ACLU's transgender lawyer, Chase Strangio, "So much violence against trans people would be eradicated if people could just accept and celebrate their sexual attraction to trans people. Your obsession is so often born of your feared desire."

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-23T14:16:19+00:00

"Just admit you want to fuck us. Just fuck us. Please fuck us! ... please?"

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-17T18:17:02+00:00

I'm afraid similar laws will start appearing with the passage of the Equality Act. It's scary to think about.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-17T16:46:36+00:00

No. BC, and Vancouver in particular, are pretty fucking woke. Not all of Canada is like this. All you have to do is step outside of the big cities, just like the United States. I've lived extensively in both countries. I'll take Canada over the US any day.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-16T18:23:59+00:00

Jesus Christ, what a clusterfuck. I can't even begin to imagine how this will affect these kids mentally when they're adults.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-16T17:43:22+00:00

She looks gaunt and underweight, almost sickly. What kind of shit is she going through?

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-16T17:32:48+00:00

Also ignore the hair growing inside my vagina and the necrotic clit!

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-15T22:12:25+00:00

I regret giving them donations in the past. The fact that they even used the phrase "cotton ceiling" is disgusting.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-06T14:37:22+00:00

And how about detrans kids, AOC? Are they awesome? How about the confused kids and teens being pushed through this system by people like you, so you can score some woke points? What will you say in five to ten years, when these kids are grown up with underdeveloped bodies, and realize they've made a terrible mistake? Will you support them then, you disingenuous fucking asshat?

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-06T14:30:09+00:00

Everyone knows you were never with a lesbian, dude. Nice fantasy you've created for yourself there.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-03-04T13:21:19+00:00

I cannot fathom the mental gymnastics these people go through. Their brains must be tied up in knots like pretzels.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-22T15:14:50+00:00

My guilty pleasure is fanfiction, lol. I haven't written any in a long time, but I still occasionally read it, and I have indeed noticed TQ+ nonsense creeping in over the years. It's mostly prevalent in modern fandoms. Older properties are pretty safe because most of the fanfiction for them was written before the TQ+ trend started, younger people aren't interested in older fandoms, and the fanbase just tends to skew older.

For instance, I'm currently into Star Trek: Voyager, and I love me some Captain Janeway and Seven of Nine. I use Archive of Our Own, and though there are some recent fics, most of them are much older-- I have not seen any TQ+ crap, just purely bi/lesbian stuff that was clearly written by actual bi/lesbian women.

On the flip side, modern properties are a goddamn minefield. I've seen stories where they've turned female characters into MtF transwomen (Regina from Once Upon a Time, and Rizzoli from Rizzoli and Isles). That is just so insulting to me on a visceral level, that these strong, intelligent, confident women MUST ACTUALLY be men. And of course there's girldick involved. At least with AO3's tagging system, you usually get a heads-up for the content of the story, because the TRAs just can't help but announce how 'uwu inclusive' they are. I've noticed that if there's girldick, they tend to tag it "g!d" or something similar, so hopefully that helps you avoid some surprises.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-22T13:18:39+00:00

The whole "gender binary is colonialism" thing never fails to make me laugh. It's like they just string together buzz words and call it a coherent argument.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-20T01:05:18+00:00

Seriously, when do the one-way tickets to Mars go on sale?

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-13T14:55:10+00:00

Because she's porn-sick and addicted, and she thinks everyone else is too. She probably came to the conclusion that she's a gay man from obsessively watch gay porn.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-09T18:41:57+00:00

I like how he tries to place the blame on his girlfriend for his dick hurting. He wanted to be a woman, but doesn't even understand female anatomy.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-08T17:03:38+00:00

I also thought this, and I'm so glad I'm not alone.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-08T00:57:41+00:00

I see the ACLU has gone screaming off the deep end.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-07T13:49:10+00:00

Ah yes, everything has been and always will be women's fault. The battlecry of misogynistic pricks.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-02-02T23:01:55+00:00

The first time I heard about tucking was Silence of the Lambs, lol.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-26T16:40:38+00:00

If it helps, there was just a huge update to Stardew a few weeks ago that added a bunch of stuff, including a whole new area called Ginger Island.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-26T13:08:52+00:00

Right? But then they constantly complain that no one will have sex with them. So which is it?

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-26T13:03:44+00:00

Oh interesting, I didn't realize the companies had split up! I did notice the games Natsume puts out have been a downgrade in quality, so now I know why.

I mod a lot of the graphical appearances in Stardew Valley as well. The game was made by one guy, which is incredible, so I give him a slight pass on not being a top tier pixel artist. :P There's definitely some jank to the character sprites and animations, though.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-25T13:14:20+00:00

The more they call everything and everyone "transphobic," the faster everyone will get sick of it and just roll their eyes. TRAs are shooting themselves in the feet because they just can't help but scream about it day in and day out.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-24T22:55:46+00:00

Oh wow, you're right! I could have sworn the TQ+ crowd were praising Abby being trans when the game first released. That'll teach me to do my own research. :P

edit: it's apparently a character named Lev who is FtM

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-24T21:43:18+00:00

If you're interested in a really chill, cozy farm life game similar to the Harvest Moon series, I strongly recommend Stardew Valley! There are ten romanceable characters (5 female, 5 male), and though it's kind of "everyone is bi," I prefer to consider it "everyone is farmer-sexual." :P

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-24T21:38:16+00:00

Fair warning, but I believe there's a MtF trans character in that game as well who plays a pretty big role.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-24T11:52:01+00:00

I love how many of them are showing off their man chests and pretending it's racy. Like, my 60 year old neighbor mows his lawn shirtless and no one thinks it's a burlesque show.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-23T15:08:26+00:00

I came out to my parents when I was 16. I thought I was lesbian at the time, and it took me a few more years to figure out I was bisexual. My mom had always been very accepting and insistent that homosexuality was not a choice, so I thought it'd be okay. Nnnnope. She called off work the next day and spent the entire day in bed crying, then forced me to go to a psychiatrist.

On the other hand, my gruff, straight-edged, lifelong Republican father was totally fine with it.

That permanently damaged my relationship with my mother, though. I've had trust issues with her ever since. I'm 36 now, and to this day, she won't discuss it with me. Since I married a man, I think she prefers to pretend I'm straight. I honestly have no idea how she would have reacted if I'd wound up with a woman. A mystery for the ages.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-20T11:02:25+00:00

They always jump straight to threats of violence, don't they?

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-20T10:54:38+00:00

Oh my god. $10 says he's got a porn addiction and still has a dick.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-19T13:43:27+00:00

Ugh, this trans shit is truly insidious.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-19T13:37:21+00:00

I'm bi, not lesbian, but I just wanted to say that you're absolutely right, finding women is incredibly difficult. The women I was interested in always turned out to be straight. Despite having a preference for women, I ended up falling in love with a man and married him, and it felt kind of inevitable because there are just SO MANY more straight men than there are same-sex attracted women. It's one of the many reasons I will do whatever I can to help get trans-identified men out of lesbian and women's spaces. I hope things get better for you.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-17T13:59:21+00:00

Noooo kids for me. I'm a late-thirties bisexual woman and married to a man, and neither of us has ever wanted kids. As another commenter mentioned, the idea of pregnancy and childbirth is horrifying. We're also financially comfortable right now, but that would not be the case if we had kids. Also, I've just never felt the desire to be a mother, and I feel like you should really WANT kids if you're going to have them.

We do, however, have some nieces and nephews who we spoil unashamedly. :P

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-14T13:10:11+00:00

Yep, me too. I firmly believe the internet is fucking up people's minds.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-01T05:40:58+00:00

Ah, so I'm ringing in the new year with a migraine, I see.

sleepless-dreamer · 2021-01-01T05:38:17+00:00

Oh my fucking god, the fact that he tries to garner sympathy with the "pain and dysphoria" being hard to handle. Yeah, fuck you, dude. The rest of us manage our pain without creeping on people. I have never ogled other women in the locker room, bathroom, or whatever other spaces you're invading.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-12-26T04:50:44+00:00

I've seen it in subs for Animal Crossing and World of Warcraft... so, no.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-12-17T00:23:12+00:00

I was never on the hype train for this game, but since its release, I'm becoming a lot more keen on playing it. :D

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-12-11T01:05:35+00:00

... I cannot accurately represent the face I'm making through emojis.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-12-09T08:41:41+00:00

In Mass Effect 3, there are two romanceable characters who are exclusively gay and lesbian. I think there are one or two in Dragon Age Inquisition as well.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-10-15T16:32:43+00:00

If you listen veeery closely, you can hear the gears in his head turning, though they're a little rusty and need some oil.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-10-15T16:23:28+00:00

Here you go. I can barf for all of us.

🤢🤮

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-10-08T18:26:17+00:00

I wake up and immediately think about coffee. I am coffeegender.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-10-06T18:22:37+00:00

I never thought I would see such insightful commentary on YouTube, of all places.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-10-05T03:51:12+00:00

It's homophobia with a brand new woke coat of paint.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-09-09T18:48:13+00:00

I absolutely hate that "queer" is being thrown around by young people who have probably never had it directed at them as a slur and don't understand the history. There is no pride in any of this. Ugh.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-08-14T17:49:57+00:00

This is great news! Hopefully they make their way up here to Canada as well.

sleepless-dreamer · 2020-07-16T14:19:13+00:00

If I identify as girlflux, do I receive a girlflux capacitor and time travel if I reach 88 mph?

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