Stop Defending Asian Women, Stop Shaming Asian Men for Dating Non-Asian Women, and Stop Trying to Shame Asian Men Into Dating Asian Women self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 13 hours ago by zoguktongilmanse

[–]SquatsandRice 6 points 8 hours ago The common theme in these posts is that it tries to cook up a scenario that doesn’t exist in real life to continually perpetuate the Asian man as the victim. Peasant moves When has anyone in here ever shamed Asian men for dating non Asian women or tried to shame Asian men into dating Asian women? It’s an argument that’s never happened, and the reverse prevalent as day

[–]pyromancer1234 13 points 7 hours ago You're literally one of those guys. Here's you equating AMWF to WMAF. Here's you speculating that wealthy AMWF is gold-digging. Here's you policing a whole thread for AMXF. Lol.

[–]SquatsandRice 3 points 6 hours ago Did the you read the posts themselves before tagging them? 1) doesn’t shame the AM. Rating anyone a 1 or 2 because they’re not white, pretty obvious race bias there 2) doesn’t shame the AM. Literally gives another AMWF example in the same reply 3). Doesn’t shame the AM. First sentence word for word “You're not obligated to be attracted to any race, including your own, so no pressure there” Again in my reply: You’re digging hard for a reality that doesn’t exist you can keep playing the victim and pointing fingers at everyone expect yourself for your own shortcomings The major issue in this style of thinking is the blatant disregard for reality. You don’t care if something is true or not, just if it could be used soothe your ego. Actual benefits to AM takes a backseat to being able to tell yourself is everyone else’s fault. Again: perpetuating this type of behavior makes you the weakest link. And who is ACTUALLY using shaming tactics? When I scroll down I see you making comments and calling others “cucks” screaming about theory based on feelings instead of real life experience. hypocrite much.

[–]pyromancer1234 2 points 1 hour ago I can see how you're course-correcting for victim-players. But I think that's the wrong approach. AM tend toward being above average in objective achievement; the course-correction they need is the ability to recognize incoming anti-Asian racism that kneecaps their payoffs. When it comes to being sensitive or oblivious to racism, including widespread racism in the dating choices of AF, AM err far more on the oblivious side. Knowing that a lack of results stems from external racism and not internal failure is a heavy weight off our shoulders. I don't think recognizing that reality is incompatible with self-improvement and achievement, nor have I ever advocated for such a thing.

[–]Extension-Inside-826 2 points 3 hours ago Hilarious that you accuse the guy of making a made up scenario and then you make up your own made up scenario where somehow no one ever tries to shame Asian men for dating out. Like do you even see how hypocritical that is? Not to mention your entire post history lately has been strawmanning the idea that Asian men disproportionately self hate and only date XFs because of that reason, another assumption that has no factual basis. Yes, you may not directly say it’s bad to prefer other races, but even an idiot can see the anti-XF agenda you’re pushing by proposing a strawman theory that even you yourself admitted yesterday is not based on reality.

[–]SquatsandRice 1 point 3 hours ago I’ve been posting here for 7+ years. Feel free to post 1 example

[–]Extension-Inside-826 1 point 3 hours ago For starters, the above three posts provided by Pyromancer. Also, this reddit com r AsianMasculinity s G7CuKicHIY . Kinda weird to drag people for using theories and then you yourself do the same thing no?

[–]cmdrNacho 4 points 7 hours ago wow another divisive radical politically charged word salad submission. why am I not surprised.

[–]Ashamed_Solid1247 -3 points 10 hours ago TLDR. Asian female here. I agree with some of your points here but a lot of the other stuff is in your head. You are overly victimizing yourself, I'm not saying there isn't stereotype against AM but this post is radical imo. I love Asian men and have a lot of Asian male friends, don't know any of them who shame other AM for dating non-A women or shame their bros into dating Asian women. In fact, if you go on Chinese social media platforms, you'll often notice that Asian women get shamed by AM for dating white dudes, and somehow these AM also praise the bros that date non-Asian women, seeing it as a "win" for the AM community. It's sexist tbh and such double standards. I don't get why ppl are so hung up on someone's race in the dating scene, why should it matter? If you love someone or are attracted to someone, race is only part of the whole picture. I don't discriminate at all and have dated both asian men and non-asian men, no one stands out in my memory because of their race (being Asian or not), it's usually because of their personality. Chill bro, the world is not out to get you

[–]Kuaizi_not_chop 0 points 11 hours ago Any individual can do what they want. But just remember, the more of us that have kids with Non-Asians is the more Non-Asian your progeny will be. Keanu Reaves is not Asian to most people. He's white with a smidgen of Asian. If everyone marries out then there is no more Asian community. Not that any individual should have to bear that burden. Another thing to keep on mind is that if you marry out there is a 30/70 chance your kid will come out looking more like the other race. If that happens there is a great chance they will not identify as Asian even if their genetics are Asian. Yeah, they'll say it when it benefits them but their heart will be with whatever more powerful and likeable community there is which matches their phenotype. Rather than making this about individual choices - What are we doing to make sure that Asians can escape brainwashing? There is a problem and then there is the way you react to it which can have long-term consequences. How can you unbrainwash Asians?

[–]pyromancer1234 13 points 9 hours ago The Asian-American community doesn't sustain itself without fresh immigrants, anyway. WMAF is more than 3x AMWF (by hard marriage statistics, let alone casual dating), so it's fair to say that AF started that fire. Asian traits are pretty strong; it's White traits that skew recessive (no subtext here). Look at Nic Cage's kid — 100% Asian. I have little hope for the future of Asian America. Its destruction is by design.

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Difference between AMWF vs WMAF that I've noticedOC np.reddit.com

submitted 15 hours ago by Appropriate-Earth758

[–]Blankboom 2 points an hour ago Ya'll really need to stop giving so much attention onto white people, men or women.

[–]128lbs 1 point an hour ago Yep. It would be nice if people here would celebrate AMAF instead of displaying white worshipping behavior like thirsting for white women and putting them on a pedestal.

[–]Blankboom -1 points an hour ago They're really no better than the WMAF couples they're so jealous and angry over.

[–]128lbs 2 points 55 minutes ago Nah. There is nothing to envy when it comes to WMAF. I celebrate AMAF and cringe at WMAF. But the white woman worship I see here isn't great either. I am an American born Chinese woman if that matters.

[–]Blankboom 1 point 17 minutes ago The way guys around here parade themselves or other AMWF couples like trophies just ain't it. It just gives off the same vibe as if they're "marrying up" the social ladder when they find a caucasian S/O. That's just how I see it anyway, nothing wrong with liking someone of a different ethnicity or race, but it's so degrading to reduce them to just that.

[–]128lbs 2 points 9 minutes ago The way guys around here parade themselves or other AMWF couples like trophies just ain't it. It just gives off the same vibe as if they're "marrying up" the social ladder when they find a caucasian S/O. Very well said.

Literally every other fucking day on this shithole of a sub, "Lu-CriticISM, REEEEeeeeeee AMXF, rEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeee". It is all thanks to (((beaknosefggit888))) that r am became simpland.