The brutal honest truth about Transgender MTF dating. I could have predicted this ...anyone could have. The trans cult will never tell kids about the downsides.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T18:01:39+00:00

I can't really blame anybody for not wanting to date somebody who's trans. There's just so much to upack. There's the social impact, there's the life-long treatments and medical implications, there's the dysphoria component, there's the fact that their bodies are not functioning as the gender they claim to be of and then there are the problems I see all over the trans community with the extreme need for validation and reassurance. I'd never volunteer to a relationship that from the start is full of trauma, dysfunction and mental illness.

Marsupial · 2020-07-27T04:29:27+00:00

"Terf" is the new "this woman is telling me something that makes me upset". Doesn't matter what you do or believe, if you're a woman you're a terf if you upset a man. A lot of similarities with "bitch" and "karen". New word, same misogyny.

Marsupial · 2020-08-14T16:05:15+00:00

It makes me sad that people think a man buying them things means they're empowered. Buy your own fucking car. Stand on your own two feet and build an independent life where you don't need men's approval to survive. Prostitution is not empowerment.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T18:12:40+00:00

It's insane. On a perfectly healthy woman's body, remove her breasts. Reshape her chest, maybe causing nerve damage in the process. Reshape her vagina to a penis. Stitch up her labia. Alter the urethra. Maybe even remove her uterus. On a perfectly healthy man's body, remove his penis to make a surgical hole that has to be dilated every day to not close up. Take skin from other body parts to make it, sometimes by cutting up the colon. Remove his testicles. Create breasts. Surgically alter his voice. Shave the cartilage in the throat to remove the Adam's apple. Modify facial bone structure until he looks like something he's not.

Give them hormones that aren't natural for their genetic setup. Assure them that this will make them happy. Start telling children and vulnerable teenagers that this is what they may want in the future and block their normal development.

It's barbaric.

Marsupial · 2020-09-20T13:27:39+00:00

Of course he seems happier now, he's found a fantasy he's allowing himself to get fully engrossed in, denying all reality. He gets to walk around playing a character of extreme stereotypic femininity. That happiness won't last because reality can't be denied forever. The fantasy will get old, he'll get reminded he's a man, he'll get reminded that he can never be the woman he pretends to be, and that's when the dysphoria hits again.

Frankly, I don't think there's anything you can say that he'll be susceptible to. Don't include him in doing things that are "girly". Don't include him in duscussions about anything that has to do with women or feminine topics. Don't feed into his fetish. Enjoy your time alone with your sister. If he's being creepy tell him he's creepy and that what he's doing isn't what women do. And tell him that you won't spend time with him if he's going to make creepy comments slike that. Set boundaries- you don't have to listen to somebody who makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to be part of his fantasy. You don't have to listen to things that make you uncomfortable, you don't have to ignore your own feelings to make somebody else happy.
Imo the person you used to know is gone, or was never who you thought they were in the first place.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T18:54:19+00:00

No, it wouldn't. It would be detrimental to try to steer the discussion. People are free to post non-trans related content whenever. If people are interested in discussing that content it will get visible. I don't think we need a rule specifically for it. Plus there are plenty of other venues for those who wish to discuss non-trans related issues. I feel like this suggestion is an attempt to control the disucssion.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:15:55+00:00

Very odd, isn't it. People trying to control the discussion to make us discuss the trans subject less, people posting about how "not all trans people are like that", "we stand up for trans rights", "we would like trans people if...", supposedly detransted people coming in to ask if they're welcome here... This place is being brigaded and people need to recognize it.

Marsupial · 2020-07-10T22:37:54+00:00

Yeah, I really don't want to drag them into this. They have the right to talk about their experience. I've got nothing but support for them. Detransitioning after you've made the whole transthing a major part of your life can't be easy. I'd advice to stay out of there, it's better both for us and for them if they're allowed to be around. It's true that we can't protect them, but we should avoid becoming an excuse to shut them down.

Marsupial · 2020-09-25T03:51:23+00:00

How fucking convenient. I guess trans women aren't women after all. And that it wasn't all that important for them to become one after all.

Marsupial · 2020-09-19T05:42:35+00:00

Women must have rights before the TRA crowd can take them away. GC is secondary to the fundamental right of women's autonomy.

Marsupial · 2020-07-20T17:25:16+00:00

TERF is the worst fucking attempt at an insult. I don't care if somebody is a "TERF". TRAs think people care a shitton more about the transgender cause than they actually do.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:05:40+00:00

girlgamers helped me peak. What a fucking dump. Just a bunch of men orgasming over pink setups.

Marsupial · 2020-09-12T07:34:23+00:00

Neat narcissism.

Marsupial · 2020-08-14T16:04:15+00:00

Turning yourself into an object to be abused for men's pleasure is empowering now.

Marsupial · 2020-08-22T10:35:23+00:00

The people on r/feminism aren't feminist women, just like the people on r/actuallesbians aren't actual lesbians and TwoX hasn't been for women since they made it a default sub. All female subs on Reddit are heavily infiltrated by men.

Marsupial · 2020-08-10T04:06:18+00:00

We're regressive but they're the ones thinking femininity is pink sparkles and men in spinny skirts. Lmfao.

Marsupial · 2020-08-10T03:59:07+00:00

Kind of ironic that a sub that claims to fight misogyny will happily support violence against women under the guise of "kink" and ignore the millions of women being abused and exploited in "sex work" ie prostitution. Any sub that supports sex work and violent anti-women kinks is not feminist, nor is it supportive of women. Oppression is no less oppression just because the oppressed think they deserve it.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:09:03+00:00

Instead of invading everything and expecting everyone to change and play along with their worldview they could accept that not everyone believes the things they do, and that's okay.

I hope you mean create their own spaces in this sentence because in your text I don't see you acknowledging the problem with them fetishizing women and taking women's spaces.

Either way, they DON'T WANT their own spaces. They want to take women's. They believe gender neutral bathrooms are transphobic. They don't want their own changing room, they want into women's changing rooms. They fetishize women and female stereotypes and want to emulate them, and that's why it's more than a "don't believe the same thing, that's ok". They are causing harm to women through propagating sexist notions about "what women are like", erasing our experiences, erasing our right to speak exclusively about our bodies, policing the language we use to speak about our bodies, and are furthering a misogynic view of women and a reversal of the advances women have made to be able to live free of traditional gender stereotypes.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:04:27+00:00

I feel like being trans could be classified as a mental illness on the need for validation alone. It's pathological.

Marsupial · 2020-08-23T08:59:56+00:00

Get back on reddit and spread some low-key terfing. Not enough to get banned, but just enough to start others on their progress to peaking. It's fun.

Marsupial · 2020-08-10T04:04:05+00:00

Seriously, fuck this wishy washy choice feminism. "It is my choice to be completely financially dependent on a man to the extent that I'd be left homeless and on the street if he leaves me so it's fine!", "It is my choice to have the living crap beaten out of me and get choked nearly to death because it turns him on so it's fine!", "It's my choice to have strangers violate my intimate integrity and use me as masturbatory aid with no regard for my wellbeing on a daily basis so it's fine, it's EMPOWERING!".

Marsupial · 2020-08-24T16:45:13+00:00

The problem is that you're very much wrong. There are people who do not identify as female who menstruate. So it's not a female-only act. I am a transgender man, meaning the doctors labeled me as female at birth because of the genitalia I presented with. I grew up, hit puberty, began menstruating, and then learned that I am a man.

Lady, I have some news for you...

My best friend is also a transgender man. He is also pregnant now.

LOL

Marsupial · 2020-07-15T11:22:30+00:00

Seriously. If they want to fuck up their bodies, fine. It's idiotic, but in the end it's their bodies that will get fucked up, not mine. But don't waste public healthcare resources on their "shits and giggles".

Marsupial · 2020-07-23T10:09:01+00:00

Holy fuck yes

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T21:55:00+00:00

Yes ladies, just be quiet and smile and accept getting walked all over by men as they take away your rights and freedom, don't you dare get angry or be rude in response and don't forget to be grateful to them! How unfeminine to not be NICE and SWEET and UNDERSTANDING as you're getting stepped on.

Marsupial · 2020-09-24T04:24:08+00:00

Gross. They're fetishizing women's traumas.

Marsupial · 2020-09-05T06:29:34+00:00

There's no wrong way to be a woman but not everybody is a woman. There's no wrong way to be a Tyrannosaurus Rex but not everybody is a Tyrannosaurus Rex.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T21:53:01+00:00

Yeah, no. Let's not do the tone policing. And no, they're not going to wake up and think "oh, these people are reasonable in their critique" when they're constantly craving attention and validation and threaten violence against people who go against their agenda. This is naive.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:28:28+00:00

They are men, they will always be men, that's it. "Trans women" are not women and "trans women" is not a separate gender or sex. What the fuck is this coddling and pandering to men?

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:00:09+00:00

Oh girlgamers has been overrun with trans people for a long time. It was one of the reasons I left, it was full of TiMs squeeing and orgasming over pink setups, posting hyperbolic OMG IT'S SO CUTE nonsense oneliners and drowning out women's voices.

Marsupial · 2020-09-24T04:25:58+00:00

Lol, no wonder they get dysphoria when they look like that.

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T09:25:56+00:00

I've found you can be pretty TERFy as long as you don't openly break the "trans women are women" mantra. You just have to find the right way to present things. It can be a pretty entertaining challenge to see how far you can go without people starting to yell slurs at you.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T16:15:35+00:00

Lol, "god status". Honor killings, female genital mutilation, trafficking, child marriages, child pregnancies, rape, sexual harrassment, sexual abuse, other abuse, getting murdered by their romantic partners, slavery, forced marriages, career discrimination, forced pregnancies, sexist stereotypes, sexist assumptions, social ostracisation due to being raped, getting murdered by strangers, social ostracisation due to being a single mother or due to pregnancy out of wedlock, death due to abortion, lack of bodily autonomy, being refused medical treatment because symptoms are not taken seriously, being refused medical treatment because men don't care about women's health... The fucking list goes on and on and on. What fucking "god status"? Men have no fucking idea what living as a woman is like. This idea that women get things for free and are just adored and worshipped is so fucking dissociated from reality.

Marsupial · 2020-07-30T20:04:48+00:00

I'm worried about lack of growth when it's invite-only. The good thing about GC on Reddit was that it was easy to find for anybody who'd peaked and just googled something related. Invite only is more work, more waiting and at least I would be a bit hesitant about it if I was new to the scene.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T22:12:50+00:00

I don't think you could have been more wrong tbh. It's a fact that there are variances to how women are percieved in different cultures. I believe few women are as priviliged as white women. White women are still hurt by sexism but I believe it is inaccurate to portray it as white women having a more difficult time overall than WoC.
It's not a competition. Feminism includes all women. Different cultures have different problems. Different groups have different ways of oppressing women, it's the misogyny that's universal. White women are exposed to sexism but are NOT the most vulnerable group of women.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:17:58+00:00

Those people make up their community. "If the community was entirely different I'd be ok with it"- well, the community isn't entirely different, it is what it is, a toxic, narcissistic cesspool of autogynephiliacs with a desperate need for validation.

Marsupial · 2020-07-19T08:10:27+00:00

Fetishizing abortions. I can't imagine how that could possibly turn out to bite actual women in the ass.

Marsupial · 2020-08-16T18:06:52+00:00

First comment: "This isn't even a parody, it's real life at this point."

I really wish I would laugh at this but it's too fucking real, even down to the male aggression.

Marsupial · 2020-07-26T15:06:37+00:00

How about I just don't give a fuck if something affects "trans women" negatively anymore? They're on their fucking own. if they're not allies to actual women I'm not being an ally to them.
Fuck, if somebody is trying to coerce women to undress in front of them they deserve that predator label.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T17:13:22+00:00

Not surprised tbh. She didn't say anything hateful, she was respectful and perfectly reasonable. What she said resonates with the vast, vast, vast majority of people in the world, there's only a very, VERY small subgroup predominantly in the US that are upset about this and most of them weren't going to buy her books anyway.

Marsupial · 2020-07-10T20:56:19+00:00

I'd still advice people to stick around on Reddit. Don't leave permanently, take the opportunity to spread your opinion throughout other subreddits in a way to peak others. Do it subtle enough to not get banned but stick around and do it.
Edit: block ads tho, no reason to give revenue.

Marsupial · 2020-09-22T16:50:30+00:00

It would just be a dealbreaker. They're afraid of being who they are because they don't fit into the most shallow, stereotypic image of femininity there is. And it also suggests a really misogynic view of other women.

Marsupial · 2020-09-12T07:27:00+00:00

I don't care. I don't go around making unprovoked attacks at people or calling people who are perfectly nice to me slurs but I'm also not buying into the mental illness that is transgenderism. I think "tranny" is fine if "TERF" is fine, I do not think the use of "tranny" incites violence although it is rude to use face to face with somebody. If not going along with what clearly are delusions make some people think I am transphobic then meh, so what? Transphobic is just a word people hurl at you when they're upset about something, it changes meaning a lot nowadays.

Marsupial · 2020-08-17T17:19:57+00:00

I got the impression he's one of the period fetishizers. Bet he's one of those dudes who place tampons in his undies.

Marsupial · 2020-08-17T17:18:45+00:00

She's the expert on being a woman, he should listen

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:22:35+00:00

I don't stand up for them at all. They should have the same basic rights as everybody else, no more, no less. I am not a trans ally. I am an ally of women and that is incompatible with being an ally with TiMs because of how the TiMs view women and femininity.
Feminism is for women. Feminism has no obligation to be inclusive of everything and everyone, be it transpeople or fatpositivity or whatthefucknot. Women's spaces are for women. We do not need to accomodate men in either of those things. Your entire post is just more patriarchal bullshit of trying to cater to men's feelings despite the harm it does to women. It's just one more example of men's feeling being valued more and more coddled about than the lived experience and safety of women.

Marsupial · 2020-07-10T20:29:56+00:00

Absolutely ridiculous. I can't imagine this shit will fly with users in the long term tbh. People will be fine with it as long as it doesn't impact the subs they go to, but censorship like this will affect everybody sooner or later.

Marsupial · 2020-09-17T21:29:33+00:00

The real-world effect is personal affirmation/validation for transwomen. If they can call themselves mothers and usurp motherhood, which is pretty much the essence of femininity, surely they are "actual women".

It's all about their narcissism. The best society can do is to not go along with the delusions because they won't stop. And by "not go along" I mean, don't give them an X for gender instead of M/F, don't tell them they're women, don't provide affirmation for their belief that they are women. Acknowledge them as the men they are and refuse to play along.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T19:27:31+00:00

"Our ear" when they shut us down, silence women, try to take away our right to speak about our bodies and try to erase our access to safe shelters? Fuck that noise, they don't deserve anything from us.

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T09:18:50+00:00

There's a coordinated effort right there to upvote the TiMs, trans threads are very upvoted and there are several obviously fake threads like "Omg, I love trans women, I never realized how great they were because I hadn't met one in person". Plus that whole place is full of male sexuality, lots of talking about top/bottom, posting pictures of women as objects, gross sexualizing posts that are perfectly in line with the sexual fetishization of stereotypes of femininity...

Marsupial · 2020-08-16T17:49:40+00:00

This mentions FtM children, I wonder if it applies to MtF children as well. For the FtM children that are now detransitioning, I can imagine getting away from the everyday sexism, objectification harrassment and the male gaze that teenage girls face is a huge help in learning to accept to live as the girls they were born as.

Marsupial · 2020-08-01T12:45:10+00:00

Is this part of some kind of trans fantasy where they believe all dudes are open to advances from "women" at any time?

Marsupial · 2020-07-26T15:37:47+00:00

Nobody's forcing you to give up your belief, but you will have to deal with the fact that people won't make excuses for misogynic behavior just because it's done under a religous or cultural banner. If the way you practice your religion means you're supportive of misogynic practices then it may just be that no, it's not the right place for you. If you do not support misogynic practices, it may be. I also don't believed in washed-out choice feminism, just because a woman claims she does something of free will does not mean she's not oppressed, does not mean she actually does it of free will and does not mean that she's not propagating sexist beliefs that are harmful to other women. As for you personally I obviously have no idea how you practice or what you stand for so whether you fit in? Nobody here will be able to tell you.

I can't speak for everybody but personally I am not inclusive of misogynic behavior and not every community will welcome everybody, that's just something adults have to deal with- you won't get met by applause and participation trophies just for turning up and posting.

Marsupial · 2020-07-22T06:13:37+00:00

Wholesome? Lol fuck no

Marsupial · 2020-07-27T04:24:37+00:00

Neat, combining blatant racism with misogyny.

Marsupial · 2020-07-25T18:04:47+00:00

Don't think I'm going to enter a sexual relationship with someobody who doesn't keep some kind of soap in their bathroom.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T21:57:16+00:00

Being calm and expressing an opinion is a different thing than what you're asking for. You're asking for meekly going along with their agenda because you're afraid of being viewed as "toxic". You're asking women to suppress their opinions, smile and be nice in order to get along, all because you didn't like the tone of one post. This is tone policing and more of the same old misogyny that women are not allowed to get angry or upset men or they deserve what's coming to them. This meekness you're suggesting is what lets TRAs take over subs on Reddit and move the boundaries in social media- people being afraid to speak up because "oh maybe it won't come across as nice!"

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T18:58:41+00:00

Yeah, I saw that in some gaming subs on Reddit too.

Seeing it here as well, tbh. "I am trans am I welcome here", "I don't think we need to discuss trans"... Don't be so quick to fall for it.

Marsupial · 2020-09-07T05:29:31+00:00

Losing respect for anyone who supports the trans narrative tbh
Most of them haven't even thought it through, they just go with whatever they've heard on social media. Just today I saw somebody who supportss the trans narrative rant over gender stereotypes in the context of gender reveals...like dude, connect the dots.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T16:44:10+00:00

That reminds me, I haven't read the HP books yet. I need to buy them. I've only watched the movies. Only 20 years late!

Marsupial · 2020-07-10T21:03:55+00:00

I think woke culture is primarily a thing among the American left-wing. It is a thing in Europe as well but I think not quite to the same extent and I've certianly not seen the same kind of TRA movement. Tbh most people I come across view homo/bisexuality as ok but transsexuals still as fucking weirdos.

Marsupial · 2020-09-25T17:22:42+00:00

Yikes, estrogen being cheap doesn't mean that it's a good idea for a man to be on it. You think this is about finances?

OP, sorry, but if that was my brother I'd tell him he's not a fucking woman and you know because you've known him his entire life. Tell him to snap out of the bullshit. Tell him about the negative medical consequences from being on hormones, the unncessary surgery of transitioning, the many years he'll waste, the normal life he'll waste, ask him what he thinks his future will look like when he's past his 50s and he's a weird, creepy dude walking around in women's clothes. Does he want to live a normal life of does he want to become a social pariah and a life-time medical patient dependent on hormones and dilations? And even worse so, he'll be dependent on a healthcare system that's not adapted for people like him. Does he want all the social consequences that comes with being a man pretending to be a woman?

Marsupial · 2020-09-06T07:27:05+00:00

I've RES tagged them. Most of the posters in that thread are trans.

Marsupial · 2020-07-23T17:50:09+00:00

“It’s not OK to do nothing.”

It absolutely is. Medicine takes the wait-and-see approach all the time, at least where the intention of the care is to do what's best for the patient rather than to make as much money as possible.

Marsupial · 2020-07-23T09:40:44+00:00

Isnt' a he/him lesbian a straight man if we're supposed to go with the whole TrAnS wOmEn ArE wOmEn thing? By definition it's not possible to be a lesbian as a man. If your pronouns are he/him you clearly identify as a man, those are male pronouns. People are batshit insane.

Marsupial · 2020-09-05T06:05:58+00:00

They're all from other men who also want to believe they pass as female lesbians. There are barely any women left in that sub.

Marsupial · 2020-09-05T05:59:54+00:00

They're just a bunch of men sitting around telling each other they're women and that their delusions are valid. And "cute" women at that, UwU yaaay hugs. Not many actual women left in that sub.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T16:07:27+00:00

Suicide is very socially contagious. It's extremely dangerous to push the narrative that 1) that the only choice is to transition or live a miserable life on the brink of suicide because you're not the gender you were "supposed" to be and 2) that suicide is an expected result when somebody critiques the trans movement.

Mermaids are being extremely irresponsible and are transducing a narrative that's extremely harmful to children, young people and other vulnerable populations.

Marsupial · 2020-08-25T18:04:31+00:00

I don't believe for a second that the trans movement is as widespread as these people try to make it seem. For most people transsexuality is extremely removed from their every day life and "trans rights" is at most an afterthought. Most people don't know what a TERF is and the absolute majority of people believe in men and women as the two genders and characterize people based on what they see. The vast, vast majority of people will never believe that TWAW if the TW they're facing looks like a man. And they know very well that men don't menstruate, get pregnant och have a vagina, and the women don't have dicks.
These ego stroking comments are just a small subset of peopole in a movement very few people care about, trying to make it seem like they're a majority.

Marsupial · 2020-07-19T08:09:36+00:00

What the fuck am I even looking at here

Marsupial · 2020-07-02T20:04:47+00:00

I got a suspension today based on posts in itsafetish despite not being in the sub since it went private. Either there's a delay in acting on reports or people are in there going through content to report people.

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T09:35:24+00:00

A shitton of TiMs to be honest. I've been tagging the ones I've been able to identify as trans and there's a lot of them. Ironically, actuallesbians doesn't contain that many actual lesbians.

Marsupial · 2020-09-06T07:22:45+00:00

It's even the definition. A man who loves a woman/girl is not a lesbian. Only a woman/girl who loves a woman/girl is a lesbian. And a woman/girl is a human female.

Marsupial · 2020-09-02T04:50:12+00:00

Ew. They're such nutjobs. That baby is being denied actual nutrition (mother's milk or formula) in order to comply with the father's autogynephilia fetish. It's child abuse.

Marsupial · 2020-07-26T15:50:27+00:00

Same. But I think that it's a misogynic and oppressive feature that's been mixed up with culture in a way that makes many women unable to recognize it for the oppression that it is, or accepting of it through internalized misogyny in the guise of tradition. I would not attack a woman who wore one. I do not approve of the practice. I think it's questionable to make laws to restrict the use in adult women. I believe the use of hijab for children and underage girls should be absolutely banned. I fully support the ban of the burqa and the niquab as these are about full erasure and dehumanization of the person wearing them.

Marsupial · 2020-07-21T22:08:10+00:00

Intersectionalism in terms of working for equality over races and culture is important and is definitely not the worst thing to feminism. If feminism is for all women it needs to be intersectional. Feminism needs to act for the freedom and safety of all women regardless of race and class.
Accepting oppression because it's part of a culture, like the burqa and similar, is a different thing.

Marsupial · 2020-07-19T08:17:42+00:00

How frequently are you assaulted to make you go "oh this is too much of a mess, I'm just going to have bottom surgery to avoid the cleanup between assaults"? This person needs a therapist or maybe just tons and tons of medication.

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T09:36:40+00:00

You're not really silencing women in that sub considering posters are pre-dominantly men. I don't have any crisis of conscience about provoking, silencing or challenging men who objectify and fetishize women's existance and get actual women's spaces shut down.

Marsupial · 2020-09-17T21:31:45+00:00

Idk, it's still batshit insane.

Marsupial · 2020-09-12T07:04:41+00:00

Tbh they usually don't pass very well so I'm not very concerned

Marsupial · 2020-08-26T15:24:08+00:00

To semi-quote JKR: " ‘Feminazi’, ‘TERF’, ‘b****’, ‘witch’. Times change. Woman-hate is eternal. "

Marsupial · 2020-08-24T17:37:16+00:00

How can you be transgender AND non-binary? Transgender is when you identify as the opposite sex. If he is non-binary he clearly does not identify as the opposite sex. What makes this middle-aged man not a man? He clearly looks like one. If this is his "butterfly phase" is a really fucking weak one. Looks like he bloomed from a dull middle-aged man to a dull middle-aged man in a pink shirt.

Marsupial · 2020-09-12T06:53:38+00:00

If I want to date a woman I'll date a woman, not an autogynephilic or transsexual man. No amount of hormones or op will turn you into the other gender.

Marsupial · 2020-09-05T05:34:05+00:00

That's absolutely ridiculous. Looks like a man in every aspect, is a man in every aspect "Am I a LeSbIaN?" "SuRe YoU aRe". Dude is delusional and the women in that thread who are providing affirmation have no sense for setting boundaries or self-respect.

Marsupial · 2020-09-02T04:55:16+00:00

I would really like to see the growth curve of that baby. This idea that his breast milk is equal to hers makes me very worried for the child's health.

Marsupial · 2020-09-02T04:52:50+00:00

Plus those selfies are usually with a ton of makeup, taken at specific angles and modded with filters. At best TiFs will be in that awkward "are they a man or a woman?" group. Most of the time they just look like men in drag though.

Marsupial · 2020-07-23T09:49:05+00:00

Can't just support women, what about the men? /s

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T15:13:00+00:00

Are you not familiar with them doxxing people? They will literally stalk people and attempt to get them fired. These aren't sane people in case you hadn't noticed.

As a general reminder, DO NOT CLICK LINKS HERE. This also goes for sites that seem benign.

Marsupial · 2020-07-18T09:28:21+00:00

Tbh as much as I'd like to support an app that is only for actual women, I'm not going to mess around with anything that uses facial recognition.

Marsupial · 2020-07-11T10:20:29+00:00

It's just ridiculous. They can ban as much as they want and shout transphobia about everything until people get sick of them. Still won't make people think the UwU man in the dress is actually a woman. Still won't make anybody who's not trans want to fuck them.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T15:44:43+00:00

Ah, emotional manipulation. "If I kill myself, it's YOUR FAULT"

Marsupial · 2020-07-19T08:14:43+00:00

Gross

Marsupial · 2020-06-30T08:12:47+00:00

Lol, number 44 is thinking what we're all thinking

Marsupial · 2020-09-06T08:26:16+00:00

Nobody's saying they're not people. Nobody's denying their humanity. They are, however, people of the sex they were born as. Not getting to call yourself a woman when you are a man does not take away your human rights.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T16:32:50+00:00

There is data to suggest that the trans population is the safest population there is, and that they have a lower murder rate and lower exposure to violence than most other groups, with the exception of the sub-group of trans people who are involved in prostitution. The most vulnerable population is women of color.

Marsupial · 2020-08-29T16:28:37+00:00

The problem with basing political categorization on the US system is that there are pretty much only two parties in the US system. And right now, the right wing is setting the tone. If something is not right-wing, it ends up being viewed as left-wing. So the definition of left-wing sort of becomes "whatever the right doesn't like", and it's simply not an accurate characterization. There are so many more nuances in politics.

Marsupial · 2020-08-24T17:29:56+00:00

I feel like this is a pretty normal reaction to realizing that you have surgically changed your body to resemble something it should not be. So many unnecessary procedures and so much wasted time for something she didn't actually want. She could have done so much else instead if she had just been shown a way to accept herself for who she is.
Don't tell people they can transition away from their traumas. It's all so unethical. You cannot become somebody you are not. You cannot run away from yourself.

Marsupial · 2020-08-14T21:53:40+00:00

This person should have been treated with all the psychological/psychiatric help they could get, not surgery. They clearly had unrealistic expectations of the surgery and life afterwards and should not have been operated on. I don't think their surgery was "botched", from a medical standpoint it was most likely perfectly fine, but it's simply a fact that a neovagina does not replicate an actual vagina and people should not be given the idea that transition surgery will change their sex, nor should psychologically vulnerable people like this be recommended transition surgery.

Marsupial · 2020-07-23T17:52:28+00:00

It's kind of ridiculous that it would be trashy though. It's just a bra. It being trashy is just more sexist nonsense and yes that sexism is pervasive in the US as well.

Marsupial · 2020-09-02T05:26:02+00:00

Or rather "Fuck off, creep"

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