Nearly 30% of men say progress toward gender equality has come at their expense, according to new report

questioningtw · 2021-05-09T16:42:49+00:00

I have noticed this too. I don't like GC people that act like literally all lesbian transwomen are perverted fetishists, even if they seem normal. Itis one thing to call out people like Yaviv or Karen White, but acting like all of them are like that is wrong. Usually the more gender non conforming ones are rightfully concerned about how society tries to push this idea that feminine means woman or masculine means man.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T00:20:54+00:00

I do too. I have been downvoted myself for saying that I have no problem with transwomen like Blair White or Natalie Wynn using the women's bathroom, and in fact I think it is pretty shitty telling people that look exactly like women to use the mens.

questioningtw · 2021-05-12T16:16:18+00:00

Do you think with the right kind of mental health care people wouldn't even need to transition? FTMS exist too, so it isn't all MTFS, or o you thik they transition for different reasons?

questioningtw · 2021-05-12T16:14:51+00:00

Yeah, your right.

questioningtw · 2021-05-12T16:06:59+00:00

I have luckily never been raped, but have been sexually harassed and had men grope me. I think women are pretty much forced to compartmentalize. Like yes, I HATE those men, but I can't believe all men are like that.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T15:34:16+00:00

Ok, but how are you going to gatekeep who uses the woman's room? If you didn't know these people where trans because of youtube, then you would jut see them as other women. Women can have masculine features, in fact there have been natal woman that have been kicked out of the woman's bathroom because they looked "too male"

I also highly disagree with you that Natalie Wynn looks like a man.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T15:22:39+00:00

Huh. you make a good point. I was more thinking of Renassaince Fairs where the swords are more just for looks. There is another female blacksmith I really like that actually makes the other stuff you mentioned.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T15:16:53+00:00

I hate that too, and I wish more people would call that out, rape and pedophillia are serious crimes and spewing accusations without any evidence IS being hateful.

I also really don't like it when a few of the posters act lik literally all men are horrible. It is like really? How is that any better then MGTOW who act like all women are evil, because they met some shitty women. I know paterarchy exists, but not all men are horrible.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T00:22:35+00:00

I think things like temperment tend to be nature rather then nurture. I have noticed that when I am on anti depressants I am way more cool and collected.

questioningtw · 2021-05-08T16:01:13+00:00

It was informative, and it kind of reinforced my view that masculine and feminine are very, very much social constructs and I hate how almost backwards we are going in terms of thinking what is masculine and feminine. I also greatly dislke when men are into baking, sewing, dance, ect they get to be serious about it, while women are just kind of expected to be domestic:( I really like cooking and baking too!

questioningtw · 2021-05-08T15:42:38+00:00

At least some of the regulars are still around! I remember when someone posted a genderdifficult board, but sadly I don't think it ever took off!

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T19:44:29+00:00

I owe you an apology. I misread what you said in your paragraph about the surgeries and hormones. I do think gender dysphoria is a type of disorder and people that suffer from it shouldn't be automatically labeled as freaks and predators because of it.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T00:40:33+00:00

This sounds awesome! If it is still going on let me know!

questioningtw · 2021-05-09T16:45:31+00:00

There is this transwoman that is a blacksmith that I really like, because she makes a lot of really cool swords and actually seems like a nice person. I also admire trans people that are more gc leaning, and there are a suprising number of them that are.

questioningtw · 2021-05-08T15:52:36+00:00

I usualy try to be stoic, but often fail at it! I wonder if it is because I suffer from clinical depression though.

questioningtw · 2021-05-08T15:47:02+00:00

I love the song! It is pretty depressing how backwards we have gone, the comments on the youtube video are actually calling the lyrics transphobic:/ It is almost like these people don't realize that people have personalities with all sorts of traits, and while a lot of conservative people wanted to keep men and women in boxes, no one thought feminine men where women, or masculine women where men.

questioningtw · 2021-05-08T15:39:09+00:00

No problem! She has a pretty cool youtube channel where she welds art! Welding is a lot of fun, it is pretty much sewing with fire:) I would love to take woodworking too, and glass blowing!

questioningtw · 2021-05-04T23:13:34+00:00

Hmmmmmm, There is a woman named Barbie the Welder and I kind of relate to her a lot, I really love welding and making art, and she is somewhat androgynous looking and acting!

questioningtw · 2021-05-04T22:56:37+00:00

Hi! I decided to come back over here. I miss Snarky too along with MrFahrenheit. It still makes me mad that the subbreddit was banned when we had so many interesting people. I hope Snarky is ok because that situation was really scary.

questioningtw · 2021-05-04T22:41:02+00:00

Hoestly? I do feel like I am lying to myself if i where to call Blaire White or Laverine Cox he or Chaz Bono Buck Angel she, just because they ARE living as women and a men, even though they where male and female before. I guess, I really just don't like extreme thinking, and I do think if someone actually transitions and is not just someone with a fetish, then their wishes should be honored. I know this is not what most GC people think.

questioningtw · 2021-05-04T19:18:23+00:00

I am very pro gatekeeping, and honestly, I think the only way transitioning can be fully ethical is to have it. I don't agree with this idea that everything should be ok as long as you have the money. Transitioning should be seen as serious, and if someone wants to go through with it, they have to show that they are mentally healthy and actually need it.

questioningtw · 2020-11-18T17:27:06+00:00

I find it insulting. You can tell by looking at me and by my name that I am a woman. If someone is transgender it is up to them to let people know they are transitioning and to use the correct pronouns, no one should be forced to be compelled into pretending that being trans ids something normal and common.

questioningtw · 2020-07-19T17:40:14+00:00

I used to solely post on the debate sub, because I guess I am kind of a transmedicalist. I think there are some people that have dysphoria and only transitioning would help. But, holy crap did those bans piss me off. On GCdebatesQT the mods made sure no bigotry was allowed and honestly, there was a lot of both GC and trans people I enjoyed talking to.

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T15:56:12+00:00

Don't you just LOVE modern media?

I am so tired of having to wonder if what I am reading from the news is even true anymore.

questioningtw · 2020-12-01T21:31:56+00:00

soon they will demand all,l her old movies be pulled! eyeroll

questioningtw · 2020-09-08T18:14:58+00:00

Please tell me they didn't make Mulan trans in the new movie. Also, that song Reflections has nothing to do with being transgender; it was a song a lot of people can relate too! And I'll Make a Man out of You was showing just how awkward and she was when training with the men. Why can't they just let her be a woman? It is so beyond offensive.

questioningtw · 2020-07-15T03:37:29+00:00

This is more trivial but they love to turn strong female characters into men too. It drives me crazy. i was told though that it is ok because trans men need role models.

questioningtw · 2020-12-21T22:45:55+00:00

Right dude, because women being disappointed by her transitioning to a man and actual Nazi views are totally the same thing!

questioningtw · 2020-11-02T17:02:08+00:00

I seriously doubt this guy is even as half way good as Elton John.

questioningtw · 2020-10-31T17:09:06+00:00

I hope audiences completely reject her character. I actually liked the first two episodes of this season, but I am not sure if I will continue watching it if they actually seriously do this look at how woke we are!

questioningtw · 2020-10-27T18:24:33+00:00

I have another good one: men that are anti porn/prostitution..... just want to control women's choices. It can't be that there lots of men that actually think women are sex objects for their amusement, no siree. Women that are against this are just jealous that they aren't hot enough to be a stripper, porn performer or prostitute.

questioningtw · 2020-10-27T18:01:17+00:00

He is also the only kind of trans person they do support. Trans person that just wants to live their own life=truscum. Extremely male looking TIM that yells at a shop clerk for calling him sir and knocking down shelves=a hero.

questioningtw · 2020-10-24T21:51:33+00:00

Thanks for reinforcing my inner luddite! shudders

questioningtw · 2020-10-24T18:58:06+00:00

They also have the Ickabog and Sorcerers Stone on the site. They person that wrote me said they were a curator and stocked books that people wanted. They said stocking books isn't endorsing...which i agreed with; I am tired of this OH NO you read this writer?!??!?! Don't you know they are a bad person? I hope this stunt backfires on them and they go out of business.

questioningtw · 2020-10-24T18:11:05+00:00

I feel the same. i feel like early liberals were smart and stratigic. For instance Rosa Parks wasn't the first woman to refuse to go to the back in the bus--it was a black teenager who was then recruited by MLK Jr....it was a strategic move to have Rosa Parks to it because she was an older, black church lady. This was actually a smart movie. The civil rights protesters were also smart enough to not riot and only wanted people that would help their cause in their cause. Of course though maybe this isn't the best example really; they were still hated at the time...but they did get most people on their side right?

i also hate this stupid shit: All work is slavery! No, it fucking isn't. STOP IT!

questioningtw · 2020-10-24T18:06:38+00:00

I absolutely disagree with this. The cop had no right acting how he did, and it scares the hell out of me that people white knight police brutality because the person being arrested was on drugs or had a record. The police aren't supposed to be killing people. That said,, there have been police brutality cases against people of all races and BLM really didn't do anyone any favors.

questioningtw · 2020-10-22T16:11:52+00:00

I am not a fan of Jordan Peterson at all, but I totally agree with him here. You can't force someone to call you by the pronouns you want.

questioningtw · 2020-10-17T16:27:10+00:00

More evidence we are becoming an idiocracy.

questioningtw · 2020-10-15T21:50:04+00:00

oh god. How is this even helping anyone? It is extremely performative and does nothing but other people. Shit like this is why conservatives are winning. They are doing a great job convincing people that we don't care about the important stuff like healthcare, the economy, jobs, ect but only care about being woke. It used to be conservatives that are were hellbent on banning things they hated. Now it is the opposite; conservatives are defending JK Rowling and Harry Potter and liberals are the ones that want the books banned.

questioningtw · 2020-10-15T17:52:08+00:00

Agreed. There was another TNG episode about women being the oppressive gender; it was oh so cringy. Star Trek is the best when it is subtle with its social issues; honestly I think Deep Space Nine was the best.

questioningtw · 2020-10-15T17:42:57+00:00

Meh...TNG tried this with a whole planet full of non binary people. It was considered one of their worst episodes. Also, pretty much all of the worst Star Trek episodes are the lets be woke ones! Plus, they already had an awesome transgender character.(well she wasn't really trans, but had a symbiote that had male and female hosts)

questioningtw · 2020-10-15T17:38:16+00:00

Cross dressing is a like though. Even if it is a fetish it is still a like, and not a need. Also, if the cross dressing is crossing over into fetishizing behavior, his wife has every right being upset.

questioningtw · 2020-10-15T17:32:01+00:00

Somehow I think Silence of the Lambs is probably still being sold.

questioningtw · 2020-10-04T17:16:15+00:00

Considering that pretty much all stores require people to wear masks, I don't believe this for a second. I also seriously doubt anyone would really wear a shirt that says woman=adult human female....I mean come on.

questioningtw · 2020-10-02T16:44:14+00:00

JK Rowling is no where near a Nazi.

questioningtw · 2020-09-08T17:05:14+00:00

No question, Biden. He may not be perfect, but he will listen to scientists and will at least act like a president. I honestly think if Trump wins, it will be our last free election and we will slide more and more into authoritarianism.

questioningtw · 2020-07-19T22:19:24+00:00

i mean sure, If a parent was reading feminist texts to a 2 year old that would be beyond stupid. The child would have no understanding.

questioningtw · 2020-07-19T22:18:10+00:00

Oh if I have a daughter I am totally teaching her to ignore shit about what girls should be and be her own person. Isn't that what good parenting is? Honestly, I would be deeply concerned about a small child saying they were trans. And i would be horrified at parents saying they have a trans child and the kid is say 5. It actually scares me that they think it is ok to push children into transition even if ti is pronoun changes and wardrobe.

questioningtw · 2020-07-15T16:42:44+00:00

Oh how i loath the let us give girls toys that are all about weddings and are domestic and then tell them that is what they want! No wonder people make fun of girly stuff..it pushes girls into not wanting to play but to want to clean up and think about marriage. I am glad that there is some push away from this because that is some bullshit. The hilarious thing is I actually think it is MEN who want marriage and kids more then women.

questioningtw · 2020-07-14T03:06:56+00:00

Honestly...I am deeply worried that it is becoming the norm to completely deny reality. Look at all these people that think 5 G causes cancer or that Covid is a hoax. There is nothing transphobic about acknowledging biological reality.

questioningtw · 2020-07-14T03:00:56+00:00

woohoo! I was really hoping that some of our trans posters would make it over here...

questioningtw · 2020-07-11T17:26:37+00:00

lol, I sort of feel the same way....I was banned from the JK Rowling subreddit too, for defending Rowling to much and thinking that all this hate toward her is really disproportional.

questioningtw · 2021-11-02T15:30:55+00:00

Did you end up asking him?

questioningtw · 2021-10-05T16:15:56+00:00

Congratulations on your baby!

I am reading a Stephan King book called the Institute; and just rewatched Star Trek Voyager.

I am having fun taking an Anatomy class at school, but other then that nothing much.

questioningtw · 2021-10-05T15:31:56+00:00

You can ask him if he has tried reading her mystery novels and see what he says. If he talks about how he know doesn't read any of her books, you can talk to him about how you feel.

questioningtw · 2021-10-05T15:16:31+00:00

Exactly. Most people take people at their word and if they see say Blaire White as a woman, then they will treat her like one. But the aren't going to believe that she was always a woman or that she has a female body. Same with any trans person that is actally living as a man or woman. I don't believe for a second though that anyone actually thinks men get pregant or that there are genders like nonbinary or genderfluid but they don't want to appear mean so they don't say anything.

questioningtw · 2021-10-05T15:14:33+00:00

I peaked one of my close friends. I didn't really mean too, we were talking about Ellen Page and she thought it was ridiculous that everyone was acting like she was a guy all of a sudden, when before she was very outspoken about being a lesbian and a feminist. This person is not any kind of feminist really, nor is she super conservative: but she too thought it was stupid that Elllen Page went from being a woman to a man and overnight everyone just agreed.

questioningtw · 2021-08-06T15:55:59+00:00

IK went from being very pro trans to a trans medicalist to still being a trans medicalist--but leaning more and more GC. I hate how trans activists are hijacking medicine and getting people fired for simply stating wiomen are the ones that get pregnant. How JK Rowling and others are being treated is also a huge factor in becoming more GC.

questioningtw · 2021-08-06T15:54:25+00:00

I do think that Blaire White, Laverine Cox, Natalie Wyn, Lyn Conway; as well as Buck Angel and Kalvin Gararrah live their lives as women and men. Howeever, they are all male and female. It is impossible to change sex; and literally the only reason they are able to live as women and men is medicine.

questioningtw · 2021-08-06T00:56:33+00:00

For women gender nonconformity seems to be being assertive, brave, have intersts in things over people, not liking make up or dresses, having a goofy sense of humor; and for men I would say being nurturing, taking care of their appearance, being a people pleaser and caring about people over things. IK think in modern society though we are becoming less strict, and most people woulld probably not truely see someone as gender nonconforming unless they went out of their way to defy stereotypes.

questioningtw · 2021-08-06T00:41:08+00:00

Count me in as another he had no right being in the Olympics competing with women. He made the whole event about himself, and took away from the actual women who were competing. I was so glad that the winners said no comment when asked about him. I am tired of men being allowed to have their sports, while women are expected to deal with both women that want to play women's sports; but want to be non women. And with TIMS demanding the right to play with women, instead of men.

questioningtw · 2021-07-22T15:39:07+00:00

oh. well, I stand corrected!

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T17:38:07+00:00

People flying is impossible. However planes can make us travel through the air.

As of right now men can't get pregnant, and their are two sexes. it will be this way for a long time, and who knows if we will even survive long nough for mad scientists to try to make these things happen. Yes, i sad mad scientists, I am tired of technology that is just making us less human.

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T17:32:11+00:00

No....it wouldn't, it would be LIKE meat, but it would not be real meat.

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T17:22:55+00:00

So, basically we need to stop trusting anything then. if this was a hoax, then why where there a few people adament that it happened? Why would people make up a story like this for no reason?

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T17:21:31+00:00

So then are there a bunch of people that said their was a male in the dressing room for no reason? Sorry, I just don't believe that.

questioningtw · 2021-07-20T15:56:38+00:00

They could easily be saying that to try to cover their asses.

questioningtw · 2021-07-18T05:01:50+00:00

I just wanted to check over here and saw this! Happy birthday new GC debate sub, and I am glad it still exists!

I am pretty good;excited that I am going to be able to go back to school on campus! And yourself?

questioningtw · 2021-05-12T16:14:27+00:00

Wow, really? I don't really know that much about Chelsea Manning, and am not really sure if she was right in what she did or wrong.

questioningtw · 2021-05-12T16:13:35+00:00

Eh. Mormons aren't as anti science as you would think, I think it is more Utah doesn't give two craps about being woke based one.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T15:36:17+00:00

I am finding it increasingly bizarre that a lot of progressives seem to just kind of excuse and dismiss bad behavior. Not all are like this of course, and i usually just see it online.

questioningtw · 2021-05-10T00:22:53+00:00

Utah.

questioningtw · 2021-05-09T16:48:24+00:00

Mine just asked if I was male or female.

questioningtw · 2021-05-06T20:59:54+00:00

I will never understand how this isn't peaking even more people.

questioningtw · 2021-05-04T23:21:31+00:00

How do all these trans people remember being a toddler so clearly? I have like one or two vague memories from being a toddler and it was stuff like, wearing waterwings in a pool and being in the back of a truck. Also, how was she even able to play all those female characters if she was really a guy this whole time. And sorry El, but what music you listen to, how you drink and sit have nothing to do with being a boy.

questioningtw · 2021-02-01T18:45:25+00:00

so she is being selfish then. There is no reason she can't play in the mixed league.

questioningtw · 2021-01-28T18:39:55+00:00

Since she doesn't even want to be a woman why is she even playing on the women's team? This is why I honestly think a lot of trans people are narcissistic. If she is taking T, she has zero business playing with the girls and should try out for the boys team. And if she can't make the boys team....well that is too damn bad. They have the audacity to call us entitled when they pull stunts like this. I am honesty worried that women's sports are in danger thanks to stuff like this.

questioningtw · 2021-01-18T19:56:58+00:00

Apparently people are nothing more then huge gossips that talk about things that are none of their business too...and yes, I acknowledge that I am doing it too. I am just so sick of this let us pick a part anything girls do and talk about how wearing certain things makes them a girl or a boy!

People who were acting like she is trans should be ashamed of themselves.

questioningtw · 2020-12-22T00:50:20+00:00

They are just pretending to be obtuse, it is obvious why we don't like the word cis.

questioningtw · 2020-12-16T02:51:31+00:00

What gets me is how damn angry they get when you point out how damn sexist this is. Pink is completely forced on girls, and it is way worse now then when I" was younger...plenty of girls don't like skirts and short hair has nothing to do with gender.

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