Nepal registers first same-sex marriage hailed as win for LGBT rights or in the real world, man and woman get married

Chocolatepudding · 2024-02-13T19:39:45+00:00

Spot on

Chocolatepudding · 2024-01-20T23:29:41+00:00

Menno and Helen Joyce

Chocolatepudding · 2024-01-20T23:28:25+00:00

Do you think he is just really repressed?

Chocolatepudding · 2023-12-24T23:22:03+00:00

*aren't welcome anywhere. FIFY Actually I'm not unkind and don't really think they aren't welcome anywhere. That's not a world I really want to live in either. I'm just evil and can't resist

Chocolatepudding · 2023-12-05T12:10:03+00:00

Oh my bad. Yes transing away the gay, just as fun

Chocolatepudding · 2023-11-19T23:06:34+00:00

Read; just to see TLGB ... no joke

Chocolatepudding · 2023-10-09T17:30:30+00:00

Tbf you can spot them quite readily. I'm not like 'ew a transperson' but ngl I feel uncomfortable round them. I think people give them a wide berth so that makes them stand out even more

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-30T17:45:33+00:00

I'm sure he's attracted to other transwomen

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-24T21:01:49+00:00

So just as likely to experience a negative effect as a positive one; while majority saw no change.... please someone correct me if I'm wrong. Very small sample, not peer reviewed but absolutely not the message usually given either

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-19T22:08:15+00:00

She's straight and I'm a lesbian so it kinda works 🤣 well no actually that kinda doesn't work

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-15T17:44:29+00:00

They have no understanding at that age. We don't teach preschoolers about sexuality for a reason. I have taught several children with two mommies and it's just accepted X has got Mommy and Momma. That's all there is to it.

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-14T17:37:00+00:00

Is obsessed with trauma in their re-written history

Chocolatepudding · 2023-09-03T15:47:24+00:00

I have a sibling doing exactly this. In a completely different context though

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-25T20:49:41+00:00

Oh yes I'm sorry I have watched him speak about atrophy and almost dying

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-25T09:39:37+00:00

Link for the Buck Angel reference? Quick Google revealed nothing! Thanks

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-25T09:37:10+00:00

Transing the gay away. Apparently Lia Thomas is in a relationship with another MfF, well I never lol

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-19T15:42:54+00:00

I'm probably online too much 🤣 but it's a theme. Many of them (I mean FtM people) say they have doubts and many others reassure them in response saying that it's normal and 'everyone doubts'. Shit's scary, I tell you. It actually is. Anyone doubting should be told they have forever to think before making any decisions!

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-13T08:04:04+00:00

I also wonder why straight women desire penises. I really can't figure it out - are there any straight women who would be happy dating another woman ... it's just so phallocentric 🤣

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-09T23:36:56+00:00

Oh ok sorry misunderstood. It's probably still bs. Has every homosexual person been abused, no

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-09T18:37:36+00:00

Really; well idk. But even in times of great repression and danger men would still find each other, wouldn't that suggest very little nurture involved?

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-09T09:15:37+00:00

I've known women who have experienced sexual abuse from men isolate themselves from intimate relationships with men. They haven't taken up with other women. Anecdotally boys abused by women don't seem to choose relationships with men. When you read of boys abused by men it seems sometimes they have male sex partners but no mention of they were gay/bi to begin with. But most people are not sexually abused so it can't be the only reason

Chocolatepudding · 2023-08-08T13:07:23+00:00

Or maybe stick to the female only spaces that you feel comfortable in .. there's probably a reason for that

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-28T11:18:08+00:00

Vote with your feet people! Loads of them complain they can't get laid 🤣

Oh and that reminds me! At a concert, huge queue for the ladies (as usual), moving queue (as usual) for the gents. Empty gender neutral toilets 🤣

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-27T12:50:45+00:00

Only

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-26T10:40:05+00:00

I think the men messaging 'her' would get a surprise if they did turn up to watch 🤣 that would be a great candid camera moment!

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-26T10:38:19+00:00

Jeez the comments! One comparing it to his wife's cancer that they got through together

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-24T10:29:34+00:00

I don't believe in any kind of harassment. I don't believe a man can turn into a woman. But I do believe in tolerance and allowing people to live however they choose. Only caveat, as with anything in a free country, is that your rights end where mine begin.

Sharing because of a comment on another video, poster believed they passed completely. Comment was 'very few of you pass, we're just too polite to say '. But from the mouths of babes eh! I occasionally see MtF people out and about. Others seem to give them bit of a wide berth, which makes them stand out even more. Yet they probably go home thinking they have passed completely

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-21T22:17:07+00:00

More um-er's than the late great Donald Dewar

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-19T13:01:42+00:00

They are so naive sexually. No clue or traumatized (or both)

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-13T19:50:12+00:00

Sorry but this made me LOL - 'they're talking about my dick as if it's something new to them' ... baby they're lesbians. It WILL be new to them

Chocolatepudding · 2023-07-02T10:26:41+00:00

Kinky men who want the world to see their bulge when wearing leggings or tight dresses. And paedophiles, they want a bit of that validation too. Sadly I'm being serious

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-20T06:44:46+00:00

Who in their right mind stops bc because their partner told them to, has unprotected sex then oh surprise! A pregnancy scare. I swear they live in some kind of magical made-up world

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-17T13:13:13+00:00

A lovely straight couple

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-14T18:46:00+00:00

Just like all women everywhere! They so get their tits out like all the time!

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-11T09:39:23+00:00

'there's no shipping without a package' 🤣 wonderful

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-11T09:13:40+00:00

You're not entitled to women's bodies sweety. Go suck a girlcock, I hear the mouthfeel is great (only a man would actually say that but hey)

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-08T11:18:16+00:00

In a way it's the best thing that could happen. Every time this BS is tested in court it fails (afaik)

Very sorry to see this appalling treatment of the individual concerned though. But yes let's see the inappropriate, overbearing police for what they are

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-05T12:14:47+00:00

Yet to discover which human rights they believe they are losing.

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-03T17:40:38+00:00

Sillier than that - the transman she is dating is reverting to being a woman. They're both natal women, lesbians or bi. It's actually tragic

Chocolatepudding · 2023-06-03T09:12:38+00:00

Everything feminism fought against, these men are embracing on women's behalf. And having it accepted! That's the depressing part

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-29T21:03:43+00:00

Could be Monty Python 🤣

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-29T12:38:29+00:00

It's a (another) theme. Was lesbian, takes testosterone now attracted to men. Are they a. not exclusively lesbian in the first place or b. T does something to a person's sexuality. If a. - one would imagine a person knows their own sexuality. If b. - frightening implications. And how??? A man with a natural supply of T can be homosexual or not, T cannot be a deciding factor. Imo they're late bloomers who don't understand their own sexuality ... but... so many of them? Any discussion welcome

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-27T19:38:55+00:00

The most vulnerable women in society are men! Who knew! Makes me angry too, that feminists don't see it. Ordinary women do

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-26T20:14:35+00:00

Sadly. I feel for the autistic ones who don't know who they are basically. But even so there'd be no telling them

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-15T06:39:30+00:00

Not when your mum used to be your dad

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-10T21:50:09+00:00

Personally I think an element of homophobia and sexism... good ole beer drinkers not wanting to be associated with either a gay man or a (psuedo) woman. And an element of not liking Dylan at all. Imo, be interesting if any market research ever emerges

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-10T21:45:56+00:00

Imagine the outcry if he had tried to remember the long lost word for people who menstruate...

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-04T12:34:18+00:00

One comment did but downvoted to hell, says it all. Been watching documentary saying regret kicks in around year five and serious suicidal regret around the tenth year. The scale of this is frightening

Chocolatepudding · 2023-05-02T11:39:34+00:00

And egged on to ignore her doubts because they all have doubts so it must be normal (Jesus wept)

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-30T13:07:05+00:00

Toxic feminine on show too, shaming men for gasp having emotions, being tired or just not in the mood

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-30T10:52:20+00:00

The same rigourous process that prevents men ID'ing their way into women's prisons when they were never transgender before incarceration /s

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-29T10:13:28+00:00

there needs to be a public campaign to dissociate homosexuality and bisexuality from this

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-28T18:15:15+00:00

Not entirely sure how I feel about this. Men can be just as economically marginalised as women and actually street-homeless more frequently than women.

Not impressed that men can ID their way into the project but the stipulation that violence towards women will bar them is finally a grain of common sense

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-27T18:53:02+00:00

Apparently it's a parody but I'm not entirely convinced it is ... gross ....

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-24T15:45:06+00:00

Well I wonder why it's all about men and their needs 😂. I wonder why transmen aka women complain about being invisible and even some queer people have never heard of them. I wonder why it's all about natal men Rant over and in response to rhetorical question posed in link!!

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-22T11:06:53+00:00

'Our sexual chemistry is better with each other than either one of us have ever had with anyone else. All very natural and easy. I think he actually much prefers sex with me because no prep or douching required. Just all very easy and natural'

Woah homophobic!!!! Jeez. Thread continues in a similar vein

However I have a question - what do you make of men like the one described here? Lifelong gay man in the usual sense. Meets a transman and gets into a relationship with him (her). .... Now I'm not one to police anyone's language or descriptors that they choose for themselves. If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him. Do you think they're at least bisexual? But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense? Does it remind anyone of gay men getting married to women to avoid their homosexuality? But these are men who already have relationships with other men. Doesn't seem to make much sense

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-18T12:19:02+00:00

Shame on them not you

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-15T10:46:19+00:00

Interesting reference to stealing in there (I read the transcript, couldn't stomach the actual video!)

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-14T22:20:37+00:00

I wish I was surprised. What little data there is isn't all that convincing

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-11T21:04:22+00:00

Not all terfs are lesbians either

Fun fact: Googling 'terf' is how I became one 🤣

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-03T10:14:24+00:00

That's quite upsetting. And just like a man tbh. Keeps wheedling until he gets what he wants. No offence intended to the majority of men who don't want to have sex with someone who is not really enjoying it or consenting

Chocolatepudding · 2023-04-02T03:31:25+00:00

Comments saying it's the teen not the toddler? CBA to investigate myself. Criticism still applies though

Chocolatepudding · 2023-03-19T11:07:24+00:00

That's grotesque. But yeah more please. To as wide an audience as possible

Chocolatepudding · 2023-03-08T13:48:24+00:00

Always been grossed out by drag queens, as a child couldn't put it into words though

Chocolatepudding · 2023-03-04T20:35:03+00:00

The original place! This is something they do, have the enlarged clit released as it where, cutting the stuff that holds it in place so it dangles more (I need to get out more!). Vaginal opening left intact. Weird as but hey. Not sure about it reaching her butt though 🤣

Chocolatepudding · 2023-03-01T13:54:12+00:00

Oh tell me about it. Sat in front of two teenagers on the bus, one telling the other all about binders. Happily describing a visit to the medical room with agonising rib pain from binding too much. Indoctrination much

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-28T13:25:27+00:00

There's bit of an anti-male theme in lots of this stuff, dae notice it?

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-24T11:36:36+00:00

I have no idea why that is.

Comphet I guess. Plus nobody really thinks they're men (often not even each other)

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-23T17:02:33+00:00

.... isn't that why LGB want to drop the T. Just to avoid confusing the poor loves! Are straight men pressured like this to sleep with transwomen? Pre-op transwomen? I don't think so, and don't recall straight women being pressured to sleep with transmen either

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-19T11:48:19+00:00

Homophobia is being masculine??? Lordy the depth of gender straitjacketing with this one. It isn't wrong to call it out. It also isn't wrong not to fight every single battle single handed

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-19T11:39:48+00:00

Mmm. Nothing wrong in acknowledging your child may be gay/lesbian. But a gift for a newborn baby?? I think Oop had slight agenda tbh but family and friends were gracelessly rude to her

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-13T11:02:03+00:00

They don't even want to date each other tbh

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-12T08:54:44+00:00

Well they might look more realistic than the current neophalluses (phalli? Lol), which look revolting tbh. To answer your question no I don't think it will. Because that would be agreeing that sex really is just a collection of body parts and nothing more. Read the transmen sub's - they sound so female in all their (legit) concerns about dating men and pretty much everything else. I do believe in nurture but it doesn't make up for nature imo. I work with children. One parent so far has been raising her child gender-neutral, but so obvious he was a boy matching his AGAB. Same with an acquaintance - they weren't girls either. I hope in the very near future all this nonsense about only girls do X is unravelled and dropped. One transman actually thought being good at maths confirmed her maleness, among other things. It's pitiful and regressive.

Incidentally some men have phalloplasties apparently due to accidents and trauma and I have nothing but compassion for them

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-05T08:51:47+00:00

Oh I did not know that. How sad and yes should serve as a warning

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-04T23:05:03+00:00

Oh I love this book! Because it really made me think and change some of my views. This is a great interview too, but don't forget she was pretending to be a man not believing herself to be a man who has to pretend to be a woman which is what the transmen believe. ... actually scratch that yes her comments would be relevant to transmen who believe themselves forced to pretend to be women... This book helped me be more sceptical about women believing they are men when really they don't know much about male culture as well as vice-versa, men who believe themselves to be women don't know shit about female culture

Chocolatepudding · 2023-02-01T22:25:28+00:00

The sheer entitlement!

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-30T18:33:03+00:00

I think people don't think it through. They, understandably, want to be tolerant and kind. These are not bad motivations ofc but there's a lack of understanding of what's at stake.

Climate change has set the precedent, one can't express concern about turbines being built on peat bogs (huge natural carbon sinks) without being called a mass murderer who doesn't care about their grandchildren. Makes any debate toxic and it shouldn't be

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-29T20:08:42+00:00

NGL it would annoy me to be called 'they' 🤣 but the poetic justice is brilliant

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-26T12:17:30+00:00

That's gross. Creepy old pervert and slightly coerced grandson. Maybe grief has addled his brain or maybe yeah he's a DOM

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-25T08:09:13+00:00

Woman = heels and dresses and long hair. Same old bs

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-22T15:14:56+00:00

Another traumatized young woman. It's really sad and such a theme. Admittedly in a self-selected group who post about their troubles. But seems really common. That and complete inexperience romantically let alone sexually. One posted about wanting phalloplasty but has never seen a penis, it's crazy.

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-16T11:40:24+00:00

She needs a bit of support with her self esteem not convincing she's a man. Just about all of it says trauma to me

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-07T19:05:50+00:00

They just wanna get laid and the ladies are surprised by this behaviour! Many of them (the trans men) post about having never been on a date let alone had sex. They seem unbelievably naive at times and very female I have to say

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-07T00:04:15+00:00

Even in this day and age my son's best friend is afraid to come out to his parents 😓

Chocolatepudding · 2023-01-05T20:05:02+00:00

They have their own flag already

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-31T21:08:50+00:00

Totally romanticism yeah. Laughable to think an experienced man couldn't tell - never noticed the smell or peculiar angle a neovag has to be penetrated at 🤣 total cringe and as comment below says so much wrong where do you start

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-28T10:17:29+00:00

It's homophobic af because that lens and desire for 'everyone' to reflect on so-called preferences is never aimed at straight people.

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-21T19:32:54+00:00

Under the banner of tolerance and acceptance no less. How readily they become that which they despise

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-20T15:24:12+00:00

Feeling like they don't fit in is very common with autistic children and young people. Or feeling different. Doesn't make them the opposite gender ofc I think it's a hook to hang everything on

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-20T15:22:16+00:00

Not taking psych med's far more likely to be a factor than Asperger's

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-17T22:36:11+00:00

Even allowing for the nonsense that transwomen are women, even if you believed that, surely the first definition of lesbian should be biological woman attracted to biological women.

It's all about men isn't it. Even female sexuality!!

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-16T12:18:54+00:00

Schools are supposed to check that they are challenging gender stereotypes. In the UK anyway. Even early years settings are supposed to ensure they are challenging gender stereotypes. These books only re-enforce them! And as for going off with a stranger into their home... No. Just no

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-14T11:15:30+00:00

Ok at maths? You MUST be a man

Chocolatepudding · 2022-12-05T11:21:16+00:00

Does anyone else find it really narcissistic the way people say "one person can't meet all my needs'? Not judging any adults for their choices. But how are two or more people having their needs met by sharing her? It's something that never seems to occur to these poly people

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-30T17:02:45+00:00

Why shouldn't you use the dictionary?

Why argue with these people anyway, pointless. Imo

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-27T11:41:53+00:00

I really think trauma is behind so much of it. Natal women who won't take their clothes off even when in bed with another woman, women who are attracted to men but can't bear to get close to them, women who are revolted by and disconnected from their own bodies. Hell there was a woman who couldn't wash because she didn't want to touch her female genitals... couldn't wash for several months.

Sometimes these people are deserving of having fun poked at them but mostly it's not funny. Without the trans label it's blindingly obvious half of them are traumatized. And they unwittingly join the misogyny but I don't hold that against them. There isn't space for it in their language because of the damn trans bs

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-23T11:19:57+00:00

Haven't I always said they're like incels, jeez.

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-15T16:55:29+00:00

Now who's reducing people to their genitals ... probably from the same town where people are sexually attracted to men but don't like penises. Methinks much of this garbage is born of trauma. Only rational explanation for a lot of it

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-11T17:38:09+00:00

I actually feel terrible for this one. I hope her parents withhold consent Tl:Dr mentally unwell 15 year old having double mastectomy

Chocolatepudding · 2022-11-05T14:11:12+00:00

Things affecting actual women. Not saying men are not trafficked (RIP cockle pickers & more) but not for the sex industry they're not

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