Colonizationr/actuallesbians - To my trans lesbian sisters „Full blown dyke“ and „cis lesbian“ would love to be with „pre HRT, non op“ trans woman. Collective headpatting, uwuing and homophobia ensues in the comments.

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[–][deleted] 47 insightful - 11 fun47 insightful - 10 fun48 insightful - 11 fun -  (13 children)

I'll take a non op, non hrt trans lady over a TERF any day and I'm a full blown dyke. So yeah. My 2 cents. 2 sparkly gay ass cents.

Sounds like a bisexual ass to me.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 38 insightful - 11 fun38 insightful - 10 fun39 insightful - 11 fun -  (2 children)

Sounds like a bisexual ass to me.

Well, let's not forget that, THESE days, "full blown dyke" can perfectly well mean:

  • woman who's exclusively opposite-sex attracted
  • MAN who's exclusively opposite-sex attracted
  • man who's exclusively SAME-sex attracted (for hitherto-unknown levels of WTF-ery)

Plus, from what I've seen? Using the word "dyke"? Is something of a TQ+ specialty.

But, one's thing for sure: whether bisexual or not... they're an ASS, all right.

[–]malloww 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My fiance is a non op lovely transbian and I wouldn't trade her for anything.

Sooo... Yeah. This "full blown dyke" definitely likes dick. In fact, if anything what's questionable is whether or not she likes, you know, actual women. She has spent a lot of time talking about liking "femmes", liking dick, and being a top. Also glitter and being a rainbow queer and being a "glamazon", not a boring stuffy old TERF. What doesn't get a lot of mention? Women. Like, actual women, not just "femmes".

I kind of feel like this is a straight woman who is probably into BDSM and dominating feminine men, and has decided that makes her "queer" and somehow a lesbian. Even though she pretty clearly dislikes actual lesbians, and loves dicks.

Edit: honestly, if I were more of a cynic and didn't realize how insane shit has gotten I'd think this was a troll trying to make our point for us. It's just ridiculous. But I'm sure it is real, and even if it's not all the upvotes and weird, simpering replies definitely are...

[–]throwaway999 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The posting on r/latebloomerlesbians is suspicious, and she can be found complimenting another trans-id male. You're right about the zero mention of women. I'm leaning towards straight gal on this one, but it could also be a male pretending for validation. Tough one.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like anyone but a lesbian. Sounds more like someone role-playing on the Internet and not someone who has ever engaged in female homosexuality.

[–]chandra 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

These sorts of posts are probably all just transwomen anonymously validating each other. That or super enthusiastic 'queer' 13 year olds. I can't imagine any actual adult lesbians or bisexual women, even TRAs, deciding on a whim to make one of these infantilising "you are valid and you are seen" announcements. But maybe I'm naïve.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 14 insightful - 17 fun14 insightful - 16 fun15 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

But maybe I'm naïve.

🏳️‍🌈(❀˘꒳˘)♡(˘꒳˘❀)🏳️‍🌈

Not at all hunty 💗

✧･ﾟ: ✧･ﾟ♡(ᵘʷᵘ)♡･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧

You are VALID. 😘 You are SEEN. 👏💪

ﾟ･:｡(ꈍᴗꈍ)ε｀)~｡*:･ﾟ

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 21 insightful - 5 fun21 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

That or another woke hypocrit.

It's very easy to say you would date a "trans lady" and never do it. Woke on the streets, terf in the sheets.

The peak threads on ovarit are full of lesbians who actually did date a "trans lady" lmao

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

sounds like a transbian larping to me

[–]howdidthishappen[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup. Really sounds like it to everyone apart from these people lol

[–]our_team_is_winning 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sounds like a post from a man to me.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yeah, what was with the weird bragging about dicks and airport scanners? Basically a bunch of blokes sitting around and comparing dick size... very lesbian

[–]throwaway999 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a full blown dyke.

Just because you're butch (which is generally what they mean) doesn't mean you're a lesbian.

edit: Actually, on looking through her profile, she claims to be femme.

[–]Retardation_station 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

The ass kissing and head pats are really sickening. How much attention and "validation" (really starting to hate that word btw) do these people need?

Who even wants that? I'd be fucking furious if I had a bunch of people talking to me like I'm a crying toddler. I truly don't understand the constant need for reassurance.

Life is pretty fucking difficult no matter who you are, but I guess tans people are the most affected by hardship apparently.

[–]GayBoner 20 insightful - 23 fun20 insightful - 22 fun21 insightful - 23 fun -  (4 children)

Honey your feelings are valid!!! 😘

[–]Retardation_station 10 insightful - 13 fun10 insightful - 12 fun11 insightful - 13 fun -  (3 children)

Stop it. No they're not.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 15 insightful - 17 fun15 insightful - 16 fun16 insightful - 17 fun -  (2 children)

uWuuuuu here comes the validation train 🚂🚃🚃🚃✨

[–]Retardation_station 11 insightful - 14 fun11 insightful - 13 fun12 insightful - 14 fun -  (1 child)

I choo-choo-choose not to be validated. 😏

[–]hufflepuff-poet 8 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Hop on, we're heading to validation station, you bigot! /S 🔫

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 20 insightful - 12 fun20 insightful - 11 fun21 insightful - 12 fun -  (5 children)

Ah the wit and wisdom of a 12 year old raging full blown “dyke”

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 14 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

and total femme top. Here why I hate being a lesbian, too small dating poll, and a significant part of it makes me cringe :(

[–]julesburm1891 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

…is she actually 12?

[–]malloww 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

My fiance is a non op lovely transbian and I wouldn't trade her for anything.

If this isn't a total larp, then based on this comment, no. She is, however, definitely not a lesbian. Maybe not even bi.

[–]howdidthishappen[S] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Oh my god I didn’t even see that.

„My hus- I mean wife uwu came out ten minutes ago, so I’m the biggest lesbian who’s ever lesbianed - now let me tell you freakish vagina fetishists what it means to be a lesbian!“

These are the worst ones AL has to offer imo

[–]hunther 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

oh yeah truly she's having the most lesbiany lesbian sex compared to us TERFs

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I fucking hate bisexuals larping as lesbians. They're the worst scum of LGBT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Some absolute gems from the thread:

Thank you so much. I sometimes feel bad being here cuz like "am I a real woman" "will they accept me" etc. But this makes me so happy 💖😊

They know they don't belong and are invading a space meant for women, lesbians.

I feel the same. Especially being pre-HRT, I can’t imagine any woman finding me even remotely attractive

Y'know who would be attracted to an unaltered male body? A straight or bisexual woman, go pursue them and you may actually find a girlfriend. No pity for men who try to force themselves on lesbians, for their male ego or their gender validation feels. Die alone you sad creeps, or get therapy and find a woman who could be attracted to you and leave lesbians alone.

I have three trans friends who all say "We are WOMEN!" And I love these beautiful REAL WOMEN! Remember, you are always accepted here! 🏳️‍🌈💏💟

You do not have threee trans friends, you have three fellow cult members you are performing your cult rituals with. Real women do not have to remind ourselves we are women, the world reminds us all the time.

[–]serf_n_terfStraight Ally - Surf’s up! 🏄‍♀️ 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I loathe the word ‘valid’. And calling yourself a d*ke when you’re not a lesbian “reclaiming” the slur is offensive as hell.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Sure swamp_bruja, have fun having sex with mentally ill men in spinny skirts, Imma be dating actual lesbian women and not performing conversion therapy on myself. Thanks for "taking one for the team" though 🙄

From post OP:

I hear you. I know that I'm not the only cis lesbian out there that dgaf whether a girl is non op or not. Perhaps this is TMI but I'll give this example . I'm 100% femme4femme so a non op trans girl in a cute skirt, rocking her girly style is way hotter than a cis girl presenting masc. My fiance is a non op lovely transbian and I wouldn't trade her for anything. So I stand by what I said, my trans sisters are ALL valid! 🖤

Ahh so she has a "transbian fiance", sounds like another straight woman whose sexual orientation was overwritten for her male partner. He's already transitioned before they're married, I hope she runs before she becomes a trans widow, those women have been through so much.

I don't understand these women, your sexual orientation is your own, I certainly wouldn't consider myself straight if my gf came out as a "trans man", I'd consider myself single cus I'm not attracted to someone I have to lie to or women who hate being a woman. How can you love me as a woman when you don't even love your own womanhood?

[–]hunther 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They have no self respect for themselves. They need external validation which they get from their spouse because they have no internal validation. It's why they refuse to leave their husbands.

My fiance is a non op lovely transbian

ah yeas penis in vagina is totally lesbian sex y'all

[–]howdidthishappen[S] 11 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry kinda messed up the formatting in the title. But yeah this thread 🙃

[–]angelduster 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It really irks me how so many of the commenters are tripping and falling over each other to be "inclusive" and make sure everyone knows how icky TERFs are. But some of the comments are also just, I'm not sure how to describe it? Unsettling?

You know, I get the whole larger dick thing being off putting to some lesbians but it doesn't bug me cuz I'm a top and there's a plethora of fun to be had with lady dicks that isn't so different from what I'd do with cis partners.

I...what?? "being off putting to some lesbians" only some?? Maybe I'm just weirded out because there seems to be a lot of focusing on male genitalia in this thread on a subreddit for "actual lesbians."

Also, one of the commenters referred to themselves as a "non op enby lesbian" and what is that? I'm not even trying to be mean or rude, I literally don't understand it.

[–]lavender_menace 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It means he is a man with danger hair without any intention of cutting his dick off (otherwise he would write pre op).

[–]howdidthishappen[S] 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah that one is really bad.

As for the rest:

non op = has penis + balls

enby = non binary

lesbian = what he isn’t

Btw there was another one who said he „wants nothing more than to be a gay butch lady and it means the world to be accepted by queerwomen, as a queer woman.„

His flair also said NB, but along with „AMAB masc“ and that’s now become my favorite fuckery to ever come out of this sub. Literally a gender conforming man who wants to be accepted as a „gay butch lady“ and he obviously is judging by the upvotes.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wonder if he wants to be "accepted as a gay butch lady" in real life too or only in lesbian spaces where that identity benefits his dick 🙄

[–]MilkTea 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

... And when these incels step outside for once after spending hours LARPing as "lesbians" online, they lose their shit after getting rejected over and over again in real life. The only way for them to get validation is from their fellow role playing AGPs.

[–]julesburm1891 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I’m sure all the other lesbians are going to be real torn up by missing out on a date with that gem of a human.

[–]DropItLikeItsHot 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Honestly all this virtue signalling is hurting these delusional males as much as it hurts females with their pandering bullshit. It's setting them up with unrealistic expectations; the more you build up a lie, the harder it's gonna fall.

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly. They’ve spent the past year and a half living out their fetish fantasies full-throttle online in an environment devoid of actual lesbians. Now that we’re all going back to normal, they’re going to be in for a rude awakening when no lesbians will give them the time of day irl.

[–]DropItLikeItsHot 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's nice to see public pushback against them but the sad part is the trans movement still has the upper hand in terms of mainstream control. Hence the constant policing they and their followers enforce in the name of progressiveness. Stuff like the fall from grace of lgbTQFIWREJGJO+ era Stonewall is nice to see.

[–]hunther 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'm 100% femme4femme so a non op trans girl in a cute skirt, rocking her girly style is way hotter than a cis girl presenting masc. My fiance is a non op lovely transbian and I wouldn't trade her for anything

Excuse me wtf. She's married to a man who convince her she's a lesbian. Ma'am this is wendy's

[–]bolla_top 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For all that cis guys like to brag about their dick size, I don't see them showing up on airport security scanners as carrying a concealed weapon!

Well, that’s because the airport scanners have gender settings - my gf always gets scanned twice - first time it flags her dick, second time it flags her breasts ;_; I always feel so bad.

This exchange... I mean, you're on a lesbian forum, bragging about how big your dicks are and how big your "girlfriend"'s dick is. This cant possibly last. Nothing this absurd can possibly last for very long.

[–]Tikiri 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is either a straight (maybe bi) woman who married a man who decided to transition ... or a MtF.

[–]EzukiRaen 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a prime example for why a lot of people still think "lesbians secretly like dick". The fact that these "lesbians" don't see how they're perpetuating something incredibly homophobic/lesbophobic is so ridiculously ironic that I would find this laughable if I didn't know that they were being serious.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

These soapboxing queercels are so annoying. She'll fuck pre-hrt, pre-op "trans woman" and calls herself a lesbian? what a fucking loser. Fucking liar