I Want to Be Happy About Elliot Page’s Thirst Pics. I Really Do. (but of course I'm too self absorbed)

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-05-27T14:54:02+00:00

For trans guys and nonbinary folks, the act of becoming never stops.

Sure it does; it stops when you realize you're chasing after the unattainable and learn to be happy into your own body without needing to make up a fake identity to cope.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-16T20:33:00+00:00

It's so infuriatingly regressive that they think they're the ones in the right. He even responds to some moron named Claire Aran who thinks this regressive stereotypical bullshit of punishing their son for not playing with the "correct" toys is okay because "they were really a girl all along", like what the actual fuck is wrong with these people?

The problem wasn't that the boy was "born wrong" or something, it's that society and this boy's father of all people are pushing this awful peer pressure to socially confirm to gender stereotypes, and punishing kids like this boy for not conforming instead of proudly breaking with those stereotypes.

We spent decades trying to break down sex stereotypes, then these regressive gender conformists build up all the same damn walls again. Gives me awful flashbacks to a time when I was young and like... in kindergarten? I couldn't find a boy doll to play with so I played with a girl doll instead and the teacher spoke to my parents that they were concerned. I remember distinctly being annoyed and upset having to explain that I wanted a damn boy doll to begin with but couldn't find one.

Sane person: He seems confused. Why does he call his son “my daughter“ when it’s just a boy who like girly stuff? As if he can’t face having an effeminate or gay son.

TRA: He calls his daughter his daughter because she's his daughter. This is not complicated.

Holy fucking shit, the gaslighting these people are willing to do in defense of literal child abuse. Why are people so fucking delusional and willing to defend this? The whole fucking reason the father pressured his son into feeling like something was wrong with him was because the father kept telling his son that he was disappointed for playing with the "wrong" toys and enjoying girly things. It's the most sexist, regressive shit ever and yet TRAs are defending it as "the son was trying to come out as a girl". This is the sort of rhetoric that tries to turn every tomgirl into a boy. A bunch of sexists and homophobes, all of them.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:49:01+00:00

If only we had a word for "non-man" that fully encompassed the meaning of "an adult human who is not a man".

This casual erasure of the female sex and casually defining women is if men were the default is incredibly sexist and irritating.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-18T14:30:47+00:00

Isn't it weird how they inadvertently signal their stereotypes by always using "black women" as the example they compare their own unattractiveness to? Same with intersex people, they're very quick to use other people as their personal shields. Guess they're pretty used to it by now using LGB people to push their agenda.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-13T13:59:51+00:00

This is the inevitable result of them normalizing violent threats and outright death threats. Trans activists genuinely believe they are on the right side of history despite promoting conversion therapy for perfectly healthy gender non-conforming children who could simply be taught to love themselves as they are without the need for drugs or surgeries. Fuck trans activism.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:49:43+00:00

Apparently you can only define women in relation to their status as not-men. It's not grossly sexist, it's stunning and brave!

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-19T11:58:32+00:00

This whole idea of pulling out the victim card for this sort of thing is really very absurd. You're putting gays and lesbians in particular into the awkward position of a) rejecting their own same-sex attraction so as to not appear bigoted according to you, or b) rejecting you because you are trans and therefore not the same sex as them.

Trans people are unlikely to find many gay or lesbian partners and that's simply because b) matters to the majority of people on the planet, and declaring yourself to be trans won't change that.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-16T20:52:09+00:00

This story is exactly the same: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/parenting/a43702/transgender-child-kimberly-shappley/

Hardcore religious mother can't stand the thought of having an effeminate, probably gay son, constantly shames him for being effeminate and gender non-conforming, mother physically abuses son (admits to spanking her son for telling her he's a girl). No nobody's surprise, son is basically taught by her that being a girl is the only way to "correctly" enjoy what he wants to enjoy, so he insists on being a girl and family pushes him along with transitioning because they're less ashamed of him as trans than they are if he were effeminate or gay.

CHILD ABUSE. THIS IS CHILD ABUSE.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T14:28:24+00:00

Left unchallenged, TRAs colonize and inevitably ruin all LGB spaces. They see LGB spaces as vehicles to promote their movement, nothing more.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T12:25:13+00:00

These idiots might as well go hunt for a unicorn or a sasquatch while they're at it. We've clearly failed sex education if the word "lesbian" brings to mind anything other than "female who does not enjoy penises".

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:59:40+00:00

It's really shocking and sad how we've now got this idea that everyone must give personal venmo handouts as penance for stuff their ancestors did to someone else's ancestors. It's such an idiotic idea, not to mention incredibly half-assed compared to actually doing something that benefits society as a whole like working towards an equitable country for all with strong societal protections for everyone (nordic model countries are a role model here).

Martin Luther King Jr. would be rolling in his grave if he saw how everyone now thinks these shitty instant gratification measures somehow fight racism.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-13T17:00:16+00:00

"People dicussing posts on a publicly available forum" counts as brigading now? Yikes. And remember that these fragile, unstable, mentally ill people who saddle the rest of us with their exhaustingly inane and homophobic bullshit are the ones society are supposed to look up to as stunning and brave role models.

It's fucking ridiculous.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-07T19:24:06+00:00

What a stunning and brave example of rapey male entitlement. Apparently lesbian women, actual women, are not allowed to be partners with one another and must offer themselves up as partners for mentally ill males with personality and sexual entitlement issues. So inspiring! By which I mean it inspires me to puke.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T16:07:56+00:00

Articles like this should be the canary in the coalmine and should peak the fuck out of LGB people.

Philly Pride Presents had recently been under intense scrutiny, starting with backlash from a June 10 Facebook post about the history of the Stonewall Riots which contained language including “those dressed as women,"

Seriously, imagine generating backlash over a statement like "drag queens are men, usually gay men, who dress and perform as women". This is an accurate statement. But because the trans community insists on the lie that Stonewall was started by someone black and trans as a way of crafting a false hero for people to have to worship, truth is being labelled as bigotry. It's insane.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-16T18:43:06+00:00

The road to hell really is paved with good intentions. These parents are literally driving their gender non-conforming children over a cliff. This is erasure of perfectly normal children who are a bit weird and will grow up to likely be perfectly healthy lesbian girls and gay boys. The trans community has ruined the lives of children.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-12T19:35:28+00:00

It's incredible that GenderCynical is still allowed to remain active though. It's very obvious that Reddit is willing to support propaganda, but only when it is aligned with specific special interest groups. The trans community is very much in control of Reddit, and dissent only rarely is able to leak out there, with the TRAs in AHS squashing any criticism they can with report brigading.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-24T13:59:37+00:00

Couldn't we have more competent, low-key gay characters like Ray Gillette in Archer, or Captain Holt in Brooklyn 99? Where they happen to be gay, but their gayness isn't literally their defining, only feature.

This is appalling. It's not good representation, and it's not even funny parody. It's trying way too fucking hard to the point that it ends up just cringe as all hell.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T21:00:55+00:00

Unpopular opinion. I think there’s a difference between refusing to serve a group and refusing specific requests that violate someone’s religious beliefs. A baker refuses to bake a basic birthday cake for me because I’m a lesbian? That’s hateful and shouldn’t be allowed. A baker doesn’t want to bake a cake for my sake-sex wedding because he or she is a devout Catholic and doesn’t support same-sex marriage? Okay. Fine. Whatever.

100% the correct take on this. This isn't a lifesaving or essential service, such as medical care or plumbing. This is a baker being asked to create something inherently artistic. Is it shitty that he's a homophobe? Yes, but there are limits to what someone in a creative job can be asked to make and artists generally have "I reserve the right to say no to any commission for any reason" clauses. A cake is something they could simply bake themselves, it's not as if he's literally the only baker with the tools or skills in the state.

I don't like that he's a homophobe but it's pretty clear he's being targeted to be made an example of. It struck me as an attempt to create a clash of first amendment rights vs gay rights, and it's especially clear from this second attempt that it's some self-styled activists deliberately enflaming tensions with religious people when it's unnecessary.

This is very different from say that office that refused to hand out gay marriage licenses after it was legalized in the state, where a state worker essentially was refusing to do the job she was elected to do and was a job that couldn't be done by someone else, and was ultimately fired as a result.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T12:26:29+00:00

A strapon isn't a penis any more than a vibrator is. It won't get you pregnant.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-17T13:22:19+00:00

The year is 2021. Males have successfully found a socially acceptable strategy to appear progressive and still shame lesbians for refusing to fulfill their sexual fantasies by sleeping with them.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-16T13:17:57+00:00

Oh look, another one of the many instances of things happening that we're told never happens! "I want to rape lesbians", such a stunning and brave statement.

If your dating strategy seriously involves considering having to lie to people, that is incredibly rapey. Rape by deception is rape. You are saying "I want to rape lesbians". You are saying "I am entitled to lesbian sex, therefore I am entitled to lie to them in order to use them for my personal pleasure and validation".

Get some therapy, yikes. You have some major issues.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-19T22:10:13+00:00

genitals and sex characteristics are ultimately arbitrary and shouldn't matter

The trans community literally won't be happy until it kills the LGB community. I'm serious here; the goal of the trans community is not to shame homosexuals for being same sex attracted, and essentially kill same-sex (as well as opposite-sex) attraction as a distinction. To support the trans community is to accept the complete and utter destruction of the LGB community and the ability to say "no" to partners on the basis of sex.

Also, hilariously, this person refers to themselves as "a professional astrologer" as in their literal job description is to peddle bullshit to people and expect to be paid for it.

What a complete waste of oxygen this man is.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T17:20:01+00:00

When you scare away the numerous elders in the community such as knowledgeable lesbians with TERF TERF TERF and CHOKE ON MY GIRLDICK, don't be fucking surprised when people old and wise don't want to be involved in your batshit crazy generation of new age gender larper homophobia.

All of the sane LGB academics have basically had their careers fucked with due to insane TRA mobs preventing any actual LGB research from taking place. Everything must place TQ+alphabet soup in a positive light or be damned.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-11T19:09:05+00:00

It will never cease to disgust me how much the trans community gets a massive hard-on for trying to normalize violent threats.

Remember that their idea of "disrespect" includes lesbian women rejecting men who identify as women. They are the ones disrespecting the very core concept of same-sex attraction by pretending sex doesn't matter. Utter hypocrisy.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-11T19:06:42+00:00

How trans activism operates is becoming largely indistinguishable from Islam. I'm surprising it hasn't tried bombing LGB people it doesn't like yet.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-19T14:41:54+00:00

Eventually it'll just be a small strip of rainbow showing, if any.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:53:24+00:00

Even major authors struggle to remember what it was before we starting calling them non-man and People Who Menstruate. What could the word possibly be?

https://twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1269382518362509313

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-19T22:14:56+00:00

They're basically doing a lot of work astroturfing in order to try and convince people that genitals are irrelevant when everyone knows they're damn important.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-03T19:54:53+00:00

Because they see the prostitution as a benefit in their quest for oppression points. Truth is irrelevant.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-16T13:19:19+00:00

It'S iMpoSsIbLe To TeLl If SoMeOnE iS tRaNs!

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-10T15:05:51+00:00

How does someone even write that without vomiting?

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-07-14T16:29:47+00:00

She asked me if I "feel like a girl", commented that she thinks I'll use "she/they pronouns" in college, said she keeps subconsciously using "they/them pronouns" for me, told me she thinks I'll "figure things out soon", etc.

And this is exactly how social contagion happens. There's a peer pressure element to confirming to the group, and apparently being lesbian isn't acceptable whereas being trans is considered superior.

You've already told her you're a female lesbian, and if she keeps making these incredibly invalidating and homophobic remarks as if trying to undermine your own sense of identity, you have every right to tell her to fuck right off.

people using "they/them" for me without asking

What the pronoun crowd don't realize is that they can't police other people's use of pronouns. None of us here look at a man who identifies as trans and uses "she/her" in our heads to think of them. The only time we'd use their "preferred pronouns" is in a social setting where we can't safely rock the boat.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T18:39:11+00:00

I mean, we have to apologize for referring to males accurately as males, so I guess it's typical of them at this point. Objective reality is their sworn enemy.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-19T16:48:23+00:00

This whole "let's police people's sexual orientations" thing I hope is peaking a lot of LGB folks into seeing how batshit insane it is that we've allowed a group of mentally ill people with personality issues to gain such traction and power.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T16:16:24+00:00

Sadly it's not the first time I've seen a mentally ill male with a personal identity crisis believe his version of womanhood is realer and more important than an actual female's experience. Fortunately this seems to be batshit crazy enough that it doesn't get widespread traction...

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T16:14:53+00:00

Oh look, men attempting to colonize womanhood. How truly stunning and brave of them.

It makes me want to puke.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-09T14:33:43+00:00

Yeah, there are plenty of communities overseas still pretty hostile to LGB interests but because they're not easy targets they never get focused on. It's the same thing with Islam; point out that Islamic cultures in the middle east still kill LGB people or use transgender surgeries to "cure" LGB people and woke people will scream "Islamophobia". It's insane how people are only willing to virtue signal about how enlightened they are when the object of their criticism is relatively safe for them to critique in terms of them not being subject to retaliation. Trans activism focuses on first-world injustices and pretends that the world is now a utopia for LGB people and how dare gay men and lesbian women try to campaign with an exclusive focus on issues that affect them.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-01T21:06:23+00:00

Mood: https://imgur.com/gallery/FNSwy6g

I don't care how ingrained in LGB culture kink might've been, it doesn't have to necessarily be the public face of LGB campaigning events nor does it have to be seen as perpetually acceptable in public.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-19T14:44:16+00:00

Making objective reality the enemy is a real slippery slope to accepting all sorts of delusions.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:44:09+00:00

I wouldn't be so quick to burn bridges. It's possible there's multiple groups of people in charge of the decision making at the Royal Academy and there was an intervention by the higher ups about what their correct position was. The initial cries of transphobia may have come from someone with the Royal Academy who had access to their social media accounts, but less authority in terms of decision making.

They fucked up, and admitted they fucked up. This is progress as far as I'm concerned, we're headed in the right direction.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-19T22:16:31+00:00

Oh god, he was wearing tight enough clothing that the boner was visible? Disgusting.

Autogynephilia in public is inherently rapey. No trans activist will ever be able to convince me otherwise. They're basically demanding all people, lesbian women in particular, essentially be unwitting sexual tools for them. Fucking gross.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T21:04:25+00:00

Ugh, people who think they're progressive can be such self-righteous assholes, honestly.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T14:05:08+00:00

Exactly the same as with subs meant for females like TwoXChromosomes. They've been colonized by gender larpers, so no authentic, hard discussions can be had about where to draw the line where it's no longer acceptable for males with personal identity issues to have access to women's spaces.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-19T15:47:13+00:00

The problem is their definition of what's considered "rude" generally doesn't line up with what other people consider to be rude. You're always feeling a bit like you're stepping on eggshells when you're in that kind of a situation. It also doesn't help that people end up getting annoyed at their entitlement that you're supposed to just ignore your same sex attraction for their sake...

It's a bad situation for everyone involved, honestly.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-18T14:34:30+00:00

Exactly. The Gay Liberation Front's goals were supported by what we knew throughout history, that homosexuality isn't a downfall of the species and isn't something that occurs purely in abberant/diseased members of a population. It's something totally normal that's observed to happen in a variety of animals.

Trans activists want to make objective reality the enemy, and punish those who value observations grounded in objective reality. Males cannot literally become women unless all of society plays along with the game, and the way they attempt to do this is by forcing all of society to participate or be branded as outcasts.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T21:00:08+00:00

I saw a comment on Reddit about this that summed it up perfectly. Attendance will likely drop, and the TQ+ will likely blame LGB folks for it, drumming up vapid headlines like "White attendance at Pride has dropped and why it's a problem." as if a problem they created will be ours to fix.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-21T13:10:44+00:00

Yeah. Being kinky isn't an issue, but for god's sake if you're going to go to a fetish bar, wear your stuff under normal clothing and dress up fully there. Being a public exhibitionist is no less a violation of consent than it is when an AGP forces women to gratify and validate them.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-08T13:14:01+00:00

You can tell that all the rainbow flag redesigns are by people who don't understand the aesthetics simplicity and abstraction of the standard rainbow flag. It's a rainbow, it's supposed to be all the colors in the visible spectrum of a rainbow and an abstract representation of including everyone LGB. By demanding the flag literally include human skin colors of brown and beige it ruins the abstract representation element and opens it up to constant redesigns to include literal representations in the flag to promote sufficient virtue signalling. It's fucking atrocious from an artistic standpoint. Yellow and purple now appear twice in the flag!

This is of course, to say nothing of how deeply troubling it is to see intersex people being courted by trans activists to be once again used as a shield for their cause despite their causes being totally unrelated.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-03T19:49:02+00:00

It's absurd how much they expect the rest of society to shoulder their burdens and essentially suffer the constant, exhausting, ever-changing set of demands on language and denial of objective reality.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-19T14:39:01+00:00

Maybe that's why they dedicate so much time to making up identities for themselves; they think it'll make them seem more interesting?

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-15T18:48:43+00:00

Yeah, there's a large community/peer pressure thing that seems to send the messaging that becoming trans will somehow magically fix all the problems in their life. It won't. Their dysphoria won't go away, and their mental illnesses that cause their problems to begin with will remain untreated.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-03T19:57:34+00:00

The trans community has taken to fantasizing about many historical figures as being trans, namely women who dressed and disguised themselves as men in deeply sexist societies where women were basically not allowed any real freedom. Claiming they must have been literally trans is a grotesquely self-serving thing to do. They want to build up figures to celebrate and worship, regardless of their actual relevance.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-15T18:52:57+00:00

There's a lesbian grooming manual called "Girl Sex 101" written to groom lesbian girls into having sex with men that actually has pictures of how to pleasure a "soft trans clit". NSFW link: https://imgur.com/a/H5PH7TS

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-15T18:47:19+00:00

They believe that donning the manning the title of "woman" entitles them to be seen and treated as indistinguishable from actual women, including entitling them to be eligible to lesbians. This also includes believing they're entitled to harass lesbians who refuse their advances.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-15T18:42:37+00:00

Is the user mononoke1412 an actual idiot or just a dedicated LARPer?

Could easily be both! I like this other comment here being all "woe is me":

Here we go again, my daily dose of being reminded that I'm at the bottom of the lesbian pecking order.

Dude, you're a guy with a penis, you literally aren't on any sane lesbian's pecking order because of your pecker.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-07-07T13:19:07+00:00

Trans people recognize that anything that identifies biological sex as important must be crushed, because the only way they can maintain their delusions is by crafting the lie that biological sex isn't real and doesn't matter. It's why they do so much constant campaigning to spread the messaging that biological sex somehow doesn't apply to humans.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T15:38:31+00:00

Seattle Pride is lying while trying to justify it, claiming Pride "only exists because of Black trans women" and that any criticism is quote "perpetuating a serious level of danger and harm to Black folks": https://i.redd.it/rbt9sotaw0771.jpg

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T21:03:24+00:00

Completely agree. Shitty person deliberately stirring up shit.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T15:46:18+00:00

Probably a troll rather than a lesbian.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-11T19:25:44+00:00

That's literally all it is, except you think you're special enough that slapping a meaningless label on yourself allows you to eschew those stereotypes.

If only women in hardcore Islamic countries realized they could just identify out of oppression! Oh, wait, they can't, because it doesn't fucking work that way when it's a sex-based oppression.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-04T11:55:30+00:00

Let's be honest, 99% of them do not pass in person so the question of disclosure largely applies to online hookups. And in that case (as in any other) it is totally fair game.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-18T21:18:15+00:00

Honestly? You'll have to at least pretend to respect her pronouns, not that you'd ever use "they" in her presence unless you're talking to another friend in the room. Otherwise she's not likely to remain friends. Trying to have an intervention or something is more likely just to alienate her and make her hate you. If you tell her you're not comfortable seeing her as "non-binary" and can't help but seeing her as a girl, just be prepared for her to end the relationship. It sucks, I know.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T15:03:27+00:00

Two wrongs don't make a right. You don't enact divisive racial policies as a cure for racism enacted by entirely different people. They're right that Martin Luther King Jr. would find this ridiculous and not just ineffective at ending racism, it would rather exacerbate tensions by encouraging people to perpetually milk money out of cries of racism.

And let's be honest; the only caucasian people who'd even think about attending and paying this fee are wokesters. This means that this fee punishes people who likely aren't racist, with the sins of people who are racist, without ever addressing the root causes of societal inequality (poverty, mostly) at the government level.

It's an incredibly myopic thing to do that will in no way address racism whatsoever.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:45:42+00:00

"I don't like casual sex but I can't function or cope unless I slap a label on it I can pin on myself to make me look special."

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-18T21:05:44+00:00

The worst part is if anything it's just resulting in increased hatred of LGB people by these religious folks and isn't actually helping anything.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-14T18:20:32+00:00

It's getting to the point where the standard rainbow flag will be considered offense for being insufficiently virtue signally. And of course, if you don't support the new, aesthetically ugly flag because trans stuff is objectively batshit crazy, they'll try to call you out on it, probably pulling the "you must be racist" card.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-13T17:04:28+00:00

Aside from the indoctrination aspect, the main issue with these trans promoting places is they essentially don't do any pushback whatsoever. They're never willing to ask "could it be your dysphoria is the result of an underlying mental health issue?" and instead push transing children as the first step in mental health wellness, rather than being willing to do the difficult task of uncovering and treating the underlying issues.

Transgenderism is essentially slapping band-aid solutions on complex issues of gender dysphoria and autogynephilia, and pretending that letting mental illness go untreated is supposed to be empowering.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-11T19:18:56+00:00

You should report them based on their font choice alone.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-10T15:10:15+00:00

This is the problem with valuing cheap virtue signalling over meaningful representation. You place so much importance on the virtue signalling that you stop paying attention to what actually matters.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-09T14:35:33+00:00

I feel like I'm going insane. What does being gay have anything to do with being intersex ?

Intersex conditions are coopted by the trans activism community as a justification and validation for trans issues, by conflating actual intersex conditions with autogynephilia and gender dysphoria, which are entirely separate. Intersex people are essentially a convenient political tool for trans activists, pawns to be used in their quest for political clout.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-03T20:04:24+00:00

Various guns and flags adorn the wall leading up to the ranch house's second floor.

Oh good, they have lax gun safety and don't use gun safes. How stunning and brave.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-25T16:23:55+00:00

It’s not possible and more importantly its not fair, no trans person should ever have to be polite to someone who thinks so badly of them that they’re willing to subject them to such inhumane treatment for simply existing.

This being said without an ounce of irony by someone belonging to a movement of mentally ill people attempting to coerce lesbians into being raped by them, with those who refuse subjected to death threats.

Also: Medium denies attempts to click and drag text to highlight now, forcing you to log in if you want to copy text that way, what the hell? Such user hostile design, I had to click and drag, and hit Ctrl-C while holding the mouse button.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-15T18:45:05+00:00

Heterosexual autogynephile gets excited at the rediscovery that he's... heterosexual. So stunning. So brave.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T17:27:08+00:00

Their definition of nebularomantic is basically trying to do a woke rebranding of being really fucking clingy. It's like they're showcasing their personal issues up front but also presenting them as somehow being good. "Look at all these personality problems I have that I definitely don't need therapy for!"

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T14:12:09+00:00

My annoyance is the gay community at large saying one thing and then doing another. So saying "trans men are men " and "I'd be open to dating a trans man" and of course they never do.

The problem is we don't know how much of it is hypocritical, inauthentic virtue signalling, where they tell themselves it's true but never actually expect it will happen to them and don't give it any real though, and how much of it is virtue signalling for fear of being otherwise ostracized from their social group knowing full well they'd never sleep with a heterosexual woman even if you paid them. I don't like the idea of lying and contributing to the public perception that gay men really have the hots for heterosexual women with identity issues, but it is what it is; the peer pressure is really strong, and it's undeniable TRAs have a lot of clout currently in mainstream LGBT. Though more pushback is exactly what we need to stop it...

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T15:45:22+00:00

Poe's law might be at work here. Might be a troll rather than an actual lesbian.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-11T19:24:11+00:00

This is a pretty obvious case of social conditioning. A child who isn't old enough to even know what sex is, let alone fully grasp the concept of gender identities, is being surrounded by genderspeak. Little shock that, in order to gain parental acceptance, they're adopting the mannerisms of their parents.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-18T21:12:47+00:00

Yeah. It's possible he bought into the idea that "wholesome gay guys date trans men" and when he actually went on a date he simply couldn't see her as male (which is understandable, as a trans man is female). And of course the trans community never talks about the responsibility they have putting people through this emotional guilt tripping, it's always about how devastating and transphobic any kind of rejection is to them.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-07-14T16:25:37+00:00

It's absurd how much they try to add idiotic labels and make flags for what would be considered an average healthy relationship. It's a weird cry for attention.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-25T20:12:15+00:00

Congratulations; you've entirely missed the point of DropTheT and in your race for instant gratification you've attempted to compromise our cause.

DropTheT isn't something that's going to happen by openly campaigning to "Drop The T!". It's something that happens in gradual steps by generating recognition that LGB causes are important and distinct from TQ+. LGB Alliance as well as Lesbian and Gay News are working towards that goal.

What you are doing is damaging our cause. Stop it.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T17:37:14+00:00

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T14:25:31+00:00

The reality is the current generation is so coddled and focused on trivial identity politics that they really don't see that LGB rights still are in a sad state globally. It's dreadful that the movement that everyone is embracing with open arms is inherently homophobic and basically exists to destroy everything the movement's founders have worked to build.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-08T13:25:15+00:00

Someone telling you they don't want to date you is a form of discrimination in the strictest, literal sense of the word.

The problem is they mistakenly believe that it's wrong for people to reject them as dating prospects for the reason of being massive basket cases. But ultimately they're the ones signalling they're a massive headache as far as dating prospects and thus not worth bothering with, so they really are shifting the blame from themselves to everyone else.

"It can't possibly be that I'm hugely unattractive!" etc. An entire generation is being trained to be incels.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-08T13:15:01+00:00

This is probably because there are a lot of religious and/or conservative cultures where becoming trans is seen as an acceptable cure for being gay, and that it would be less embarrassing than accepting being LGB.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-07T19:38:20+00:00

How dare you point out the truth? Truly the most reprehensible thing you can do in this day and age, apparently, especially when you're an unstable misogynist into child grooming who insists he needs to be coddled and have his autogynephilia validated.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-12T16:49:57+00:00

I'm just do damn tired seeing gay and lesbian rights jeopardized by a movement that's undoing all the campaigning we've done. It feels like we've lost the right to advocate for ourselves, and that we must be perpetually be shackled to a community that doesn't share our goals, and isn't even grounded in objective reality.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T15:17:36+00:00

Agreed; the TQ+ community takes for granted how much progress has been made in North America and Europe and acts as if there's no importance to campaigning for LGB causes any more. The reality is that there are many parts of the world like Russia that are still not LGB friendly whatsoever, and that where being killed for being gay or lesbian is a very real possibility.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T15:16:17+00:00

I don't think we will fully be able to see and comprehend the societal damage the TQ+ movement has caused to LGB until decades later. I am truly scared our progress on social issues has hit a major setback with the rise of trans activism infecting and demanding it control every single LGB space.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-12T19:19:17+00:00

The awful thing is that they'll gaslight you and claim that they're fringe views, when we see all the time on social media people are being harassed by other TRAs with those views. And lots of media and literature is getting written in support of those views, like that "Girl Sex 101" book that's mostly a lesbian grooming manual and spends most of its time telling you how womanly trans women are, how it's normal for pregnancy to be a concern with lesbian sex, how to handle a girldick, etc.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-23T14:47:06+00:00

It's so true that these people are unbearable and exhausting. It's a cry for attention.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-16T14:14:36+00:00

It's basically trans astroturfing; they're making up hero figures to worship, since none otherwise exist.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T12:30:20+00:00

Fantastic article that gives great attention to the serious statistical problem with lumping TQ+ with LGB. I've criticized Abigail Shrier's highly aggressive book title choice before and I suspect it may be because, as Sue Donym suggests, some of it may be about conservative dog whistling. She's not an ally for the LGB community.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-15T12:22:46+00:00

Cute hot take but it's also misguided. You're assuming that:

a) Trans campaigning would not have been successful without the rise and success of LGB advocacy.

and that

b) LGB people should be responsible for gender ideology's rise.

Neither one is necessarily true. Trans activism could've come just as easily from religious groups pushing to promote it as a means of "curing" homosexuality as we see in Arabic countries, and the idea that we cannot differentiate between LGB and trans activism's totally different goals is simply not true.

The problems stem from allowing trans interests to piggyback on unrelated LGB advocacy. Shoulda put our foot down immediately and drawn a line.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-14T21:28:58+00:00

I'm sorry I'm not sufficiently infantile and unwilling to stoop to your level to pretend the word "faggot" doesn't exist as a word. And yes, I've been called that before as an insult. No, that doesn't mean I automatically have a freakout or feel the need to be sheltered from the word itself when discussing the word.

Your rationalization is beyond stupid and literally makes no sense.

Pot. Kettle. Black.

Why not end this dystopian nightmare of "policing" language by running around using "the N word" every 3 seconds?

Uh huh, anyways I've heard rap music that uses the word far more than merely once every 3 seconds.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-14T18:34:20+00:00

What the hell is the matter with you?

That cuts both ways. If you're going to refer to an offensive word in a discussion, either refer to it in full, or not at all. Taking out the letter "i" from it doesn't make it less obvious which word it it.

The title is obviously used in reference to the numerous previous posts we've seen from heterosexual women who identify as men referring to themselves as "faggots" because it appears to be part of a fetishization aspect to them.

I'd also note you only appear to have 4 comments posted ever, and yet you're already full on language policing.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-14T18:25:07+00:00

"It can't possibly be me that's wrong. It must be the LGB who are wrong!"

It's really interesting how heterosexuals with personal identity issues are now the self-declared face of LGB. They've truly been successful parasitizing our movement.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-09T14:27:54+00:00

This is a very technically accurate flag.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-04T11:53:59+00:00

Literally nothing. Every single historical LGB org has been taken over and become LGBT with a hard emphasis on the T. Nobody seems to care that homosexuality is still in need of its own advocacy.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-06-01T20:14:36+00:00

https://twitter.com/sarahschauer/status/1292019076068290562

"also if you want to drop $40 on a paper about femmephobia, check out this article. if not, you can read the abstract"

No, I don't want to pay a researcher just to read their shitty gaslighting justifications as to why they think lesbian women have a "phobia" just because they don't want to fuck men.

SuperGayIsOkay · 2021-03-25T14:36:55+00:00

And here's the problem the trans community forces us to deal with repeatedly. We're constantly told that trans rights are not incompatible with women's rights, and yet we see repeated examples of women not being allowed to maintain sex specific spaces for themselves, and that women must perform the emotional labor of validating trans people.

The question is not about the rights of trans people. Rather, the question is: "Are women are allowed to say no and refuse demands that they provide validation to males who identify as trans?". I think the answer is a definite yes. After all, that validation is often in the form of autogynephilic sexual gratification, where they get a kind of sexual thrill from being treated as a woman. It does not necessarily involve an actual orgasm or such, but it's still forcing the public to engage with and be a partner (albeit a passive partner) to a fetishy activity.

Because that validation has a high chance of being tied to autogynephilia, demands that women submit to being objects of validation are inherently rapey. This is especially true with transgenderism nowadays that's trendy and very openly fetishy. Back when transsexualism was rare and always involved the care and supervision of a medical team, not to mention years of oversight beforehand so the person knew what they were committing to, there were enough hoops to jump through that the person wanting to be trans could be safely assumed to be treating a legitimate case of gender dysphoria, and not simply looking for an autogynephilic thrill. There's actually rightly more stigma nowadays on men who identify as trans in women's spaces simply because there's far less medical oversight involved, and women are safely assuming that they're dealing with a potential autogynephile.

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