Jailed Minnesota mosque bomber says gender dysphoria drove her to attack by divingrightintowork in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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The articles on this so far have been interesting, with lines like "Who saw her as a father figure."

All: "Trans women" at the Olympics by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT

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And of course everyone can name Hubbard, but few folks can name the respective medalists, or those Hubbard stopped from going.... so in the end, Hubbard still wins.

How many of you were not on the Reddit sub and if not, how did you learn about this space? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

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Meeee. There's a discord, btw!

Link here - https://discord.gg/4VFV4pV4

Gay Magazines: Can't we have anything for ourselves anymore? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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An interesting screed about how Gay men's magazines now center trans stuff... and a well encapsulated example of the failure to understand intersectionality - apparently Gay Times is tweeting about Laurel Hubbard - which has as far as I can tell under no lens, nothing to do with being a homosexual duder.

My UNPOPULAR LGBT OPINIONS | Honest TRUTH | Kai Decadence by SexualityCritical in LGBDropTheT

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yep!

Can We Not? by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Woman charged after allegedly sexually assaulting boy, 6, in Toronto park by slushpilot in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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Damn...

Both: In light of recent events. In what context is Voyeurism and Indecent Exposure acceptable? Is there a rational justification for making an exception for males who claim to be women? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT

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When my state introduced self-ID in bathrooms there was no decrease in bathroom violence, because there wasn't really any existent bathroom violence. Also I've had no problems using male restrooms when necessary. How many times have you been physically attacked in the bathroom when making a beeline to the stall, then sink, then back out?

They can’t even say same sex marriage. It’s all about gender. by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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Same gender marriages were never explicitly illegal you stupid fuck.

QT: What rights don’t trans people have? by wokuspokus in GCdebatesQT

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cool low effort story bro - but sure "I have the ability to flirt, engage in courtship, or form a relationship and not fear that my biological status may be cause for rejection or attack, nor will it cause my partner to question their sexual orientation." Not "cis privilege" "Hollywood accurately depicts people of my gender in films and television, and does not solely make my identity the focus of a dramatic storyline, or the punchline for a joke." Not CP "I have the ability to not worry about being placed in a sex-segregated detention center, holding facility, jail or prison that is incongruent with my identity." Not CP in CA, MA, ME, WA, and many other states.... doesn't seem worth continuing given how bunk all of these are.

QT: What rights don’t trans people have? by wokuspokus in GCdebatesQT

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"Here's a list of made up things that mostly only men who identify as women care about and also are not actually privileges many actual women have. But also a lot of them aren't even accurate for men who identify as women and are pretty baseless."

Here are some examples of cis privilege:

I can use public restrooms that match my gender without fear of verbal abuse, physical intimidation, or arrest

I have the ability to walk through the world and generally blend-in, not being constantly stared or gawked at, whispered about, pointed at, or laughed at because of my gender expression.

Strangers call me by the name I provide, and don’t ask what my “real name” [birth name] is and then assume that they have a right to call me by that name.

I can reasonably assume that my ability to acquire a job, rent an apartment, or secure a loan will not be denied on the basis of my gender identity/expression.

I have the ability to flirt, engage in courtship, or form a relationship and not fear that my biological status may be cause for rejection or attack, nor will it cause my partner to question their sexual orientation.

If I end up in the emergency room, I do not have to worry that one gender will keep me from receiving appropriate treatment, or that all of my medical issues will be seen as a result of my gender.

My identity is not considered a mental pathology (“gender identity disorder” in the DSM IV) by the psychological and medical establishments.

People don't speculate that my gender identity is a result of abuse or trauma.

I have the ability to not worry about being placed in a sex-segregated detention center, holding facility, jail or prison that is incongruent with my identity.

I can easily find role models and mentors to emulate who share my identity.

Hollywood accurately depicts people of my gender in films and television, and does not solely make my identity the focus of a dramatic storyline, or the punchline for a joke.

I will not be harassed by the police or denied services at a bank or other institution because my legal sex does not match my gender presentation.

QT: What rights don’t trans people have? by wokuspokus in GCdebatesQT

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you should probably delete your account again, then?

QT: What rights don’t trans people have? by wokuspokus in GCdebatesQT

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And?

QT: What rights don’t trans people have? by wokuspokus in GCdebatesQT

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If a trans person is rejected because they're trans they fall under sex protection under pricewaterhousecoopers ann hopkins & and the more recent one I forget the name of. Please feel free to explain to me how they don't.

All: What would it take for everyone to be friends again? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

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It'd be interesting but also so hard to put back in the bag - what about all of the people who already changed their documents?

All: What would it take for everyone to be friends again? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

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Likely an apology and an understanding that such social norms are not universal and signaling a respect for the different social norms of many women?

All: What would it take for everyone to be friends again? by Fleurista in GCdebatesQT

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I mean the fact that TRAs take it as a persona affront that women want to gather in private on the basis of their femaleness is pretty fucking bad.... how is one supposed to coexist with people who take issue at such a basic decency / respect?

The faux-historical, anachronistic use of LGBT by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Even according to them they weren't part of it! "This is a gay bar, and it's not drag night." Them: "we're women."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=81fm9Kmu4pc

Why oh why is support for "queer" people plummeting? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Oh wow what's this - https://nypost.com/2021/05/29/dalton-parents-enraged-over-masturbation-videos-for-1st-graders/

"The Post reported on Fonte’s workshop, “Porn Literacy: An intersectional focus on mainstream porn,” at Columbia Grammar & Preparatory School. The often-explicit slide presentation and lecture to the 120 co-ed juniors included how porn takes care of “three big male vulnerabilities”; statistics on the “orgasm gap” showing straight women have far fewer orgasms with their partners than gay men or women; and photos of partially nude women, some in bondage, to analyze “what is porn and what is art.”"

& Fonte’s lessons for first-graders also include subjects such as gender assigned at birth, gender identity and gender expression.

“Kids have no less than five classes on gender identity — this is pure indoctrination,” a Dalton mother said. “This person should absolutely not be teaching children. Ironically, she teaches kids about ‘consent’ yet she has never gotten consent from parents about the sexually explicit, and age-inappropriate material about transgender to first-graders.”

Why oh why is support for "queer" people plummeting? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Children can figure it out on their own if that's true - no need for adults to design materials to school them.

Celebrity drag queens' opinion on "genital preferences" by dilsency in LGBDropTheT

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Always so unselfaware they are - "You just got to get over your unexamined preferences about body parts."

The latest from gay male group gone TQ+ by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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:standing ovation: It's certainly not like people aren't ready to dump money into dubious trains tracks.

All: What do you make of the Christiane Volling case? by nausicaa in GCdebatesQT

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I think we've pretty much already done this in modern society thanks to the work of ppl like Alice Dreger. Leave IS bodies alone until they're old enough to decide what they want.

Answers to 12 Bad Anti-Free Speech Arguments: Featuring That XKCD Cartoon Everyone Likes to Quote! - Areo by Chipit in censorship

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here for this.

GC: Why is there more focus on trans women than trans men? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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OK? I have no issue not stanning for TMs if they don't want to be included under my feminism. Not really sure what your'e saying / what it has to do with the original response that wasn't addressed already.

GC: Why is there more focus on trans women than trans men? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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Do you understand what allyship is, yes or no? Women can understand and empathize with disregard for personal boundaries on the basis of sex.

The latest from gay male group gone TQ+ by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Ugh I'm kind of curious to see if I can stalk some social media to find trains trying to tear the group down, but I also don't want to. But yeah, it's all just so ugh... like can these TMs define what is more essential to being a homosexual than two men getting each other off with their dicks. Anything other than that is just weird fetishization and stereotypes. But even worse than that anything that has a whiff of guys getting each other off is "exclusionary" and hurtful and oiiii... ffs.

The latest from gay male group gone TQ+ by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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There's a big issue of people not being taught to take ownership for their issues it feels like. Just like, your anxiety disorder or whatever isn't a free pass to be an asshole. The whole thing about being like "I have anxiety," was a subtext of like "please be patient with me," which was a request, not a demand, and now it's just gone way past that....

On an unrelated note - it'll be interesting to see what happens to this place -

https://www.eastonmountain.org/history-2

it was a gay man's retreat and it's been "trying to be more inclusive," we'll see how it goes.... last I talked they were having a bit of a hard time including trans men in gay men's sexual pleasure workshops because they're hella dick focused (duh) - but you can guess what dickcentric sexual workshops exclude, right?

NPR Almost Became Self-Aware Today by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Based LGBdroptheT. For real though, Diane Fucking Ehrensaft.. how is no one asking her what she learned about the Satanic Panic and mass hysteria?

Everything Else by PhilosopherTentacles in GCdebatesQT

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ohhi! I'm doing pretty ok! The gcdebatesqt discord is humming along nicely. We swung from spring to summer in record time. I just won an eviction and damages court case against a shitty sublettor (I'm not a landlord). Work is starting to pick back up. Life is returning.... Yeah, it's.. .pretty ok.

TRAs triggered by women's privacy and safety being considered ahead of their feelz shocker by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

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"What happened to just wanting to pee safely, mate?"

GC: Why is there more focus on trans women than trans men? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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I generally support private orgs and spaces having their own rules that can be exclusionary. This includes churches.

GC: Why is there more focus on trans women than trans men? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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Why would we care what other women do with their selves, or if they don't want to call their selves women anymore? Though if men have issue with women invading their intimate spaces, say women wearing shirts that say things like "three hole faggot," flooding gay bars and complaining about the transmisandry... we will stan for them and support them in keeping their spaces sex segregated and hope they'll do the same for us.

Any Gender Critical people here who are in the Art World? by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

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Haha I'm pretty ok, nothing super eventful! And yeah I hope they have found the right path for them. Hope to see ya in the FB group!

Any Gender Critical people here who are in the Art World? by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

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oh shit saw your post about being banned - I'm so sorry - people are super stalkery holy fuck. It took me a moment then I realized we chatted before. How goes everything in the life of being a femmy gay guy? Also the friend I connected you with detransitioned / deidentified and is back to being a male/man :0

Doctor: Time for transgender treatment industry to “follow the science” by BiologyIsReal in GenderCritical

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"Doctor Ladinsky claims that science is on the side of the transgender treatment industry. It is not. I read the scientific literature on this subject all day long. Virtually all of it is comprised of the lowest form of scientific evidence; small studies, with few patients, followed for short periods, all of them biased by self-selection (the patients who have committed suicide don’t come back to answer their vague questionnaires about their sense of happiness). "

What I don't understand about heterosexual transgenderism and no one's been able to answer. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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(relatlvely) Famous heterosexual trains ppl....

Sandy Stone - Was actively causing division in rad fem communities in the 70s. Kate Bornstein - wrote former trans cannon "Gender Trouble" Lou Sullivan (one of her famous quotes, getting and dying of aids validated her gender identity as a gay man)

Ppl like Deirdre McClosky, Lili Elbe, Christine Jorgenson, Lynn Conway and Andrea James are also famous AGPs (not quite the same as straight per say but like, all were married to women and many had kids at one point I believe). A lot of them went on to having sex with men post surgery so it's a little unclear where they fall but they def't were not HSTSs.

Anne Lawrence is a famous AGP who wrote Men Trapped in Men's Bodies, so, totally hated by modern trains.

So, they do exist, for better or worse.

You may also want to look up Virginia Prince's history, a pioneer in today's current trans movement as much as they've disowned him for gatekeeping and elitism - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginia_Prince

Admittedly he was pushing for trasvestistic fetishism, but also "Living as a woman full time" in drag.

So again, they're actually there / around. There were any number of AGPs/straight men, etc. And I'm not even a major academic source on this stuff but that's who I know.

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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I mean I believe humans are sexually dimorphic, just like literally every other mammal... and that's going to.. show up in places and ways... useful in considering societal policies, but not really on an individual level... So like, sexed changing rooms are fine because while any given man is not necc A Jerk, the frequency of men who are jerks to women is much higher than women who are jerks to men (and other women), plus average man is bigger stronger than average woman. Like sure there may be a woman who is bigger and stronger than randomly selected man, but probably not.

Is that essentialist?

Re LibFem, I just don't see the value in really digging into the label either which way.... I'm not really an ideologue... I suppose you could call liberalism an ideology, though it's.... hard to really squeeze into that, it's more of a value, for a pluralistic society.

Teacher Suspended After Saying George Floyd Would be Alive If He Complied by scrubking in politics

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I hope that teacher sues, and wins. What was the teacher supposed to do, lie?

Benefits of Transsexual Surgery Disputed As Leading Hospital Halts the Procedure (Published 1979) by divingrightintowork in GenderCritical

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A study on detransitioners came out not too long ago, one of the prominent reasons for detransitioning is transitioning only exacerbated their dysphoria...

Feminist sheroine Kara Dansky: THE BIDEN ADMINISTRATION IS OBLITERATING WOMEN AND GIRLS by BEB in GenderCritical

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Kara is based. I'm glad we have her. It's a shame she left the ACLU... only in so much that they could use not-shitty ideologues...

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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You seem to be misreading / missing the question and the emphasis that it is about social protocols around people with religious identities vs people with gender identities?

Benefits of Transsexual Surgery Disputed As Leading Hospital Halts the Procedure (Published 1979) by divingrightintowork in GenderCritical

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yeah shockingly a lot of GCs/RFs are ok with there being medical options available so long as they're done under an ethical research / cost / benefit informed framework, with no collateral... which is what a lot of this seemed to be.

Benefits of Transsexual Surgery Disputed As Leading Hospital Halts the Procedure (Published 1979) by divingrightintowork in GenderCritical

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So, this is an interesting article....from the 1970s, on research on the efficacy of cross-sex-medicalization. TLDR - it seems like this all was being explored in very good faith, with quality research & records being kept, in the mid-20th century & the conclusion was that there generally wasn't a clear consistent provable benefit to any cross sex medicalization in terms of improving quality of life so the programs generally shuttered or faded out.... Any potential evidence of quality of life improvements for cross sex medicalization only showed benefits if the recipients were heavily gatekept by the medical practitioners / industry, which is more or less orthogonal to what a lot of people here seem to believe (but if I'm wrong, please feel free to let me know). It's just so fascinating that all of this was happening, research was being done, outcomes were being tracked, and no one seems to use any of this for contemporary arguments about the efficacy / lack thereof for CSM (cross sex medicalization). To explain, people who were rejected for SRS then got it anyway generally had poor outcomes. I believe there was some life improvement on some folks who got CSM who did pass through screening. Like, why aren't we doing any tracking or studies like this today? Why aren't people looking through the research from the mid-20th century on this? FWIW a lot of GCs/RFs were actually ok with the classic gatekeeping model for... a lot of reasons, including low levels of collateral.

LGB activist Fred Sargeant (who WAS at Stonewall) gets an apology from US trans site by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Good for him, bad on them.

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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Uh probably not very essentialist, but what does essential mean to you? I'm also not really much of a radical. I guess I'm not sure what you're trying to get at.... I believe myself to follow the values of liberalism, probably with a leftist bent. I don't see why I couldn't be a liberal feminist, which I would consider different than a "Libfem," or I suppose "Liberal Feminist." I don't reject a label just because others use it poorly or incoherently. I'm just not sure if there's a definition of feminism that is meaningful and relatable enough to attach to myself. I don't really see the point or purpose.

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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Sure! At a glance this seems to be an ok description of it - https://www.liberalcurrents.com/liberalism-article-paul-crider/ Current liberalists I enjoy are people like Helen Pluckrose, Jonathan Haidt, Greg Lukianoff, Jonathan Rauch... The ACLU, circa 1978 was a liberal (as in liberalist) institution. Let me know if this helps. The word feminist is too meaningless to really mean much to me at this point, but if you can tell me what it means to you, I Can tell you if I'm a feminist by your definition :)

YWCA Canada signs on to statement "A trans woman has a woman's body, and is indeed biologically female." by BEB in GenderCritical

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... biologically male is a dumb problematic term but if a trans man tells you he's biologically male he is def't biomale.

GC: Is there such a thing as "transgender"? by Tea_Or_Coffee in GCdebatesQT

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These words have generally become useless, I'm more likely to use medically masculinized woman and medically feminized man, as they're well.. useful and clear. And if the person hasn't done any of those things, than they're just normal women and normal men. Trans is mostly just a euphemism for what I described above, "med masc woman," "Med fem man," assuming they did do those things.

GC: are there any QT/trans people that you like and admire and QT/trans: are there any GC people you like and admire? by questioningtw in GCdebatesQT

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OK! Here's a podcast / youtube video with one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUJxY0MzuRw

and here's a twitter of one - https://twitter.com/Tiresiasovid

and another - https://twitter.com/kirino_imouto/status/1390660645184495626

Also, I'd suggest looking up Men trapped in Men's bodies, by an AGP. I believe you can find a free copy online, but it's not on social media.

GC: Is attraction to "trans men", "trans women", etc separate from sexualities? Or is it not separate? And what are the arguments against "trans women are biologically female", "trans men are biologically male", "trans women are less of a man/male", and "trans men are less of a woman/female"? by CuteAsDuck in GCdebatesQT

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I can speak from my own experience - and that should probably answer your questions...

IME Sex with trans women feels like sex with a variety of men, men with erectile dysfunction, medically feminized men, or just normal men... and I've had a lot of sex with a lot of men, yes, including medically feminized ones.

Less experience with women who have been medically masculinized (but I've med masc'ed my own body some) - but yeah, IME there it... just feels like sex with a woman, or as a woman.

LMK if that helps!

TLDR - "No, not really. It makes sense heterosexual women are more likely to consider TWs than TMs, and so on... " Though sure I get why some may not really consider medically feminized men to be like uh, peak desirability.... and won't really consider medically masculinized women to be men... because they're not by most normies meaning of the word man.

GC: are there any QT/trans people that you like and admire and QT/trans: are there any GC people you like and admire? by questioningtw in GCdebatesQT

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You know I'm starting to see a group of men come forward who I call "based AGPs." they are incredibly open about their fetish, that it is a fetish, etc. and how a lot of TWs are abusing good will and being disiingenuous about their motivations . Like, who'd have thunk? Happy to share them if interested.

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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bravo - I've been saying that I'm not really GC or TRA, but I'm a liberalist... and it's the negative rights of GC/RF aligned people that are being most trampled right now, whereas TRAs are demanding highly undue positive "rights" which are really more like privileges.

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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I'll check the other posts and see if I have anything to share?

For QT: Why is gender identity different than religion in social protocols? by divingrightintowork in GCdebatesQT

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Aww I've missed you! ❤️

Transcritter walks into the wrong alley. by grixit in GenderCritical

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Have you tried any of the non-political circles?

Transcritter walks into the wrong alley. by grixit in GenderCritical

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Yeah that's valid - it's hard because while in theory Ovarit is really just about a women's space for women, it was made manifest by the banning of r/GC, so that was the point of connection.... Hopefully it will keep growing though, and there will be the like more politicized spaces, and then the like "Just be chill and nerd out about knitting" spaces - they DO have apolitical circles, like knitting ones!

And yet another Reddit post is locked down because it had an opinion against Transgenders by [deleted] in WatchRedditDie

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got a removereddit link?

Transcritter walks into the wrong alley. by grixit in GenderCritical

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Lipstick Alley is a really unique space, and I'm not going to lie, I'm super jelly of Black women for creating and having it.

Never-Before-Seen Drone Footage from Charlottesville 2017 Protests Reveals Enormous Extent of Media Lies and Propaganda by scrubking in politics

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I'm not sure how they got to the conclusion that he couldn't have known he was driving into people...?

Serial killer Susan Monica found guilty on all charges, gets 50 years by divingrightintowork in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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Wait, explain? It just seems like it's an infinite scroll for me.

Serial killer Susan Monica found guilty on all charges, gets 50 years by divingrightintowork in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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Shockingly few article articles mention born as Steven Buchanan)[

RANT: Whycan't we have our own fucking spaces? by ukrdude10 in LGBDropTheT

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RANT: Whycan't we have our own fucking spaces? by ukrdude10 in LGBDropTheT

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oh fucking WBUR wrote an article lauding them doing this - https://www.wbur.org/endlessthread/2018/09/28/league-of-extraordinary-trolls

Good news -Book that should expose gender ideology out in July! By Helen Joyce/ journalist & editor for THE ECONOMIST - very credible. by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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They blocked advertising for it, I believe.

No, more congressmen were not arrested for sexual assaults in bathrooms than transwomen. by GConly in LGBDropTheT

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Sure thing! Please contribute <3

No, more congressmen were not arrested for sexual assaults in bathrooms than transwomen. by GConly in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah someone pointed it out, and yeah there were depressingly few corrections if any from what I saw -ppl just taking it at face value!

No, more congressmen were not arrested for sexual assaults in bathrooms than transwomen. by GConly in LGBDropTheT

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Was this in response to a particular claim? It sounds like that's the case.

No, more congressmen were not arrested for sexual assaults in bathrooms than transwomen. by GConly in LGBDropTheT

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r/nametheproblem is still around and here on saidit there's s/thesearenotourcrimes !

QT: Why is bigoted/violence to misgender someone, but mandatory to missex them? by SnowAssMan in GCdebatesQT

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I've started saying things like "Sure I'll missex them."

I got banned from 18 subreddits yesterday by CastleHoward in GenderCritical

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It's coming from within the university :sobs:

https://archive.is/QTk0X#selection-169.0-181.195

Reddit used to have a subreddit for this. by trainingbluejay in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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.....oh my god. I wasn't sure if TNH was specific to violent crimes that were reportedly done by women when they are actually men, or more broader men who say they're women behaving badly, but thanks so much!

Yes, this is about Aimee Challenor. All paedos must be protected if they happen to ID as trans. by jet199 in MeanwhileOnReddit

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Fair enough!

Reddit bans anyone for mentioning their new admin Ashton "Aimee" Challenor's name • /s/WatchRedditDie by Happy_Blueberry3910 in LGBDropTheT

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r/anime_tiddies is stann'ing for principles.

Yes, this is about Aimee Challenor. All paedos must be protected if they happen to ID as trans. by jet199 in MeanwhileOnReddit

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holy shit can you appeal?

The fetishization of SuperStraight People by the Trans community by Terfenclaw in SuperStraight

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Based

Montegut woman sentenced to five years for sexual battery by divingrightintowork in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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So I did a bit of a deeper history dive. they've had the same name all their life, no legal name change, which is a woman's name, they're also about 4 ft 10 or so? So this person may actually be a woman? possibly on testosterone, probably also math or something.

Does anyone know if Gareeca Conita Gordon has been confirmed to be a TIM or a woman yet? From "Man and woman appear in court after Phoenix Netts remains found in suitcase" by divingrightintowork in TheseAreNotOurCrimes

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Okay here are some more receipts, the original tweet from Jess Phillips, and the news report using male pronouns -

https://twitter.com/topgirls/status/1366310454633488387?s=19

GC: What are the definitions of male and female? How would intersex people fit into binary sex? And is calling the intersex condition a disorder (of sexual development) discriminatory towards intersex people? by Tea_Or_Coffee in GCdebatesQT

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So - what is the purpose of sex as a meaningful designator? As a protected class? As something we collect on the census? How would you remodel all of these things, and why / for what purpose? Would this also be global, local, etc?