How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And what exactly are our needs? The biggest obstacle is homophobia. Acknowledging that isn't "bisexual erasure". Or do you particularly take issue with when I said we should support homosexuals as their allies? We only have way more power than them and acceptance in society. But you think we should just take the infrastructure they built and colonize it for ourselves? We can't put the toothpaste back in the tube. They've already built this and it's our foundation for acceptance as same-sex attracted people. It's impossible to start from scratch and "get our own house".

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a quick question for you before I type out a comprehensive response. What can we infer is the sexuality of a man who rapes a gay man in order to "punish" him, but has a wife and kids at home?

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not in the linked article.

It was, but here is a more specific one. Perhaps you couldn't tell, but I was being hyperbolic when I said "30". I don't have a source on the exact number of guys who feel the urge to rape a gay guy when he comes out in Afghanistan. My point was that bisexuals greatly outnumber gays. In this case, the gay man was raped by two other men:

https://www.itv.com/news/2021-08-28/being-gay-in-afghanistan-the-taliban-raped-him-and-beat-him

Some more examples in Afghanistan include the tradition of Bachi Bazi boys. Bi men will keep young gay boys as sex slaves.

It's well-known that gay men in extremely homophobic communities are often raped by homophobic bi men

I think you're taking issue with the fact that I said "bi men" here. I know you're a bi man, and I don't think you're a psychotic, homophobic rapist. I'm just saying that bi men are extremely common and in homophobic countries, men who are bi will use rape as an instrument of punishment against men who are gay in a situation where a straight man would simply give him a beating.

In any case:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6886282/

edit: Just letting you know because we've been responding to each other so quickly, but I'm heading to sleep. Feel free to reply and I'll respond in the morning.

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well bisexuals shouldn't just care about homophobia because it affects us. We have the numbers and should be defending homosexuals who built the structures that allow bisexuals to come out at all instead of pretending we're straight with our whole lives.

I'm not going to say that I don't support strong bisexual communities, but honestly, I think that bisexuals may be in the majority (rivaling heterosexuals) so I think that may be futile.

Like you said, it's very important to make it clear exactly what bisexuality is and how it's different from being homosexual or heterosexual, but confusion isn't the biggest hurdle bi people have to overcome when trying to accept themselves and come out. The biggest hurdle is homophobia, so I think that's what we should focus on.

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://www.businessinsider.com/gay-man-raped-and-beaten-by-taliban-tricked-into-meeting-2021-9?op=1

It's well-known that gay men in extremely homophobic communities are often raped by homophobic bi men, but the rapists are not gay so it's acceptable because it's like they're punishing him for being gay. So even though the rapist enjoys it, it's not "gay" because it's extremely hateful and violent and the guy has a wife and kids at home.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just think we should have some kind of bisexual-specific campaign against homophobia. Not sure exactly what it would look like politically or socially, but we have the numbers so it's our best bet.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So do you see any kind of solution for that kind of attitude? Massive propaganda campaign painting bisexuals as... committed? Or something? I feel like the only solution is really tackling homophobia.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Yeah that definitely makes sense. It just seems like more homophobia from them, though. Like "oh thank god, she can be turned" and they desperately don't want you to "go back". Sorry you had to go through that with your family.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Do you really think that's the biggest reason? It's the only reason that's ever brought up in these discussions and bi people are always complaining about it. I know those mean things are kinda hurtful, but it's really no big deal compared to the massive amount of homophobia (internalized and otherwise) they're grappling with.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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in my community I think it is actually more acceptable to be gay than bi

What community is that?

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Is it disrespectful of me to say that I think that's kind of a poor excuse? Homosexuals are far less accepted by society. I'd say the only advantage they have is that gender non-conformity is more accepted in their communities, while bi people don't really have a community and generally mix with heterosexuals and feel more pressure to conform to their roles.

But I don't really think the solution is to just form bisexual communities, because where do we draw the line? I think that bisexuality is a lot more common than people think. If a gay guy is "found out" in Afghanistan, 30 other guys line up to rape him.

Is it just me, or have all/the vast majority of the people you've dated been bi? by usehername in Bisexuals

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We also have the highest closet rates and a culture of myths obfuscating what bisexuality really is.

Radical Female Reproductive Strategy!!! by rudeboy96 in GenderCritical

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She's just a delusional incel.

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Literally the only people who don't mind are chasers.

No, lol. I'd fuck Blaire White.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I guess what I actually should have said was that it's okay. I know you probably feel lonely and betrayed, but you're better off without people like that.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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I was disowned by my family, so I know what it's like to lose people. I'm glad you have this place to vent. I don't really have anything comforting to say, just that I hope you stay safe.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not against the rules to disagree with you, as much as you may wish it was.

edit: Since you edited and added the top line, I'll add something too. I don't care how you think I should respond to you.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your response was lower on the Pyramid of Debate than mine, and if you're really getting your feelings hurt again you should touch grass. You have no argument so you try to assert dominance over me by giving me commands. Pathetic.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This take is abysmal. Just because some Christians use a term doesn't mean it's evil. And the way you insist on calling all LGB "gay" is obfuscating, and what do you mean by "gay culture" and are you under the impression that every group in LGB shares this same "gay culture"?

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Plus as someone who does find GNC attractive I have to be honest that feminine men and masculine women are not attractive in the same way as a feminine woman and masculine man.

What's the difference for you?

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's really egregious the way you keep banning that one user. You admitted yourself that he always brings up important and interesting topics that need to be discussed. Almost all of of the comments you removed of his today were valuable and completely civil. I'm tired of having the same banal conversations because anything that could possibly hurt someone's feelings is removed even if it's true. It's just like when u/OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN was banned: insane because of the valuable perspective they bring to the group. This sub has zero tolerance for disagreement even when the people disagreeing are still supporting the Drop the T movement. If you're really getting your feelings hurt over an internet post while thousands of years of progress in civil rights are being erased and the person who's disagreeing with you is trying to help stop that by having the discussion, then touch grass.

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe I was naive.

The answers are extremely insane and ignorant.

edit: And no I didn't "want hateful responses", I wanted to understand their POV and see the source of their visceral disgust.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You just contradicted yourself and stated one completely irrelevant and obvious fact.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Kai. Please don't deprive the world of your beautiful smile. I don't really have a way with words, but anyone who would try to make you feel less than just for being yourself is truly pathetic. Men like you are special and rare. I don't know what to say to you as far as dating goes, but your worth is immeasurable and I think the work you've been doing is amazing. Just take care of yourself. If this is too much for you, it's okay to step away from the fight.

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm bi and I fucking hate the gender movement, and any attack on L&G is an attack on us and should be treated as such.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If you consider same-sex attraction one of your base passions, I have some news for you.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

yeah tho it's like if you can understand why brad pitt is hot

Would you have sex with Brad Pitt?

Why does bisexuality get de-legitimized so much? by dgsf in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry to necro but:

When it comes to homosexuality, despite facing a lot of hatred and bigotry, I have really never seen anyone, no matter how bigoted, make the claim that it doesn't exist.

Actually, most homophobes believe that homosexuals are secretly bisexual, meaning that they are capable of being attracted to the opposite sex as well.

I know these misconceptions are frustrating, but the fact is, bi people haven't come together politically to try to dispel these false notions, and often are the ones spreading the misinformation.

Skinny chicken legs = woman's legs by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just gonna warn you now that the mods probably are gonna take this down for not being relevant to LGB. They'd like it at s/GenderCritical , and I think they might even have their own meme subs.

The strange gender euphoria that comes with cis gay dudes being into you by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They probably knew it was fake.

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew this site was right-wing, but I didn't expect all that

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Whitey

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When did I claim to be a lesbian? And if your dick is really getting hard over a few responses on a forum, you need to get out more.

Seconds away from genociiiiiiiide by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So that means they're about to commit genocide on women and LGB?

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ever touch s/politics ?

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just don't give up. We're the majority.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel gay and bi men are a lot more afraid of being hate-crimed (for good reason).

How dare there be butches and tomboys while I repress my womanhood so hard!! Alphabet soup, cater to me instead!!! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Shower me with compliments or I'll kill myself.

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

there are plenty of females that mess around with females but also will not quit sucking dick.

They are called bisexual women. This is a really simple concept. I can't believe you don't get it by now.

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No. A lesbian is a female homosexual. A homosexual is someone who is exclusively attracted to the same sex. A bisexual is attracted to both the same sex and the opposite sex. A lesbian is a woman who is exclusively attracted to other women.

Woe is me, I am not valid. Give me consoling virtual hugs. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Why do I feel like this is about to be taken down?

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Those women weren't lesbians unless he was raping them.

You clearly don't know what a lesbian is. Could you become aroused by a man?

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A 16 year old is not an adult, which is vile. It's even worse that you were close with her. It must have made you really powerful to lord over someone with an underdeveloped brain like that, huh? Pathetic.

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A lesbian would never willingly have sex with you because lesbians aren't capable of feeling attraction to men. They are only aroused by other women.

People who think being gay is wrong and/or disgusting, why? by usehername in politics

[–]usehername[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You have gotta be bullshitting. If you found out one of your kids' teachers was infertile, what would you do? And why did you link that video if you didn't find that guy repulsive. Come on

People who think being gay is wrong and/or disgusting, why? by usehername in politics

[–]usehername[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You feel that way about anyone who doesn't have children?

edit: Or who never plans on having children? Or who is infertile?

People who think being gay is wrong and/or disgusting, why? by usehername in politics

[–]usehername[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

do you think being hetero is wrong and/or disgusting and why?

No. If you don't think it's wrong and/or disgusting, then this question wasn't directed towards you.

Do you feel like the person in the video you just linked represents all/the majority of gay males? I also find him repulsive, but I'd like to hear specifically what you hate about him.

Gay man calls men abusive, misogynistic rapists and claims that male sexuality is degenerate and obsessive by default by [deleted] in BPF

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I like radical Islam. by Nayenezgani in BPF

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Lol so that's why you responded to me that way on s/GenderCritical

This guy again! And he's crying even more this time, for some reason...? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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By "deconstructing his genitalia preference" he means whacking it to anime femboy porn.

How many of your friends have transitioned? by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

One, a fairly feminine lesbian. She was beautiful, but now she just looks like an ugly white boy (she really passes; she's tall and has been on T a few years). But I keep meeting tons "enbies" at school, and one AGP seems like he's on the verge of transition.

My unpopular opinion by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But to feel sexual attraction and have romantic thoughts is extremely laborious.

What do you mean by this? I understand that you have sexual feelings very infrequently, but for me there is zero choice involved so I could never consider it work.

A poor soul's heart is aching over DroptheT meanies at Saidit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Stonewall was known for people wearing less than the required three clothing of assigned sex clothing, which was illegal...

That can't be real. Is it?

A poor soul's heart is aching over DroptheT meanies at Saidit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don't frequent reddit, but keep fighting the good fight lol

Snowflakes mad for calling a relationship between a man and a woman straight. Actual bi people don't seem to care by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How is it platonic when her reasoning as to why she wants to kiss them is "they're hot". "Hot" is not a word I'd use to describe my family members. And we're not talking about a peck on the cheek here. Do you really kiss your family members on the mouth and get some sort of non-sexual enjoyment out of it? That's revolting

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, there was also an emotional connection, and they enjoyed the sex which would be impossible if they were straight.

Lots of bicurios girls wanting experience and lots of bi girls wanting sex with female but prefering males for romance or not being able to stay only with female without missing dudes eventually.

If she wants and likes sex with other women she's bi, even if she's obsessed with getting the dream het romance white picket fence ending. Most bisexuals are like this, and you and many others may not feel that they're politically useful, but I think if this large chunk of bisexuals were able to properly humanize same-sex attraction and allow themselves to feel a romantic connection to the same-sex, then our movement would really benefit from this because their numbers are huge compared to L&G and even out bis who do like to form emotional connections with the same sex.

Many lesbians just are bi allergic and I think they got reason to reject to date bisexual women

Yeah, I don't mind. It really does happen a lot, just a fact.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Every woman I've ever wanted to be with has turned out to be bi. I didn't know beforehand and they were all traditionally feminine. I think that most bi people, especially women, will never pursue the same sex, and only realize they're actually bi when a person like me takes a chance and goes for them despite zero indication that they are interested in the same sex. I'm sort of getting the impression that homosexuals try not to hit on someone unless they know they are bi/homosexual (is that right?), but I've had great luck with randoms. Maybe I can just smell it lol or I just unconciously know in some way who to pick, but to me, they seem extremely common.

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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I don’t think it’s common for women to feel men are genuinely lesser humans.

It's a lot more common for women to genuinely believe women are lesser humans.

Why does a man loose status if he has femine traits? why are gay men seen as inferior?

Do you have any particular insight into this? You think it's just the correlation of gay == feminine == woman == inferior ? I feel like there's more to it.

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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Do you think that some of them actually feel the natural urge to act like that, and aren't just trying to defend their status?

This just makes me sad more than anything else. Imagine being so hurt that you end up transitioning because "girls can't like cool things" by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Lmao, the idea that a baby growing up is a "transition" from stupidgender to smartgender is fucking hilarious.

Snowflakes mad for calling a relationship between a man and a woman straight. Actual bi people don't seem to care by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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What's fun about it? For me, the only fun part is the sexual element.

Snowflakes mad for calling a relationship between a man and a woman straight. Actual bi people don't seem to care by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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I'm not gonna lie and I'm not trying to be a dick, but it sounds like bi in denial. Just my personal opinion

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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Okay, I see what you mean. It's "dangerous" to the male who's being hit on. Thanks for your whole response.

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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gay men can make other men “female like” by making them into objects of male desire, this can be considered so dangerous to men that the man who is objectified can kill the gay/bi guy

What is dangerous about that?

"Checkmate Transphobe---I mean, BIPHOBE" by PeakingPeachEater in Bisexuals

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Sorry to necro this post, but this forum is dead. "Straight passing privilege" means that a bi person can "pass" as straight when in a het relationship.

Disgusting with OSA by Bipassxx in Bisexuals

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Oh, just realized you're a FEBfem. s/FEBFems would probably be a better place for this post

Snowflakes mad for calling a relationship between a man and a woman straight. Actual bi people don't seem to care by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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It just makes no sense to me. I could never kiss someone I wasn't attracted to, but everyone's different I guess.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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It can be confusing, especially because the vast, vast majority of bi people are in complete denial and make up myths that some bisexual behaviors are straight/you can still be straight if you engage with the same sex as long as you don't love them/everyone's fluid, all that lol I could go on, but you know what I mean. I also personally believe that the majority of the world is bi.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Sounds bi lol I have found myself asking and being asked those exact questions word for word.

Cis gays are so privileged! by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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Ah right, I hadn't considered those gay/bi men

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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As if a gay person's only value in life is to fuck/breed with that individual.

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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But straight women and gay men have the same sexual urge and vice versa for straight guys and lesbians, but there still doesn't seem to be much empathy when it comes to the population at large, especially throughout history and in poorer countries.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm a former TRA. I am not a radfem, but many of the new "radfem" converts are former TRAs and (former) liberal feminists, so they can also hold these beliefs. As everyone here has seen, TRA ideology says that everyone must be bisexual and not be repulsed by anyone, and sexual rejection is bigotry, especially when it's based on a minority/protected characteristic such as being female. This is a similar line of thinking to "sex positivity" in liberal feminism. So if these women are or have ever been a part of any of these groups (liberal feminism is the most popular one), they may hold these beliefs. I have seen a lot of women claim that gay men are misogynistic for being repulsed by women's femaleness, but if you think it's fucking yucky, then you think it's yucky lmao.

Cops in rainbow vans move from policing actual crimes to policing thought crimes by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Hellscape. How do they find the people?

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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How can you tell?

Why have we (especially L&G) been so hated through history? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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?

Cops in rainbow vans move from policing actual crimes to policing thought crimes by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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How the fuck is this real?