“Homosexual” is offensive? by peaked2020 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 57 insightful - 25 fun57 insightful - 24 fun58 insightful - 25 fun -  (0 children)

The H in Homosexual stands for "Hurts trans feelings because it reminds them that sex is a fact and they know deep down that they're wasting the one life they will ever have chasing something impossible." Queer is OK though because the Q stands for "Quickly talking over the people who were hurt by this word because it's perfectly vague enough to exploit and all those people are all either dead or disgusting Olds who don't deserve to have a say anymore."

lesbians aren't women 🤪 by chokeonartichoke in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 54 insightful - 25 fun54 insightful - 24 fun55 insightful - 25 fun -  (0 children)

"Colonial?" Was there a Native American tribe that let men pretend to breastfeed until whitey came along?

"Straight lesbian" 🤪 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 58 insightful - 10 fun58 insightful - 9 fun59 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

"I like men and want to be seen as a partner instead of an overemotional nagging fuck puppet like TV shows and movies have taught me to be expect, so I'm not ReAalLlY straight."

TRA trys to police AGB, Gays fight back by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 58 insightful - 6 fun58 insightful - 5 fun59 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I'm really tired of seeing people write "it's okay to say no to trans" followed by paragraphs of guilt tripping.

"societal influences on your genital preference" by dilsency in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 49 insightful - 15 fun49 insightful - 14 fun50 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

They don't understand IRL sexuality or dating because most of them are touch-starved teenage virgins.

The modern lesbian couple by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 48 insightful - 16 fun48 insightful - 15 fun49 insightful - 16 fun -  (0 children)

The amount of time that someone spends complaining about capitalism is directly proportional to the amount of money they spend on cheap trinkets, fast food, and bootleg (insert fandom) merchandise.

So does this mean Gigi isn’t a big old out and proud lesbian after all? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 50 insightful - 11 fun50 insightful - 10 fun51 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I remain convinced that the generationally wealthy need a whole new branch of psychology or sociology to be understood. The human brain was never intended to experience 24/7 surplus and luxury from birth and it's clearly driving these people fucking crazy.

T*RFs are just jealous because my silicon milkshakes bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 40 insightful - 22 fun40 insightful - 21 fun41 insightful - 22 fun -  (0 children)

Complaints that I've heard about trans activism and its straight male rights movement, a random sample:

  • Trans activism takes advantage of autistic people.

  • Men can, have, and will claim trans status to access vulnerable women.

  • Letting people change their names and gender markers on a whim makes it easier for criminals and other malcontents to cover their tracks.

Complaints that I have never once heard or read about the subject, ever:

  • boohoohoo trans are so sexy I can never compete abloobloobloo I'm going to die alone ;___;

Lesbians are heteronormative because they wont make the first move... on a man. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 49 insightful - 4 fun49 insightful - 3 fun50 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'm tired of reading essays about how dating is just so hard for (men, women, trans, insert category here) as if they're the only ones having a bad time. Dating sucks for everybody! Victim complexes are unattractive to anyone that isn't a predator!

How dare you equate a penis to a man! by PasLagardere in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 41 insightful - 19 fun41 insightful - 18 fun42 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

"[trans women] are left out of actual lesbian relationships by some of you" 👀 quite a telling slip of the tongue there.

One fell swoop: The rise and fall of TERF-loving transbian Eddie Izzard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 44 insightful - 11 fun44 insightful - 10 fun45 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I think Ellen Pages' opinions are whatever Ellen Pages' creepy girlfriend tells her they are.

AskGayBros: Would you rather get fucked by a trans woman with her real dick or a trans man with a strap on? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 45 insightful - 7 fun45 insightful - 6 fun46 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Another bored 15 year old girl with a baby account trying to bait gay men into attacking her so she can run crying back to her fake internet friends about how those meanie twansphwobes don't deserve a subreddit. Can't AGB set a minimum karma limit to make it harder for these jerks to post?

One fell swoop: The rise and fall of TERF-loving transbian Eddie Izzard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 39 insightful - 18 fun39 insightful - 17 fun40 insightful - 18 fun -  (0 children)

Watching shallow, vapid idiots scream and cry about celebrity betrayal is one of the few pleasures to come out of this new decade.

How do you see the trans movement in the next 5 years? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 46 insightful - 4 fun46 insightful - 3 fun47 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Within the next few years, a bunch of spoiled college students will enter the real world and realize that burdening themselves with a trans identity did fuck all to ameliorate their social/emotional problems or make it easier to suck it up and get to work on time every day. Some of them will have already trashed their bodies and their mental health with permanent, experimental treatments. Their rich parents will open up a wave of lawsuits and write so many angry blogs about it that transing people under 20 will be given the same consideration as a lobotomy.

What do penises have to do with girl sex? A lot actually! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 39 insightful - 17 fun39 insightful - 16 fun40 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

If penises and vaginas were almost identical, there wouldn't be whole-ass manuals about female orgasms.

Another 'pre op transgirl' not feeling welcome in /actuallesbians because it is 'super cis centric' by winterwillow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 45 insightful - 3 fun45 insightful - 2 fun46 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This sixteen year old in the OP has been on hormones for less than half a year and most of his posts are about feeling suicidal and bitter seething about how nobody takes him seriously. He's a walking time bomb.

“I am and have always been a woman” by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 45 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 0 fun46 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with making changes or reinventing yourself at any age. A secure person is capable of acknowledging that. "I used to do that and be this person but I'm happier with this type of lifestyle" is perfectly reasonable. This melodramatic insistence that trans people were always their target gender reeks of insecurity.

ETA: If a trans woman is ""born a woman"" but contently lives as a man for years, even decades, then what's the point of transitioning? It's clearly optional. These idiots are shooting themselves and every other trans person in the foot and they don't even realize it.

Another trans widow: Elliot Page and Emma Portner divorcing by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 41 insightful - 6 fun41 insightful - 5 fun42 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

If Emma is anything like the people I've dealt with that same dead-inside psycho look, it's just another act of control and sadism. Even if Page never goes under the knife or takes hormones, even if TRAs were totally forgiving and tolerant of people that detrans, Emma has the knowledge that she's talked another human being into changing her personal life and history forever only to immediately dump her. Ruin, scar, mutilate, isolate and discard. That kind of sick shit gets these people off like nothing else.

"It's transphobic to say you wouldn't date trans people" by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 40 insightful - 8 fun40 insightful - 7 fun41 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"I'm not going to physically hold you down and force you, but I won't accept a simple 'no.' That isn't good enough for me, so I'm going to beg for explanations, needle and guilt-trip with every single one of them, then angry-draw an entire comic about it on the internet if you don't cave. Also, I don't want to say it out loud, but I fully expect your gratitude for not stooping to physical force, drugs, or slipping your dox to a couple social justice bards with ample free time and absent parents."

Physically indistinguishable from a cis gay man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 37 insightful - 10 fun37 insightful - 9 fun38 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

It's hilarious and gross how TRAs equate honesty with "disclosing your eNtIrE meDicAl hiStOrYy" as if procedures and treatments with direct effects on your sexual organs have no more relevancy to a sexual partner than a car crash or an old dog bite. If they weren't all virgin teenagers and mentally ill shut-ins I would wish karmically undisclosed herpes on all of them.

"It's transphobic to say you wouldn't date trans people" by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 37 insightful - 10 fun37 insightful - 9 fun38 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

TRA: biology is complicated and fluid and there's more than chromosomes and 6th grade science and I bet you haven't even seen your own DNA are ovum even real

Also TRA: they don't inject my drugs in my nipple do they? fuck it, milk is milk, where's junior

"CP2077 is doubling down on their phobic😭” by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 38 insightful - 7 fun38 insightful - 6 fun39 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

lol watch them all pretend that they aren't going to quietly purchase/reinstall anyway when some modder fixes it by Christmas. They don't have the self-discipline to do anything properly.

Badmensanatomy post turns into a homophobic dumpster fire and woke asskissing fest by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 36 insightful - 10 fun36 insightful - 9 fun37 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Today it's "trans men are exactly the same as cis men" and demanding fake prostate exams for validation, tomorrow it's "we need more trans visibility and trans stories about how difficult it is to grow up as a trans man with a trans childhood, don't you know it's transmascspec visibility week? traannanananannsssss"

I can't anymore. These people are seriously CONDONING RAPE!!!! by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 31 insightful - 18 fun31 insightful - 17 fun32 insightful - 18 fun -  (0 children)

The difference is that you'll probably need to see a woman naked before you can tell if she has implants. You might even have to touch them to be sure. You can identify a trans person as such from halfway across a darkened football field.

PenisNews is disgusted by pathetic "superstraight" trolls. Outraged in fact! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 36 insightful - 7 fun36 insightful - 6 fun37 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

If you see two S next to each other and your first thought is Nazis, that sounds like a You problem. An entire article about desperately grasping at straws and clumsily using a snotty tone to sound bold and confident like a sixth grader's first persuasive essay, I'm sure swayed now LOL

Actual Transbians: obviously attempting to rape women by deception is fine. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's dangerous to them because they're worried about someone pressing charges or warning other women, you know, like every other rape apologist dudebro.

Gay men are just trans girls with training wheels by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 35 insightful - 7 fun35 insightful - 6 fun36 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

As if he isn't sent careening into a crying mantrum every time someone shoots a sideways glance at his psychic rot, that is, his jender journey. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

A retweet from him half a scroll down reads: "look at my cool daughter, she’s a car mechanic and she refuses to wear dresses” and never “look at my cool son, he wears nail polish and wants to be a nurse” Full offense but I really don't have much respect for autonomous, full-grown adults in safe environments who complain about bigoted or sexist attitudes and then immediately nod along with them by transitioning or pretending that they're "just" bisexual or whatever cognitive escape hatch lets them feel better about dumping fuel on the fire while the rest of us are trying to put it out. Your high school bullies were fucked in the head, stop telling them their insults had a point and grow some self-respect.

The things my acquaintances send to each other on twitter made me realize how little I mean in their eyes... by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 34 insightful - 9 fun34 insightful - 8 fun35 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Sex dysphoria doesn't exist in animals and evolution doesn't give a shit about you. If you don't breed, that's that, there is no SantaBiologyJesusGod making sure everything's fair and fun and sexy for everyone.

"Cis lesbians and cis bi's [sic] are the most toxic part of the community" by diapason in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 38 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 0 fun39 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hate the word "toxic." Use your grown-up words and tell me why or what makes the "toxic" person/thing so detrimental to everyone around them. For example, narcissists like this Twitter user look for any excuse they can find to demonize the people they use so they can justify abusing and abandoning them.

PinkNews: Lesbians love gay male porn. "get your rocks off hunny" by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to get really crazy and suggest that if your porn tastes are so disconnected from real life that you have to write an entire thinkpiece about convincing yourself that it's fine, then maybe you shouldn't be consuming it. Some people know that they can't have just one beer, some people know that hard drugs don't mix well with their family history, what exactly makes porn an idiotproof one-vice-fits-all?

"societal influences on your genital preference" by dilsency in LGBDropTheT

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When TRAs are talking to people outside of their subculture it's genital this, genital that, boohoo you're a genital fetishist, but as soon as they're around other TRAs and trans people it's back to constant self-scrutiny and fretting about "passing" i.e secondary sexual characteristics

Why It’s Transphobic to Deny Attraction to Transgender People - an article that I found. What a load of bullshit. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 20 fun28 insightful - 19 fun29 insightful - 20 fun -  (0 children)

That's not true... they also want representation in comic books that they'll never buy.

No shit, "trans-women" are still biological men who retain their sexuality despite the "transition surgery". They are still "straight" men or at least are bisexual so therefore they're going to be attracted to women. by MatthewofHouseGray in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I started to feel sympathetic but I looked at OP's history. He's a colonizing asshole! He has no problem whining to other trans women in a trans space about dysphoria - this is where I learned that he hasn't even come out or started transitioning - but when the mood strikes he'll stroll into a lesbian space and start pity parties about trans feelings there instead.

New US study finds Millennial men and “dude bros” are *less* supportive of LGBT+ people than older people by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 36 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is the inevitable reaction to social justice clerics blaming straight men for literally everything.

Lesbians these days uwu by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 34 insightful - 4 fun34 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

So, basically, a teenage boy with niche interests got bullied so hard that he has to use a trans identity as a shield and a crutch. He can't get picked on by boys (to his face) because he's a "girl" now, and he can't be picked on by girls (to his face) because he's a fragile trans butterfly. This is terrible and I hope he finds a more supportive environment to grow in.

Woque homophobia by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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"Transmasculine" is TRA for "I can't identify as a full blown trans guy because I know deep down that I'm full of shit and I'm going to need that soft detrans cop-out when I stop taking T in a month or two."

Whaat the actual fuck. I am so tired of this by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Tweenagers should be building their future 3 AM cringe memories on fanfiction and fashion choices, not this. 😕 Even if someone magically deleted every single predator, enabler and corporate interest that circles trans issues, it's just not healthy to make a hobby out of examining exactly what flavor of alienated you feel from your body.

Where's the gay men's awareness campaign???? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Menstrual Positivity!

WHAT I EXPECTED: helping women in poverty and imprisoned women access sanitary products, encouraging self-advocacy and open communication with medical professionals, reducing stigma and increasing education

WHAT I GOT: useless language policing and shaming, constant chiming in and demand for mindfulness regarding gender feefees, another excuse to scrutinize and harass women's health providers, exactly one PSA that I used to see on television a couple years back about speaking up at the gyno's office wrt period changes and pain

“Why is this lesbian refusing to suck Girldick™?!😡” : TumblrInAction by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why is he doubling down and attacking her even more??? Is it not enough that this young woman is "freaking out" over her own natural sexuality? Is it not enough that she's "challenging" her own assumptions that a woman has a vagina? Is it not enough that she's worried sick about being a good partner to this hypothetical trans woman? I hope this hateful, bitter POS dies a virgin.

Tonight's the night his girlfriend must choose between translesbianism and transphobia. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 33 insightful - 2 fun33 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Who wants to count the red flags with me?

  1. Dropping total life changing bombs like this out of the blue. 🚩

  2. Dropping a total bomb like this AND deciding to have a kid within the same year, within the same conversation. 🚩🚩

  3. Hasn't even come out to his therapist of two years. 🚩🚩🚩

Of course there's no explanation. by zerosis in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 30 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 7 fun31 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

If you think that genitals are so interchangeable that they're practically decorative, you're bad at sex.

If you think that most people would be content having one-sided orgasms with someone who can't stand being touched, forever, you're bad at sex.

'he/him & they/them lesbians - a quick guide' the fuck is this? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 32 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Problem: you feel disconnected from your womanhood.

Do you:

A. cement this in your thinking and make yourself sick by constantly self-reflecting on what makes you different from others and policing every conversation around you to make sure people know that you have issues (never ever let others or yourself think it's temporary, either) and should be handled as such?

B. put in the work, time, and patience to figure out why you feel this way and accept, even sometimes celebrate and nurture the only body that you're going to have for the rest of your life?

Privileges of transitioning... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 32 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

The kind of man who can afford to keep a comfortable wife isn't going to settle for a weird skeleton, rampant mental illness and experimental skin grafts that reek of shit and disease lol what a cope. I remain convinced that some of these dudes transitioned because they're lazy, sexist idiots that would rather ruin their bodies than get a fucking job.

ACLU's transgender lawyer, Chase Strangio, "So much violence against trans people would be eradicated if people could just accept and celebrate their sexual attraction to trans people. Your obsession is so often born of your feared desire." by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 30 insightful - 7 fun30 insightful - 6 fun31 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

As I was explaining to someone recently: American sexual attitudes have gone from "God says no, not ever," to "you CAN say yes!" to "you were supposed to say yes, why are you saying no, you should really think about why you want to say no, I'm not responsible for your education and personal growth, you need to check yourself on your own time and you just don't like it because you're boring and vanilla anyway, you're regressive, Nazi prude, but why are you saying no?"

Sexuality is a personality trait, according to commenters on r/lgbt (but not upvotes?) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Sometimes I think they walk around like "here I go driving as a trans gay in my trans gay car to pick up (insert slur) snacks for my dog, who is owned by a trans gay, fuck I'm so oppressed."

Not as offensive, objectionable and ban-worthy as LGBdroptheT obviously by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Trans identified men in public: Fair representation saves lives! Harry Potter tattoos might as well be swatsikas and I'm just protecting myself by judging you! Every cent towards a video game without fifteen trans lesbian romances is soaked in BlOooOoOooOooD!!!

The same in private:

Askgaybros is somehow convinced that Superstraights were nazis and then trans people accusing others of transphobia for not dating them is not a real problem by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This whole thing started because a minor felt like his sexual boundaries were being policed and harassed. How in the pedoapologist hell is it not a "real" problem?

“I am not my body”. Well who the fuck are you then and why are you all obsessed with fucking same-sex attracted people? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This chick is so manipulative, I genuinely feel sorry for anyone that's trapped in her personal life. If a guy explicitly doesn't want to date trans guys, he's a bigot. If he doesn't mention trans people at all, that's evidence of a silent prejudice among gays somehow and he's still a bigot... as if volatile, intrusive, gross trans dudes aren't responsible for turning gender alignment and dating into such a minefield in the first place. Oh, and don't miss the even tackier comparisons between sexual rejection and "muh right to exist" hidden away in a lovely paragraph accusing other people of making light of rape. Absolutely vile. Is this DARVO???

Well that's Elon Musk cancelled. He'll be sorry. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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lol aren't most TRAs into that shallow fake communism/anti capitalist shit? What's the point of spitting at million/billionaires and calling them exploitative monsters, and then acting like a wounded fawn when one of them has an opinion that you don't like?

Physically indistinguishable from a cis gay man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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What they say: I'm stealthing, I pass as a guy, this is going so well for me, I've been transitioning for longer than this (3 day old) account has been alive! :)

Reality: I feel like an idiot because all I've done and ever intend to do is steal my cousin's shirt and ask my internet friends to call me Parker, but if I can tell half-truths and coax other girls into transitioning I might feel better about it without having to do something uncomfortable and humbling like telling my friends I made a mistake or apologizing to my cousin.

Let's unpack this a little more, shall we by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Transitioning is a choice and I find it offensive to lump one's willfully testosterone-dried vag with unwanted birth defects and injuries.

This whole thread: "Cis is a scientific word, used in chemistry to mean "on the same side; not crossing", which means the word cisgender makes so much sense! And trans people have always existed, there were so many trans characters in ancient stories! 🤪" by GarageCar in LGBDropTheT

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"Loki turned into a chick long enough to do something he shouldn't" =/= trans people in history, and who really wants to be represented by that guy anyway??? It's interesting how LGB people can, have, and will name specific people in history that are like themselves but all these guys have to go on is vague comments about WiSdOm oF thE AnCiEnTs. Forgive me if I'm hesitant to take life lessons from people who made contraceptives from dried hippo shit.

Apparently it's outdated to be a homosexual by EzukiRaen in LGBDropTheT

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Most of them don't have the guts to repeat this shit IRL. I would pay to see this gender hobbyist tell a lesbian to her face that her sexuality is based on "non-men."

Got into a little back & forth on Reddit with someone over on agb. by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 7 fun28 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Another dime-a-dozen 13 year old transhumanist that plays way too many RPGs and too naive to realize that lots of people don't appreciate having their life experiences trivialized to a cosmetic change or a character class reroll...... or that every "but" and "what if" makes you sound like a sleazy teenage boy. "I know you're not ready but what if I took you out first? But I need sex or I'll be up all night and fail my exam tomorrow! What if I shaved? But you're hurting my feelings!" 🤮

Why are TRA's trying to use transwomen/men who pass well as a 'gotcha!' to the whole: "Oh, I'm only attracted to (both) biological males/females." line? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 29 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

They don't understand because most of them are touch-starved teenage virgins.

Gold star lesbian confirmed! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 11 fun25 insightful - 10 fun26 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe I'm already a cantankerous Old, but using pixels and celebrities to flail around mapping the boundaries of your sexuality stops being cute around the time you turn 20 or lose your virginity, whatever happens first. Try fucking real people for once.

I don't know what to say to this by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

These guys are all the same. When you call them out and drag their gross habits into the daylight like this, they scream and cry about how precious porn is just a fantasy and nothing means anything... but I would bet my breakfast that when he goes back to his fifteen trans discord rooms, porn is a soul-searching vision quest and his personal origin story.

Sexuality is a personality trait, according to commenters on r/lgbt (but not upvotes?) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It disturbs me how many teens and young adults seem to be completely incapable of figuring out who they are without some multi-million dollar franchise pre-chewing it for them. For a subculture that never shuts up about representation and fair depictions, they have no actual media literacy skills.

Louder for the back by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 10 fun25 insightful - 9 fun26 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Today I leaned that liking someone of the opposite sex is gay as fuck. It breaks my heart to think of all those innocent het-aces walking around with their boy/girlfriends and dealing with all these silent microaggressive assumptions that they have sex sometimes.

exhibit #28484852 why actuallesbians is no longer for lesbians by MadLass in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Like I said in the Assigned Male thread: they're clearly stuck on desperate teenage boy logic where it isn't akshully technickuly rape because they aren't using force or getting someone too drunk to stand up. They don't give two fucks about enthusiastic consent or being "sex positive," it's just lip service, like a scuzzy "male feminist" trying to tell his girlfriend that she's sexually repressed and obeying the patriarchy by keeping her asshole shut.

Internalised misogyny + homophobic stereotypes = "gay trans man". Sad, really. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's not healthy to be THIS worried about how total strangers "perceive" you, period.

Colonizing "Proud Boys" with "nonbinary/gender fluid" girlfriend receives applause on r/lgbt. The word "boys" is "gender neutral". by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 26 insightful - 8 fun26 insightful - 7 fun27 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

They're dumbass kids/teens with an unhealthy need for consumer products, stereotypes and mass media to tell them who they are. I wouldn't "identify" with straight couples either if my idea of heterosexuality had nothing to do with sex and everything to do with a gossipy harpy chattering away on her cell phone while dragging a boyfriend-come-pack-mule behind her so she can yell at the manager at Forever 21 while he stares forlornly at every passing pair of tits.

No comment by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 26 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

"Get over it," says the guy who needs constant attention and validation. 📽️

Ellen Page comes out as a trans man named Elliot by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In Hollywood a woman's career expires at 30 if she doesn't have the looks, talent, or distinction to reclass into cougar/hot mom or matronly roles. This is simply a regressive attempt at securing more work.

The agony of being a they/them in a cis cis cis cis gay world by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If he's so sensitive to the opinions of total strangers, he probably shouldn't be posting about his oppressed gender status on a public website with his nickname and face attached. Dude is either really stupid or lying.

It’s a clown clown clown clown world by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

When you've had the idea that "feminine woman = giggly stupid womb with legs" pounded into your vulnerable skull meat so many times the only way you can enjoy life is extreme compartmentalization and ripping your mind up into not two but three different people: Dead Ex-You, a Trans You conduit and security blanket, and the Stage You at the end that's chock full of your actual interests and flavor but has been cordoned down to a literal song and dance routine. This is just sad.

"If you're attracted to someone, find out they're trans, and then are no longer attracted to them, you're transphobic" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Oh look, there it is again. "I know I can't flat-out order people to fuck me, but if I pretend that I'm just complaining about ""backtracking"" instead of the entire concept of consent, drape my decoy escape clause with half-remembered murder victims and then guilt-trip everyone who even looks at it then nobody can tell the difference, right?"

Her example is pretty funny because I used to know a guy who was 100% my type, surface-of-the-sun h o t until he started talking and I realized that he's a 15 year old in an adult body. I can't even think about him without wanting to gag. Am a personalityphobe now? Is it classist if I turn him down because he refuses to get a job? Lmao

T*RFs are just jealous because my silicon milkshakes bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 9 fun24 insightful - 8 fun25 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

They're straight men, they've been getting off to women that are 75% plastic and makeup since age twelve and they're too stupid to figure out that most lesbians haven't been doing the same.

"If I feel like a woman then boom I'm a woman bc it isn't real" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Fake it till you make it" doesn't really work when everyone knows you're lying. His imaginary self-confidence will dissolve into another tantrum at the first "he" or "biological male."

Ah yes, Homophobia. How incredibly progressive and woke!! by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 7 fun25 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Ok, I guess all the trans guys can go away and fuck each other then.¯_(ツ)_/¯ Don't let the door hit ya.

Lesbians are heteronormative because they wont make the first move... on a man. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 22 insightful - 13 fun22 insightful - 12 fun23 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Let's be real, that's probably half the reason he transitioned. Mom told him to get a job and he decided to try reclassing into a sugar baby or housewife instead. 🤮

TRA trys to police AGB, Gays fight back by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think that people who post things like this are sexually naive if not completely virginal. They act like genitals and sex acts are completely interchangeable with each other and they clearly don't understand that being dated or touched out of pity/duty/coercion feels AWFUL for everyone involved. It's easy to boast about how considerate you are of mismatched and artificial genitals when you've never interacted with the natural kind!

AL: Turns out dick can be great by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There's upvoted comments about how reposting cock memes 24/7 just ends up fueling muh terfs and twansphobes. I started to wonder if trans people were starting to have standards for themselves, then I remembered that Ellen Page just came out. Gotta clean up and act nice for a week or two until the general public get bored and move the spotlight somewhere else.

The modern lesbian couple by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 22 insightful - 12 fun22 insightful - 11 fun23 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

They bought them from another boldly anti-capitalist dummy off Etsy, a company that made over 500 million dollars in 2018. Don't you know that it isn't real capitalism if a sliver of your money ends up in the hands of an artist?

Showing their racism at all angles by el-sol-duerme in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

You don't get to repeat half-rememebered sob stories about certain women being shamed for their masculinity and in the same breath equate their struggles to your largely self-inflicted issues as a person with a fucking dick. This is highly offensive.

This whole thread: "Cis is a scientific word, used in chemistry to mean "on the same side; not crossing", which means the word cisgender makes so much sense! And trans people have always existed, there were so many trans characters in ancient stories! 🤪" by GarageCar in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Trauma and/or being literally cursed. I'm not a mythology buff but I can't think of a single sex transformation story that was embraced or seen as a gift. There are happier endings about people being turned into trees and constellations, FFS...

Pardon my virtue signalling but women have everything I’m looking for in a man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 22 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 10 fun23 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I think we can all agree that tweeting with one hand is quite unattractive. 😬

The biological science of trans everything by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Lol did this guy wander in from 1998? Consumer genetic testing is so easy and commonplace, I get a dozen "new relative" notifications every year about a month after Christmas. If chromosome and sexual development issues were so common, smug TRAs would never stop talking about it and neither would these companies selling testing kits. "Did you know that there's dozens of biological sexes? Find your place on the spectrum!" 🙄 Dumb, dumb, dumb.

"It's not about the dick, it's about what's attached to the dick" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 7 fun24 insightful - 6 fun25 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Another grown ass trans woman with all the sexual technique and career ambitions of a teenage boy who read Green Eggs And Ham too many times. If you're going to be another dime-a-dozen gAmInG STuDiO, maybe read a book about how to run a business, the first tip is probably "keep your personal life and flagrant homophobia off the public relations account." Also, if 75% of your pickup lines and flirtation game consists of "but" and "what if," you're unfuckable, correct yourself.

It's not them, it's you by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It stuns me how many people across sex, creed and orientation look for partners on shallow meat market apps and then act like it's some kind of gotcha against all men or women on the planet when the people they meet aren't interested in commitment, at best. I'm really starting to think that people do it on purpose so they can justify being prejudiced or "giving up" on dating that they didn't actually want in the first place.

Just some casual homophobia on a subreddit with "lesbians" in its name. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I skimmed his comments and found a lot of whineposts about how skeptical his parents are. 🙄 This dude has no idea who he is as a person...

Bisexuality has always been inclusive of gender identities : bisexual by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

lol @ the comments full of people falling all over each other to screech about how they would totally be willing to fuck a hypothetical trans person possibly someday maybe. 1: I bet every single one of them would come down hard on someone saying "I can't be racist because my partner is black." 2: What happened to figuring out your sexuality based on real people and real feelings that you've actually had IRL?

Weird TQ+ messages in LGB fanfiction? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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It's not exactly fanfiction, but I was reading a group sex scene in a web serial and mid-coitus several characters start whining about how female reproductive health care is handled, with a necessary interjection by the trans character about how it's also full of assumptions that hurt his fee-fees. They didn't even stop having sex.

"Attraction can be controlled" by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Race issues are a fast and effective way to put whoever they want on the defensive, especially if they're American (and that is where, coincidentally, some of the worst trans demands bullshit is coming from 🤔).

Gay men really need to stop being attracted to other men because NOTHING is hotter than heterosexuality by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I saw her claiming to have a (surgical) penis and a vagina at the same time and stopped reading. How stupid does she think people are?

"Women have dicks" "Lesbians like sucking dick" Just repeat it over and over until you brainwash everybody or they leave. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Everybody on the planet is made to feel bad about themselves, sometimes accidentally, sometimes intentionally. Almost everybody has to learn to manage their feelings about it, like adults, and put on a pair of slippers instead of stapling carpet to the ceiling.

Except trans women of course, they should never be expected to exert the tiniest amount of effort or put up with a second of discomfort. Honestly, that's probably half the reason these lazy, entitled boys choose to transition: they think that people listen to women's tears (they don't) so they'll never have to do anything hard if they pass and act soft and wounded and helpless enough.

AL: Transbian complaining that /actuallylesbian is a terf sub and centered on cis lesbianism, another transbian chimes in that it's exclusionary that jokes about lesbian sex is considered lesbian culture by winterwillow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 22 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

No, but they eat breathe and shit Internet so maybe downvotes do. Both whineposters are in the negatives as of this comment lol

r/actualtransbians applauds woman for being misogynistic; bonus: "anyone anti-trans must be a rich, white, conservative woman" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

There's sex positivity for you. We started with "you can say yes!" and got to "you can't say no."

Now it's transphobic to reject mtfs with neovaginas by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

TBH I think that most of the people who repeat this shit are 100% aware that their chances of even meeting someone with surgical genitals is pretty low so they don't bother looking up what any of them actually look and feel like. It doesn't affect them.

When transphobic reality bites your little tushie so hard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Last night, I was reading about narcissistic baiting. It's a textbook manipulation play. The narcissist says something twisted to get a reaction from you, the more targeted towards your individual weak spots the better, and then uses your reaction as proof that you're the one who's cruel and mentally unstable. The goal is for the narcissist to cry victim loudly enough that bystanders forget that they're the one who opened that door and are persuaded into siding with the narc against the target. I just wanted to share today. 🙃

"Actual Lesbians" by _Moon_ in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 19 insightful - 12 fun19 insightful - 11 fun20 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

If I had a dollar for every time a trans woman's attempt at being witty and sexy had the opposite effect of yeeting me back in time to overhearing my brother's middle school aged friends screaming about their 12 inch meathammers over cheap pizza and Mortal Kombat, I would never make my own breakfast again.

lesbians aren't women 🤪 by chokeonartichoke in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 19 insightful - 12 fun19 insightful - 11 fun20 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

TF even is gender studies?

DAY 1: Syllabus

DAY 2: Sex and gender

DAY 3: Words mean whatever your feelings want them to mean

DAY 4 - FINAL EXAM: ??????????

"Though Gallagher is transgender, he feels comfortable using "f*ggot," but not the common slur for transgender people." Gee willikers, how surprising! by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is an awful mix of slacktivism and half-assed "personal growth" that I've never seen before. Doing the bare minimum to not use slurs around your fwiends does nothing for gay men. Hammering yourself with the same words over and over is not a shortcut to the kind of unshakable self-confidence that allows you to disregard insults in the first place.

"Sir! This is r/AskGayMen! We will not have any of this 'homosexual' business here!" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 23 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

The workplace is not an appropriate setting to stand around talking about dicks.

I was curious if this was another two-day old bait account and caught this bit while I was poking around: "If I lived in an area where trans men were more present . . . I’m pretty sure I would have dated/been dating them by now." LOL yeah that's how self-discovery works, hypotheticals! Just think really really hard about what it might be like to kiss trans celebrities and porn stars and if it doesn't make you puke, that's totally exactly the same as being face-to-face with someone no professional lights no photoshop no makeup and probably started T a week ago lmaaoooooo

Penis News, get your Penis News here. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A couple years ago TRAs wouldn't stop talking about how trans and drag were two totally different things and it was wildly offensive to get them confused. I guess that these child drag stars and library readings got enough attention that the narcissist division has decreed forgiveness, for now.

Am I still lesbian if I also like trans/andro/non binary people as well? by denverkris in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 22 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

"Someone else identifying differently doesn't change your sexuality" LMAO so by their own logic, it's totally valid for a lesbian to reject a man even though he's decided he's something else. Glad we could clear that up!

Army chaplain under investigation for calling transgender soldiers mentally unfit to serve. by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

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Trans logic: I need hormones right now no questions asked or my body hatred will come back and I'll be forced to harm myself, but also if the supplies are running a day late to Camp BFE I swear I'll be totally cool about it and not curl up into a useless ball of tears or mouth off at my CO.

Being trans apparently means being triggered by even the absolute bare minimum level of medical oversight. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Surprise, a 16 year old boy whose idea of womanhood is " please call me an 'it' " has no clue how women are actually treated in healthcare. I wouldn't want this little shit coming anywhere near my kids.

If a neopenis feels and looks like a penis, what makes it not a penis? What is the difference between a neopenis and a penis when they both look and feel similar? I don't get it by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ChodeSandwich 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

When TRAs are talking to people outside of their subculture it's genitals this genitals that fuck your expectations and touch mine, but then they slink back to their trans discords and obsessively worry about having the same "passing" mannerisms and secondary sexual characteristics that we're supposed to just suck up and ignore. Don't let them play dumb.

I'm not sure homosexuality works that way... by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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"I'm attracted to both sexes but bisexuality stopped being cool ten years ago and most people figured out that pansexuality is for attention whores."