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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 42 insightful - 16 fun42 insightful - 15 fun43 insightful - 16 fun -  (4 children)

these communities are going to have to address their deep-seated misogyny

You can't have your trans cake and eat it too.

It's time to do the work

No... Procrastinate.

[–]Mermer 27 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

I thought misogyny targeted women 🤨🔎

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 17 insightful - 13 fun17 insightful - 12 fun18 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

In this case it’s targeting just the vagina, as the vagina is attached to a man. So basically it’s someone prejudiced against vaginas. Like separate water fountains for males and vaginas.

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So its misogyny when gay men reject vagina but its not misogyny when the world calls women "uterus haver/birthing unit". Right. TRA Logic.

[–]Dromedary 22 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 7 fun23 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Lol. "Misogyny you say?". These people are dumb and exhausting. "Gay men need to sexually desire and center gay men like meeeeee!" the artist formerly known as Sharon or Brittany or Madison squealed to her TikTok..

[–][deleted] 39 insightful - 8 fun39 insightful - 7 fun40 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Straight woman repeatedly using a slur against gay men while trying to convince gay men to accept her as a gay man and to deny their innate sexual orientation.

An interesting strategy, I don't think it will work.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Straight woman repeatedly using a slur against gay men while trying to convince gay men to accept her as a gay man and to deny their innate sexual orientation.

An interesting strategy, I don't think it will work.

https://giphy.com/gifs/moodman-Rh4vxHtcmVyHUyugXP

[–]our_team_is_winning 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"cisqueer"???

This mentally ill woman had her breasts amputated for her fetish.

I am expecting to see a rise in female (I mean XX female, not Chris Chan shit) violent crime as these mentally ill women take testosterone and grow angrier about their situation. I expect them to join the male incel population and probably turn violent against others, but instead of against women it will be against gay men.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree. I think those women are just as problematic as the men. Untreated mental illness + synthetic hormones = disaster

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 27 insightful - 12 fun27 insightful - 11 fun28 insightful - 12 fun -  (19 children)

I just want to say one thing: good luck

Even the gay men who actively push for this shit are dick-worshiping hypocrites. They won't simple forget the dick to validate a fetishistic female.

You just need to visit any gay space to see that gay culture is built around dick devotion. You won't 'decontruct' this, not in any way in hell.

Hell, even the guys who cave and fuck these Aideens do so out of pity and still miss the dick every minute of it. The ones who choose to have relationships with them always chase dick on the side or relegates them to side-piece roles.

There's no deconstruction, there's no escape, there's only... the dick.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (14 children)

I'm not convinced any gay men really do have relationships with them. It's just virtue signalling bullshit. Both of the biggest white knights for gay transmen that I know of (one in AGB, one in real life) admit they have never been with a transman but feel entitled to lecture all the poor ignorant plebs about how transphobic they are for not accepting them as gay men.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

I'm not convinced any gay men really do have relationships with them. It's just virtue signalling bullshit.

I say this because I know cases of guys that, for some reason, decided to go and date/fuck Aideens only to regret it later.

One was a Gold Star and had a huge identity crisis/meltdown after he discovered he was basicly fucking a female on steroids. He now overcompensates exclusively because of this.

The other was a huge LGBTIdiot who decided to date a FtM for a while only to cheat on her multiple times, which resulted on them opening up the relationship, which only made his dick chasing more frequent and blatant until the whole thing imploded.

Both of the biggest white knights for gay transmen that I know of (one in AGB, one in real life) admit they have never been with a transman but feel entitled to lecture all the poor ignorant plebs about how transphobic they are for not accepting them as gay men.

Yes, I have quite some experience with these types.

They lecture fellow gay men on accepting FtMs and how PiV sex is tottaly gay sex while flaunting their social media full of dicks. The hypocrisy is blatant.

[–]Dromedary 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Unreal. Of course he cheated on her, he wanted dick! Just, sounds like a dismal charade. I guess for woke points, as you indicated. I imagine the worst part of a gay man dating a FtM isn't the lady parts (genital fetushisht!) but the raging mental illness and delusions. "Honey, I got a new dildo Imma stick up your ass!" is what they imagine gay sex is. (Not always anal, girls!)

[–]Virginia_Plain 16 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

A lot of them refer to their sex toys as "dicks" too, so when gay men say they want a dick, they respond with "I have several dicks for you to choose from, so what's the holdup?" as part of their strategy for cornering the guy. If they are hungry, I wonder if they will settle for a plastic banana.

[–]MilkTea 17 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

TRA logic: Gay men should be okay with strap-ons because they are pretty much the same as real dicks. But if lesbians can like strap-ons, then they should be okay with "girldicks". But "girldicks" are different than "cis" men's dicks. But—

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Perhaps the worst ones who refuse anal and only want PiV. Like, what are they honestly on?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Like, what are they honestly on?

Narcisism.

They want a straight guy in a gay suit basicly.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (6 children)

after he discovered he was basicly fucking a female on steroids

He did’t realize after the clothes came off?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

He did, but gaslighted himself so much to pretend it was just normal for gay men to have vaginas.

After the illusion was shattered he felt very betrayed and abused, as most victims of gaslighting feel.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think his story should be a whole post, I'm fascinated. What shattered the illusion?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What shattered the illusion?

I don't know the specific details, as I lost contact with this person, but if I were to guess I would say it was two little things: time and reflection.

But then again, his 180 on this was so sudden and strange, so there might be some other things at play in this case.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think you should share his story here in a separate post, I would like to know the deets because I haven't heard of any anecdotes of gay men dating Aideens

[–]emptiedriver 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it really is amazing how people can get so caught in an illusion that a whole new mental category is created - they can see a trans person isn't actually the same as the sex they're trying to be, but still follow the social pressures and currents enough that they become something else than what their physical senses show them...

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's really heartbreaking.

Regardless of whatever else he was doing. It's messed up that we live in a world where LGB people are so routinely gaslighted about their own bodily experiences, like same-sex attraction.

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Both of the biggest white knights for gay transmen that I know of (one in AGB, one in real life) admit they have never been with a transman but feel entitled to lecture all the poor ignorant plebs about how transphobic they are for not accepting them as gay men.

Lmao, that's so ridiculous. I'm not sure which is worse to watch: that level of hypocrisy, or watching lesbian women actually be convinced that their sexuality shameful and then convince others.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You just need to visit any gay space to see that gay culture is built around dick devotion. You won't 'decontruct' this, not in any way in hell.

They are trying. They know they don't have any truly empathic or logical arguments so they have to revert to ad hominem attacks of bigotry, white supremacy, etc. It actually is a deconstruction (an attempt at such), not of reality, but of the public perception of certain words. I don't think they'll succeed here, because most people are monosexual, and because most people in general oppose coercive rapist rhetoric.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It actually is a deconstruction (an attempt at such), not of reality, but of the public perception of certain words.

This is going to bite them in the ass.

Let me put it this way: assigning the word transphobia into casual shit will make people less inclined to take it seriously.

I'm going to speak personally here: considering the current madness surrounding TRAs, the label transphobe is starting to sound like a badge of honor to me.

If to have an actual sexual orientation requires me t be transphobic, then yes I'm transphobic. So what?

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Even the gay men who actively push for this shit are dick-worshiping hypocrites.

Exactly. Woke homos are nastier dickpigs than I can ever be, such hypocrites. Hypocrite gays and lesbians are worse than some TRAs who's agenda is crystal clear.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hypocrite gays and lesbians are worse than some TRAs who's agenda is crystal clear.

Yep, I have more disdain for them than any TRA.

No only they're huge hypocrites, but also they gaslight others into believing TRA shit while not buying the nonsense they spew.

It's fucked up.

[–]boypower 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

'' Cis '' gay spaces aren't a threat to you, and neither are their YOUR OWN communities. Just because you are not wanted in a space that isn't made for you, doesn't mean that that is any kind of threat to your safety. If these spaces aren't receptive of you, you can just build your own totally safe communities that exclusively cater to your kind. But alas, trans people want our spaces because we are present there, us whom they perceive as nothing but tools for their own validation and (sexual) fantasies.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

'' Cis '' gay spaces aren't a threat to you, and neither are their YOUR OWN communities.

Yes.

Even amongst other trans people, FtMs are rarely targeted for violence, and when it happens, straight men are the perpetrators.

You know why they don't pester straight men about this? They're cowards, every last one of them.

[–]SourDoude 24 insightful - 6 fun24 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

To quote Sarah Robles, "No thank you."

[–]Dromedary 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Goddess!

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She is a mega based woman.

[–]DimDroog 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is insane, and I do NOT mean that lightly.

[–]JoeyJoeJoe 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

There's a time for intellectual commentary and there's a time to be blunt.

What a stupid bitch.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 14 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Misogyny? But if these people are men, how could we be misogynist to them? And if we see them as women, are they implying that it is misogynist for a gay man to deny sex to a woman? Hmmmmmmmmm

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Interesting how both lesbians not being attracted to transwomen and gay men not being attracted to transmen are both framed as misogyny and neither seems to ever be framed as misandry. Because they want to have their cake and eat it too. Whatever helps them shoehorn their struggles against reality into the social justice template to trigger maximum knee-jerk outrage.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's because women are seen as a victimized class so are above men on the intersectionality totem pole. They need it for their oppression BINGO card.

[–]lavender_menace 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They call it transmisogyny. A word that to me always means trans being overtly misogynistic to any woman, especially a disagreeing one.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

misogyny

If you identify as a man, then you can’t be a victim of misogyny. But since this person is obviously a woman, I can see why she’d be concerned about it. Of course, it’s not misogynistic for a gay man to not want anything to do with a vagina.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These women all look so ugly, at least if you are going to be a man then look like one

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry, I care more about preserving these biases.