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[–]barnarnasis this tv show my friend? 55 insightful - 15 fun55 insightful - 14 fun56 insightful - 15 fun -  (3 children)

Watching the popular opinion go from "TW who haven't had bottom surgery are too dysphoric to have their dick touched anyway" to "suck girldick bigot" has been a fucking ride.

[–]reluctant_commenter 46 insightful - 14 fun46 insightful - 13 fun47 insightful - 14 fun -  (2 children)

Funny, these days, the trans-identified males on r/actualtransbians who make posts complaining about "too many dick-positive posts on our lesbian sub" get stomped on by the other transwomen who want more dick-positive posts. I've seen several examples of this and it's kind of hilarious.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No way! That’s hysterical!

[–]No_ 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

We could go over there pretending to be trans women posting about “our” dicks constantly.

[–]censorshipment 27 insightful - 13 fun27 insightful - 12 fun28 insightful - 13 fun -  (6 children)

I hate male genitalia. I understand it very well. I aced my science classes, including Human Anatomy and Psysiology, in high school. What TRAs won't do is make me, and other educated gay people, seem uneducated. I've never seen a woman with penis in a science book, not even in my Atlas of Clinical Endocrinology book.

And I understand why gay men hate (or are repulsed by) female genitalia... it can get very slimey which a gay man would not be used to, although pre-cum can make a dick slimey lol but a slimey hole is different from a slimey pole. 😄

[–][deleted] 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I think it's pretty normal to be squicked out by genitalia that you don't have a sexual interest in.

[–]censorshipment 3 insightful - 10 fun3 insightful - 9 fun4 insightful - 10 fun -  (3 children)

Eh, that would be odd for straight people. Are straight men repulsed by dicks? Nope. Straight women have insecurities and may hate their own pussies and therefore hate pussy in general, but again... that's about insecurities (typically stemming from men criticizing women's bodies).

I personally hate to look at dicks unless I'm talking shit about them to hurt men's feelings. 😸

[–][deleted] 33 insightful - 2 fun33 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Are straight men repulsed by dicks? Nope.

Men are generally fond of their own dick, (and if they're gay/bi, they like other men's dicks...,) and it's okay to see straight porn--sexual context--with other dicks in it, so long as there's a woman somewhere... but if you start waving around a real, live dick in a straight man's face... that is an unwanted dick. So I have to disagree with your statement. Straight men are repulsed by some dicks.

Also, men definitely can have insecurities about their dicks.

[–]reluctant_commenter 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

unless I'm talking shit about them to hurt men's feelings.

Why would you do that, lol?

[–]milknciggiesLGBToxic 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cum/pre cum and vag fluids couldn't feel/taste more different in my opinion lol. It's completely understandable to have a dislike of one or the other but alas we live in clown world 🤡

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I just don’t understand how their allies don’t see how rapey this is...

[–]barnarnasis this tv show my friend? 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Because they've been told all the people protesting are evil terfs and terfs aren't people.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah but so many of their allies are lgb, I don’t get how a lesbian doesn’t automatically see the problem with telling other lesbians they need be open to having sex with someone with a penis, or telling gay men they should be open to having sex with a female. Like, I get “terfs are bad”. But the fact that they don’t see the problem with what some trans people are saying even to their allies about sex is baffling to me. When I was an ally things hadn’t gotten this far. I guess I just feel like this would’ve been a huge red flag for me, even if nothing else was.

[–]barnarnasis this tv show my friend? 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I had a something longer typed but it could all be summed up with: It's a cult.

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, that’s the only thing that makes sense at this point

[–]barnarnasis this tv show my friend? 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I called my (unfortunately still a TRA) best friend a terf as a joke and she literally flinched. None of this is normal.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They're brainwashed. A lot of younger lesbians and gay men have kidded themselves into believing they could potentially be attracted to a trans person of the opposite sex. There was actually some disillusioned younger lesbian on tumblr who posted her story about how she had agreed to date a transgirl and how shitty the relationship was. I wish I could remember her username.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I understand straight males trying to push themselves on lesbians quite well. I still hate it when it's done by straight males pretending to be lesbians.

What part of this am I misunderstanding exactly?

[–]Beryl 13 insightful - 10 fun13 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, I don't understand French, but that doesn't mean I hate French peop... Wait bad example.

[–]MrFahrenheit46 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

"QandLGBT"? Is this person in league with Qanon?

[–]Uranian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are we sure that isn't a parody account? I know it's so hard to tell these days.