My lesbian friend is now trans and is trying to convince me that I am too by SillyGoose in LGBDropTheT

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She asked me if I "feel like a girl", commented that she thinks I'll use "she/they pronouns" in college, said she keeps subconsciously using "they/them pronouns" for me, told me she thinks I'll "figure things out soon", etc.

And this is exactly how social contagion happens. There's a peer pressure element to confirming to the group, and apparently being lesbian isn't acceptable whereas being trans is considered superior.

You've already told her you're a female lesbian, and if she keeps making these incredibly invalidating and homophobic remarks as if trying to undermine your own sense of identity, you have every right to tell her to fuck right off.

people using "they/them" for me without asking

What the pronoun crowd don't realize is that they can't police other people's use of pronouns. None of us here look at a man who identifies as trans and uses "she/her" in our heads to think of them. The only time we'd use their "preferred pronouns" is in a social setting where we can't safely rock the boat.

LGBT...D??? by WildApples in LGBDropTheT

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It's absurd how much they try to add idiotic labels and make flags for what would be considered an average healthy relationship. It's a weird cry for attention.

Jo Bartosch on why intersex people are fed up with their medical conditions being repurposed as a transgender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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"The proof is easily accessible!" [posts no links]

Good luck with... whatever issues you're dealing with that are causing your wild misperceptions about all of this.

Trans ppl got offended and banned a group for lesbians for not allowing d!ck in their spaces. by theytookourjerbs in LGBDropTheT

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Trans people recognize that anything that identifies biological sex as important must be crushed, because the only way they can maintain their delusions is by crafting the lie that biological sex isn't real and doesn't matter. It's why they do so much constant campaigning to spread the messaging that biological sex somehow doesn't apply to humans.

A comment from the linked post titled: Idpol within the LGBT community (mainly from TQ+; who would've thought?) by theytookourjerbs in LGBDropTheT

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There ARE actual real life groups fighting about it. There have been for AT LEAST a few years. Go to any protest where women's rights could be a subject - feminism, lesbian/dyke marches, Pride, sex-segregated safe spaces, etc - and there will be aggression and violence towards supporters. The aggression and violence does not stop until support ends and identity-inclusion begins.

And the worst part is the people who are claiming that the aggression and violence are just from fringe groups are essentially gaslighting and directly contributing to the problem!

Jo Bartosch on why intersex people are fed up with their medical conditions being repurposed as a transgender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Making shit up strikes me as far more hostile.

I also recognize that parents wanting to transition their kids because they believe that GNC behavior is an indicator of being gay and want to "fix it" is a problem

I mean the answer's right in front of you and you said it yourself. Parents are transing their children based on the perception that GNC behavior is an LGB indicator. It doesn't, of course, matter if they're LGB or not, and GNC behavior is not a guarantee of LGB, but the point is that it's massively problematic that the possibility of them being LGB is stigmatized to the point where transing them is seen as an acceptable means of "curing" that. It doesn't matter if they're actually LGB or not.

I'll say this again, just to see if it sinks in this time: literally nobody sane is claiming it's possible to tell the future sexuality of a child just from styles of play and dress. You're basically making up a strawman argument here for god knows what reason.

It's definitely all about the vagina by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's the perfect platform for desperate cries for attention after all. :/

Jo Bartosch on why intersex people are fed up with their medical conditions being repurposed as a transgender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

In fact, you're making the claim here that it's possible to tell which children will grow up to be LGB

Are you illiterate? Given your reading comprehension issues I genuinely believe you might be at this point. That, or you're interested in constructing and arguing with a strawman. Either way, don't expect me to invest any time responding to you.

Jo Bartosch on why intersex people are fed up with their medical conditions being repurposed as a transgender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I can't get on board with the premise that it's possible to tell the future sexuality of a child just from styles of play and dress

Literally nobody has made that claim here. Try again.

Jo Bartosch on why intersex people are fed up with their medical conditions being repurposed as a transgender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I suspect it may have been the unfounded accusations of "pedophilia".

I recall in a previous thread he claimed it was creepy/pedophilic to discuss the possibility that children who would grow up to be LGB are being transed because apparently you're not allowed to discuss the sexuality of a child (who will, of course, later grow up to not be a child). Very odd standpoint to say the least.

Accusing someone or an organization of being pedophilic is not something to be done lightly or frivolously.

Drop the T from Within the T (more info in comments) by gretagarbo in LGBDropTheT

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Congratulations; you've entirely missed the point of DropTheT and in your race for instant gratification you've attempted to compromise our cause.

DropTheT isn't something that's going to happen by openly campaigning to "Drop The T!". It's something that happens in gradual steps by generating recognition that LGB causes are important and distinct from TQ+. LGB Alliance as well as Lesbian and Gay News are working towards that goal.

What you are doing is damaging our cause. Stop it.

Drop the T from Within the T (more info in comments) by gretagarbo in LGBDropTheT

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And they made it really fucking obvious it's a false flag by not using the current updated pride flag that's trendy with the triangular chevron.

gretagarbo: You're an amateurish moron. Thanks for trying to delegitimize us, you fucking imbecile.

Step aside Avengers, the Genderosexual Homophobes are here to save the day by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Couldn't we have more competent, low-key gay characters like Ray Gillette in Archer, or Captain Holt in Brooklyn 99? Where they happen to be gay, but their gayness isn't literally their defining, only feature.

This is appalling. It's not good representation, and it's not even funny parody. It's trying way too fucking hard to the point that it ends up just cringe as all hell.

Trans acceptance will not be complete until forced sex from cis people is legislated by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Poverty can affect people in developed nations too and lead them to making choices like doing sex work out of desperation. When we talk about how sex work is bad for society as a whole, part of fixing that is addressing economic inequalities.

Trans acceptance will not be complete until forced sex from cis people is legislated by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I mean for fuck's sake, just because we as a society have normalized selling your body as a way to get money, doesn't mean we should accept that for perpetuity. We can raise our standards so that people aren't in poverty any more and don't feel like they have to resort to selling their bodies out of desperation. We as a society shouldn't ever feel like we have to sell our bodies as a last resort, period.

White people to be charged $50 in 'reparations' for Seattle Pride by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I saw a comment on Reddit about this that summed it up perfectly. Attendance will likely drop, and the TQ+ will likely blame LGB folks for it, drumming up vapid headlines like "White attendance at Pride has dropped and why it's a problem." as if a problem they created will be ours to fix.

Rather than cave to the demands of TQ+, Philly Pride Presents disbands their organization by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I mean, we have to apologize for referring to males accurately as males, so I guess it's typical of them at this point. Objective reality is their sworn enemy.

RA apology to artist Jess de Wahls for removing her works for supposed ‘transphobia’. Gender woo woo crowd lost! Usually suspects now trying to cancel the Royal Academy(Lol, founded in 1768, good luck Ayden), with much anger over the Pride flag RA is using. Die mad, b!tches by Midcentury in LGBDropTheT

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More drama ensues. Their communication manager apparently put out a hastily deleted tweet signalling the apology is not sincere and essentially to cover their asses: https://twitter.com/LottieHistory/status/1407665112119451650

It's possible the communication manager is at odds with actual executives in charge of decision making at the Royal Academy and that's what caused this, or that the Royal Academy indeed doesn't give a fuck about de Wahls and is in legal damage control mode. Either way, this dude's an idiot and should never work as a comms manager for a company again, ever.

RA apology to artist Jess de Wahls for removing her works for supposed ‘transphobia’. Gender woo woo crowd lost! Usually suspects now trying to cancel the Royal Academy(Lol, founded in 1768, good luck Ayden), with much anger over the Pride flag RA is using. Die mad, b!tches by Midcentury in LGBDropTheT

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Yes, I agree. Recent legal precedents almost certainly were a factor in swaying pressure to Jess de Wahls' favor here. This is a very positive sign.

Rather than cave to the demands of TQ+, Philly Pride Presents disbands their organization by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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Articles like this should be the canary in the coalmine and should peak the fuck out of LGB people.

Philly Pride Presents had recently been under intense scrutiny, starting with backlash from a June 10 Facebook post about the history of the Stonewall Riots which contained language including “those dressed as women,"

Seriously, imagine generating backlash over a statement like "drag queens are men, usually gay men, who dress and perform as women". This is an accurate statement. But because the trans community insists on the lie that Stonewall was started by someone black and trans as a way of crafting a false hero for people to have to worship, truth is being labelled as bigotry. It's insane.

RA apology to artist Jess de Wahls for removing her works for supposed ‘transphobia’. Gender woo woo crowd lost! Usually suspects now trying to cancel the Royal Academy(Lol, founded in 1768, good luck Ayden), with much anger over the Pride flag RA is using. Die mad, b!tches by Midcentury in LGBDropTheT

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Hahahah.

Considering how strong the TQ+ lobby is right now in the field of arts, I'm pleasantly surprised by how quickly they smartened up and reversed course on this.

White people to be charged $50 in 'reparations' for Seattle Pride by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Seattle Pride is lying while trying to justify it, claiming Pride "only exists because of Black trans women" and that any criticism is quote "perpetuating a serious level of danger and harm to Black folks": https://i.redd.it/rbt9sotaw0771.jpg

This make my heart hurt and I can’t decide if it’s just basic homophobia or that mixed with watching the TRA shitshow in the West. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Agreed; the TQ+ community takes for granted how much progress has been made in North America and Europe and acts as if there's no importance to campaigning for LGB causes any more. The reality is that there are many parts of the world like Russia that are still not LGB friendly whatsoever, and that where being killed for being gay or lesbian is a very real possibility.

This make my heart hurt and I can’t decide if it’s just basic homophobia or that mixed with watching the TRA shitshow in the West. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think we will fully be able to see and comprehend the societal damage the TQ+ movement has caused to LGB until decades later. I am truly scared our progress on social issues has hit a major setback with the rise of trans activism infecting and demanding it control every single LGB space.

White people to be charged $50 in 'reparations' for Seattle Pride by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Two wrongs don't make a right. You don't enact divisive racial policies as a cure for racism enacted by entirely different people. They're right that Martin Luther King Jr. would find this ridiculous and not just ineffective at ending racism, it would rather exacerbate tensions by encouraging people to perpetually milk money out of cries of racism.

And let's be honest; the only caucasian people who'd even think about attending and paying this fee are wokesters. This means that this fee punishes people who likely aren't racist, with the sins of people who are racist, without ever addressing the root causes of societal inequality (poverty, mostly) at the government level.

It's an incredibly myopic thing to do that will in no way address racism whatsoever.

White people to be charged $50 in 'reparations' for Seattle Pride by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's really shocking and sad how we've now got this idea that everyone must give personal venmo handouts as penance for stuff their ancestors did to someone else's ancestors. It's such an idiotic idea, not to mention incredibly half-assed compared to actually doing something that benefits society as a whole like working towards an equitable country for all with strong societal protections for everyone (nordic model countries are a role model here).

Martin Luther King Jr. would be rolling in his grave if he saw how everyone now thinks these shitty instant gratification measures somehow fight racism.

I kissed a non-man and I liked it by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Even major authors struggle to remember what it was before we starting calling them non-man and People Who Menstruate. What could the word possibly be?

https://twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1269382518362509313

I kissed a non-man and I liked it by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Apparently you can only define women in relation to their status as not-men. It's not grossly sexist, it's stunning and brave!

I kissed a non-man and I liked it by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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If only we had a word for "non-man" that fully encompassed the meaning of "an adult human who is not a man".

This casual erasure of the female sex and casually defining women is if men were the default is incredibly sexist and irritating.

Coming out as mild straight. Can’t be too spicy now… by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

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It's so true that these people are unbearable and exhausting. It's a cry for attention.

Coming out as mild straight. Can’t be too spicy now… by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

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"I don't like casual sex but I can't function or cope unless I slap a label on it I can pin on myself to make me look special."

RA apology to artist Jess de Wahls for removing her works for supposed ‘transphobia’. Gender woo woo crowd lost! Usually suspects now trying to cancel the Royal Academy(Lol, founded in 1768, good luck Ayden), with much anger over the Pride flag RA is using. Die mad, b!tches by Midcentury in LGBDropTheT

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I wouldn't be so quick to burn bridges. It's possible there's multiple groups of people in charge of the decision making at the Royal Academy and there was an intervention by the higher ups about what their correct position was. The initial cries of transphobia may have come from someone with the Royal Academy who had access to their social media accounts, but less authority in terms of decision making.

They fucked up, and admitted they fucked up. This is progress as far as I'm concerned, we're headed in the right direction.

Just as everyone suspected: Tavistock gender clinic ‘converting’ gay children by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Hear, hear.

A polite convenience to avoid wasting anyone's time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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And the problem is that AGPs have successfully convinced he the public that it's flimsy strawman arguments that are why sane people want to raise questions about what kind of access (bathrooms, changing rooms, etc) are appropriate. It's not because "OOOOOO TRANS PEOPLE ARE SCARY". We know the possibility of someone actually dysphoric who's gone through transition physically assaulting someone in a bathroom is statistically low. The problem is that autogynephiles feel entitled to force women in particular to provide them with access to their spaces and essentially perform validation. It's essentially a sex act for an AGP, and that means you're making everyone in those spaces an unwitting participant. Of course that's not acceptable!

A worrying message about sex by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah. Being kinky isn't an issue, but for god's sake if you're going to go to a fetish bar, wear your stuff under normal clothing and dress up fully there. Being a public exhibitionist is no less a violation of consent than it is when an AGP forces women to gratify and validate them.

A polite convenience to avoid wasting anyone's time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Oh god, he was wearing tight enough clothing that the boner was visible? Disgusting.

Autogynephilia in public is inherently rapey. No trans activist will ever be able to convince me otherwise. They're basically demanding all people, lesbian women in particular, essentially be unwitting sexual tools for them. Fucking gross.

Trans acceptance will not be complete until forced sex from cis people is legislated by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They're basically doing a lot of work astroturfing in order to try and convince people that genitals are irrelevant when everyone knows they're damn important.

Trans acceptance will not be complete until forced sex from cis people is legislated by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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genitals and sex characteristics are ultimately arbitrary and shouldn't matter

The trans community literally won't be happy until it kills the LGB community. I'm serious here; the goal of the trans community is not to shame homosexuals for being same sex attracted, and essentially kill same-sex (as well as opposite-sex) attraction as a distinction. To support the trans community is to accept the complete and utter destruction of the LGB community and the ability to say "no" to partners on the basis of sex.

Also, hilariously, this person refers to themselves as "a professional astrologer" as in their literal job description is to peddle bullshit to people and expect to be paid for it.

What a complete waste of oxygen this man is.

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah, this isn't helping anyone. This is only hurting our attempts to craft and enact actual antidiscrimination laws. It's cutting off your nose to spite your face.

No amount of pandering can fill the great soul-sucking void of their narcissism by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This whole "let's police people's sexual orientations" thing I hope is peaking a lot of LGB folks into seeing how batshit insane it is that we've allowed a group of mentally ill people with personality issues to gain such traction and power.

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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The worst part is if anything it's just resulting in increased hatred of LGB people by these religious folks and isn't actually helping anything.

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Ugh, people who think they're progressive can be such self-righteous assholes, honestly.

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Completely agree. Shitty person deliberately stirring up shit.

The same Colorado baker who refused to bake the gay wedding cake is now being fined for refusing to bake a transition cake. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Unpopular opinion. I think there’s a difference between refusing to serve a group and refusing specific requests that violate someone’s religious beliefs. A baker refuses to bake a basic birthday cake for me because I’m a lesbian? That’s hateful and shouldn’t be allowed. A baker doesn’t want to bake a cake for my sake-sex wedding because he or she is a devout Catholic and doesn’t support same-sex marriage? Okay. Fine. Whatever.

100% the correct take on this. This isn't a lifesaving or essential service, such as medical care or plumbing. This is a baker being asked to create something inherently artistic. Is it shitty that he's a homophobe? Yes, but there are limits to what someone in a creative job can be asked to make and artists generally have "I reserve the right to say no to any commission for any reason" clauses. A cake is something they could simply bake themselves, it's not as if he's literally the only baker with the tools or skills in the state.

I don't like that he's a homophobe but it's pretty clear he's being targeted to be made an example of. It struck me as an attempt to create a clash of first amendment rights vs gay rights, and it's especially clear from this second attempt that it's some self-styled activists deliberately enflaming tensions with religious people when it's unnecessary.

This is very different from say that office that refused to hand out gay marriage licenses after it was legalized in the state, where a state worker essentially was refusing to do the job she was elected to do and was a job that couldn't be done by someone else, and was ultimately fired as a result.

TIL Only men have universally female experiences by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Sadly it's not the first time I've seen a mentally ill male with a personal identity crisis believe his version of womanhood is realer and more important than an actual female's experience. Fortunately this seems to be batshit crazy enough that it doesn't get widespread traction...

TIL Only men have universally female experiences by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Oh look, men attempting to colonize womanhood. How truly stunning and brave of them.

It makes me want to puke.

Rapey t**f scum by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The year is 2021. Males have successfully found a socially acceptable strategy to appear progressive and still shame lesbians for refusing to fulfill their sexual fantasies by sleeping with them.

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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xD

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Their definition of nebularomantic is basically trying to do a woke rebranding of being really fucking clingy. It's like they're showcasing their personal issues up front but also presenting them as somehow being good. "Look at all these personality problems I have that I definitely don't need therapy for!"

It’s not that there aren’t any left, it’s just that they don’t want any part of your shit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When you scare away the numerous elders in the community such as knowledgeable lesbians with TERF TERF TERF and CHOKE ON MY GIRLDICK, don't be fucking surprised when people old and wise don't want to be involved in your batshit crazy generation of new age gender larper homophobia.

All of the sane LGB academics have basically had their careers fucked with due to insane TRA mobs preventing any actual LGB research from taking place. Everything must place TQ+alphabet soup in a positive light or be damned.

Reddit promotes blatant transphobia subs in latest SF billboard by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Left unchallenged, TRAs colonize and inevitably ruin all LGB spaces. They see LGB spaces as vehicles to promote their movement, nothing more.

The faux-historical, anachronistic use of LGBT by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The reality is the current generation is so coddled and focused on trivial identity politics that they really don't see that LGB rights still are in a sad state globally. It's dreadful that the movement that everyone is embracing with open arms is inherently homophobic and basically exists to destroy everything the movement's founders have worked to build.

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Strap isn’t a penis but it does ruins female anatomy.

Yeah, I stopped reading when you tried to shame lesbians why like penetrative sex with toys. "YoU cAn'T bE a ReAl LeSbIaN uNlEsS yOu OnLy UsE yOuR fInGeRs"

I mean yikes, I have news for you: there's tons of fun toys for that sorta thing that in no way resemble a penis.

On Flags - Sue Donym - Substack by suedonym1984 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, not switching and just feigning polite ignorance about the issues seems safest at present, sadly.

The faux-historical, anachronistic use of LGBT by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's basically trans astroturfing; they're making up hero figures to worship, since none otherwise exist.

I know yall think gay men are based because of AGB, but every other gay space is a pathetic hug box by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My annoyance is the gay community at large saying one thing and then doing another. So saying "trans men are men " and "I'd be open to dating a trans man" and of course they never do.

The problem is we don't know how much of it is hypocritical, inauthentic virtue signalling, where they tell themselves it's true but never actually expect it will happen to them and don't give it any real though, and how much of it is virtue signalling for fear of being otherwise ostracized from their social group knowing full well they'd never sleep with a heterosexual woman even if you paid them. I don't like the idea of lying and contributing to the public perception that gay men really have the hots for heterosexual women with identity issues, but it is what it is; the peer pressure is really strong, and it's undeniable TRAs have a lot of clout currently in mainstream LGBT. Though more pushback is exactly what we need to stop it...

I know yall think gay men are based because of AGB, but every other gay space is a pathetic hug box by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're really underestimating the popularity and appeal of bear types.

I know yall think gay men are based because of AGB, but every other gay space is a pathetic hug box by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly the same as with subs meant for females like TwoXChromosomes. They've been colonized by gender larpers, so no authentic, hard discussions can be had about where to draw the line where it's no longer acceptable for males with personal identity issues to have access to women's spaces.

On Flags - Sue Donym - Substack by suedonym1984 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a nice design. Either that or the classic look.

The problem with Sue Donym's suggestion of flying a new flag that is specifically opposed to the TRA modified flag is it's basically asking to paint a massive crosshair on someone to be ready to engage in trans activism warfare. I just don't think globally we're in a position to be safe and be open about gender critical views.

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Probably a troll rather than a lesbian.

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Poe's law might be at work here. Might be a troll rather than an actual lesbian.

Abigail Shrier Is Wrong - Sue Donym - Substack by suedonym1984 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fantastic article that gives great attention to the serious statistical problem with lumping TQ+ with LGB. I've criticized Abigail Shrier's highly aggressive book title choice before and I suspect it may be because, as Sue Donym suggests, some of it may be about conservative dog whistling. She's not an ally for the LGB community.

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A strapon isn't a penis any more than a vibrator is. It won't get you pregnant.

A dick-loving lesbian's dream by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 29 insightful - 9 fun29 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

These idiots might as well go hunt for a unicorn or a sasquatch while they're at it. We've clearly failed sex education if the word "lesbian" brings to mind anything other than "female who does not enjoy penises".

Marriage equality was a mistake by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cute hot take but it's also misguided. You're assuming that:

a) Trans campaigning would not have been successful without the rise and success of LGB advocacy.

and that

b) LGB people should be responsible for gender ideology's rise.

Neither one is necessarily true. Trans activism could've come just as easily from religious groups pushing to promote it as a means of "curing" homosexuality as we see in Arabic countries, and the idea that we cannot differentiate between LGB and trans activism's totally different goals is simply not true.

The problems stem from allowing trans interests to piggyback on unrelated LGB advocacy. Shoulda put our foot down immediately and drawn a line.

Cis faggots are so hot for her by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sorry I'm not sufficiently infantile and unwilling to stoop to your level to pretend the word "faggot" doesn't exist as a word. And yes, I've been called that before as an insult. No, that doesn't mean I automatically have a freakout or feel the need to be sheltered from the word itself when discussing the word.

Your rationalization is beyond stupid and literally makes no sense.

Pot. Kettle. Black.

Why not end this dystopian nightmare of "policing" language by running around using "the N word" every 3 seconds?

Uh huh, anyways I've heard rap music that uses the word far more than merely once every 3 seconds.

Thanks Pride train NYC? 😩 - by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's very scary how quickly and acceptable making thinly veiled violent threats has become. The trans activists getting away with it because "boo hoo we're an oppressed minority" are really feeling emboldened lately.

It's especially scary when you consider their idea of disrespectful is an objectively true statement like "trans women are not literally female".

Pride cringe: "Groom with Pride" by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The fuck, two of the scents are mint. THERE ARE MORE SMELLS IN THE WORLD THAN MINT, FFS.

Pride cringe: "Groom with Pride" by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Instead of actually looking at hiring practices and employee treatment, companies think we'll assess their LGB values based on shitty commercialized pandering. It's really annoying how shallow everything is and it's nice to see the backlash.

Cis faggots are so hot for her by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What the hell is the matter with you?

That cuts both ways. If you're going to refer to an offensive word in a discussion, either refer to it in full, or not at all. Taking out the letter "i" from it doesn't make it less obvious which word it it.

The title is obviously used in reference to the numerous previous posts we've seen from heterosexual women who identify as men referring to themselves as "faggots" because it appears to be part of a fetishization aspect to them.

I'd also note you only appear to have 4 comments posted ever, and yet you're already full on language policing.

Oh the pain, the pain: the agony of these dickless losers on /r/askgaybros by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"It can't possibly be me that's wrong. It must be the LGB who are wrong!"

It's really interesting how heterosexuals with personal identity issues are now the self-declared face of LGB. They've truly been successful parasitizing our movement.

What the ever loving fuck Scotland? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's getting to the point where the standard rainbow flag will be considered offense for being insufficiently virtue signally. And of course, if you don't support the new, aesthetically ugly flag because trans stuff is objectively batshit crazy, they'll try to call you out on it, probably pulling the "you must be racist" card.

To what degree do "trans camps for kids" function similarly to gay conversion camps? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aside from the indoctrination aspect, the main issue with these trans promoting places is they essentially don't do any pushback whatsoever. They're never willing to ask "could it be your dysphoria is the result of an underlying mental health issue?" and instead push transing children as the first step in mental health wellness, rather than being willing to do the difficult task of uncovering and treating the underlying issues.

Transgenderism is essentially slapping band-aid solutions on complex issues of gender dysphoria and autogynephilia, and pretending that letting mental illness go untreated is supposed to be empowering.

Oh the pain, the pain: the agony of these dickless losers on /r/askgaybros by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"People dicussing posts on a publicly available forum" counts as brigading now? Yikes. And remember that these fragile, unstable, mentally ill people who saddle the rest of us with their exhaustingly inane and homophobic bullshit are the ones society are supposed to look up to as stunning and brave role models.

It's fucking ridiculous.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's literally all it is, except you think you're special enough that slapping a meaningless label on yourself allows you to eschew those stereotypes.

If only women in hardcore Islamic countries realized they could just identify out of oppression! Oh, wait, they can't, because it doesn't fucking work that way when it's a sex-based oppression.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a pretty obvious case of social conditioning. A child who isn't old enough to even know what sex is, let alone fully grasp the concept of gender identities, is being surrounded by genderspeak. Little shock that, in order to gain parental acceptance, they're adopting the mannerisms of their parents.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 13 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

You should report them based on their font choice alone.

The rainbow flag isn't enough! by witchdicktor in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not enough to have LGB representation. Remember, "cis" gay men are one step away from the bottom tier of woke politics from heterosexuals. They have to look and be sufficiently queer and oppressed, as well as have a few disabilities, be trans, have wild hair color, be visibly obese, etc.

Thanks Pride train NYC? 😩 - by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It will never cease to disgust me how much the trans community gets a massive hard-on for trying to normalize violent threats.

Remember that their idea of "disrespect" includes lesbian women rejecting men who identify as women. They are the ones disrespecting the very core concept of same-sex attraction by pretending sex doesn't matter. Utter hypocrisy.

Thanks Pride train NYC? 😩 - by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How trans activism operates is becoming largely indistinguishable from Islam. I'm surprising it hasn't tried bombing LGB people it doesn't like yet.

The rainbow flag isn't enough! by witchdicktor in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the problem with valuing cheap virtue signalling over meaningful representation. You place so much importance on the virtue signalling that you stop paying attention to what actually matters.

Why oh why is support for "queer" people plummeting? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

How does someone even write that without vomiting?

3 people I know in real life posted stories in support of the new intersex inclusive pride flag. by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like I'm going insane. What does being gay have anything to do with being intersex ?

Intersex conditions are coopted by the trans activism community as a justification and validation for trans issues, by conflating actual intersex conditions with autogynephilia and gender dysphoria, which are entirely separate. Intersex people are essentially a convenient political tool for trans activists, pawns to be used in their quest for political clout.

More fun with the Q by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, there are plenty of communities overseas still pretty hostile to LGB interests but because they're not easy targets they never get focused on. It's the same thing with Islam; point out that Islamic cultures in the middle east still kill LGB people or use transgender surgeries to "cure" LGB people and woke people will scream "Islamophobia". It's insane how people are only willing to virtue signal about how enlightened they are when the object of their criticism is relatively safe for them to critique in terms of them not being subject to retaliation. Trans activism focuses on first-world injustices and pretends that the world is now a utopia for LGB people and how dare gay men and lesbian women try to campaign with an exclusive focus on issues that affect them.

Now this is the Pride flag I want to see right now by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a very technically accurate flag.

Growing up an as a gendqueer bi/pan/omni/greysexual... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Someone telling you they don't want to date you is a form of discrimination in the strictest, literal sense of the word.

The problem is they mistakenly believe that it's wrong for people to reject them as dating prospects for the reason of being massive basket cases. But ultimately they're the ones signalling they're a massive headache as far as dating prospects and thus not worth bothering with, so they really are shifting the blame from themselves to everyone else.

"It can't possibly be that I'm hugely unattractive!" etc. An entire generation is being trained to be incels.

A million eye rolls 😒😒😒 by GayBoner in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is probably because there are a lot of religious and/or conservative cultures where becoming trans is seen as an acceptable cure for being gay, and that it would be less embarrassing than accepting being LGB.

A million eye rolls 😒😒😒 by GayBoner in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can tell that all the rainbow flag redesigns are by people who don't understand the aesthetics simplicity and abstraction of the standard rainbow flag. It's a rainbow, it's supposed to be all the colors in the visible spectrum of a rainbow and an abstract representation of including everyone LGB. By demanding the flag literally include human skin colors of brown and beige it ruins the abstract representation element and opens it up to constant redesigns to include literal representations in the flag to promote sufficient virtue signalling. It's fucking atrocious from an artistic standpoint. Yellow and purple now appear twice in the flag!

This is of course, to say nothing of how deeply troubling it is to see intersex people being courted by trans activists to be once again used as a shield for their cause despite their causes being totally unrelated.

Medical science couldn't do anything for that fivehead by jet199 in SuperStraight

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Normal human puberty doesn't "damage" anyone unless you're severely mentally ill and thus already "damaged".

Vaccine consent form invalidating for non-binary and trans people, Manitoban says by BEB in SuperStraight

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The vaccine and the virus have different effects and considerations depending on what sex you are. Nobody gives a shit what you identify as or if it's invalidating. These people are so exhausting to deal with.

We are going to repeat this lie as long as we have to until it becomes the truth by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The real way to signal how woke and non-racist you are is to constantly make up fake stories about black people and use them for hero worship (instead of actually talking about the ones who really did make a difference). Remember, black people exist purely to be used as figures to be trotted out to erase white guilt. Stunning and brave!

Rapists gonna justify rape and the T is embarrassing once again by Sunflowerdevyl in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

They're stunning and brave gaping wounds that identify as genitals.

Twitter: "What- I got banned? This is an outrage!" by MarkJefferson in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

How dare you point out the truth? Truly the most reprehensible thing you can do in this day and age, apparently, especially when you're an unstable misogynist into child grooming who insists he needs to be coddled and have his autogynephilia validated.

I know I'm a complete fraud and thats why I need gay men to fuck me and validate my precious identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine being so dysfunctional that instead of a healthy relationship based on love, you view a potential partner only in terms of how you can receive emotional validation from them.

Hell, I know gay guys who can't cope without being in a relationship and obsess over their relationship status without ever learning to be happy as they are. That kind of I NEED TO BE IN A RELATIOSHIP NOW thinking always leads to dysfunctional relationships.

Forced Teaming, feminism, LGB and ‘trans rights’ - how we ended up being made to sleep with the enemy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that Islamic societies use trans surgeries and "reassignment" as a cure for people who are gay should be a dead giveaway that trans activists are on the wrong side of history.

He won’t stop by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Truly he's tackling the big issues in life.

He won’t stop by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What a stunning and brave example of rapey male entitlement. Apparently lesbian women, actual women, are not allowed to be partners with one another and must offer themselves up as partners for mentally ill males with personality and sexual entitlement issues. So inspiring! By which I mean it inspires me to puke.

r/atg - If you are mad at trans people for not disclosing before a date you are a bigot and the same as a nazi by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Let's be honest, 99% of them do not pass in person so the question of disclosure largely applies to online hookups. And in that case (as in any other) it is totally fair game.

Even the Stalin regime wasn’t this good at revising history by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Literally nothing. Every single historical LGB org has been taken over and become LGBT with a hard emphasis on the T. Nobody seems to care that homosexuality is still in need of its own advocacy.