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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 46 insightful - 8 fun46 insightful - 7 fun47 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

"all sentient being gave me masc traits"

Uhh what. What are "masc traits", if you're not referring to physical sex or secondary sex characteristics? Liking sports or having an opinion? Fuck off with that

[–]reluctant_commenter 31 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Right? Probably just a lot of sex stereotypes.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's all that have to cling onto. That's why they hate people who are gender non-conforming without being trans, as it just makes them look all the more ridiculous.

[–]panderichthys 36 insightful - 15 fun36 insightful - 14 fun37 insightful - 15 fun -  (5 children)

You're quite literally 19/20 of the female population. Another 19/20 of the male population are able to find you attractive by default. Even if half of all straight men think you're disgusting or simply aren't into you, that's still two billion men. If we cut that in half to leave out all the boys and old men, that's still a billion. And if we cut that in half again, twice, to account for all the taken men, you still have over 250 million potential partners. If you're still having trouble meeting someone, let's just say the problem probably isn't with "tHosE eViL cIs mEn"

[–]8bitgay 29 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, that. Even if you considered that transmen are just like cis men, the reality is still that there are more straight men than gay/bi men. And many gay/bi men are afraid of being open about their sexuality due to homophobia.

This is an issue we all pass as gay men. We simply have to accept that we have less dating options than straight people. It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If only she could leave gays alone she may would find a boyfriend. The reason why she can’t get a boy is cause she’s probably going after gays, when she’s female.

If she leave her fetishes aside she probably could find a boy. I know plenty of straight women who are gender non conforming and have boyfriends and husbands. But guess what.. their boys are bi/het. I had a ex girlfriend who were the butch of the butches I have ever met, she look like a guy, not only because of her style (clothes, hair cut, behavior) even her physical features were very masculine, 1.80 cm tall, very strong strong jaw, wide shoulders due to professional swimming since child, and yet there were boys hitting on her, most of her male friends had tried shit with her, unfortunately. So it’s not like there’s no heterosexual (and bi) men who likes masculine women at all.

The thing with those kids now is that they’re very sexist, even more than the previous generation I would guess. They are all about gender roles. So they think that, if they don’t fit the heterosexual sexist stereotypes they must not be heterosexual, despite fitting right in the descriptive definition of heterosexual.

[–]reluctant_commenter 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

It's because transmen want to pick and choose when they have to be gay men, just like transwomen pick and choose which parts of being a "woman" or a "lesbian" they want to experience.

[–]Eurowoman24 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

ah yes girl mode.. not privilege there!

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. It makes me so angry I have no word.

[–]MilkTea 36 insightful - 8 fun36 insightful - 7 fun37 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

They complain about not getting laid, but they also never once consider dating each other or other "mascs".

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 28 insightful - 22 fun28 insightful - 21 fun29 insightful - 22 fun -  (0 children)

It triggers their dysphooooooooorrrrria. Oh woe is they/them.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The “it will influence the kids” was right?

It’s quite depressing and I hate to admit it but I’m realizing that it’s happening exactly what homophobes said it would happen. Now being gay and lesbian is seen as cool and the heretosexual kids want be part of what they see as a hobby/lifestyle/aesthetic.

I’m having very mixed feelings about everything now o.o

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The only issue is that gay men, lesbians, and bisexuals didn't really willingly influence kids into becoming LGBT, but the 180 turn from gays being hated to gays being celebrated/an influx of gay pandering media made being gay a highly desirable lifestyle choice (in the eyes of those who aren't actually gay) rather than an immutable state of being.

[–]BiHorror 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Present as a girl" somehow that manages to get under my skin so fucking deep. Because I would really like to know what these type of people would see me as for being androgynous and "presenting as a girl."

Either way, she can get still a man. She just doesn't want the men who would look her way.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

"present as a girl" what the fuck does that even mean just be yourself you crazy asses

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

SERIOUSLY.

[–]nautilistic 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The sad part is that she's a pretty girl and could have lots of guys if she wasn't mentally ill and chasing gay men.

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (7 children)

That's exactly where you end up if you read yaoi. uwu

Gay god has cast yaoi at straight women as a form of curse, to punish them for how poorly they treat straight men.

Or something like that.

[–]just_lesbian_things 9 insightful - 8 fun9 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 8 fun -  (6 children)

Why the fuck is gay god doing shit for straight people?

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (5 children)

I... don't know. I was in a hurry.

But he did give gays some unhealthy obsession with straight men, so I wasn't completely unreasonable.

[–]Eurowoman24 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

i've always wondered why that is?

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Gay guys majorly crave the "real man" as a partner. Straight guys seem to reach it really easily, while other gays tend to be more feminine, full of mannerisms, with squeaky voices and tendency to like make up or nail panting. Hence, why we often prefer straight men sexually, rather than other gays. In reality, it goes down not to "being masculine" but "straight-passing."

Besides, because of their numbers, straight guys usually become a crush for most of us at some point in life.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm the lesbian version of that. I just can't find masculine women attractive no matter how much I've already tried, and as many lesbians are more masculine or tomboyish, I find myself constantly looking to straight women instead 😖 (I don't hit on them though, but the attraction is there) for me, she has to be feminine really.

[–]Eurowoman24 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

that makes sense! It just seemed a bit dangerous to me that's all.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Interesting; Where do you suppose bisexual males generally fall in this particular behavioral range?

[–]Seahorse 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is how you know they're privileged little straight girls.

I'm sure they expected to just exist on Grindr and they'd get 80 messages.