Oh there will be plenty of examples. There was one posted on s/LGBDroptheT from r/AL where trans creeps used grooming language with a lesbian OP who said she knew she was a lesbian and not a man but that she considered trans identification solely to escape the complications of dealing with same sex attraction. And one of the top comments was basically “wouldn’t it be easier for you to be trans?” She called it out saying “Never do that again” and the trans creeps defended it, and said she was over-reacting.

And then the subreddit r/egg_IRL is a goldmine of this as they constantly speculate that gay men are all really “eggs.”

Another thing to include: everything about Susie Green of Mermaids including her creepy Ted Talk, which has made it clear that her son wanted to be a girl because the father couldn’t stand having an effeminate likely gay son.

I think also the article Inauthentic Selves has some good source material when talking about the trans kid narrative. This “trans the gay away” aspect really resonates with more masculine lesbians from my experience. Especially the Trans Kids documentary that I have yet to see but have heard about.