"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T07:35:08+00:00

His thought process:

"I am bisexual man"
"I need some advice from bisexual man"
"Where can I find the most bisexual men?"
"Actual Lesbians of course"

So he did everything correct.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T08:57:36+00:00

The main question is - why there is a dog?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-25T10:42:26+00:00

And then comments are writing about this:

A terrible terrible women was allowed to climb so high, that everyone could see her and all of her evil enabilism.

And most of trans people there are still worried about TERFs and not about paedo's in their own community.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-09T08:09:34+00:00

I believe it is from a protest against LGB Alliance.

There are dozens of charities and organizations Trans-only, who are not for LGB at all, just trans. Yet, they don't want LGB to have even one organization/charity without T. It is pretty abusive relationship - they can do whatever they want, and we can do only what they want and not what we want.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-25T14:24:14+00:00

"This evidence is false because it is posted by TERF, now this very same evidence is posted not by TERF - so it is valid evidence"

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-04T14:15:48+00:00

That is old account, which was always very deranged. So if they are trolling, they are doing it for long and are being praised and quoted by trans community.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-29T06:11:48+00:00

Situation with Jazz is just parental abuse. All Jazz is speaking previously was told to him by his parents, and today it is just a way to cope with trauma.

With El Page it is just lies. She was all the time saying that she is a woman and proud to be lesbian, but she is told all the time that lesbian love is taboo and only heterosexual love is fine, she was denied many roles because she is lesbian, so she was speaking that society is very lesbophobic and she has huge issues of being lesbian, she said she will always be lesbian and will always play lesbian roles to reduce lesbophobia. She was speaking about misogyny in Hollywood and how it is harder to get any roles for a female if you aren't super-sexy woman, and she was jelous that men are not oppressed or harassed like lesbians are. However, last 3-4 years she became very anxious and depressed, stopped all social media interractions, married with a very "pro-gender ideology" woman and was living in Tranada (I wonder if her wife now after encountering lesbian erasure and trans the gay away - still such a gender ideology supporter or she realized what atrocities she was supporting?). Looks like she just breaked down and tried to excape all the hate she was receiving - and by that she shown really bad example for young lesbians, that "even if you are rich, famous and privileged - lesbophobia is still huge and can break you, you can't escape lesbophobia, so trans the gay away and be praised as a man instead". So she is clearly lying about her "being a boy", mostly lying to herself.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-25T10:36:38+00:00

I would be surprised if /r/ActualLesbians have at least one active female mod. That place is almost completely full of transwomen, straight men and bisexual women, and very few lesbians who afraid to speak up.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-04T13:56:52+00:00

It would be more like "if they let him shoot themselves, then he would not shoot others".

As here they are basically saying "if lesbians let him rape themselves, then he would not rape other women and his own mother".

I see this argument about rapists very often, mostly about prostitution - "if prostitution in our country was legal, they would pay women to have violent sex with them and would not rape women (of 'higher class')". So women in prostitution are just a fodder and "sacrifice" so no "better women" would be harmed. And in this case in place of those women in prostitution - lesbians. They are just "sacrifice" for transwomen, so they will be less violent to others.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-12T10:35:46+00:00

Yesterday I was trying to dispute about attack on lesbians and bisexual erasure on few channels, but was not able to post any posts, as they were automatically deleted. While on other channels, where I was not talking about sexuality - I was able to post.

I thought it is my account is marked, as it was throwaway new account. Looks the reason was much more sinister.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T08:36:49+00:00

So article is started with

For some reason, it’s nearly impossible to find "content" where women are having sex with women only for women.

And then author goes describing not sex of women with women for women, but exactly what autorh was bashing few sentences before. Hypocrisy level: "penis pleaser".

Ask your partner how their genitals like to be touched and how you can validate their gender identity in the bedroom.

I thought sex is not about validation partners. Seems I was wrong.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-29T06:02:13+00:00

Fours, in particular, use such features as clothing and length of hair to distinguish gender.

So gender ideologists have brain development of an around four years old kid?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-29T06:17:22+00:00

I feel also we need a new lesbian sub

They were created many times, but they all were banned. No lesbian space for general audience is allowed on Reddit if it is not centering men.

As far as I know only subs for women of color are neither banned nor infiltrated with TiM's. I suppose it is because most TiM's are white, very racist and they are often saying that "black women are like men, so why black women are allowed in female spaces, but transwomen aren't?!".

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T11:41:12+00:00

It is private funded, not a charity or open organization, so they are not obligated to show from where they are taking money and where they are spending money.

This already was a big sign that this organization can and most likely will be abusing donations.

Looks like it even worse: https://twitter.com/Firestoned5/status/1392064029787496454

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-10T06:19:07+00:00

Bardfinn is calling everything nazi's and for some reason Reddit and Facebook are believing him. While what they really should do is to check his HDD, as he spams with child pornography into subreddits to report those posts and make those subs banned.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-01-20T10:25:04+00:00

It was ban of everyone under medication, not exclusively transgenders. It was framed as "anti-transgender" by woke media. It is like saying that "no human is allowed to enter this place" is racist, becasue it is not allowing people of color in there, when in reality it is not allowing everyone.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-04T09:40:29+00:00

Hubbard is age 43, white, millionaire. Because of him - 20 years old indigenous woman from poor family lost her chance to compete on Olympics, lost her scholarship and maybe chances in life. She was told that either she drops 15-20 kg and performs in "under 87 kg" category, or she will have no chances. So she dropped the sports alltogether.

At least one life was ruined by Hubbard, one life of poor female of color by white male millionaire. Even without taking medal - negative effect is already there.

Where else it is seen when 43 years old athlete, after injury and 5 years after retirement is competing against athletes in their best athletic form and has a chances to get 2-4th spot on Olympics among the best?

Carl Lewis five years ago was running, and was running around same time as best female athletes, at age 55. Should he compete against best women too, as he is now "around their level"? Is it fair for mediocre men or best men to have "second chance" in women's category instead of women?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T09:34:01+00:00

And then they have a nerve to say that they are the oppressed group and have no rights? They are overly supported and overly privileged, they are the oppressors, not oppressed.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-05T05:38:22+00:00

Maybe, but it is not the only place I saw such attitude and blaming of lesbians. They all can't be satire, it is just what they believe or want to think. And I wish all this TRA nonsense was just a satire and not a reality.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T06:30:05+00:00

You are young teen lesbian, you come online, see manly blokes saying they are lesbians, you google it and find healthline guide of lesbian sex and there 3/4 of article is about penis in vagina sex and pregnancy, on other sites you finding that it is porn category, so you think - it is not what I am. Then you see everyone saying that you should date some manly blokes, and you either do and end in disgust, or you call yourself something different. Other people saying that only men can love women, and you see famous lesbian actresses "coming out" as non-binary or trans, and you are tomboy and butch, maybe you are a man too?

Society from the roots became homophobic and GNC-phobic, pushing stereotypes on kids and youth, Mermaids gender unicorns and so on.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-09T06:35:15+00:00

It sounds so similar to it just because it is narcissistic abuse. Other person demands you to change everything about yourself and focus solely on their feelings, and that your feelings are hurt in a process is ignored.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-04T12:42:43+00:00

That's so messed up.

And "Self-ID" is messing up it even more. Laws were crafted with sex in mind, with statistics and reality of biological and reproductive functions. And now all of them are failing because anyone can identify as any sex at any moment.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-01-13T08:24:24+00:00

Tavistock during Keira Bell case were caught on a fact that they were not checking their former patients and had no statistics at all on them.

There are a lot youtube channels by detransitioners appearing, so at least that number is saying something. The minimum what it saying is that such people exist, and that they are victims of affirming policy and Pharma interests.

He said that detransitioners are only 1-2% of all trans people, so their voices should be ignored. Okay then, lets say it is truth. Lets check other numbers then: Transgender people are only 0.6% of all people, should their voices be ignored too? And if he is disbanding voices of 1-2%, then why he (and other TRA) are speaking about intersex people, who are 0.1-0.2% and that intersex people are somehow proving the point about the rest of 99.8-99.9% of population. Should not here be the same, 1-2% detransitioners proving the point about the rest 98-99% of transgenders? Real detransition number looks bigger than 1-2%, but even if it is - where any consistency in their arguments?

ZveroboyAlina · 2020-12-07T12:29:00+00:00

Ignoring sex?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-25T08:51:37+00:00

Sounds like this thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_model_of_disability

That "people have disabilities not because of disease, but because of how society is treating those people".

So their idea is - "if society will accept disabled people more, than all disabilities would dissapear and people will become healthy".

Which is obviously some post-modernistic bullshit with no sense of reality.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-01T10:35:06+00:00

The thing is that you can replace "discriminate against trans" with "discriminate against almost anyone" and it will hold true. You can discriminate same way against women. Only people of color and disabled are protected. Recently homosexual people became protected too, thought it was achieved not on case of the law, but on case of the court descision.

because trans woman can’t Physically compete with men

That is a lie. Hubbard is showing results for top 15% of male competitors of the same age and weight category. Cece Telfer two years after transitioning improved best time and would be in top 150 of male competition (previously was top 390). And they aren't even good athletes, as Cece's running technique is very bad and still can be improved by a lot, Hubbard had trauma and retired from sports because of it for 5 years. At the same time - women (female humans) of same age/weight/training level are not even remotely close to them: Cece was faster than second place by 9% (while 11-12% is often the difference between best men and women in same category in running), Hubbard pulled same weight as 2nd and 3rd place combined in same age and weight category, etc.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T07:05:12+00:00

Now, you can say that and they’ll just keep grilling you about having straight sex.

Everyone can be lesbian now, if you say you are lesbian, they will think that you still sleep with men.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-do-lesbians-have-sex

Medically reviewed by Jennifer Litner — Written by Sian Ferguson on June 4, 2020

Jennifer Litner is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST)

When Certified Sex Therapist and Family Therapist is approving article about lesbian sex, where word "penis" is mentioned 32 times, word "anus" is mentioned 9 times, but word clitoris is mentioned only 4 times, vulva only one (yes, one) time and vagina 29 times - what else can we say about "LGBTQ-friendly" therapists and state of medical care for LGB people? Of course they will ask about sex with men, because now everyone is a lesbian, especially non-lesbians.

What I noticed in that article, is it is aimed on women, lesbians, not transwomen, as it implies reader does not have a penis. It is coercion and gaslighting.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T06:51:52+00:00

I've noticed such companies are calling themselves "LGBTQ-friendly", when they are starting using Stonewall's language of women-erasure and LGB-erasure. "LGBTQ-friendly" means "LGB-unfriendly and focused on TQ".

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-09T06:28:45+00:00

That is why I like how Dumbledor was presented - he was just a regular normal person who just happens to be gay, it was never focused on it in story and he was not shown as some "special snowflake" or "perverted freak" like LGB is depicted in media in most cases. Almost like to be gay you need to "look and act gay", and not just like same sex as yourself.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-18T07:13:27+00:00

Bisexual is a dirty word, you must be pansexual or you are bigot.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T05:29:12+00:00

I have zero interest in reifying gender norms

Then why you do and do it to a such extreme? And what about other trans people, organizations and political parties, who are promoting those norms?

"Cis supremacist society" is trying to get away from gender norms and stereotypes since 80s, slowly but surely were going to more and more accepting gender nonconformity, until transgender movement appeared and started claiming that gender nonconforming people are in reality just of the opposite sex or non-binary, that boxes of genders are very rigid, so you need to fit them, and if you don't - you are the opposite sex or non-binary.

ZveroboyAlina · 2022-03-23T06:29:46+00:00

"used to be" a lesbian

And now "straight".

Hello gay conversion therapy. Haven't seen you for a while. Such a homophobic movement.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-28T07:51:56+00:00

Majority of men are safe too, yet we still need safeguarding from any men - because there no way to tell what man is dangerous and what man is not. And this safeguarding is helping to decrease violence against women and rape cases by at least 900% for rape cases and 1500% for violence. This also decreased amount of women and girls skipping school, classes or work, because of feeling uncomfortable or having menstruation to almost zero.

So it should be same case here - because of increased amount of predators who are abusing laws about transgenders - none should be allowed in safe spaces segregated by sex. And they should have their own safe spaces (and, actually, often there are transgender-only safe spaces, like rape shelters or organizations, while for women it is not allowed for some reason).

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-08T05:59:03+00:00

BuT GaY iS JuSt An AeStEtIcS aNd LoOkS!!!11

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-04T09:10:59+00:00

Well...looks like declaring to be trans can either leave him completely unpunished, or will require to remade laws in his state to "include women".

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/E7x67k3XMAAdKCQ?format=jpg&name=medium

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-03T11:12:44+00:00

She transitioned and still being silenced, not given voice, not focused anywhere, treated like sub-par human - and then was told by transwomen (who hold all the power, have voice and focused everywhere) that it is "male privilege" and she is privileged over them? I afraid that nothing changed, she is still being treated like a female, but now thinking that "everyone hates her because she is a man, and this means everyone hates men same way they hate her" - because it was told to her. I wonder how young she is? Sounds like 16-20 maximum.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-20T08:31:27+00:00

QT claims this is proof of gender-identity, since the boys knew they were boys despite socialization and surgery that said otherwise.

???

It disproves QT points. Boys were born as boys, they are male sex. And even thought they were growing up with other gender identity, they still found out biological reality of being males. This means that gender identity is not overriding physical reality, even if you force different socialization on kid since birth and lie to them that they are biologically female.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-09T13:04:39+00:00

In newspeak "top" means the one with penis, after all "manly looking non-binary identifying man together with woman" in Canada will be considered as "lesbian couple" by law.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-05T06:36:53+00:00

They even physically attacked some men, who were protecting women.

It was so hard to watch parts where gang of 7-10 young tall men were surrounding, intimidating and pressuring sole women with signs "women can say NO" or similar.

That is what we get with those Biden laws - now misogynistic men "finally" got the ability to harass women and not get judged or jailed for it. Even more - so many press is praising or justifying them, misrepresenting the situation.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-01T11:13:00+00:00

Sex is protected in both housing and medical administration federally.

Isn't you can fire woman for being pregnant in conservative states? Or it is just happening with other excuses there and then ignored by court? Also, in California state since 2016 "sex" is including "gender identity", so it should be protected there.

putting hormone controlled trans women on par with cis women

10% muscle loss is not enough to be "on par with cis women". Males and females have completely different anatomy, and males have up to 30-50% more muscles with same height and weight. So 10% loss would not be really enough. Even 50% would not be enough, because all other differences would still stay.

And again, cases I mentioned - those transwomen after years on cross-sex hormones would still be able to compete against males in same category and still would be competetive and better than 60-85% of "cis" men there. Cece even improved best time, so clearly not "have disadvantage". It is obvious that transwomen are losing competitiveness, but not to a very big degree, so maybe not taking first places, but possible to be near the top. So far only Jenner from top performing athletes transitioned, in other cases it is already low to medium performing male athletes who are transitioning. Opposite is not happening, as transmen even after years on testosterone are not able to even qualify (as often qualification into male competition is above all time female records).

Plus not in professional sport (or in countries like Canada even in competitive sport) - you do not even need to be on cross-sex hormones, you may be just "Non-binary woman male" and compete against "cis" women. So there it can be just manly looking man, buffed with 25 nmol/l testosterone levels and still compete against "cis" women.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T08:35:29+00:00

Or worse.

She should wrote "put fruit in condom first", hahaha.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T05:58:50+00:00

Have you drawn that matrix yet, by the way?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-18T12:32:55+00:00

It is same person who created thread about "if Fungi have many sexes, why humans don't?" and "if ant females can have penis-like organs, why humans females can't?", so it is clearly troll (or just a kid).

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-26T08:44:59+00:00

If you not noticed, but definition of man is not including transmen for the same purposes of political representation.

This means that in both cases - people born female are in disadvantage, regardless of their gender representation and regardless of their prefered gender role.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-26T08:08:40+00:00

As comments noted:

If in prisons just 1 woman for sexual crimes and 4 transwomen - does this means that transwomen inflated this type of crime for women in statistics by 500% ?! And it was just "suddenly huge raise of women's sexual crimes"?

#NotOurCrimes

with Self-ID like in USA it will be even worse increase, as any male, who is not trans, will be able to declare they are a woman.

Those crimes are very a-typical for females, so even just few males will increse crime statistics and crime rates by hundreds of percents.

And it is astonishing. Insanity is eating brains of politicians. No compassion towards women at all.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-11T09:27:03+00:00

Mods from LGBDropTheT can ban anyone on Twitter? That's something new.

Saidit is requiring such moding, otherwise sub will be shown in /s/all

ZveroboyAlina · 2022-01-06T06:32:54+00:00

the list was intended to feature female human rights activists, but emphasize those who specifically made an impact on the lives and humanity of other women.

emphasize those who specifically made an impact on the lives and humanity of other women

Surey actions of pimp and child sex abuser - did impacted their lives and humanity, but not in a positive way.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-09T05:20:28+00:00

And all attacks on women filmed were staged too, and all 3 cases of "penis in front of underage girls" we know were staged, even one year ago. Those evil terves attacked themselves, so trans activists will look evil!

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-06T10:52:14+00:00

And newslaters, TV news outlets are mostly protecting those men and blaming their victims instead.

Have you seen that "prominent pro-trans feminist" saying that "it is 6 years old and 9 years old girls fault that they were looking at penis, when that poor marginalized transwoman stood in front of them"? And then her answer was "then do not go spa and sit at home if you don't like that your kids are in danger now" to one of the mothers. We got to a situation again, where women don't have our safe spaces, so we can't have social life and we are back to not being able to work, receive education and live social life - just like in 1800s.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-26T12:54:30+00:00

That seems circular.

You are saying some women are attracted to women because they are gender non conforming?

I am not saying that. I am saying that women who are attracted to women will be more likely gender non conforming (because of few reasons - they don't need to attract men, and they may want to signal that they want more attention from women), but gender non conformity is not the reason why they are attracted to women. While your version was the opposite - that women are attracted to women because they are gender non conforming.

What is the majority of gnc people?

Teens.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-26T11:14:03+00:00

That's your modern activism.

I remember that old meme-video when a gang of men were beating gay man, and "modern activists" came nearby and instead of helping, put their rainbow flags and badges and said "I am pro-LGBT!", stood a bit around and then walked away.

That video captured whole sould of modern activism, "liberals" and libfems. It not captured destructive part of those, thought, as those activists loving to speak over oppressed, ignoring real issues and re-focusing money and help into something that is not needed.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-17T11:32:58+00:00

is depriving people of privacy and dignity?

And equality with safety if talking about female spaces.

Feminists in developing countries are fighting for sex-segregated safe spaces and public toilets, so women can have equal opportunities in social life and be more safe. And at the same time "feminists" in developed countries are fighting to remove those spaces and reduce ability of women to participate in social life (especially of low class and marginalized women).

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-14T05:49:45+00:00

which is documented to happen much more in co-ed changing rooms.

In UK number of rapes is 9 times bigger in unisex changing rooms and bathrooms than in single-sex ones. If I remember correctly number of sexual harassment is around 18-20 times bigger there as well.

This means that removing single-sex spaces or making them "all genders" will increase risks for women by 9 and up to by 20 times.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-26T07:03:39+00:00

I can't understand your question.

I don't identify as anyone. I just am. I am myself. I can be in "very manly cloths" or looks very feminine in dress. What does this mean? Than I am non-binary or what? I can't understand what do you mean.

Are there any people who are public figures who are looking like me? I guess maybe? I don't know anyone similar to myself, they all wearing different cloths or acting differently. Just women who I am admiring and having as an example? There a lot of them - and they are starting from very masculine and ending as very feminine. I don't understand why looks should have anything to do with personality. Very masculine woman can be as very kind and empathetic and very agressive and ignorant. Same with very feminine women - they can have a range of personalities. So this question just makes no sense to me, I don't know how to answer to it, because it just makes no sense.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-18T12:28:43+00:00

Liberals are believing that male rapist/criminal will stop being violent when they self-declaring themselves as a woman, because "statistically women are making drastically less violent crimes", so nothing strange that they believe in this too.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-26T07:45:36+00:00

Race/ethnicity and sex/gender are not connected with each other, so anything that is happening with one is not representative of the other.

This sounds as classical racist take by TRA: "If black women are women, then why men can't be women?" - implying that black women are somehow less women because we are black.

As far as I am aware, when people saying "race is not real" - they mean mostly that racist stereotypes are not real, same as second wave feminists were saying that gender is harmful and that gender stereotypes are the weapon of patriarchy and they should be abolished. Nowaydas people are full of post-modernist ideas and they do not believe in material reality at all, they think that "thoughts are what is real reality", even thought - thoughts are different for every single person and it is very subjective, so there no reason to measure things based on subjectiveness, as it will be different for every single person, while measuring things on objective reality will give same results every single time for every single person, so it is much better as a point of refference.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-11T11:13:44+00:00

How exactly enforced rules of Saidit to its subsiadits - are related to S+ being silenced on every platform? Without such rules sub is counted as debate sub, sub is shown in /s/all and you can't ban anyone, even for clear trolling and homophobia.

There is debate sub if you are interested, /s/GCdebatesQT.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-09T09:26:22+00:00

Funny that you are blaming women in all the happening.

Women-blaming and acting just word to word like described in this thread: https://twitter.com/janeclarejones/status/1358567449122271232

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-01-13T08:17:15+00:00

I am so disgusted by how they think being a woman is looking like them, ability to get a man's attention and hating on actual women and bulling people into "accepting" them

That is why they are calling lesbians as "not women"? Just because lesbians are not trying and not wanting to get any man's attention?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-29T07:16:32+00:00

I wonder how many would say no transwomen at all tho.

That will depend on personal experience. Most women would say "I will be fine" just to look nice. We are expected to "be nice and put our feelings away".

However, in the anonymous survey in the UK few years ago, when question was "are you fine with transwomen in women's bathrooms", a bit more than half of women answered "yes", however, when question was the same but "without surgery and with penis intact" amount of women who answered "yes" was less than 10%. And when question was same but transwoman was not passing, "yes" was around 15-20%. So looks like questions themselves means a lot.

This means that in most cases, in general population, most people are assuming that transwomen are all passing, after surgery and are homosexual (they are attracted to men). This means they do not realizing that now any manly man can be transwoman, all they need is just say "I feel like a woman every sunday", that almost all of transwomen have no surgeries and that majority of transwomen are heterosexual and attracted to women.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-08T06:36:09+00:00

I am dominant by my nature, so it is clearly not true for me.

If we look at men who want "dominatrix", I am sure that it is not true for many men and women. Society want us to be like this, thought. The more patriarchal and conservative (or religious) society is - the more such ideas are promoted and often enforced.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-26T13:30:15+00:00

You just described bisexuality with leaning towards one or another stereotypical presentation. It was one of main arguments of conservative homophobes, that lesbians are liking femininity and gay men liking masculinity. And obviously it is not true.

Majority of people are monosexual, not bisexual.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T09:16:09+00:00

He looks like someone who was reading "MRA's Gynosphere Theory" too much. Every moment when women are abused are seen by them as women being in charge or empowered. Like when arabian men were fighting for a rich woman is seen as female-centric and females in power, but they are there ignoring the fact that woman had no choice, she was just a commodity - men were just fighting for property, who win will own her and she has no say in it. And similar "ideas on why in last 2000 years world was completely focused on females and ruled by females".

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T05:43:00+00:00

People are grouping with other people sho are sharing same traits not because they are sharing same traits but because they have same experience from having same traits (not just sex traits). Grouping is coming from sharing similar experiences, not from sharing characteristics themselves. Sharing characteristics only makes people assume that other person most likely had similar experience based on that.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-27T14:02:54+00:00

Radical feminism is fighting for rights and dignities of all females, regardless of their representation, self-perception or position. So yes, they are included. Transmen are benefiting from it as well - especially in healthcare part. Gender ideology advocates are focusing mostly on healthcare for transwomen, almost all proposed laws or treatment are focused on transwomen and transmen are always afterthought and often given same treatment as transwomen, when it is incorrect - absolutely similar situation as in general healthcare, so healthcare is focusing and setting as "default" all males, regardless of their gender. At same time radical feminism is trying to make healthcare to focus more on female healthcare, including healthcare for women with heavy PCOS and with other conditions, so transmen are passively and indirectly benefiting from it.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-04-26T06:59:52+00:00

Why are you comparing being raped by a man with being groped by a woman? Why do you have different standarts for men who assault and women who assault?

She almost made you pregnant and was strongly overpowering you, was much taller and bigger?

This is wrong.

Your own link saying that it is not wrong.

3/4 offenses are simple offenses

So just few hits or quarrel. Your link shows women even less violent than I thought.

Self-reported

I would not trust men self-reporting about women attacking them, in the study about domestic violence, almost 33% of self-reported cases of domestic violence of women against men were "she said no" or "she refused to have sex" or "she was screaming at me as she tried to clean all house and I just wanted to watch football". Which are, obviously, not domestic violence, but are seen by those men as one.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-12T14:15:38+00:00

Indeed, it is always better to blame women.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-02-08T06:23:42+00:00

So very true. Gender ideology is just a reinforcement of sexist stereotypes of the past.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-31T05:24:55+00:00

You could then sort athletes based into brackets based on these scores.

There already such scores.

Thing is if remove sex, then in categories for "best women" we will also get "retired men after 50s" or "mediocre top 10 000 men". It is just unfair for women and is not giving equal opportunities for women, as "after 50s" or "mediocre top 10 000" women have nowhere to go like men. It will be just men taking women's places, and women gaining absolutely nothing from it. Men would not suffer from this either, only benefit.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-05T11:15:55+00:00

That is exactly how conformism and oppresion works.

You are rewarded for being like people in power want you to be, and you are punished for being what you want yourself.

That is why so many lesbians (and female leaning bisexual girls) are transitioning early in life nowadays - they are love-bombed for "becoming a trans", for "being normal among woke", and they are hated and harassed for being lesbians and refusing to date men in dresses.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-03T11:14:59+00:00

Grahan had interview with them today about that:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=707d_1P_1dw

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-13T06:42:32+00:00

You know what I am finding most funny in them? That those rules are existing for 10-12 years in this form (and even longer in different versions, up to 30-40 years), and they are perfectly describing why modern gender ideology movement is misogynistic. How perfectly those rules are covering all the actions and words of TRA and MRA, even thought were written long before anything happened on mass scale. Those rules are perfectly predicting how TRA are acting, reacting and what they are saying.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-13T06:10:10+00:00

US politicians have very weird meaning under word "liberalism".

Right now republicans are acting more liberal than democrates. And both parties were always only partially liberal.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-09T05:53:03+00:00

There are no cameras in such places (for obvious reasons), but we have at least 3 women in different time speaking about this issue, when they had small girls around - that manly looking male with penis was very close to their kid. Two other situations were year and a half ago and half a year ago, but they had no publicity. Current one had publicity only because it went viral and because of the antifa and pro-trans attack on peacefully protested woman - news were not able to ignore that anymore.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-09T05:46:12+00:00

I wasn't part of reddit one.

Found this one - after all lesbian subreddits for lesbians about lesbians were banned, I started wondering what the hell is happening, and found LGBDropTheT, found news about situations like with Dana Rivers case and many harassment attackes on lesbians in real life, closage of majority lesbian events and clubs or making them mixed sex, found how Stonewall and GLAAD dropped any lesbian support and sometimes not even mentioning them at all (/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/7pyp/). Previously I thought it is just Reddit thing, because Reddit in general is very male-centric, incel-filled and anti-liberal, so I thought it is natural to have places like /r/LGBT and /r/ActualLesbians to be filled with heterosexual men mostly, who aren't even part of LGBT, and for /r/Lesbians to be completely porn-only sub, but after those bans, I found out it is not just Reddit - such behaviour and views on female homosexuality are normalized, and I thought after 90s we are past that. I am not lesbian myself, just febfem (female exclusive bisexual female) and only interested in relationship with females, most of my friends and surrounding are lesbians too, so I feel more in line with them, than with other bisexual women, as most bisexual women are still male-leaning.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-06T11:06:13+00:00

It is not philosophy, it is what language is and why languages were created in the first place - to communicate and explain different experience of different people to each other, that is why words meanings should mean the same for everyone. Only time when word meaning are changed to mean something else than for majority - is done in cults. Are you cultist?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-07-02T05:54:01+00:00

so it is safe to say the trans community is divided on this at least in practice anyway.

And divided based on sex. What a coincidence?

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-26T12:38:53+00:00

I say there is an indirect correlated pattern.

It is oppositely correlated pattern, thought.

Causal relationship is opposite here. In this case it will be: some women are loving other women not because they are breaking gender stereotypes, but some women are breaking gender stereotypes because they are loving other women.

But the majority of straight people are conforming.

Majority of homosexual people are conforming as well.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-17T05:33:59+00:00

Golden rule: If you hear TRA are using some words you are rarely hearing or never heard before, or some weird phrases - check those words or phrases few times, because almost certainly they just appropriated that phrase from other movement or made "a new meaning" to a word and using word with that new meaning.

Huh? I thought essentialism was linked to biology: bio essentialism.

No, it is TRA are misusing words again and calling us bio-essentialists, while we are not. On the other hand they are essentialists.

Here:

Essentialism is the view that every entity has a set of attributes that are necessary to its identity and function. An essence characterizes a substance or a form, in the sense of the forms and ideas in Platonic idealism.

Platonic idealism usually refers to Plato's theory of forms or doctrine of ideas. It holds that only ideas encapsulate the true and essential nature of things, in a way that the physical form cannot.

They believe there is some "women's essense" (or "gender essense" in general) which is so important that it overrides reality and it is main phenomena that is determining who is woman and who is not. And that the "idea of being woman" is essential nature of being a woman, in a way that physical reality is not. Basically their beliefs are what I quoted above, but about gender or sex.

Gender ideology beliefs are the mix of "gender essentialism" and post-modernist ideas that "material world does not trully exist, only your mind exist, words are shaping reality" (that is from where "you are denying my existence" when disagreeing with them or "misgendering is literal violence", because to them existence in post-modernistic sense is being named or called with words, so challenging them is challenging their existence).

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-14T05:40:43+00:00

Thanks.

And yeah, out of 30 organizations, 20 are exclusively transgender organizations and few more LGBTQ+ (so still transgender organizations, but claiming that not). And only about 3 or 4 are about black people. That BLM Inc. is just one big scam and not doing what promising - but stealing money funded to support black people and spending them elsewhere.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T12:08:13+00:00

It is not accurate, it is misogynistic self-projecting about women being the root of all evil.

you are not a victim when it comes to homophobia. you perpetuate it.

That's complete lie, because I am fully febfem and I am living with a woman for a decade, so society sees me as a lesbian, even thought I am not.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T05:22:23+00:00

This sounds like some patriarchical BS, that gender stereotypes are biological and instincitve.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-11T08:30:34+00:00

marginalised

I wish LGB people or women were so marginalised. So laws would be changed so easily, so just speaking wrongly to you can make speaker go to jail, so all big organizations and political parties will throw all other marginalised groups under the bus to support you and spend billions on your cause.

All marginalised groups are dreaming to be so privileged.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-11T08:22:02+00:00

Men are hateful towards us all the time, transgender activists are physically intimidating us, threatening with rape and death in the internet.

Sometimes we may be angry too, why they can be hateful towards us with actions harming us, but we can't be hateful when venting among ourselves?

Why we need to be kind and to be nice even to people who openly wishing us to die and then after wishing us to die - they enter our safe spaces?

I am not in favour of being hateful either, but I would not police other women "to be kind and nice".

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-25T10:55:29+00:00

He is still called "she" and they are blaming "women" and not saying that this guy is transwoman - male and not a woman.

Just saw this comment about situation on Reddit:

[...] A terrible terrible women was allowed to climb so high, that everyone could see her and all of her evil enabilism.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-03-24T12:43:04+00:00

"Cisgender" women do not exist, and none existing thing can't be anything.

Debate sub is /s/GCdebatesQT

ZveroboyAlina · 2020-12-30T08:22:35+00:00

Why I am not even surprised? It is just "power of brotherhood" and "bros over hoes". Same as MRA are always defending TRA and transwomen, but shitting on transmen.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-08-09T11:42:34+00:00

To be honest on russian forums I often see something like "love between two women is pure and sensual, while love between two men is kneading of clay", so it is true to some extend.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-05-13T13:32:18+00:00

And you still do it now.

By living with a lesbian for 10 years? The only way I am murdering her is with happyness, hahaha.

You are funny.

ZveroboyAlina · 2021-09-09T14:09:52+00:00

It isn't exclusive to the UK, I know such problems are present in Berlin and Madrid. Outside of Europe it is even worse - in USA (remember how Wi Spa was handled?), Canada (how VRR protests were handled?), Japan or post-USSR. And we are not even speaking about middle-east and most of Africa.

British police is pretty useless, but more useful than in most of the world - and this is not saying any good about British police, it is saying that world is fucked.

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