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

but it turns out they fucking hate intersex people with a passion, because we're, in their eyes, just the same as trans people and apparently me being a GNC/intersex male means I'm "a fetishist appropriating women" even though I was born like this, and never chose to be this way. But meanwhile they worship self proclaimed "Homosexual transsexual" fetishists who get off on being feminized because they think being attracted to men makes them less of a man, or not a man at all, for some reason.

Wait, can you point me to where I can find these specific "radfems"? Because that's the opposite of what I've experienced or seen. I'm not going to shut down your claim, I just want to see it with my own eyes.

Growing up, he didn’t get to be an ‘ackward gay girl’ :( by Lessom in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 20 insightful - 5 fun20 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like fetishisation to me. Wouldn't be surprised if he thinks girls' sleepovers to be something like straight outta porn. But looking at his profile, he probably fantasizes about it with anime girls instead.

Save our gays! Stamp out cis phallocentrism! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 17 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

TRA logic: Gay men should be okay with strap-ons because they are pretty much the same as real dicks. But if lesbians can like strap-ons, then they should be okay with "girldicks". But "girldicks" are different than "cis" men's dicks. But—

The "lesbian" dream - uhhh… by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 19 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Because they hate reality.

Edit: instead of enjoying cartoons and anime as entertainment, they try to make it a "reality". Like an extreme form of escapism.

Why do so many transbians want relationships with women who aren't attracted to them? by TheBitchinAccounting in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of them are incels and they found a way to harass lesbians by using "trans" as a shield. And I'm not even using the word incel as a petty insult. Some actually do admit to it. Well, they claim they are no longer incels after transitioning, but we all know that's not true.

Edit: And yeah, I agree with all the people saying it's the "ultimate validation" for those creeps.

Listen Sappho cis-lesbians... by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 18 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 6 fun19 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Yup. He doesn’t realize he’s venting to a group of AGPs and that real lesbians will keep avoiding him.

What's the most ridiculous TRA's argument you've ever heard? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

“I can’t date other trans people because it triggers my dysphoria, but cis people need to re-examine and unlearn their genital fetish and date trans people.”

Then, they wonder why we hate them....Leave gay men in peace! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 19 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yes, I remember the LGBTQIA2S++ history. The brave and stunning transwoman passed out on a park bench, and a gay drag queen who arrived late at the riots, working together to throw bricks at a window in 1969. And that was it, that was the moment we immediately got the right to marry. But let’s all just ignore the fact that the Netherlands was the first country to legalize same-sex marriage in 2001.

Conversation I had with my boyfriend that started after a NB tiktok he sent to me. Opinions? by ppja1995 in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The tiktok video didn't even explain or prove anything.

I don't fit exclusively into being a man or a woman

Okay... What does being a man or woman mean? They never explain that part.

No comment by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 15 insightful - 11 fun15 insightful - 10 fun16 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

LMAO you win.

Uh... Is any sub on reddit free from this shit? by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I remember waiting for a Nintendo livestream (I think it was for AC) and the chat was just insufferable with all the “trans rights!” spam. Seriously. I hope we can drop the T and finally make people understand that the LGB and the obnoxious T are not the same.

Everyone is a lesbian! Yes, you, reading this: you qualify as a lesbian! Congratulations! by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Agender but identifies as a lesbian? What. I kid you not, I just witnessed an agender they/them and a fae/she/they getting offended over someone saying "bruh" on a discord server that I’m in. Bruh is too masculine for an agender person, but identifying as an agender lesbian is okay?

r/lgballt:"Clowngender is heckin cute and valid uwu" they are beyond parody at this point by FineIWillDoItMyself in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 14 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

am i confused. is it a valid gender expression or are they making fun of trans ppl. i need to know if i need to be offended or supportive :p

The fact that they need to start asking if all these new xenogenders are valid or just another attack helicopter joke lmao

Haha yeah, it’s a lot to take in man, you don’t have to understand everything just respect whatever someone identifies as and use the pronouns they want :3

Did you hear that Oli London? You're valid uwu

The irony - complaining because "online queer folk have decided lesbians can have sex with men for fun" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No.

Some Discussion Questions for You Guys by Horror-Swordfish in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

TQ+ rode the coattails of LGB. The only reason their movement gained quick traction was because they used us as a shield and spread lies. "Well they got their right to marry, so now listen to all of our demands, bigot!". "You owe all of your rights to transwomen of color!". And when I say right to marry, I only mean in some western countries. TQ+ wouldn't have a leg to stand on if they were independent and being honest. I don't doubt there are LGBs who supported them from the beginning, but I wouldn't necessarily say we created it.

We can agree that gender and sexual orientation are separate, so we shouldn't compare the two. Homosexuality doesn't require harmful surgeries in order to be our "true selves". We didn't try to convince straight people that we are also heterosexuals, but only attracted to the same-sex. TQ+ are manipulative.

Choosing genitals over personality or hobbies?! You crazy bastards! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Bold assumption and very wrong. Also when I have, I've been attracted to things that made us good partners for a long time, what their vaginas looked like wasn't all that important because... its a vagina. Its still gonna function the same. Who they are is more important

No mention of ladydique, Steven?

How the LGB community sees trans women... by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

  1. I don’t care if a grown ass adult wants to transition. Some people get surgery to look like a reptile, doesn’t mean they are actual reptiles. But do not emotionally manipulate and shame people into donating for your cosmetic surgeries. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t get a boob job. Get therapy instead. It also becomes a problem when they heavily push their ideology onto impressionable and vulnerable children, making them believe all their problems would go away by transitioning (and then ostracize them after detransitioning). Or when they force us to believe they are the same as biological males/females. I could go off on a tangent and list all the problems, but I’ll stop myself there.

  2. I want the T to know that not following gender roles and stereotypes doesn’t make people trans or nonbinary. I also want them to criticize the AGPs and the yaoi obsessed Aidens publicly when they say something homophobic. And yes, adding “cis” in front of gays still doesn’t make it acceptable. We’re at a point where no one is allowed to criticize the T that they even get a lot of support from “allies” for being blatantly homophobic. Woke homophobia is still homophobia.

  3. Most people in my circle are straight, but I know someone who started dating an ftm. She would say some.. questionable things since they started dating. Like saying children as young as 4 could know their “gender identity” while looking at me like I was the crazy one.

  4. Thankfully I’ve never been pressured into transitioning, but that’s only because I stayed away from “LGBT” clubs and spaces. I live in a woque™ country, so I’d like to avoid them as much as possible. If I was a teen in this generation though, I’d for sure be identifying as a “demisexual nonbinary” or something like that. Even as a child, I thought there was something wrong with me because I was a tomboy and hated “girly” things, unlike my friends and the rest of the girls at my school.

  5. Who knows. There’s still way too many people who believe gay and trans people are one and the same. They’re not even aware of how LGB’s are treated by the TQ+. All we can do is continue to expose the danger and hypocrisy of the trans ideology to the public.

"Hair is a large part of LGBTQ+ identity" -- Pantene Pro-V -- Just say trans by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Then that means you are a straight bi lesbian, obviously! Your hair is so valid uwu

LGballT encouraging teens to identify as trans: "If you want to date someone and they're not into your gender, then just come out as another gender so you can date them!" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I looked up "animecoric" and it's basically a weaboo. Weeb is a new gender I guess.

On flags overall by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I never really felt connected to the flags, but that could be due to the fact that I'm in my early 20s and grew up mainly seeing corporations slapping rainbows on their merch, and taking it all down once pride month is over. So I only see dollar signs when I look at pride flags. But not only that, we now have the "queers" trying to claim the rainbow pride flag for themselves and change the original design and meaning of the flag.

I guess I would say that I'm more on board with flags when they're revolutionary?

I agree.

Straight bloke in frock who hearts Iran can’t believe LGB people would say this by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah sure, Charles "creepy male feminist" Clymer.

So YOU thought /r/lgbt couldn't get any more batshit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I always wondered what could be worse than the Cats movie. I think I found the answer.

r/actuallesbians - To my trans lesbian sisters „Full blown dyke“ and „cis lesbian“ would love to be with „pre HRT, non op“ trans woman. Collective headpatting, uwuing and homophobia ensues in the comments. by howdidthishappen in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

... And when these incels step outside for once after spending hours LARPing as "lesbians" online, they lose their shit after getting rejected over and over again in real life. The only way for them to get validation is from their fellow role playing AGPs.

Fallon Fox: biological male who twice broke a woman”s skull “still the bravest athlete in history” according to Outsports by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Stunning and brave ™ for breaking women's skulls and threatening women to break even more skulls on twitter.

The ever expanding parameters of “lesbian” by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That site makes me wanna throw up.

  • while lesbianism generally doesn't include attraction to men, some lesbians who feel more connected to older definitions of the term lesbian, and who use the Split Attraction Model, are attracted to men, and their spaces are just as real and important to the lesbian community

  • If one is to exclude non-binary men from lesbianism, they are endorsing in exorsexist behavior. Additionally, not all non-binary people feel comfortable being included under lesbian attraction, and that should be respected and validated.

  • The term specifically for non-men attracted to non-men is called faunic or daunic.

  • So, someone could be romantically a lesbian, but sexually pansexual, or any other combination. Many lesbians who use the split attraction model use this concept of lesbianism to define their orientation(s).

  • Many lesbians who are not into men face the same issue where men believe they can "force" lesbians to like men... However, while this idea has harmed and continues to harm a large part of the lesbian community, and it should never ever be encouraged to tell any lesbian that they "can like men" if they don't, that harmful idea does not stop the fact that some lesbians are attracted to men.

  • Bi-lesbians Pan-lesbians Omni-lesbians Straightbians

Can you pinpoint when nominally gay civil rights organizations stopped caring about LGB causes and became all-TQ+ all the time? by cure_osa_disorder in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I mean this is "Amanda", the TRA who admitted, and I quote, "If you're relying on someone else to tell you that you're a valid trans woman, you aren't a valid trans woman.".

New Year, New Peak-Trans Thread by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve only seen a couple of posts in r/gendercritical (none were hating intersex people or claiming feminity makes men less of/not a man though) as I didn’t frequent there often, so I can’t really comment on that. You mentioned that you received the most harassment from r/itsafetish, wasn’t that a sub where people with different political views gathered to make fun of and expose the AGPs? There were gender critical people there for sure, but also a good amount of straight people, especially men, who weren’t fully aware of the drastic difference between the LGB and the T. When you say "back in the day", how far back? I learned about radfems/gender critical/"terfs" maybe 5 years ago? It was on Tumblr, same as you. However I didn’t check the hashtags, but rather individual accounts so maybe that’s why I didn’t see what you were seeing.

I checked r/femaledatingstrategy and for a supposed "radfem-adjacent" sub, they sure only talk about dating men. To me, it felt more like a sub for the type of straight women on Twitter who say "all men are trash" due to one bad relationship with a man, but they don’t genuinely mean it. So yeah, neither of us can really confirm if it’s truly an "undercover radfem space" or not. I’d rather not get into conspiracy theories.

I think it’s also good to keep in mind that there are women who frequent gender critical spaces without actually being a radfem. I’ve seen some who admitted they weren’t, but they were just as tired of TRAs as much as we are. Some even call themselves that without fully understanding radical feminism, they just see gender critical views and claim the radfem label. Especially considering the fact that those few spaces allow women to freely criticize the trans ideology without censorship and harassment from the woke crowd, it’s easy to mistake who actually hold radical feminist views. I guess my point is, you should take your time to learn about what radfems really believe. Because it sounds like you’re grouping a whole bunch of people with different views and calling them all "radfems".

As for the personal DMs and discord, there’s no way for me to see what happened or see the accounts myself. So if they were claiming to be radfems and were sending you nasty messages, I’m really sorry you had to experience that. If that still happens to you, feel free to expose them or send me a DM. I’d like to speak to them myself.

Anyway, I only wanted to ask since my experiences with radfems were so wildly different from yours. I actually started learning more about intersex thanks to them sharing the voices of intersex people, such as ClareCAIS on Twitter. You also mentioned ovarit, I actually do have an account there but haven’t been active at all. I’ll start visiting there more often and see if I can find any content that are hateful towards intersex people or claiming feminine men "aren’t men" and I’ll report back.

Why don't we have a word like this in the West? by EzukiRaen in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Any normal person would think this is satire, but some teens genuinely believe in this stuff.

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Look at the comments. Almost everyone is either trans or bi/pan or both. Even making a post about vaginas will get bombarded with comments like "but what about my dick?? uwu". Keep in mind that the sub is called r/actuallesbians, and now read their description. What part of any of that is "actuallesbians"?

And yes, they do ban lesbians because we are same-sex attracted and don’t do dicks.

Edit: also this. https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/actuallesbians

You Might be a Transbian If - the fact that the pinned comment is him saying that if straight men are relating to this says enough by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously someone should study the link between guys becoming trans"lesbians" and anime.

I always found this interesting. While anime isn’t western, I only ever see white transbians. All the cross dressers and transwomen in Japan seem to be gay men, and they don’t try to change definitions or speak over women (at least not that I’m aware of). I’m guessing the vast majority of transbians are weebs who always fetishized asian women, but now they want to BE them. It’s gross.

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You flash your tiddies in the changing room to minors? Yikes.

But you don't see a problem with males flashing their dicks in front of minors in changing rooms huh 🤡

Edit: for context, here's the thread https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhc3

This guy's a creep.

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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If there’s a male in a female bathroom, people would alert security or a worker. But now with self-ID, women have to prioritize predatory male feelings and self identification over our own safety.

I'm surprised this post wasn't removed. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If it didn't specify homophobic bi/het libfems, I'd agree with you. That's not to say there aren't any trans "allies" that are lesbians who blindly support the ideology and movement. Unfortunately, I've encountered many lesbophobic "woke" bi and straight women like the ones you often see in AL, both online and in real life. The ones who push "sexuality is fluid" (but never to straight men), claim to be lesbians despite being attracted to men, call us "vagina fetishists" or "____phobic" for not including everyone our dating pool. And I also live in Canada, so meeting "non-binary/queer" women who supports the harmful ideology is not uncommon, sadly. And I know there are bi and het women who are strongly against that, that's why it was such a breath of fresh air to finally find this place where homosexual, bisexual, and heterosexual people could agree on how regressive and homophobic the trans ideology really is.

The cis fag and the neuroqueer gigadyke by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

No one specific really. But now that you mention him, they do bear a striking resemblance.

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You only say this because some dude who’s not even a “TERF” said something racist. Meanwhile, TRAs constantly compare black women to biological males in their arguments.

One fell swoop: The rise and fall of TERF-loving transbian Eddie Izzard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not to mention she was defending a white American male transwoman who threw a fit for being denied access to the Japanese lesbian bar.

An excellent deconstruction worth preserving: "I'm transgender. I absolutely despise other trans people." by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ugh, this comment.

I do have a trans son however, he is 16. There's no binary there..he IS male in his mind. And I can see, looking back, the little things that he did as a kid, that made it OBVIOUS he was a boy and not a girl. All his stuffed animals were boys unless they were the mom in a build a bear family group...BaB used to sell smaller versions of their 18 inch animals, and my kid was gaga for his family group BaBs. Especially his wolves and huskies. He was also much more into boys toys, only wore dresses under duress, but he kept all of it to himself until he was 15 because even at 8 he said he was shamed at school for even contemplating being male instead of female.

My friends are f*ggots and do are you by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm confused about the term "transmasc". Does it mean they identify with masculinity?

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why did you ignore the rest of her comment lol. And again, bisexuals outnumber lesbians by a lot. Especially on AL. So no.

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just by looking at the comments and checking their profiles show that almost everyone over at AL are non-lesbians. And lesbians can’t talk about “lesbo” things without men trying to make it all about themselves. Most LGB people who got sick and tired of reddit moved on to other places, not just here. I follow some on Twitter. There’s also discord.

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Did you not read what Strickly wrote? Being a lesbian is a bannable offense. The mods even banned a Jewish lesbian and called her a “Nazi” because she stated that she’s not attracted to biological males. Actual lesbians have already been banned from AL.

https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/actuallesbians

Almost everyone on that sub are trans and/or bi.

Opinion by Traumagenic polyfrag system with DID•100+ members•inclusive of all systems&queer identities • Body is 19yrs disabled white Native (Tsalagiyi Detsadanilvgi) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the first tweet that made Mr."Nebulae System" mad

THE DEFINITION OF LESBIAN IS NON MEN LOVING NON MEN. [ That includes nonbinary and nonbinary transmasc people! ]

What. What part of this is "TERF dogwhistle"?

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are you ignoring the fact that you have no problem with males exposing their dicks in front of children, but you were disturbed at the idea of women exposing their breasts? Why is that?

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wait, so you were disturbed at the idea of women exposing their breasts in front of children, but you’re totally fine with males exposing their dicks in front of children? Disgusting. If anyone commits a crime, it’s normal to report them. But statistically speaking, males commit more crimes than females. And ONCE AGAIN, we are talking about male predators. Are you purposely being dense?

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We are talking about male predators. You even said male perverts in your original comment. You’d rather protect male perverts in women’s spaces over women’s safety.

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We are talking about male predators.

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because self-ID would give male predators protection. Next.

I'm surprised this post wasn't removed. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Where does it say about radfems?

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay so where is your proof. You do realize anyone could go to AL and see for themselves that almost everyone over there are not even lesbians.

You gotta get ‘em while they’re young by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And if that definition is true, then “ze/zir” pronouns describes what gender identity exactly??

Trans person posts on "actuallesbians": "I'm a cis lesbian and transphobia hurts all women." Elsewhere identifies as non-cis and posts in bisexualteens by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I'm not white, unlike you. Might wanna ask your predominantly white TRA friends to answer that for you.

Since you still didn't answer properly: https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcn

Does LGB Alliance know about us? And if not, should we reach out to them? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]MilkTea 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Again, your link was an anonymous self identification survey. My link calculated the stats of the overlap between subs, and I saw the contents of AL with my own two eyes. Which is something you can also do btw.

You literally quoted my explanation. You can read.