Cis gays are so privileged!

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-23T17:11:53+00:00

Well I think there was a research that showed that really really homophobic men did become aroused when watching porn lol

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-14T16:10:52+00:00

They deluded this word so much that many people when faced with such "accusation" just shrug and goes "yea, guess I'm transphobic then"

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-08T18:53:29+00:00

the mental gymnastics on this one is impressive

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-07T17:57:57+00:00

but it's amazing how society often puts women on a pedestal.

Exactly. I have seen time and time again where women have deplorable behavior but people react with "yesss, queen" "go off!!!" "Omg she is so crazyyy" even tho if a man behaved the same he would be shunned to filthy... the infantilization of women is ridiculous

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-07T17:03:48+00:00

I used to be a bit of a pushover and people would take advantage of that all the time. It's amazing how easy it is to solve this issue tho, just saying no does the trick, it just takes time to learn that

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-07T17:00:37+00:00

I'm overt lol

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-06T13:38:58+00:00

You described perfectly why I get so frustrated with her... thank you for putting my thoughts into words

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-05T02:08:56+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that :( I hope you two can still keep at least some sort of contact, maybe schedule a day for lunch to catch up? Idk, but maybe even if that ends up not working out, your best friend is enough evidence to show that you can find people to relate to and find more support with!

Also, if you want to I would love to be your friend <3 you seem like a really awesome person so yea :D

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-04T18:10:32+00:00

Hi, I'm not a lesbian but I remember being bullied by my young girl friends bc I didn't feel attracted to a boy that was very popular at the time, lol, so in a way I understand you being upset for the feeling of not being able to be attracted to something.

I'm sorry you are going through this and I don't have many advices since, as I said, what I went through, though slightly similar, it's far less serious. My advice at the moment is to perhaps find other friends that you can relate to better so you don't hyperfocus on the friend group you feel as though you don't fit in. I have some friends in my college that I feel like I'm a stranger, but that feeling dies down because I know I have another group of friends that actually know me and accept me and I can be myself and still belong, that comforts and makes you feel more in tune with yourself, so perhaps try broadening your friend group so you can also find your peace of mind with people that don't make you feel so astray, allowing you to not think too much how you don't belong to another group, because you know there is another that will always welcome you with open arms.

That would be my advice, I'm sorry it may not be the best, but I do hope it helps somehow

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-04T02:52:27+00:00

I just want to return to monke tbh lol, joking and not joking at the same time. Although I see the positives about the internet it brought more negatives if anything, I wish it would vanish sometimes

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-04T02:40:50+00:00

Ultimately it doesn't effect you

How did we get to this point? Where people don't even remember what basic empathy is?

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-04T02:40:08+00:00

Thank you, it does comfort me to know more people are going through the same, it helps with my sanity so thanks for sharing

The world just sucks

powpowpowpow · 2021-08-02T14:47:37+00:00

It is really satisfying to watch

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-30T21:23:58+00:00

That's smart

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-30T14:39:36+00:00

I stopped playing this game a long time ago, it became to woke and TRA for me and also EA sucks, The Sims 2 is waaaay better

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-27T15:11:55+00:00

So... she is like most women who don't actually benefit from hook up culture? Wow, what a shocker!

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-19T16:25:05+00:00

If there was never no concrete definition of lesbian, why even bother to use this particular label if it doesnt define anything?

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-01T17:10:14+00:00

I don't know and I think it's time for us to stand up and speak up. It's scary to face the mob, but they are only powerful bc we let them get too far, it's time to set things back on track before we can no longer reverse the damage

powpowpowpow · 2021-07-01T03:39:35+00:00

The man that flashed the women is organizing his own protest as well. Be safe everyone, his followers also are tracking down people who commented on the wi spa instagram to try to get them fired... his instagram is @nameisprecious

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-29T12:11:07+00:00

Show her Abigail Shier's book, I think it would should the bigger picture quite well. Besides that, pay attention to what she is being taught in school and show her why what they are teaching is wrong and maybe confront the teachers if that is necessary

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-27T23:38:20+00:00

Damn she went off! Women like that inspire me, she didn't back down and told them all the truth, I hope this peaks people

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-21T13:46:23+00:00

Why can't they take female sexuality seriously?

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-14T06:16:46+00:00

Why is she so agreessive? God, it's gross

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-12T22:44:28+00:00

What did the American troops do?

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-05T15:40:10+00:00

I can't acess it cus I don't have an acc

powpowpowpow · 2021-06-03T01:04:38+00:00

They already did that when Super Straights tried to donate to a women's rape shelter

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-27T14:09:15+00:00

I am not a representative for straight women, but the way I feel about the whole thing is that I'm angry. I feel like MtF keep stealing our spaces and voices and I am afraid for LGB people because I do not want people deflecting the blame onto you all.

I am angry that TRAs only seek to destroy and I am angry that most sane people don't do anything to stop this madness because they rather worry about being offensive than preserving our society.

I am angry that nowadays the concept of being a woman is so stretched that people don't even know how to define one.

I am just angry... and tired... the clown world really is draining

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-27T13:12:41+00:00

It feels sometimes that they are setting up r/AskGayBros with the increasing amount of trans related questions idk

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-26T11:23:41+00:00

They are quite uncanny

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-25T14:13:14+00:00

It is so tiring. How hard it is to people to understand that biology is a thing?

A woman will never be a man and vice versa, feeding into this delusion only makes it worse because the people that believe they are the opposite sex will never be treated truly as such and they will think everyone is out to get them and will become even more depressed and bitter...

I'm just tired... it's all...

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-25T14:05:48+00:00

Damn, it really sounds tough I had no idea :(

I hope we can somehow achieve a site either way or find a better platform in the meantime, would discord be a bad idea?

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-24T17:45:06+00:00

She was getting cancelled for calling out a small bussiness so ig she "came out" as nb so people won't feel as comfortable to come for her

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-24T17:38:41+00:00

I wish I could but usually to pay for sites you gotta pay in dollar and I don't have enough money

I'm sorry if I offended you somehow... I just don't want to loose the small space of sanity I found here

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-23T21:49:14+00:00

Should we make a website for this forum? Considering that Saidit may go down again and we don't know if everytime it will go up again and if this becomes recurrent we might loose a lot of users that no longer are interested bc the site keeps crashing down :(

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-18T16:58:43+00:00

I also don't understand ppl that have a thing for TOO much body hair, I have a friend that loves REALLY hairy men... with lots and lots and lots of hair lmao

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-16T06:26:10+00:00

Yea its pretty jarring

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-16T04:12:33+00:00

I think he tried to type a bit differently this time around, I saw a user say he would get away with creating new users if he changed the way he typed and he took it to heart

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-13T16:01:52+00:00

You know what I find interesting?

Is that they never attempt to create THEIR own spaces, they always want other to adapt to them and if people tell them no they will say "well, they go ahead and make your own space!"

And the cycle repeats... wtf is up with that?

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-13T15:24:19+00:00

Thanks. I've seen MtF detransioners mention social pressure too and anxiety, there are a lot of autistic detransioners that ended up thinking they were trans too. I would say a large chunk of them are fetishists that drag others with them to feel as though their fetish is legitimate

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-13T13:48:11+00:00

I am a straight woman and when I was a teen I was very confused about myself, I used to self harm and I was sexually harrassed which made me hate myself a lot.

Sometimes I would think about becoming a man because I thought it would make things easier, I also had a FtM friend and if I'm not mistaken there is a study showing that girls with trans friends often start idetifying as trans too.

As I grew up I stopped hating myself and being disgusted with my body, so to me its not only a trend and a fetish but also a major problem where they use and groom vulnerable kids to further their own movement

Edit: I also think they conveluted the meaning of "gender dysphoria" bc to me it seems like a rebranded body dismorphia, which is something I still suffer with but as I said nowadays I don't feel disgusted with my body anymore so it is mild now.

But when I would look up online as to why I hated my body so much, why I cried when I saw myself in the mirror all it would take me was to gender dysphoria.

Idk why I didn't get conviced I was trans, I think it was because I knew I didn't hate being female rather I hated what people did to me because I was female (sexual harrassment, older men chasing me on the street, etc...)

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-09T15:05:21+00:00

I will never forget when my ex friend, who was a foujoshi (I don't know if I spelt it right, pretty much fetishized gay men), started to rant to me how gay marriage should be prohibited because no one should marry???

??!?!?!?!?!?!

Girl... has she ever heard of personal choices and the importance of freedom? I doubt.

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-09T15:01:49+00:00

The doublethink is insane, it's hard to keep up

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-06T12:42:38+00:00

Its alright I wasn't very clear of what I meant too, I commented that when I was about to sleep so yea, I was kinda sleepy :P

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-06T12:16:29+00:00

I think i maybe don't grasp the meaning of slur well, it is a word that doesn't exist in my language so I thought it just meant name calling or something so maybe that's also why I equated to slut in a way that would make sense to me, so sorry about that hiccup

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-06T12:07:15+00:00

I meant to say its the same as in a slur that affects a specific group. I was called a slut by just rejecting a guy, he would keep harassing me and calling me slut, whore, bitch etc. I doubt the same would happen to a man. The same happened to another guy I was not interested to, he too harassed me calling me a slut and a whore. And I do not go out with multiple people to perhaps "justify" the name calling.

powpowpowpow · 2021-05-06T04:09:16+00:00

Thanks for the response! It makes sense, ig its the same for "slut". I personally would not be comfortable calling myself a slut even if it is to reclaim something but ig each to their one

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-25T19:23:27+00:00

I feel the same... In the world where everyone is crazy the ones that are sane feel insane

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-12T01:09:47+00:00

Exactly. I would always get into arguments with her trying to say it was just a normal relationship like straight ones and acting like this would only make them fell weird and different and that isn't fair... she would just pretend to cry and say that lesbian/gay relationships are special bc straights are boring or whatever... god she was tiring

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-11T14:32:50+00:00

I used to be friends with a girl with yaoi obsession. One time we were in an anime convention and there was a lesbian couple in front of us and she started screaming how cute they were and the girls seemed rlly uncomfortable. I just pretended I didn't know her bc holy shit. Why behave like this?

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-11T02:23:23+00:00

Are you ok?

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-09T16:05:50+00:00

Yesterday I saw this awesome quote which was: my body isn't the most interesting thing about me, so why should I care so much?

And honestly that helped lol, I never looked at it like that

And for sure... even close friends now use photoshop/face tune, its widespread to oblivion

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-09T02:25:14+00:00

Yeah its fucked up, I have body dismorphia and if I leave it unchecked I get very obsessive about my appearance so I always wonder how many ppl who get lost on doing so much to themselves also have that and a whole market is there to profit off it :/

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-08T12:03:53+00:00

Bc you get rewards for snitching now and is actively encouraged by social media culture and most authorities

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-08T11:55:36+00:00

I think plastic surgery was always associated with older women or men but as time passed they started to market it to younger people too, as a magical way for you to get rid of your insecurities and build your ideal self.

I think Kyle Jenner was a big part in normalizing plastic surgery for young women, considering when she was 17yo she looked completely different from what she used to look like

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T14:10:58+00:00

When satire becomes so indistinct with our reality we know we've gone full clown world 😭🥲

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T13:36:33+00:00

Oh thank god lmao

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T13:36:15+00:00

I think thats different tho... we are all women but there are things that different us by sexual orientation or skin collor, i dont get how cis is the same as those if you could explain it i would be thankful 😭

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T01:00:51+00:00

We are not a subclass of our own sex. I'm not a "cis" woman. I AM a woman, the ones that need to be clarified are the trans ones, not us lmao

I feel like it was used as a tool to get us used to being subclassified and now they want to just be called woman or man while we are the "cis" ones... its just to subvert reality ig

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T00:58:35+00:00

Girl dont use soap on ur pussy pls, it destabilizes the pH and can contribute to a possible infection or irritation 😭 only water is necessary!

Our friend down there is self cleaning so all we need to do is to clean between the folds with water to remove any excess sebum or sweat

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-07T00:51:25+00:00

If someone came to me referring to me as they/them I would be so tired lmao... its pretty obvious I'm an adult human female sweaty lets not play games

Its very worrisome how kids nowadays are being told to deny obvious reality

2+2=5 everyone

powpowpowpow · 2021-04-03T13:20:16+00:00

It's always great to see people standing their ground against cancel mobs tbh, its the whole "the emperor has no clothes" situation to me

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-26T11:35:46+00:00

Considering how trans seems the new conversion therapy it seems like they were considering chemical castration to LG people far back then... they just changed their approach to be woke and more "inclusive" to fool everyone

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-26T11:30:09+00:00

I can relate. Sometimes it feels isolating to be the only one seeing why things are wrong nowadays. All my friends support TWAW rethoric and if I mention how that hurts women I would be shunned immediately.

It just makes me feel hopeless that things will ever get better.

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-25T17:11:06+00:00

I think it will and I'm afraid of that happening. Because of the TQ+ extremism, they end up pushing tired people to the other end of the aisle...

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-25T12:38:46+00:00

Thank you.

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-19T12:13:13+00:00

Nexplanon?

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-18T22:56:39+00:00

100%

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-18T17:54:27+00:00

Hell yea

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-18T17:47:09+00:00

Why was she having sex with no protection and acted surprised with the idea that she could get pregnant by doing so? Wtf

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-13T01:19:51+00:00

No is a complete sentence 😘

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-12T13:58:44+00:00

I don't think so. Many LGBs have already come to alternatives and on reddit we were sharing which alternatives are official and which are not. Also if they see a post that is violent and check the comments, its mostly people calling it out and saying "oh... another troll".

So yeah, trust the process, I think we got this one :)

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-10T21:04:35+00:00

The influx of users was bigger on ruqqus so I thought to share the news, this post was not written by me and bc I'm on mobile it got weirdly formatted.

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-10T17:50:23+00:00

Try this link https://ruqqus.com/+SuperSexuals/post/8b0u/uk-census-is-coming-and-its

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-06T15:52:09+00:00

For more alliance between straights and LBGs, together we are stronger than the genderspecials and we may end this hellish thing sooner than expected

powpowpowpow · 2021-03-05T03:51:18+00:00

It's only natural that girls loving girls would be welcome here, isn't it?

girls

Need I say more?

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-28T16:16:20+00:00

This HAS to be ironic omg

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-28T16:15:18+00:00

I'm sick and tired of seeing this type of shit happening to lesbians and all women alike... it hurts me that most of my irl girl friends don't care about these issues bc, according to them "it isn't hunting anyone"... yeah, that because your sexuality isn't being invalided all the time and you are not being forced to like dick. Also, in our country the trans thing isn't that bad, there is no men being allowed in our public bathroom etc etc etc... i wonder if when shit hits the fan here too if they will notice that it does hurt people.

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-25T20:00:33+00:00

I mean... look at this users name, it implies a sexuality is a choice and they constantly post very extreme/baiting stuff, they are probably a troll tbh

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-21T23:53:07+00:00

Blame tumblr for that... they would glamorize the LGBT community and say shit like "ewww you are straight!"

And for young impressionable teenage girls that wish to be accepted and loved that can leave a mark on your idea of yourself... so yea

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-18T23:23:24+00:00

Even cis women aren't immune, my ex (we split on good terms) was a butch cis lesbian and when we were dating transphobes would try to stop her from using the bathroom because they thought she was trans, I pass really well so I had to pretend to be cis so I could run cover for her to be able to use the bathroom in peace.

Oh im certain an actual woman didnt pass while you did... have he ever looked at himself in the mirror? Or at his hands? Lmao no amount of cheap wigs will hide your man hands, sir

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-18T23:01:10+00:00

Wdym? Maybe its a joke and i didnt get it but still😭

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-12T02:13:19+00:00

Lets normalize not having to explain why we are not attracted to x, there is no need for an explanation. No is no and thats it

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-12T02:06:23+00:00

1950s: god i wish women would shut up

Nowadays: god i wish white women would shut up

...

Progress? Lmao

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-03T19:42:07+00:00

Folks, queer makes me wanna vomit bc its usually attention seeking ppl, violence, hate speech, transphobia... there are probably more but these are the ones I recall

powpowpowpow · 2021-02-02T02:25:06+00:00

Return to monke

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-31T13:49:00+00:00

Its because their ideology doesn't stand its ground when questioned. It's not logical at all neither is based in reality. That's why they are so afraid of questions, besides the fact that they are cultish in general and cult culture doesn't allow dissent as well.

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-31T13:34:33+00:00

I used to watch him from time to time and when I saw him in that suit I thought he was doing it for a joke? Since it was obviously a male in a wig... but apparantly not. I'm sad now.

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-31T02:48:48+00:00

Yeah me too, this sub is awesome for learning more about these issues!! Thanks for adding more info to my comment too :D

Have a good day/night! :P

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-31T02:34:15+00:00

Yeah it is understandable 100% but as you said, it isn't healthy which is why I wish it wasn't normalized/encouraged, so yea ig i didn't make myself clear in my previous comment as to why I find it problematic

Oh, btw, i see some of your comments from time to time and u seem like a very reasonable person! I love reading your takes so thank you for sharing them here :)

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-31T02:29:53+00:00

The way he and contrapoints talk is so irritating and I can't seem to identify why. It feels like I'm being mocked by them and the condescending tone doesn't help.

Why do they feel like impersonating every female stereotype? And the audacity to call himself a FEMALE...

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-29T04:28:22+00:00

Rules for thee, but not for me

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-27T13:37:11+00:00

Sometimes people change themselves so they don't resemble their parents if they have deep rooted issues with them. Sometimes they also suffered with some type of sexual abuse and change themselves to run away from that memory or they are just obsessive and addicted to body modification. It is really weird and to me it is harmful to normalize this behavior.

powpowpowpow · 2021-01-27T01:44:32+00:00

They never elaborate why its different just that it is... i guess they cant justify their delusions

powpowpowpow