Transgender ideology believers: "All invented sexualities are VALID!" Straight man: "I've invented a sexuality where I'm only attracted to female humans." TRAs: "INVALID"

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-21T21:18:17+00:00

Just copying for the paper trail. Here's where r/AgainstHateSubreddits, a subreddit that claims to be against "hate" but goes around posting child pornography on the subreddits it dislikes, posted that they are targeting r/BiologicalLesbians:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AgainstHateSubreddits/comments/kgnce5/catalogue_of_all_remaining_major_transphobic/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

And here's the post that AHS claimed was "hateful": https://archive.is/wb4u5

My only consolation is that no matter how much these homophobic people try to deny it, there is only one version of the objective truth-- and no matter how much the transgender ideology tries to obscure it, it WILL prevail in the long run even if it is unpopular now. Some people are exclusively same-sex attracted. There are two sexes in humans, because humans have two types of gametes. And you can play pretend all day, you can even convince other people to play pretend with you, you can even change language so much that there are no words to describe these phenomena anymore, but it will NEVER transform you into something you are not!

Even if the homophobic transgender-identified mods on AHS and AL and all over Reddit managed to turn everyone on the site into a mindless transgender-affirming cyborg, they would still never be satisfied. Because they are not and will never be what they wish they were, and no matter how much pain they inflict on minority groups (remember, trans-identified people way outnumber cisgender L/G/B people, according to Stonewall, GLAAD and multiple other organizations) it won't make a lie true.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-20T09:58:05+00:00

Aw, jeez, they think THIS is hate speech?

https://www.reddit.com/r/BiologicalLesbians/comments/k50z1y/i_just_wanted_you_to_know/

As a tomboy lesbian (and someone who was a tomboy as a kid) that makes me genuinely happy to see. And it is sad to think that this sub will almost certainly be banned soon, so here is the archive. https://archive.is/wb4u5

The fact that many trans people, and many people, period, on Reddit consider a post stating "I am a lonely tomboy lesbian" to be hate speech is both hilarious and saddening. What a time we live in.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-08-08T05:07:23+00:00

You mean r/transSubreddit#99999?

I'm kind of bothered by how stereotypical it is, though. Like the muscle-arm image and "bro BRO BRO". You can't make someone a man by invoking a bunch of gender stereotypes.

I think this puzzles me most about the transgender rights movement, actually. They say that gender is innate and an inner feeling. So why on earth do they look to outside validation? If it truly comes from within, then no amount of external validation in the world will make you accept yourself. It is like me saying, "I need everyone to tell me lots of nice things about myself and then it'll be easy for me to feel validated." When really, it is going to be hard no matter what for someone to accept themself.

Forcing others to use your preferred pronouns.. if gender identity was really "innate" and independent of cultural influence, then why would people using your preferred pronouns make a difference?

edit: Also, to be fair, straight non-trans males calling each other "bro" doesn't make them any more of a man, either, lol.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-02T02:08:12+00:00

It's literally just a circle of men talking to each other. Like I don't know what else to say even, lol. Both of these people are men.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-04-05T06:25:01+00:00

Funny, these days, the trans-identified males on r/actualtransbians who make posts complaining about "too many dick-positive posts on our lesbian sub" get stomped on by the other transwomen who want more dick-positive posts. I've seen several examples of this and it's kind of hilarious.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-12T01:47:43+00:00

You are not being overdramatic. I really appreciate posts like this. I have a ton of similar feelings regarding fetishistic men claiming to be lesbians, I just struggle to put it into words because I still have a ton of shame over being lesbian myself.

I'm so sorry you were put through conversion therapy. I hope you are in a much better place now, and I swear-- the lies, threats, and abuse transmen inflict on gay men, and TRAs more broadly on LGB people, will come to light. The truth always wins out in the long run.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-08T22:11:21+00:00

archive link: https://archive.is/aaHFH

In all seriousness-- it's deeply disturbing that there are predators using AL as a way to creep on teenage girls.

There are far more transwomen on AL than actual lesbians. It's not like male socialization disappears once you "identify as a woman." And that's not even mentioning the crossover between transwomen and the incel community.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-19T19:21:41+00:00

Oof... this man does not represent L/G/B people. Maybe he will be more focused on the pandemic and vaccinations, for the time being?

I am especially concerned that he was named as a health secretary, as opposed to, say, transportation or some other department. The article says that one of his areas of focus is "LGBTQ+ medicine" and it is clear that he has a personal interest and bias on those topics (and possibly a financial one as well, who knows; many doctors are well-compensated by drug companies for giving their patients certain brands of drugs).

reluctant_commenter · 2020-10-30T16:46:26+00:00

Anyone else weirded out by the "step on me" and "slice me in half" comments?

Those have always made me uncomfortable, even when I used to be more in the TRA camp.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-06-13T08:19:58+00:00

I just skimmed the comments. One of them linked back to this post and suggested we're brigading.

There are currently 9 people marked "online" on s/LGBDropTheT, and there are currently 2,600 people marked "online" on r/askgaybros. Pretty terrifying brigade if you ask me, lol.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-02T10:11:18+00:00

Yuck. Glorifying government-approved groping and girldick.

editing to add: I love the message of this post: "I'm depressed, so let's talk about my dick!" Fits nicely with: "If you don't call me by my pronouns, I'll commit suicide and it'll be your fault!" We love emotional abuse.

Also, this comment chain lol: I swear to god, the transgender movement is gonna eat itself from the inside out without us even doing anything. AGP versus gender dysphoria trans: who will win? https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/kop1a0/comment/ghsvdve

reluctant_commenter · 2020-08-22T01:50:45+00:00

noT To name any names, buT, I find ThaT a cerTain group of the LGTBQ communiTy is consTanTly making a conTest ouT of who is more oppressed.

Lol.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-14T00:29:01+00:00

I feel mildly sick. All of these men think that "lesbian" and "woman" are just degrading costumes that they can put on.

Like, that's just surreal. How sexist do you have to be to hold that sort of delusion? I would honestly empathize with them more if they knew they were men who chose to pretend to get laid. Some do know it's all bullshit, I'm sure, but many don't, and believe the insane tangle of contradictory beliefs that is transgender ideology.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-24T03:36:35+00:00

I want to laugh, but I'm worried this shit is going to just get pinned on homosexuality.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-17T09:56:22+00:00

I've noticed this isn't that weird for lesbians actually. It absolutely seems to be a power thing, and it makes sense....

By no means am I attracted to men, but if I had the opportunity to peg one, I would absolutely do it just for the experience :)

NO. NO.

Why would you ever think someone who isn't into men would say this??

They think this isn't weird for lesbians because they only "lesbians" they interact with are on r/actualAGPlesbianLARPers...

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-20T10:01:57+00:00

Also lol they want to purge all conservatives from reddit. I am pretty far left myself but that is dumb as fuck. Banning their subreddits will not make the people who hold these beliefs stop existing... all it will do is push them further out of your jurisdiction.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-08T04:23:44+00:00

Don't threaten me with a good time.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-06T08:07:38+00:00

No, trans kids are not awesome, they are victims of a cult and a symptom of widespread homophobia.

If homophobia weren't so rampant and deeply-rooted, then transgender ideology never would've been invented.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-04T11:31:24+00:00

Starts at 2:00 if you want to watch a pile of flaming garbage. Would not recommend, she is just repeating common transgender ideology talking points-- "it is oppressive for people to refer to biological traits when they say 'man' and 'woman'!" Love having my demographic misrepresented by a member of a cult.

You guys ever read Lord of the Flies, where they have that pig head on a stake or whatever like some sort of totem? It's like same sex attracted people are the totem for the transgender movement. Lol. Feel free to let me know if that makes no sense, I'm exhausted.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-29T18:18:53+00:00

Dude. That is LITERALLY the porn -> transgender pipeline. Wow.

I always thought lesbians just had a much cuter, gentler form of love, and regretted that I couldn't have that too. Turns out that's what we call in the industry a "sign"

I hate how sexist they are. "Women must always be gentle and cute!"

reluctant_commenter · 2020-08-04T23:52:13+00:00

Uh yeah. I saw that too lol. A lot of those people are very checked out of reality. If there is a lesbian "social group that meets specific needs" on reddit, then I would love to know about it. Oh, wait...

I'm also surprised that they are concerned about "trans people not being able to have any power on their own". Unfortunately, the medical industry and wealthy white billionaires looking for profit are way too eager to "help" trans-identified people.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-05T18:39:20+00:00

archive link: https://archive.is/MRu4n

You know, in an odd way, it's actually kind of hilarious that the mere existence same-sex-attracted individuals seems to have so much power over these men's thinking. Just got that little voice of truth niggling at you all the time when you're living a lie... it's enough to drive anyone up the wall.

Anyway. I don't know what "TERF" inspired this particular tirade, but I guess their linking a post about human biology is an "act of Nazism." I'm torn between amusement at how ridiculous this post is, and disgust at these men making so light of the Holocaust.

edit: Transwoman OP's post that the "TERF" posted about: https://old.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/lbdldi/venting_about_misunderstandings_surrounding_trans/

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-08T10:38:46+00:00

Jessica Yaniv threw the first brick at Capitol Hill.

Oh my god. 🤣 I think that made my day.

edit: Other favorites:

Unless the Proud Boys suddenly become the Proud Girls, I'm not convinced.

A party loses. The candidate refuses to accept his defeat. His supporters riot. It was all because of transphobia.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-11T08:13:46+00:00

Sorry, I'm confused, and I'm not sure whether my confusion is due to gender identity mental gymnastics or my lack of familiarity with drag queens.

This person is:

a transman, i.e. bio female
entering on Ru Paul's drag show, ostensibly for men to dress up as woman ("womanface")
...so this is a woman, who thinks she is a man, who is dressing up as a woman.

Did I get that right?

reluctant_commenter · 2020-11-15T18:37:22+00:00

It frustrates me to see gender-nonconformity so othered by these people. I have a friend who is a straight male and is somewhat gender-nonconforming, and constantly has people telling him he must be gay. He has no attraction to males in the slightest. But these people would insist that he is a part of the "queer" community. These people are trying to make mainstream the belief that straight means normal instead of straight means heterosexual.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-29T01:53:58+00:00

Rogan later said about transitioning, “Human beings if they want to do this as an adult, and they know for a fact they want to do it as an adult, then they should be able to make their own choices. But when you have really young children and you have all this reinforcement from people and trans activists, like literally encourage people to do this, you can’t quantify what’s going on inside a person’s mind.”

How the hell is this "hate speech" again?

Acknowledging the biological reality of there being only two sexes in humans is transphobic. Acknowledging that children do not have the cognitive maturity to make informed decisions about serious, irreversible, life-long medical surgeries is transphobic.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-08T10:41:42+00:00

Also, good grief-- they can't even let people talk about racism without bringing up "transphobia". Seriously, not everything is about you.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-19T09:13:10+00:00

They can't understand that common sense is why people see the Trans Lobby as insane?

Maybe the organizations and individuals who promote transgender ideology don't realize how many people are bothered by it because they turn off their comments sections, limit replies and plug their ears.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-18T05:57:22+00:00

I mean at least he is honest, unlike the self-described "transbian" men.

The bar is so low, lol.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-05T09:10:52+00:00

Is he actually 15?? Jesus christ. The transgender movement really is run by children.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-02-18T09:17:50+00:00

Maybe I need to take a break... this is just depressing.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-11-16T01:32:08+00:00

Lol... they're composed mainly of lesbians because most of the people running it are Radical Feminists

Proof? I asked you about this when you claimed it in another comment, and you didn't respond.

Most lesbians are not radfem. And we have plenty of reason to give a shit about gender ideology, thanks.

But oh no... looks like lesbian radfems can't single handedly get rid of the T. Pretty ironic.

You are building a straw man. Come on, let's see the evidence. I'm happy to change my mind IF there is any.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-11T08:14:04+00:00

They also say in the article:

While we often hear about drag queens who identify as trans or non-binary, there’s a significant lack of attention on trans men who perform as women.

edit: Wait wtf. Isn't this possibly the most gender-dysphoria-inducing thing you could do?

Not that this person has gender dysphoria, in any likelihood. Reasonably likely scenario: Pretending to be a gay man because you fetishize gay men, then dressing up in a caricature of womanhood... while being a woman. This is the most galaxy-brain, 2020 thing I've ever heard of, lol.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-31T00:36:26+00:00

Homophobe.

We should have a subsaidit where it's like "Evangelical or TRA?" and you have to guess which one it is.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-20T20:00:21+00:00

Wait really??? They're doing a segment on detransitioners on 60 minutes? That's amazing!!!

I know people who swear by that show! I'm going to have to see if I can talk to some people.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-01T00:23:31+00:00

Where are the homosexual females??

On this sub and other non-mainsteam sites! Not on Reddit, that's for sure...

I feel you. It sickens me too. I think we've just got to keep hanging together on Saidit and maybe try to connect with other pockets as we find them.

Have you read any of the articles from Lesbian and Gay News that have been posted? There are a lot of thoughtful and relatable ones that have been posted.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-16T10:22:30+00:00

Yuck. Homophobic as fuck, and super derogatory towards gay men. You have to wonder at how small-minded someone must be to not only pretend to be a member of a marginalized demographic that they are not, but to then use slurs against and put down that very demographic.

edit: And I dunno when the fuck the word "yuck" entered my vocabulary, but these homophobic "trans rights activists" are bringing it out of me.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-01-14T18:09:56+00:00

Or rather, who is not mentally unhealthy in the particular way that trans people are.

reluctant_commenter · 2020-12-13T10:59:09+00:00

I love how they keep trying to change the meaning of words whose meanings are clearly indicated by roots of those words.

reluctant_commenter · 2021-03-12T15:24:24+00:00

WHAT. We can't even openly talk about homosexuality now?

What the fuck. Even Google is trying to erase us out of existence. This is what happens when so-called "LGBTQ+" organizations claim to represent LGB people.

Homosexual is NOT a dirty word, even if the straight people who run "LGBTQ+" organizations think that it is!

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