I bet they really believe no one can tell which parent is a female without checking their genitals. by jet199 in SuperStraight

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All three of them look completely nuts.

Looks like /r/badwomensanatomy got girldicked too. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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They didn't delete it outright, they forced the person who founded the sub and one of the mods to step down, and replaced her with several trans mods. Now its basically a ghost town.

I just need to talk to some sane people about this bullshit: by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think my brain broke reading all that.

"gay" (= actually heterosexual) trans man = biological woman cosplaying as man "lesbian" (= actually heterosexual) trans woman = biological man cosplaying as a woman

These two people got together and their relationship is still "gay" somehow. Even if you accept their identities its still a man/woman relationship, aka het.

Looks like /r/badwomensanatomy got girldicked too. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That sucks hardcore. TIA has been keeping me sane the last couple of months.

Fellas, is it queer to support science? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Apparently its against their religion to think for yourself.

r/ftm - Why do Cis men think their schlong and boys make them a man? by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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I don't frequent men's bathrooms so I can't comment on the cleanliness or lack thereof. I can say that some women's bathrooms I've been to were just, like, completely wrecked. LIke for some reason entire rolls of TP unrolled and piled on the floor, one where someone threw the entire toilet seat cover pack (still in the cardboard holder) into the toilet, just complete animal stuff. Its amazing how wrecked the ladies can get.

Trans connection to pornography by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not disagreeing with you but the current culture of trans topics makes it pretty much impossible for someone writing an article like this to do it under their own name and not anoymously.

"Gay people are homophobic because they are not interested in the opposite sex" by KimiORabu in LGBDropTheT

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I had basically the same reaction. Like, words mean things?

So many years of LGB proving that they don't turn kids into anything, just for TQ to come around and do exactly that... by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean thats just you tho? No one in my 6th grade class had a bf or a gf, let alone doing sexual activity. (unless they were being molested by a relative which I certainly was). But the kids were not doing it to each other.

We need to expand the definition of what a period is by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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If I recall correctly the number of characters on all the star trek shows that I saw that got laid at all is in the single digits.

As far as I know O'brien was the only member of engineering to get any action. I didn't watch Voyager or any later shows tho, so I'm going off of TOS, TNG, and DS9.

We need to expand the definition of what a period is by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Worf and Geordi's characters were victims of racism

Wait what? I mean some of Worf's treatment in the series was because he was a Klingon, are they saying it was because Worf was played by Michael Dorn (a black man)? My mind is kind of boggling. What was wrong with the way Geordi was treated? Its been a while since I saw the series but I don't remember any racism.

Tattoo & piercing parlor says "everyone is welcome here" (except t*rfs). by EventideSky in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is no way I'd actually get a tattoo there.

A woman did it! by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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But this never happens!

Identity by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why should law define the way people are

Says the person of the group demanding the law define intervene on their behalf.

Identity by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think for many people the feeling of wrongness that you feel doesn't necessarily mean that you are something else. Being or feeling wrong doesn't logically progress to "and that meant I'm something else". You can feel all sorts of feelings about your body without necessarily making the leap to "and therefore I'm something else". I don't get that leap also, like lovesloan says despite everything you don't really understand what its like to be a female.

How many of you have read "A Separate Peace" and what are your thoughts? by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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See I couldn't see being hateful and jealous and "in love", like why would you hurt someone if you love them. Thats the part that made no sense to me. I couldn't make any sense out of it so I came up with what I wrote above. I mean as a teenager, nowdays I think I have a little bit more insight into psychology but as a teenager the "in love" part just didn't match up with the "I want to hurt this person" part.

How many of you have read "A Separate Peace" and what are your thoughts? by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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When I read it in school I didn't get gay from it but I was pretty clueless about sex and relationships then. I never understood why he made his friend fall off the tree, that made zero sense to me. I read it as a psychopath not understanding why he couldn't relate to anyone and pointlessly injuring and driving away his only friend.

I'm so confused by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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I think they were either lying or deep in denial pre-transition. Many of the MRA types who transition and then suddenly discover a desire for teh gay sex were imo just gay and in denial and transition allowed them to discover their sexuality.

Just when you think they can’t possibly be any more insufferable by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think this person is getting ready to replace the husband, she reads like she's drunk the koolaid.

Gender ideology is religion. by GatitoMalo in LGBDropTheT

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To me it seems like they think that transitioning is a sort of rebirth, like they hate their 'dead name" and given the number of criminals who transition and then take great pains to distance themselves from their past they clearly view it as a spiritual rebirth as well. Like pointing out that someone doing a reading to children is actually a convicted felon is just ~rude~.

Not just UK leftist are tired of it, everyone is, cry more by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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I only skimmed the article but as far as I can tell their only problem is that the Guardian occasionally publishes some not 100% TRA agenda pieces (which are far outnumbered by their pro-trans articles) and even that amount of opposition is Not Okay.

Not just UK leftist are tired of it, everyone is, cry more by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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cummunists

This is the first time I've heard this term and its so, so apt.

Those are just different words for "heretic" and you know it by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Well I guess I'm a bigot now. I find it amusing that the trans brigade has thrown the word bigot around so much that its basically lost all meaning. If the word bigot has no power to compel people to do anything, what are they going to do?

Those are just different words for "heretic" and you know it by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I mean this is basically the concept of original sin. Humans are born sinners and that can't be changed, no matter what. Again transgenderism loops back around to conservative religiosity.

TRA: "i SleEp wIth MEn WiTH VaGINAS and wOMen wiTh pENises" (face censored due to possible "no-doxxing" rule, if there is any) by AllInOne in LGBDropTheT

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Holy filters batman. I wonder what he looks like iRL.

That guy who's in lesbian subreddits by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think its a woman who thinks their are more masculine than feminine (hence "trans masc" rather than trans man) and doesn't think they belong in a lesbian reddit. No idea if they like dudes or chicks from the statement they wrote. So its impossible to tell if they're actually a lesbian or not.

The eternal mystery of why r/TumblrInAction remains while r/LGBDropTheT, r/GenderCritical and so many more were banned. Thoughts? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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TRAs are cowards

Yeah this. Its stupidly simple once you see it, they only go after people who are already marginalized in some way - female, poc, actually gay/lesbian, jewish.

Queer is the new punk/goth by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Sounds like someone with no real problems.

homogenderal is finally happening. posted on lgbt. by lespyro in LGBDropTheT

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Dear god why is everything a spectrum. Not everything is a spectrum for crying out loud.

Woke straight guy on FB: "We need to listen to Radical Islam." by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Many of the so-called middle easterners in Europe are actually south asian, Afghan and Pakistani. They are not arabs.

ETA - there might be some legitimate arab refugees from Syria etc in the mix but I think in the last wave of refugees going to Europe they were vastly outnumbered by anyone who looked vaguely middle eastern going to Europe and saying they were Syrian but had lost their papers.

Woke straight guy on FB: "We need to listen to Radical Islam." by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Yes, this is what I meant. They're literally caucasians.

What’s a bit of experimenting on kids between gay doctors? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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She only developed hips on one side... the other side was straight (no curvature).

This is going to F up her spine and gait, she'll be in a world of hurt from her hips and back when she's older. My hips are uneven and I'm constantly in pain in my hips and back.

Woke straight guy on FB: "We need to listen to Radical Islam." by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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They're defending Islam because islam is anti-western. Its not because they're POC (many arabs are basically white). Its also because of Israel - many leftists are anti-semetic and will defend whoever is fighting Israel, and now its the Palestinians, most of whom are Muslim.

A sign of being trans? The jokes write themselves. by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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He could have just developed a meth habit instead, and not made himself sterile in the process.

Turns out the transgender MMA fighter who beat up a woman participated in a "Lolita" meetup by chiobu in GenderCritical

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Well that face is hella creepy. I like the dress tho, would be great on literally anyone else.

Turns out the transgender MMA fighter who beat up a woman participated in a "Lolita" meetup by chiobu in GenderCritical

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Thanks for bringing this up, I like the lolita fashion trend (even though I would look ridiculous in it) and follow some lolita blogs etc. They NEVER call out the trans ppl for their shitty coords and wigs.

James Shupe detransitions (again). Any drug which lowers the libido can be used to treat AGP so why don't they use them? by jet199 in itsafetish

[–]kwallio 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Its actually kind of hilarious how un-self-aware AGP people are. I read an account of a guy who transitioned, detransitioned, then retransitioned and went through that entire process at least twice. Never realizing the whole time that his desire to transition was due to his libido, and that when he was on blockers and hormones his desire to live as a woman went kaput. This guy will probably retransition.

How does one supposed to improve straight man's experience of not getting lesbian matches? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I think Her had this feature at one point - you could filter out or specify people who id'd themselves on the app as transwomen, but the transwomen said it was ~transphobic of course so they stopped it.

Can't keep up with their own lies by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I feel super sad for this person because they clearly drank the trans koolaid and believed the gender BS. I had previously thought that all trans ppl knew their own sexuality and were just lying through their teeth, I guess some of them actually believe it.

Cute teen lesbian couple. No, wait... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The lack of logic between "I don't feel 100% like a mass media stereotype of a woman" and "therefore I must be a man" kind of kills me. Like...there is a middle ground in gender presentation you don't have to be one extreme or the other.

Cute teen lesbian couple. No, wait... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I mean I can understand gender bending, and androgyny, but why id as a man and then be "feminine". Sounds like lesbian aesthetic but with extra steps.

Cute teen lesbian couple. No, wait... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think I'll ever understand why FTM femininity is a thing.

Gay man in a relationship with other gay man laments he "doesn't feel like a lesbian" by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is kind of where you were going tho, jumping in to say how two dudes in a relationship totally aren't necessarily GAY GAY, you know, not LIKE THAT. Come one man.

Gay man in a relationship with other gay man laments he "doesn't feel like a lesbian" by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Perhaps you could write an entire book on how same sex relationship aren't gay, call it internalized homophobia and make it trans some how, you'd make a mint.

As the parent of two vagina owners by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Imani is such a fucking tool.

Gay man in a relationship with other gay man laments he "doesn't feel like a lesbian" by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

My point stands, we still don't know this guy's sexual orientation

And my point still fucking stands, he is in a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER MALE HE IS GAY GAY GAY GAYER THAN GAY GAAAAAAAAAAAAY.

And there is nothing wrong with him being gayer than a $2 bill, its fine, its just the whole HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE JUST GAY THINGS GAY that he is doing.

ETA he could be bi but the whole GAY SEX THING HE IS DOING IS PRETTY HELLA GAY.

Gay man in a relationship with other gay man laments he "doesn't feel like a lesbian" by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think the part where he is in a sexual relationship with another male is the gay part.

RANT: "Deadnaming" a Trans Student by sallytomato in GenderCritical

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I finished grad school and decided there was no way I could ever deal with academia ever again. I could not have dealt with a student that kept on changing names all semester, I probably would have made them pick one. Teaching is a ton of BS to start with, having students changing names is outrageous.

Biological science strikes again. Checkmate TERFs. by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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This is legit the most disappointing thing about the whole gender "debate"...the other side is unimaginably stupid. Its like debating with a bunch of loud pigeons.

Biological science strikes again. Checkmate TERFs. by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Hm, I wonder what it is that female humans and female deer have in common.

Gender Ideology 101: The origins by JoeyJoeJoe in LGBDropTheT

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It bothers me to no end that trans ideology is basically just old school homophobia with woke dressing on top and no one seems to realize this or talk about it.

Tonks a non-binary character who was turned cis by Rowling? Revisionism? by Rage-Xion in GenderCritical

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I swear none of these people know shit about punk rock, from saying Kurt Cobain was trans because he wore dresses (a punk rock thing you morons) to this lady thinking Tonks was genderfluid because she dresses in a punk way.

For GC: what makes someone trans? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

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I mean if I had to go along with trans dogma or lose my job I would probably say what I had to in order to stay employed. But in my view transgenderism is basically a delusion, a false idea that changing sex is possible, or that brains have a sex and that one has or can have the brain of a different sex. Every study on the human brain in the different sexes has shown that apart from a slight difference in size (female brains are smaller) there are no measurable or significant differences in the brain between the sexes . So no, I don't believe that anyone can actually be trans.

For GC: what makes someone trans? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

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I don't really believe that transgenderism, or gender dysphoria is really a thing. A person wearing the opposide sex's clothes or presenting as the opposite sex is just crossdressing. The trans concept is based in a foofy religous like concept of inner essence which as an atheist I reject completely. Your mind is an embodied concept, it does not exist outside of the body, so transgenderism is just religious-like hooey.

I would like a trans person to define what transgenderism means to them, including all trans people including people who don't crossdress or transition since no hatekeeping, ok?

Children's book: "If you're a girl who doesn't like wearing dresses, then you must actually be a boy." by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I'm a girl tho, so I wasn't GNC in terms of dress (I had a really intense pink sparkly princess phase) but was gnc in terms of my interests.

If this humungous creep doesn't peak the planet, there's no hope by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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They unironically quote Buffalo Bill from the Silence of The Lambs.

An actual nursing student says… by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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The tissue types are completely different. Mucous membrane is not the same as skin, and one can not change into the other, ever.

Children's book: "If you're a girl who doesn't like wearing dresses, then you must actually be a boy." by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I wonder what these gender weirdos would say about my own childhood, where I was sort of a tomboy who was into odd things like bug collecting and climbed trees and explored the woods but hated pants and wanted to wear dresses all the time.

At last the Pride flag you’ve been longing for - for lesbians who don’t fancy women 🤡🤡🤡 by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Flag is transphobic AF, block and stay safe. /s

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I dunno, I just know it happens.

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I wonder what they think of women born with two vaginas and two uteruses, because that happens too.

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I always wondered what intersectionality meant...I guess it means Woman Bad.

A poor soul's heart is aching over DroptheT meanies at Saidit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think it was a real rule during that time period.

A poor soul's heart is aching over DroptheT meanies at Saidit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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We have s/gcdebatesqt, if you want to debate please check it out.

"I feel like the idea of translesbian spaces online being creepy and predatory comes from a real phenomena" - a tiny spark of enlightenment by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Funny how there are only 2 comments and both of them are like, well, yeah, it happens.

Cis gays are so privileged! by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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They're clearly zoroastrian.

The horror; the horror by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Why can't he just do heroin or something.

“I’m a he/him lesbian” 🤡🤡🤡 by bethlehemcrane in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is basically what post-modernism and queer theory says. You don't perceive reality, you create reality with your mind. Its mind-blowlingly idiotic.

An observation... by SerpensInferna in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for dropping stats. I know what the actual murder rate of transwomen is, I was trying to get fartandsnap to do some digging and admit what the actual rate of assault and so on for transwomen actually was (its the lowest out of all demos, actually).

An observation... by SerpensInferna in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH. NO U.

An observation... by SerpensInferna in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Prove it. Where are the assault stats? Where are the murders? There just aren't any. Everyone knows they're men, thats why they don't get assaulted.

An observation... by SerpensInferna in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 21 insightful - 9 fun21 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Well, they won't get groped by heterosexual men because no one wants man-ass in a skirt.

You go girl!!!!!!!! by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He looks like a ghoul. Wtf was he thinking posting this pic? Even his nails look more like talons.

Reframe your penis phobic trauma by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think the people running the religious soup kitchens thought that those conversions were genuine, either, its a power play.

Are you religious? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

  1. no
  2. I was raised catholic, I dunno but I don't think I ever really believed in god. It just seemed too farfetched to me.
  3. I feel like I'm a rationalist and I am GC mostly because I feel that there just isn't any good evidence that transition actually helps anyone, and the blatantly anti-science attitudes of the TRA crowd. Hardcore radfems also have their issues with science (and scientists) which is why I don't consider myself 100% a radfem.
  4. I feel like much (most?) of trans rhetoric loops around into conservative christian/fundie religion rhetoric more often than not. The whole if you have short hair as a woman you are actually a boy/long hair you are actually a woman type of gender BS, the hard/rigid gender role adherence perpetrated by most trans, the idea that being same sex attracted is problematic in someway, the whole concept of gender seems to reflect a christian soul which I don't believe in, yes I think it does parallel religion and conservative religious attitudes towards sex and sexuality.

The euphoria from their imaginary periods cramps has blown what's left of their minds by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What the crap is that even supposed to mean? They fail biology forever, like female hormones come from the ovaries, wtf.

It's always the snowflakes who are most entitled by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When the book talked about his friendship to Grindelwald I 100% thought he was gay. When JK said that he was it was no surprise. If you read the books closely (especially book 7) it was obvious.

Apparently restricting trans groomers access to children is cult behavior now... by Hera in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm kind of amazed when I see toddlers with tablets and so forth. Having a kid glued to an electronic device nonstop can't be good for them.

So... where are you on the transphobia scale? by Neo_Shadow_Lurker in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The scale doesn't read as a spectrum to me, more like interrelated positions. Anyway I'm on the overt transphobe end. I used to be more in the middle, sort of confused ally. Then I became more aware of what trans people actually are.

This is the only sport that doesn’t let trans women compete in female competition by BiologyIsReal in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

clean and press

Also weightlifters were breaking their backs and becoming paralysed from doing this lift.

Would 'Laurel' Hubbard really throw the Olympics on purpose? by Rial in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I guess they're only at the olympics for ~validation and not to win. Which seems odd to me.

Would 'Laurel' Hubbard really throw the Olympics on purpose? by Rial in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you watch the video its pretty apparent that he threw the weights away on purpose. He threw the competition.

Chris Chan (trans-identified male) admits to sexually assaulting his mother (read the comments to understand the background). by SexualityCritical in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I used to live in DC which is Virginia adjacent. Up until recently VA was hardcore red state. They do NOT fuck around when it comes to criminal justice, its like the deep south. If Chris does time it'll be in a men's prison.

Meanwhile on Reddit, *shocked Pikachu face* Religion isn't very trans friendly. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This poor woman needs to drop all of her friends and give her sister a good yelling.

GC: Why doesn't passing count? by BasCaptain in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You seem to be really tied up on the "appearance = reality" thing. Appearances are not reality. I don't think your examples pass, anyway.

Sure, Jan. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This post was on ovarit, I didn't go digging through her post history but someone else did and I think its a transman.

How to give your partner blue balls: Alphabet Soup style! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I take solace in the fact that most of these people are literal teenagers who have probably never had a real relationship.

All: What do you think about "non-binaries" and other "gender identities"? by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't really have a lot of sympathy for people who say they are non-binary. I have no idea what that really means except "I'm not like the other girls/boys" and "I'm super special pay attention to me". I understand the impulse to attempt to opt out of gender BS but the solution is not a new made up identity.

Either long or short version - it's still nonsense by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sadly I recognize all those terms from being on tumblr. This is clearly twitter, so its seems that most of the weirdos from tumblr went to twitter when tumblr banned pr0n. The idea that romantic attraction and sexual attraction are not necessarily the same is called the "split attraction model" which as far as I know is only used to the extremely online tumblerites etc, not any reputable sexuality researchers. And it also comes out of asexual discourse - the idea that you can have a romantic attraction but not a sexual attraction which to me screams I'm a virgin who has never had a real relationship. But what do I know.

Saying out loud what we already knew by DiveBarDiva in LGBDropTheT

[–]kwallio 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He does look like he is acting. Its kind of cringy.

Why trans don't tell their dates, that they are trans? by ygrek in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Its an ego boost to be dating in stealth mode. They think they pass so well that their dates don't know that they are trans. The thought process that they might be doing something dangerous or any thought about the feelings of the other person basically doesn't happen, because they are obsessed with their appearance.

There was a post on saidit somewhere, either here on gendercritical or elsewhere where a TIM was on a date with a man and did the big reveal that they were trans and were disappointed and angry that the man said that he knew and accepted the TIM for who he was. He was mad that he didn't pass and didn't get the ego boost of the gasp "but I thought you were totally a woman" experience.

My take on this is that trans people mostly live in a self-created fantasy world, anything that intrudes on this creates huge psychic problems and must be eliminated asap.

You are right that this creates problems for the trans person, because they are addicted to their fetish or preoccupation with passing and thus can't get a true relationship, which has honesty as a foundation. As we've seen with people becoming trans in the context of an already existing relationship, they are just fine with throwing away a long term relationship in service to their trans identity. I don't understand it either but that is what they do.

I am a crime scene cleaner who hit peak trans when I realized just how many suicide clean ups are tifs, and Tims, part ama part exposition, tw: gore and sucide, and CSA by terf41percentjanny in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thats really interesting, thanks for posting. I've thought occasionally about going into crime scene clean up because I am a night person and would like to get into a job that works nights. I don't know if I'd be able to handle it, though.

Need to know a site that won't ban gender critical bloggers. I'm about to go nuclear. by GConly in GenderCritical

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All the blogging sites that I can think of ban people for gender critical views, like medium or wordpress or blogger. Substack is pretty much the only one I can think of but I guess you can't be anonymous. You can always try to set up your own website but that costs money and could potentially be traced back to you anyway.

Tumblr is one option but its not exactly a serious blogging site. But you will be able to write and interact how you please, I have seen some GC tumblrs get nuked but mostly they were being very provocative. If you don't post harassment I think you should be ok.

Both: Which side has the pandemic helped more? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Tra narratives and ideology aren’t really sustainable

Totally agree.

The TRAs have adopted an untenable position longterm - total agreement on all issues and terminology with no debate, ever, even as those issues and terms change on the daily. Absolutely no safeguarding or waiting required when children are involved, must validate the trans identity. Its completely bonkers and like you said, unsustainable.

Both: Which side has the pandemic helped more? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I go so back-and-forth about this. It's really, really hard to not be polite, and it sounds bad in my mind, but the way many radical feminists deliberately embrace that form of social disobedience on principle not only makes sense from a woman's perspective (or so I intuit), but I can see the logic behind it being kinder to not entertain or encourage what might be considered mental illness or just harmful/unsafe behavior.

I actually feel this pretty hard. Everyone pretty much is socialized to not rock the boat and to accomodate people, pushing back against people is hard.

Both: Which side has the pandemic helped more? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think mostly its been a wash. I feel like the qt position has been pulled out into the open more, but the backside of that is that its been increasingly obvious that women and the reality based community are losing, badly.

The qts have made quite the asses of themselves, from the NYT article about someones nb status being meaningless when she was alone to the whining about trans surgeries being put off due to covid.

For me personally the pandemic has made me less inclined to give qt the benefit of the doubt and has essentially made me more extreme in my terfery. I used to be of the "its not a big deal to use neo/cross sex pronouns, costs $0 to be polite" type of person and have gone hard in the other direction because being "nice" is never reciprocated.

I think in my case being isolated from my very liberal very woke very pro-trans friends sort of did this, because you never want to be the one with no friends but a year without hanging out with them made me realize that they weren't really my friends anyway. Very few of them ever made the effort to check in, so screw it.

GC: Do you think it's possible for there to be sex change, "male pregnancy", a third sex, etc, with the use of technology and genetic engineering? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can't change your sex and humans have two sexes and are sexually dimorphic.

GC: Do you think it's possible for there to be sex change, "male pregnancy", a third sex, etc, with the use of technology and genetic engineering? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

[–]kwallio 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Please read a book, any book.