OPStolen

Cope. FDS and r/SexWorkers complain daily that nobody has the money to be an ACTUAL, by-the-books sugar daddy. A real sugar daddy is usually an influential millionaire. A sugar baby relationship(while largely prostitution) is also a mentorship. The daddy is buying the girl with his money, but also using his influence to secure her a good job so that eventually she doesn't have to be a sugar baby. The whole goal of a sugar baby relationship is that eventually the daddy provides enough for his baby that she's able to leave and stop sugaring. This is normally why women sugar baby in college or while in low-income jobs.

Most men these days are not millionaires and, heaven knows, most of them are not influential enough to secure a woman a well-paying job. Most sugar daddies these days are men in their 20's and 30's who have saved enough money to MAYBE pay rent for a sugar baby for a month or two, but mostly just want to do it for quick sex and leave. A real sugar daddy pays her rent/mortgage, utilities, gas, shopping, vacations, etc, sometimes equating to up to 15k a month. NO MAN CAN AFFORD 15K A MONTH ANYMORE.

TL:DR. Anyone who can actually afford to be a sugar daddy would, 9/10, either engage in sex trafficking so they can have underage women and women that JUST hit 18 or fly to countries where they can legally get an escort because the cost of an escort for a night will always be less than the cost of a sugar baby just to MAYBE hang out with her three times a month.