I bet they really believe no one can tell which parent is a female without checking their genitals.

kwallio · 2021-10-24T11:11:11+00:00

All three of them look completely nuts.

kwallio · 2021-10-23T12:21:29+00:00

They didn't delete it outright, they forced the person who founded the sub and one of the mods to step down, and replaced her with several trans mods. Now its basically a ghost town.

kwallio · 2021-10-22T22:01:39+00:00

I think my brain broke reading all that.

"gay" (= actually heterosexual) trans man = biological woman cosplaying as man "lesbian" (= actually heterosexual) trans woman = biological man cosplaying as a woman

These two people got together and their relationship is still "gay" somehow. Even if you accept their identities its still a man/woman relationship, aka het.

kwallio · 2021-10-22T21:53:19+00:00

That sucks hardcore. TIA has been keeping me sane the last couple of months.

kwallio · 2021-10-20T23:36:29+00:00

Apparently its against their religion to think for yourself.

kwallio · 2021-10-20T06:45:07+00:00

I don't frequent men's bathrooms so I can't comment on the cleanliness or lack thereof. I can say that some women's bathrooms I've been to were just, like, completely wrecked. LIke for some reason entire rolls of TP unrolled and piled on the floor, one where someone threw the entire toilet seat cover pack (still in the cardboard holder) into the toilet, just complete animal stuff. Its amazing how wrecked the ladies can get.

kwallio · 2021-10-19T23:21:35+00:00

I'm not disagreeing with you but the current culture of trans topics makes it pretty much impossible for someone writing an article like this to do it under their own name and not anoymously.

kwallio · 2021-10-19T23:14:27+00:00

I had basically the same reaction. Like, words mean things?

kwallio · 2021-10-19T23:09:22+00:00

I mean thats just you tho? No one in my 6th grade class had a bf or a gf, let alone doing sexual activity. (unless they were being molested by a relative which I certainly was). But the kids were not doing it to each other.

kwallio · 2021-10-15T13:45:38+00:00

If I recall correctly the number of characters on all the star trek shows that I saw that got laid at all is in the single digits.

As far as I know O'brien was the only member of engineering to get any action. I didn't watch Voyager or any later shows tho, so I'm going off of TOS, TNG, and DS9.

kwallio · 2021-10-14T21:59:02+00:00

Worf and Geordi's characters were victims of racism

Wait what? I mean some of Worf's treatment in the series was because he was a Klingon, are they saying it was because Worf was played by Michael Dorn (a black man)? My mind is kind of boggling. What was wrong with the way Geordi was treated? Its been a while since I saw the series but I don't remember any racism.

kwallio · 2021-10-14T21:55:23+00:00

There is no way I'd actually get a tattoo there.

kwallio · 2021-10-14T21:54:48+00:00

But this never happens!

kwallio · 2021-10-14T00:06:55+00:00

Why should law define the way people are

Says the person of the group demanding the law define intervene on their behalf.

kwallio · 2021-10-14T00:00:38+00:00

I think for many people the feeling of wrongness that you feel doesn't necessarily mean that you are something else. Being or feeling wrong doesn't logically progress to "and that meant I'm something else". You can feel all sorts of feelings about your body without necessarily making the leap to "and therefore I'm something else". I don't get that leap also, like lovesloan says despite everything you don't really understand what its like to be a female.

kwallio · 2021-10-13T23:55:44+00:00

See I couldn't see being hateful and jealous and "in love", like why would you hurt someone if you love them. Thats the part that made no sense to me. I couldn't make any sense out of it so I came up with what I wrote above. I mean as a teenager, nowdays I think I have a little bit more insight into psychology but as a teenager the "in love" part just didn't match up with the "I want to hurt this person" part.

kwallio · 2021-10-13T23:44:45+00:00

When I read it in school I didn't get gay from it but I was pretty clueless about sex and relationships then. I never understood why he made his friend fall off the tree, that made zero sense to me. I read it as a psychopath not understanding why he couldn't relate to anyone and pointlessly injuring and driving away his only friend.

kwallio · 2021-10-06T21:34:39+00:00

I think they were either lying or deep in denial pre-transition. Many of the MRA types who transition and then suddenly discover a desire for teh gay sex were imo just gay and in denial and transition allowed them to discover their sexuality.

kwallio · 2021-10-04T10:45:32+00:00

I think this person is getting ready to replace the husband, she reads like she's drunk the koolaid.

kwallio · 2021-10-01T09:37:15+00:00

To me it seems like they think that transitioning is a sort of rebirth, like they hate their 'dead name" and given the number of criminals who transition and then take great pains to distance themselves from their past they clearly view it as a spiritual rebirth as well. Like pointing out that someone doing a reading to children is actually a convicted felon is just ~rude~.

kwallio · 2021-10-01T01:21:31+00:00

I only skimmed the article but as far as I can tell their only problem is that the Guardian occasionally publishes some not 100% TRA agenda pieces (which are far outnumbered by their pro-trans articles) and even that amount of opposition is Not Okay.

kwallio · 2021-10-01T01:20:15+00:00

cummunists

This is the first time I've heard this term and its so, so apt.

kwallio · 2021-09-30T22:28:13+00:00

Well I guess I'm a bigot now. I find it amusing that the trans brigade has thrown the word bigot around so much that its basically lost all meaning. If the word bigot has no power to compel people to do anything, what are they going to do?

kwallio · 2021-09-30T22:27:19+00:00

I mean this is basically the concept of original sin. Humans are born sinners and that can't be changed, no matter what. Again transgenderism loops back around to conservative religiosity.

kwallio · 2021-09-30T05:42:58+00:00

Holy filters batman. I wonder what he looks like iRL.

kwallio · 2021-09-26T22:01:19+00:00

I think its a woman who thinks their are more masculine than feminine (hence "trans masc" rather than trans man) and doesn't think they belong in a lesbian reddit. No idea if they like dudes or chicks from the statement they wrote. So its impossible to tell if they're actually a lesbian or not.

kwallio · 2021-09-25T22:56:25+00:00

TRAs are cowards

Yeah this. Its stupidly simple once you see it, they only go after people who are already marginalized in some way - female, poc, actually gay/lesbian, jewish.

kwallio · 2021-09-25T22:54:20+00:00

Sounds like someone with no real problems.

kwallio · 2021-09-24T07:17:09+00:00

Dear god why is everything a spectrum. Not everything is a spectrum for crying out loud.

kwallio · 2021-09-24T07:10:44+00:00

Many of the so-called middle easterners in Europe are actually south asian, Afghan and Pakistani. They are not arabs.

ETA - there might be some legitimate arab refugees from Syria etc in the mix but I think in the last wave of refugees going to Europe they were vastly outnumbered by anyone who looked vaguely middle eastern going to Europe and saying they were Syrian but had lost their papers.

kwallio · 2021-09-24T07:09:52+00:00

Yes, this is what I meant. They're literally caucasians.

kwallio · 2021-09-22T22:27:34+00:00

She only developed hips on one side... the other side was straight (no curvature).

This is going to F up her spine and gait, she'll be in a world of hurt from her hips and back when she's older. My hips are uneven and I'm constantly in pain in my hips and back.

kwallio · 2021-09-22T22:24:16+00:00

They're defending Islam because islam is anti-western. Its not because they're POC (many arabs are basically white). Its also because of Israel - many leftists are anti-semetic and will defend whoever is fighting Israel, and now its the Palestinians, most of whom are Muslim.

kwallio · 2021-09-21T04:44:09+00:00

He could have just developed a meth habit instead, and not made himself sterile in the process.

kwallio · 2021-09-18T01:18:00+00:00

Well that face is hella creepy. I like the dress tho, would be great on literally anyone else.

kwallio · 2021-09-18T01:09:23+00:00

Thanks for bringing this up, I like the lolita fashion trend (even though I would look ridiculous in it) and follow some lolita blogs etc. They NEVER call out the trans ppl for their shitty coords and wigs.

kwallio · 2021-09-17T11:16:47+00:00

Its actually kind of hilarious how un-self-aware AGP people are. I read an account of a guy who transitioned, detransitioned, then retransitioned and went through that entire process at least twice. Never realizing the whole time that his desire to transition was due to his libido, and that when he was on blockers and hormones his desire to live as a woman went kaput. This guy will probably retransition.

kwallio · 2021-09-16T12:19:57+00:00

I think Her had this feature at one point - you could filter out or specify people who id'd themselves on the app as transwomen, but the transwomen said it was ~transphobic of course so they stopped it.

kwallio · 2021-09-15T06:43:33+00:00

I feel super sad for this person because they clearly drank the trans koolaid and believed the gender BS. I had previously thought that all trans ppl knew their own sexuality and were just lying through their teeth, I guess some of them actually believe it.

kwallio · 2021-09-15T06:38:58+00:00

The lack of logic between "I don't feel 100% like a mass media stereotype of a woman" and "therefore I must be a man" kind of kills me. Like...there is a middle ground in gender presentation you don't have to be one extreme or the other.

kwallio · 2021-09-14T01:35:52+00:00

I mean I can understand gender bending, and androgyny, but why id as a man and then be "feminine". Sounds like lesbian aesthetic but with extra steps.

kwallio · 2021-09-13T12:22:52+00:00

I don't think I'll ever understand why FTM femininity is a thing.

kwallio · 2021-09-07T20:24:20+00:00

That is kind of where you were going tho, jumping in to say how two dudes in a relationship totally aren't necessarily GAY GAY, you know, not LIKE THAT. Come one man.

kwallio · 2021-09-07T20:07:35+00:00

Perhaps you could write an entire book on how same sex relationship aren't gay, call it internalized homophobia and make it trans some how, you'd make a mint.

kwallio · 2021-09-07T08:01:57+00:00

Imani is such a fucking tool.

kwallio · 2021-09-02T22:26:15+00:00

My point stands, we still don't know this guy's sexual orientation

And my point still fucking stands, he is in a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER MALE HE IS GAY GAY GAY GAYER THAN GAY GAAAAAAAAAAAAY.

And there is nothing wrong with him being gayer than a $2 bill, its fine, its just the whole HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE JUST GAY THINGS GAY that he is doing.

ETA he could be bi but the whole GAY SEX THING HE IS DOING IS PRETTY HELLA GAY.

kwallio · 2021-09-01T21:36:50+00:00

I think the part where he is in a sexual relationship with another male is the gay part.

kwallio · 2021-09-01T21:32:59+00:00

I finished grad school and decided there was no way I could ever deal with academia ever again. I could not have dealt with a student that kept on changing names all semester, I probably would have made them pick one. Teaching is a ton of BS to start with, having students changing names is outrageous.

kwallio · 2021-09-01T21:30:04+00:00

This is legit the most disappointing thing about the whole gender "debate"...the other side is unimaginably stupid. Its like debating with a bunch of loud pigeons.

kwallio · 2021-09-01T21:29:17+00:00

Hm, I wonder what it is that female humans and female deer have in common.

kwallio · 2021-09-01T04:53:49+00:00

It bothers me to no end that trans ideology is basically just old school homophobia with woke dressing on top and no one seems to realize this or talk about it.

kwallio · 2021-08-30T22:05:07+00:00

I swear none of these people know shit about punk rock, from saying Kurt Cobain was trans because he wore dresses (a punk rock thing you morons) to this lady thinking Tonks was genderfluid because she dresses in a punk way.

kwallio · 2021-08-29T11:38:45+00:00

I mean if I had to go along with trans dogma or lose my job I would probably say what I had to in order to stay employed. But in my view transgenderism is basically a delusion, a false idea that changing sex is possible, or that brains have a sex and that one has or can have the brain of a different sex. Every study on the human brain in the different sexes has shown that apart from a slight difference in size (female brains are smaller) there are no measurable or significant differences in the brain between the sexes . So no, I don't believe that anyone can actually be trans.

kwallio · 2021-08-28T23:47:44+00:00

I don't really believe that transgenderism, or gender dysphoria is really a thing. A person wearing the opposide sex's clothes or presenting as the opposite sex is just crossdressing. The trans concept is based in a foofy religous like concept of inner essence which as an atheist I reject completely. Your mind is an embodied concept, it does not exist outside of the body, so transgenderism is just religious-like hooey.

I would like a trans person to define what transgenderism means to them, including all trans people including people who don't crossdress or transition since no hatekeeping, ok?

kwallio · 2021-08-28T23:33:36+00:00

I'm a girl tho, so I wasn't GNC in terms of dress (I had a really intense pink sparkly princess phase) but was gnc in terms of my interests.

kwallio · 2021-08-28T00:12:23+00:00

They unironically quote Buffalo Bill from the Silence of The Lambs.

kwallio · 2021-08-28T00:10:57+00:00

The tissue types are completely different. Mucous membrane is not the same as skin, and one can not change into the other, ever.

kwallio · 2021-08-28T00:09:02+00:00

I wonder what these gender weirdos would say about my own childhood, where I was sort of a tomboy who was into odd things like bug collecting and climbed trees and explored the woods but hated pants and wanted to wear dresses all the time.

kwallio · 2021-08-28T00:06:38+00:00

Flag is transphobic AF, block and stay safe. /s

kwallio · 2021-08-28T00:05:38+00:00

I dunno, I just know it happens.

kwallio · 2021-08-26T11:18:40+00:00

I wonder what they think of women born with two vaginas and two uteruses, because that happens too.

kwallio · 2021-08-25T21:25:30+00:00

I always wondered what intersectionality meant...I guess it means Woman Bad.

kwallio · 2021-08-25T03:41:11+00:00

I think it was a real rule during that time period.

kwallio · 2021-08-25T03:40:10+00:00

We have s/gcdebatesqt, if you want to debate please check it out.

kwallio · 2021-08-25T03:34:27+00:00

Funny how there are only 2 comments and both of them are like, well, yeah, it happens.

kwallio · 2021-08-22T23:08:40+00:00

They're clearly zoroastrian.

kwallio · 2021-08-22T23:07:20+00:00

Why can't he just do heroin or something.

kwallio · 2021-08-18T01:48:35+00:00

That is basically what post-modernism and queer theory says. You don't perceive reality, you create reality with your mind. Its mind-blowlingly idiotic.

kwallio · 2021-08-17T20:11:38+00:00

Thanks for dropping stats. I know what the actual murder rate of transwomen is, I was trying to get fartandsnap to do some digging and admit what the actual rate of assault and so on for transwomen actually was (its the lowest out of all demos, actually).

kwallio · 2021-08-17T07:11:06+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH. NO U.

kwallio · 2021-08-16T07:25:37+00:00

Prove it. Where are the assault stats? Where are the murders? There just aren't any. Everyone knows they're men, thats why they don't get assaulted.

kwallio · 2021-08-16T01:01:54+00:00

Well, they won't get groped by heterosexual men because no one wants man-ass in a skirt.

kwallio · 2021-08-12T07:22:09+00:00

He looks like a ghoul. Wtf was he thinking posting this pic? Even his nails look more like talons.

kwallio · 2021-08-12T07:20:59+00:00

I don't think the people running the religious soup kitchens thought that those conversions were genuine, either, its a power play.

kwallio · 2021-08-12T06:40:12+00:00

no
I was raised catholic, I dunno but I don't think I ever really believed in god. It just seemed too farfetched to me.
I feel like I'm a rationalist and I am GC mostly because I feel that there just isn't any good evidence that transition actually helps anyone, and the blatantly anti-science attitudes of the TRA crowd. Hardcore radfems also have their issues with science (and scientists) which is why I don't consider myself 100% a radfem.
I feel like much (most?) of trans rhetoric loops around into conservative christian/fundie religion rhetoric more often than not. The whole if you have short hair as a woman you are actually a boy/long hair you are actually a woman type of gender BS, the hard/rigid gender role adherence perpetrated by most trans, the idea that being same sex attracted is problematic in someway, the whole concept of gender seems to reflect a christian soul which I don't believe in, yes I think it does parallel religion and conservative religious attitudes towards sex and sexuality.

kwallio · 2021-08-11T00:04:03+00:00

What the crap is that even supposed to mean? They fail biology forever, like female hormones come from the ovaries, wtf.

kwallio · 2021-08-10T00:31:15+00:00

When the book talked about his friendship to Grindelwald I 100% thought he was gay. When JK said that he was it was no surprise. If you read the books closely (especially book 7) it was obvious.

kwallio · 2021-08-06T23:11:08+00:00

I'm kind of amazed when I see toddlers with tablets and so forth. Having a kid glued to an electronic device nonstop can't be good for them.

kwallio · 2021-08-06T23:09:34+00:00

The scale doesn't read as a spectrum to me, more like interrelated positions. Anyway I'm on the overt transphobe end. I used to be more in the middle, sort of confused ally. Then I became more aware of what trans people actually are.

kwallio · 2021-08-04T21:29:21+00:00

clean and press

Also weightlifters were breaking their backs and becoming paralysed from doing this lift.

kwallio · 2021-08-04T21:27:45+00:00

I guess they're only at the olympics for ~validation and not to win. Which seems odd to me.

kwallio · 2021-08-04T21:26:55+00:00

If you watch the video its pretty apparent that he threw the weights away on purpose. He threw the competition.

kwallio · 2021-08-01T20:50:28+00:00

I used to live in DC which is Virginia adjacent. Up until recently VA was hardcore red state. They do NOT fuck around when it comes to criminal justice, its like the deep south. If Chris does time it'll be in a men's prison.

kwallio · 2021-07-29T20:20:59+00:00

This poor woman needs to drop all of her friends and give her sister a good yelling.

kwallio · 2021-07-26T10:41:23+00:00

You seem to be really tied up on the "appearance = reality" thing. Appearances are not reality. I don't think your examples pass, anyway.

kwallio · 2021-07-25T23:12:13+00:00

This post was on ovarit, I didn't go digging through her post history but someone else did and I think its a transman.

kwallio · 2021-07-25T23:10:57+00:00

I take solace in the fact that most of these people are literal teenagers who have probably never had a real relationship.

kwallio · 2021-07-23T05:08:08+00:00

I don't really have a lot of sympathy for people who say they are non-binary. I have no idea what that really means except "I'm not like the other girls/boys" and "I'm super special pay attention to me". I understand the impulse to attempt to opt out of gender BS but the solution is not a new made up identity.

kwallio · 2021-07-23T00:48:19+00:00

Sadly I recognize all those terms from being on tumblr. This is clearly twitter, so its seems that most of the weirdos from tumblr went to twitter when tumblr banned pr0n. The idea that romantic attraction and sexual attraction are not necessarily the same is called the "split attraction model" which as far as I know is only used to the extremely online tumblerites etc, not any reputable sexuality researchers. And it also comes out of asexual discourse - the idea that you can have a romantic attraction but not a sexual attraction which to me screams I'm a virgin who has never had a real relationship. But what do I know.

kwallio · 2021-07-23T00:42:37+00:00

He does look like he is acting. Its kind of cringy.

kwallio · 2021-07-22T21:48:42+00:00

Its an ego boost to be dating in stealth mode. They think they pass so well that their dates don't know that they are trans. The thought process that they might be doing something dangerous or any thought about the feelings of the other person basically doesn't happen, because they are obsessed with their appearance.

There was a post on saidit somewhere, either here on gendercritical or elsewhere where a TIM was on a date with a man and did the big reveal that they were trans and were disappointed and angry that the man said that he knew and accepted the TIM for who he was. He was mad that he didn't pass and didn't get the ego boost of the gasp "but I thought you were totally a woman" experience.

My take on this is that trans people mostly live in a self-created fantasy world, anything that intrudes on this creates huge psychic problems and must be eliminated asap.

You are right that this creates problems for the trans person, because they are addicted to their fetish or preoccupation with passing and thus can't get a true relationship, which has honesty as a foundation. As we've seen with people becoming trans in the context of an already existing relationship, they are just fine with throwing away a long term relationship in service to their trans identity. I don't understand it either but that is what they do.

kwallio · 2021-07-22T21:20:54+00:00

Thats really interesting, thanks for posting. I've thought occasionally about going into crime scene clean up because I am a night person and would like to get into a job that works nights. I don't know if I'd be able to handle it, though.

kwallio · 2021-07-22T21:14:17+00:00

At least they're being honest now.

kwallio · 2021-07-20T23:11:06+00:00

All the blogging sites that I can think of ban people for gender critical views, like medium or wordpress or blogger. Substack is pretty much the only one I can think of but I guess you can't be anonymous. You can always try to set up your own website but that costs money and could potentially be traced back to you anyway.

Tumblr is one option but its not exactly a serious blogging site. But you will be able to write and interact how you please, I have seen some GC tumblrs get nuked but mostly they were being very provocative. If you don't post harassment I think you should be ok.

kwallio · 2021-07-18T03:49:05+00:00

Tra narratives and ideology aren’t really sustainable

Totally agree.

The TRAs have adopted an untenable position longterm - total agreement on all issues and terminology with no debate, ever, even as those issues and terms change on the daily. Absolutely no safeguarding or waiting required when children are involved, must validate the trans identity. Its completely bonkers and like you said, unsustainable.

kwallio · 2021-07-17T19:15:02+00:00

I go so back-and-forth about this. It's really, really hard to not be polite, and it sounds bad in my mind, but the way many radical feminists deliberately embrace that form of social disobedience on principle not only makes sense from a woman's perspective (or so I intuit), but I can see the logic behind it being kinder to not entertain or encourage what might be considered mental illness or just harmful/unsafe behavior.

I actually feel this pretty hard. Everyone pretty much is socialized to not rock the boat and to accomodate people, pushing back against people is hard.

kwallio · 2021-07-17T01:23:34+00:00

I think mostly its been a wash. I feel like the qt position has been pulled out into the open more, but the backside of that is that its been increasingly obvious that women and the reality based community are losing, badly.

The qts have made quite the asses of themselves, from the NYT article about someones nb status being meaningless when she was alone to the whining about trans surgeries being put off due to covid.

For me personally the pandemic has made me less inclined to give qt the benefit of the doubt and has essentially made me more extreme in my terfery. I used to be of the "its not a big deal to use neo/cross sex pronouns, costs $0 to be polite" type of person and have gone hard in the other direction because being "nice" is never reciprocated.

I think in my case being isolated from my very liberal very woke very pro-trans friends sort of did this, because you never want to be the one with no friends but a year without hanging out with them made me realize that they weren't really my friends anyway. Very few of them ever made the effort to check in, so screw it.

kwallio · 2021-07-16T05:50:58+00:00

You can't change your sex and humans have two sexes and are sexually dimorphic.

kwallio · 2021-07-15T20:53:08+00:00

Please read a book, any book.

kwallio