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[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 41 insightful - 3 fun41 insightful - 2 fun42 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

Dude. That is LITERALLY the porn -> transgender pipeline. Wow.

I always thought lesbians just had a much cuter, gentler form of love, and regretted that I couldn't have that too. Turns out that's what we call in the industry a "sign"

I hate how sexist they are. "Women must always be gentle and cute!"

[–][deleted] 37 insightful - 8 fun37 insightful - 7 fun38 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

As a gay guy who wants "gentle and cute love" this makes me mad. Guess I'm not allowed that unless I "transition" and date other "chicks with dicks", right?

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, any of us who act differently than the sex roles prescribed by our sex must be trans 🙄 guess I'm secretly a man in my soul and in denial about it...

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought when I first saw that comment and exactly how you can spot a fethishist

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I always thought lesbians just had a much cuter, gentler form of love

This reminds me of how someone once said (wryly) that, in essence, most people conceptualize lesbian sex as... just braiding each other's hair. Cuz only dick counts as the Main Event, duh! Thus, lesbian relationships are... forever consigned to Just Friends status. Can't be anything more than sweet and innocent and terminally ADORBS. Like those sickening Precious Moments figurines. Precious Moments Lesbians! Aw, you think you're doing grown-up stuff! Isn't that just too CUTE!

Yeah... there's sure as shit nuthin' PASSIONATE or SEXUAL about the kind of stuff that's most likely to result in female orgasm, no sirree!

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

One of my friends claims that two people of the same sex can't actually have sex, because there's no chance for procreation. He says, "Sure, I'll call it having sex, just to placate people, but I don't actually believe it." I bet a fair number of people hold this opinion. Totally floored me when he said it. Overall, I've found quite a diversity of opinion as to what "counts" as sex. It's wild. I'm still trying to come up with some sort of taxonomy that makes logical sense, but it really does seem to be a socially and culturally mediated concept... which may be why my friend is relying on procreation.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It is one of reasons why rape laws in many countries are often covering only PiV sex, and any other forced sex is not thought as a rape or serious crime by those laws.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

So does he also think that it wouldn't be rape if another man fucked him against his will? And are "Gold Star" gay and lesbian porn stars virgins in his eyes?

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I applied counterexamples like this, but he lost interest. His wife said that sex is anything that you can be prosecuted for--sexual assault--but that's of course a circular definition, because that's defined by society in the first place.

[–]blackrainbow 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They're so sexist, why can't a man be gentle??

Also, in 2020 it's easier to switch teams that improve your conditions, I've seen it in many aspects.. .