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[–]MilkTea 46 insightful - 29 fun46 insightful - 28 fun47 insightful - 29 fun -  (2 children)

  • They are mad that trans women get more girls than them

  • I can say with certainty that is NOT the reason they’re mad because I get zero girls

I was ready to clown on them, but they made my job easier.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 22 insightful - 5 fun22 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

At least one of them is willing to be honest

[–]Seahorse 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Right this was an own goal🤣

[–]8bitgay 48 insightful - 14 fun48 insightful - 13 fun49 insightful - 14 fun -  (6 children)

They're """""feminists""""" that, for their very weird, antisocial, bigoted and nonscientific beliefs, treat trans women as "not real women" and try to erase them from womanhood.

I always find it so funny that they say others can't gatekeep who is woman, who is lesbian, etc... But they love gatekeeping that "TERFs" aren't real feminists. If they identify as feminists then they are feminists, isn't this their own rule?

[–]panderichthys 36 insightful - 6 fun36 insightful - 5 fun37 insightful - 6 fun -  (4 children)

They're literally describing themselves with that first part. Zero self-awareness.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

That's some projection there. They been trying to erase women by trying to normalize the prefix 'cis'. I don't use that term at all unless I'm quoting someone else. I will not negotiate with transists by using their neo-vocabulary.

scientific

I keep hearing this from TRAs. What science? I asked one on YT to go on and elaborate what they meant by "the science which fully explains why trans people exist" and they never got back to me. Figures.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Or usually they give a lazy response like:

The science is out there if you just bother to look for it.

This may well be true, but the best writing in articles or books or whatever gives some sources they're referring to and allows the reader to make up their own mind. It's also just good practice. Saying 'it's there if you just look for it' is completely meaningless, because with one click on 'all' on Saiddit I can find any number of articles explaining, in the greatest of detail, why any and all Covid vaccines actually contain microchips that allow Bill Gates to track you, or that the riot at the capital was an inside job perpetrated by a perfidious cabal of devil-worshipping paedophile Zionists. Anything is out there if you 'look for it' - you're gonna have to be more specific, dear.

Or

It's not my job to educate you.

While I can sometimes sympathise with this statement, it usually sounds better (which is a strong word, let's be honest) when it comes from people who haven't chosen to make something the axis of their identity and then refuses to answer questions on it. If my colleague, Fatima, is frequently pestered with questions about Islam, I can understand if she gets a little impatient and tells people to back off. If Fatima went around audibly pointing at people and calling their behaviour haram and started acting a bit like the Saudi Morality Police, her refusal to answer (what I assume are) good-faith questions about why she believes what she believes or behaves the way she does would be grating at best. If you don't want people to ask, stop making yourself the centre of attention.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or usually they give a lazy response like:

The science is out there if you just bother to look for it.

The Truth Is Out there!

Since I think I know enough science to have a general idea on how much evidence they need and have to back their claims, I'll have to regard their truth like a theory of a government conspiracy to cover-up extraterrestrials.

If my colleague, Fatima, is frequently pestered with questions about Islam, I can understand if she gets a little impatient and tells people to back off. If Fatima went around audibly pointing at people and calling their behaviour haram and started acting a bit like the Saudi Morality Police, her refusal to answer (what I assume are) good-faith questions about why she believes what she believes or behaves the way she does would be grating at best.

Ah, but you see- the questions themselves are haram...

If you don't want people to ask, stop making yourself the centre of attention.

Agreed. "Educate yourself" is something hear a lot of from genderists. When they fall back on that it usually means they don't themselves even have the knowledge they are expecting me to seek and are attempting to cop out.

[–]8bitgay 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The funny thing is that the ones that are most adamant about scientific evidence are also the ones that complain about truscums. On one minute they'll say "science has proven dysphoria is real" and the next moment they'll go "oh but actually you don't need dysphoria to be trans".

[–]NonimeTired of Explaining Reality to Fuckwits (TERF) 41 insightful - 25 fun41 insightful - 24 fun42 insightful - 25 fun -  (0 children)

Look at all these incels pretending they have frequent high-quality relationships and sex with women.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 40 insightful - 22 fun40 insightful - 21 fun41 insightful - 22 fun -  (7 children)

Complaints that I've heard about trans activism and its straight male rights movement, a random sample:

  • Trans activism takes advantage of autistic people.

  • Men can, have, and will claim trans status to access vulnerable women.

  • Letting people change their names and gender markers on a whim makes it easier for criminals and other malcontents to cover their tracks.

Complaints that I have never once heard or read about the subject, ever:

  • boohoohoo trans are so sexy I can never compete abloobloobloo I'm going to die alone ;___;

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 26 insightful - 8 fun26 insightful - 7 fun27 insightful - 8 fun -  (5 children)

But that's what these narcisists insist lesbians are thinking at all times:

"Ugh I hate having a real vagina that self lubricates and has the most dense nerve endings of any organ in the human body and real boobs, I wish I had an inverted penis and silicon instead. Reliance on hormones is so much better than just having estrogen naturally"

As a gay man I sometimes wish penetrative sex was as as convenient as it is with PiV sex, but I would not want PiV sex in either direction. I prefer my body as it is now and am attracted exclusively to men

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 24 insightful - 9 fun24 insightful - 8 fun25 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

They're straight men, they've been getting off to women that are 75% plastic and makeup since age twelve and they're too stupid to figure out that most lesbians haven't been doing the same.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I think this is it, they can't comprehend that lesbians tend to date real women

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, yes, the modern porn soaked minds that have become all too common

[–]8bitgay 12 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

and silicon instead

This one is funny because frankly even if lesbians were somehow jealous of big plastic boobs (and I'm definitely not saying they are) lesbians could just... get bigger plastic boobs too.

FtMs also say this, many of them say gay men are jealous of their plastic dicks, and like... They know gay men can buy dildos too, right? It's like they think dildos are this big secret that only transmen know about.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is a good point. When you're relying on fake alternatives, the people with access to the real thing can still use your fake alternative. It's almost like a home cook bragging that they can make a cake faster than a professional baker because the home cook uses premade box mixes that just need water and an egg. Aside from the fact that the baker's cake will possibly be better in various aspects, the baker isn't forbidden to also use a box cake mix

[–]insta 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My biggest gripe with trans activists is they will target and sweep up young homosexual children who are already in a very confusing part of their life. Coming to terms that you're different (homosexual) than all your friends going through puberty is hard and confusing enough without a loud section of people saying "go on hormones until you figure it all out" and destroy your development.

I swear in 10-20 years we're going to see swaths of homosexual/bisexual people who were just brainwashed into destroying their bodies because they were targeted by malicious actors. Experimenting with your sexuality has zero long term consequences (given you have safe sex) but messing around with hormones in your teens should be discouraged immensely.

[–]Rosefield 36 insightful - 9 fun36 insightful - 8 fun37 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

So penisbians claim they have no problem getting dates but on the other hand they complain about lesbians not dating them.

These men are full of shit. Homosexual women don't date men. They brag about getting all the girls like men often do but these girls are either bi, straight or other transbians.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 31 insightful - 6 fun31 insightful - 5 fun32 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Ha! As if every smart lesbian with a bisexual girlfriend is going to worry about her girlfriend leaving her for a mentally ill crossdresser who’s had or is about to have plastic surgery and who might have a gaping puss-filled hole where the willy used to be.

[–]strictly 29 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Straight/bisexual men having a larger dating pool than lesbians is nothing new. But if they in their words are able to attract so many women they shouldn't really need to complain about transphobia when they fail to attract lesbians.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 23 insightful - 8 fun23 insightful - 7 fun24 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

I mean there's differences in certain aspects of life and experience between cis and trans lesbians, like having a space considering that doesn't seem inherently malicious.

inb4removal

[–]dramasexual 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Was genuinely shocked to see that comment there.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And of course a autistic MtF computer nerd with a "redundant SRY"(testis) gene and a thing for Age Play is now guilt-tripping that one for their wrongthink.

[–]julesburm1891 25 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Zero. That’s the amount I’m worried about transwomen stealing any lesbian from me.

Zero. That’s the amount I care about transwomen dating bi and straight women.

[–]fuck_reddit 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

Wait... I thought they couldn't get any girls to date them???? So now transbians are stealing all the girls??? I'm confused....

[–]julesburm1891 16 insightful - 17 fun16 insightful - 16 fun17 insightful - 17 fun -  (1 child)

Schrödinger’s trans. Lesbians are horrible monsters because they won’t date us AND lesbians are queuing up to date us.

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

About as consistent as i ever expect them to be...

[–]Seahorse 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

LMFAO.

Yes that's why there's always forever alone posts on AL by transwomen.

Embarassing.

[–]MyLongestJourney 13 insightful - 8 fun13 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

They are mad that trans women get more girls than them

Bwahahaha

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Considering that a small percentage of women are lesbians, it is reasonable to assume that a straight man would have a better time finding sexual partners than lesbians. What is false, however, is the idea that they're "stealing" any girls from the lesbians

[–]lavender_menace 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Apart from bisexual ones maybe.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe, but the bisexual woman was still attracted to men the whole time, so even if the transbian just stayed a man, they'd be potential competition. The transbian-ness of them isn't creating any extra competition for anyone without a fetish for trans people

[–]Eurowoman24 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

"terfs when a straight man comes out as trans: D:< we lost a lesbian rip terfs when a lesbian comes out as trans, thereby gaining a lesbian: D:< how could they"

What...?

[–]MilkTea 19 insightful - 10 fun19 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

They think we "gain a lesbian" whenever a heterosexual male comes out as a "lesbian"...

[–]Eurowoman24 11 insightful - 12 fun11 insightful - 11 fun12 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

insert clown emoji

[–]DollMeat-eating Vagitarian 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Who are they stealing? Straight women with underrepresented/understudied fetishes and kinks? I find mixed sex phenotypic expression and characteristics to be vomit inducing.

[–]malloww 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Terfs: If you shave your armpit hair you’re a fake girl

...???

[–]marmorsymphata 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly this kind of stuff is such an embarrassing, obvious cope. You have to wonder how much they really believe it.

[–]SillyMoneyGoose 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

“Steal all their girls”, god, they really are straight men

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

terfs when a straight man comes out as trans: D:< we lost a lesbian rip terfs when a lesbian comes out as trans, thereby gaining a lesbian: D:< how could they

what