Just your typical lesbian sex struggles... 🤢

hyunnahh · 2021-07-23T15:28:31+00:00

why do you hope that this is a bi woman?

hyunnahh · 2021-01-23T07:30:24+00:00

unpopular opinion : stop typing out "unpopular opinion" stating what the opinion is

hyunnahh · 2020-12-23T10:46:11+00:00

are there really TERFs there? always thought that the UK is progressive af

hyunnahh · 2020-12-21T06:52:48+00:00

and I wonder how many more celebrities are going to come out as "trans" or "genderqueer"

hyunnahh · 2020-12-21T04:43:16+00:00

And also the "just because i've only dated men/women (opposite sex) doesn't mean i'm any less bisexual!!" bisexuals >:(

hyunnahh · 2020-12-20T17:02:33+00:00

in my case, it's more like, the "theoretically bisexual" girls

hyunnahh · 2020-12-20T15:20:59+00:00

Someone get me the eye bleach!

hyunnahh · 2020-12-19T05:55:56+00:00

A religion that accept pedophilia, calls for death to homosexuals and treats women like shit

And yet if we say this anywhere else, we'll be condemned for "islamophobia"

hyunnahh · 2020-12-15T11:16:08+00:00

personally? i think you're reaching here

hyunnahh · 2020-12-14T03:52:45+00:00

Mulan? Trans? The Hua Mulan? LOL! People are so hell-bent on making everyone trans that they don't even take the culture and symbolism of Hua Mulan into consideration.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-12T03:34:08+00:00

Honestly, I would rather they keep their penis than to invert it into a neovagina. Our technology is not advanced enough to make a vagina out of a penis (and vice versa) and may never be advanced enough. The surgery just isn't worth it, with all the risks and complications.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-11T02:32:20+00:00

the labrys probably represent their dicks judging by how delusional they are

hyunnahh · 2020-12-11T02:30:56+00:00

not to mention it sounds cringy as hell. my insides do a backflip every time i see "please educate me", "educate yourself" and any other form of woke-speech and activist-speech.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-10T09:32:59+00:00

I'm living in Southeast Asia and it's pretty conservative over here, so our textbooks are unscathed thank the lord, but I'm not too sure about the woke-r countries in the west. It's my classmates that's the problem though, quite a few of them buy into the whole gender ideology and are online activists.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-09T12:13:52+00:00

It helped they studied biology in school too, so they wouldn't buy the "girl in a boy's body" or "boy in a girl's body" bs

My god, I'm currently studying biology too and some of my classmates are the biggest sjws/activists/TRAs ever, the cringe is insane

hyunnahh · 2020-12-07T18:11:17+00:00

Or straight!

hyunnahh · 2020-12-07T18:09:48+00:00

PoMoSexuals

I can't unsee "PMS" from this lol

hyunnahh · 2020-12-07T06:27:20+00:00

I hate this. I hate it so much when the description of a label consists of "their gender/sexuality can't be defined by words" or "doesn't identify as anything".

hyunnahh · 2020-12-06T05:26:12+00:00

Tbh if it was me I would've ripped all my hair out already

hyunnahh · 2020-12-06T03:19:44+00:00

we've been having an influx of trolls lately :/

hyunnahh · 2020-12-05T15:27:15+00:00

words no longer have meaning, we are all male female non-binary panromantic asexuals!

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T16:11:35+00:00

Like I mean sure? From the moment you gave me a one-liner for a reply and neglected the rest of my comment I already knew that this discussion has hit a dead-end.

Edit : You did give sources, but they weren't relevant to our current discussion at all? Which is regarding the ace-spectrum and demisexuality and not the amount of people indentifying as part of the ace-spextrum.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T14:58:01+00:00

And your sources?

I did some digging around yet I cannot find a single source saying that the "asexual spectrum" was coined in 1869, it was JUST the term "monosexual". This doesn't prove anything about the "ace spectrum" at all. You literally also said that "demisexual" was created in the early 2000s, which I found out was most likely in 2003 and even then it wasn't "demi" but "semisexuality". By this time the internet has already been invented, albeit not as efficient as it is now. The term, "demisexuality" was eventually coined on an online forum in 2006. Not tumblr but it's still an online forum, much like tumblr is now.

If you want to prove the existence and validity of demisexuality and the asexual spectrum then I suggest you try harder than giving one-liner replies and/or running away from discussions.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T05:18:25+00:00

But you didn't explain what it is and how it's not some made-up fad?

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T05:05:51+00:00

Because " Has anyone here identified as demisexual before? (I have lol)" I have a feeling my long paragraph may have hit home.

I identified as "demisexual" because I was just like almost everyone else, who preferred to get to know someone before experiencing genuine attraction towards them, but was swayed by "demisexual" as a label. Your long paragraphs has often digressed from the topic at hand, as has been similarly stated by other commentators on this sub, and has certainly not have influenced my sexual orientation at all. On a previous discussion about "demisexuality" you brought up genital preferences, which was completely missng the point.

Just because you were confused about your sexuality doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

This also does not make sense whatsoever. My personal experience with previously identifying with "demisexuality" does not indicate that it is real, it is indicative of how mogai-labels and labels made up by tumblr kids has harmed LGB people and our identity.

And once again you have not truly answered my questions?

Demisexual was differentiated from asexuality in the early 2000's simply to acknowledge there was some variance in the asexual spectrum.

You still have yet to fully explain what this "asexual spectrum" is and how it's real and not some made-up tumblr fad for special snowflakes.

Essentially people who were in between sexual and asexual... thus demisexual

And yet "demisexual" overlaps with all other sexualities (with the exception of asexuality) because not everyone is into hook-up culture and would much rather get to know someone beforehand. There is no reason why "demisexual" deserves a label, nor is it an indicative of who or what a person is sexually attracted to, which is what sexual orientation labels are supposed to do.

Just look at the other comments, pointing out the ridiculousness of "demisexuality" and the potential existence of an "asexual spectrum", in fact, feel free to debate them too. Kudos to you if you can finally justify the existence of "demisexuality".

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T03:29:31+00:00

You still haven't explained how demisexuality is real, how it separates itself from other sexualities (not overlapping) and in what sense the asexual spectrum is real. You type out multiple long paragraphs but always completely misses the point.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-04T03:27:07+00:00

Yeah it's pretty prevalent in online communities, where heterophobia is deemed as "impossible" and played off as a joke. Stuff like, "straight people ew" or "straight people sucks!" without even any disclaimer, but if anyone gets offended, they will immediately say that it's a joke. It's not even just towards straight people but also towards "cis" people, and collectively, "straight and cis". The most targeted group is probably, "straight cis white males".

The amount of hypocrisy in all these jokes, and videos and what not reeks tbh, and imo mostly comes from the younger generation and is getting out of hand. This is also part of why "LGB(T+)" acceptance has gone down over the years.

hyunnahh · 2020-12-02T14:43:07+00:00

Tribes : Trans

????

hyunnahh · 2020-12-02T08:36:24+00:00

lol they didn't even try "women with dicks" just straight up "people with dicks"

hyunnahh · 2020-12-02T08:31:31+00:00

bruh just leave man, you're just dragging this whole sub down

hyunnahh · 2020-12-01T12:57:51+00:00

"lesbian" but not in a sexual way??? how far gone are they

hyunnahh · 2020-11-30T11:12:37+00:00

no, the problem with the + side of the "LGBT+" is that they're mostly all bullshit labels made up by tumblr users that makes close to, if not, zero sense, demisexual being one of them.

the point of sexuality and sexual orientation labels is to bring across which sex you're attracted to, thereby distinguishing your dating pool. this is consistently seen with homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual and even asexual and the original definition of pansexual. whereas "demisexuality" is an outlier. there's nothing strange or unusual or "queer" about wanting an emotional bond, in fact it's quite natural. many non-demisexuals requires a strong emotional bond with someone before feeling sexual attraction as well. but they aren't demisexual, because demisexuality in and of itself, doesn't make sense and isn't even exclusive to the label.

hyunnahh · 2020-11-29T13:19:10+00:00

Your reaction is the same as mine lmao. I tried to comprehend this person's comment and failed, and gave up trying to give a reply altogether.

hyunnahh · 2020-11-29T07:47:25+00:00

what do you even have against lesbians lmao. oh wait, let me guess, you got rejected by one boo hoo

hyunnahh · 2020-11-29T07:14:28+00:00

And how is "demisexuality" different from people who simply don't do hook-ups and prefer getting to the other person first? It just seems like a special snowflake label.

hyunnahh · 2020-11-28T06:39:21+00:00

demisexuality isn't a real thing lmao

hyunnahh · 2020-11-21T08:33:02+00:00

I regret everything

hyunnahh · 2020-11-12T10:19:24+00:00

I'm so confused about the situation regarding Kamala Harris tbh. On one hand, we have this sub and a couple other pro-LGB people saying that she condones the TQ+ and supports that, but on the other hand, the TQ+ and woke crowd says that she's transphobic. Which is the truth?

hyunnahh · 2020-10-22T11:01:51+00:00

nO! Why do they have to ruin anime for everyone? (and the anime in the photo is actually really wholesome too smh)

hyunnahh · 2020-10-12T01:34:12+00:00

This lady has a CHILD and she's still so childish and self-centered, smh. Also, theybie?? Wasn't that shit kinda shut down and bashed by the internet for being confusing?

hyunnahh · 2020-10-09T04:11:35+00:00

if you're a TERF! you're! not! a! lesbian1!!1!1 /s

hyunnahh · 2020-10-09T00:10:52+00:00

You are my opposite, I am...teagender!

hyunnahh · 2020-10-08T07:08:41+00:00

Does that mean that we are all technically trans too? Fuck

hyunnahh · 2020-10-07T18:50:35+00:00

Its not gay if they say no homo^tm after!

hyunnahh · 2020-10-07T16:07:47+00:00

Its not gay if two straight guys does it

._.

hyunnahh · 2020-10-07T09:30:25+00:00

tbh she sounds kinda bitter about het women, and apparently thinks that sexuality is a choice, lmao what

hyunnahh · 2020-10-07T03:58:21+00:00

agree, she was probably trying to be a little humorous as well but it came off as tacky lol

hyunnahh · 2020-10-02T03:39:48+00:00

everything has to be about them LOL and they get to justify riding our movement

hyunnahh · 2020-10-01T03:19:43+00:00

handholding and linking arms, maybe hugging, but everything else please keep it in privacy

hyunnahh · 2020-10-01T03:15:05+00:00

and so absolutely stunning!1!11

hyunnahh · 2020-09-27T06:28:27+00:00

Someone should do a social experiment and post the same post to r/detrans and one of the trans sub, then compare the replies.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T15:23:51+00:00

And you have once again glossed over everything that i've said in response to you. A discussion won't work if you keep deflecting all my points.

respectful discussion from both parties on differing opinions simply doesn't resolve conflict, it's the dominant side that wins

No, it is the side that wins the audience that wins. In fact, being aggressive has only led to the TRAs' downfall, as evident by the number of people on the internet "peaking" and realising how much bullshit the whole gender ideology is. Back when they were only requesting so much, most of us didn't have a problem with them, namely the transsexuals. It is only because they started to get aggressive, labelling everything transphobic and yadah all that jazz that we are now starting to push back. The TRAs are a weak example.

assertive but respectful was such a successful strategy, we wouldn't be in the situation we're in now, would we?

The thing is, when the whole gender ideology started to spread, pretty sure no one was putting them down, and instead supporting their delusions. It was being completely silent and seemingly supportive that got us to this position in the first place, not "being assertive and respectful".

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T14:40:15+00:00

intention that it's meant to be a slur

and WHY would you want that? WHY blatantly create another slur that is BASED on another slur? What does that accomplish? Nothing but spreading hate and adding more fuel to the fire. I also never said it was equivalent to the N slur, but the fact remains that they are BOTH slurs and should not be used in any context, each with a unique and horrible history tied to it, something that you've willingly ignored in your replies.

it's a description for a group of people that can be used in a derogatory way

and again, I ask, WHY? And WHAT is the purpose? This just seems so counter-productive and downright hateful.

Respectful =/= nice, there is a difference, they aren't even synonyms.. I can be harsh and assertive and get my points across while STILL being respectful. There is, for the last freaking time, zero need to resort to TRA behaviour in an attempt to drive them back. If anything, it'll make the TRAs even more aggressive in response and accuse us of transphobia and in your case using that term, biphobia. You seem to be mistaken, I don't care about their feelings at all because they've hurt far too many of LGB and especially children. But stooping down to their level and creating and using slurs left and right is just stupid and doesn't contribute to anything, and most certainly not to our fight against the TQ+. You seem to have this idea that the only way forward is to fight fire with more fire, but that's just not it.

Also, really?

sit in the corner with your tissues

Stop with the weak personal attacks and jabs, it doesn't reflect well on you.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T13:46:52+00:00

simply thinking because it's a slur

"bislut" literally has "slut" in it. It IS a slur and it IS derogatory, as explained by myself and the few other people that has bothered to reply to your offensive comment

rapist because it's a derogatory slur

since when has rapist been derogatory? now you're just making things up.

You, you do realise that we can get a point across without using any demeaning or derogatory language right? Simply stating that this woman is doing a disservice to our community and explaining how it's harmful is enough, there's zero need to use such a derogatory term. Using a slur and insulting the other party is EXACTLY the sort of behaviour that TRAs emulate, and YOU'RE stooping down to their level. I'm not playing "nice". I recognise the harm people, like this woman in this post here, are doing to our community. I'm not blind to all this, which is why I'm here in this sub in the first place. However, there is, as has been stated many times before by me, zero need to resort to foul language that has historically been used to justify sexual assault and harassment.

The point here isn't about being nice or mean, it's about basic respect and courtesy.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T08:51:37+00:00

i suffer you suffer we all suffer

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T03:09:04+00:00

Exactly! We've always been called TERFs and other slurs by the homophobic crowd but that doesn't mean that we should do the same to them :/ We don't fight fire with more fire.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-25T03:07:39+00:00

I don't get why you're attempting to lump me in with this woman as an attempt to attack me personally, when you don't actually know anything about me and my "love life". The fact that YOU are resorting to such a tactic instead of properly refuting me and other commentors speaks volumes about you.

Also, nothing will justify calling someone a slur and/or a derogatory term. We don't call a black person that has commited a crime a n*. We don't call a gay man or a lesbian who commited a crime, a faggot or a dyke. Why does this not apply to this lady in question? Stop being so hateful. Yes the woman is being pretty moronic in claiming that she's a lesbian but she does NOT deserve to be labelled such a derogatory term.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T23:19:16+00:00

Great, ignoring all other parts of my reply and jumping straight to degrading the woman again. Also, that quote alone proves nothing about this "bislut", stop nitpicking. Just because she has three different partners, doesn't mean she's a slut in any way. And yeah what she's doing is harmful to lesbians, but does that justify you calling her a derogatory term? no. grow up

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T23:05:22+00:00

So a slur that has been historically used to degrade and justify sexual crimes is not at the very least close to the N word? Dude, we've explained multiple times why this term is not just degrading to bisexuals but women as well yet you refuse to back down. The only difference between this and "sluts" is the bi in front of it.

You sound exactly like a privileged man saying "I will continue to call her a slut anx if it upsets you them too bad, boo hoo, cry me a river" and frankly, it's concerning.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T22:42:02+00:00

But why? "Sluts" is already a slur that has historically been used on women to justify sexual harrassment and assault, and is still very derogatory to this day. Why make up another derogatory term using a slur that has such a digusting history? No matter how moronic this women, who may not even be bisexual mind you, is, that doesn't justify any of this.

Why are you not realising your mistake? Instead continuing to use such a term and refusing to listen to ACTUAL bi people saying that this is wrong and equivalent to the use of other slurs such as the N word. Saying that "Not all (group of people) are (slur/derogatory term)" doesn't make it any better. Saying that not all gay men are faggots is still homophobic. Saying not all black people are n* is still racist. Saying not all bisexuals are "bisluts" is still, guess what, derogatory and dare I say, biphobic.

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T12:34:51+00:00

is bisluts seriously a term :/ that's kinda derogatory

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T12:33:59+00:00

maybe they shave each other's neovaginas ;)

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T08:28:40+00:00

funny how this self-proclaimed "polyamorous lesbian" has three partners and none of them are actual women

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T08:28:07+00:00

so if an adult identifies as a child...

hyunnahh · 2020-09-24T08:26:59+00:00

At least we can actively push and fight against the first one, but woque homophobia? Jeez everyone drank the kool-aid way too quick

hyunnahh · 2020-09-21T11:31:52+00:00

it used to be interchangeable, but all of a sudden the meaning "gender" changed completely?? I still don't understand how this happened :/

hyunnahh · 2020-09-08T12:42:01+00:00

the dood's always been like this, even during our reddit days

hyunnahh · 2020-08-29T12:34:15+00:00

because it "excludes" the TQ+, that's really it

hyunnahh · 2020-08-28T08:07:19+00:00

please tell me this is satire i can't

hyunnahh · 2020-08-03T12:00:19+00:00

It doesn't matter anyways, according to multiple TRAs now, pronouns =/= gender so you can "identify" as a woman but still use "he/him" pronouns. What a mindfuck, but whatever, it will most likely bite them in their ass one day, and hopefully soon.

hyunnahh · 2020-08-03T07:03:24+00:00

apparently homophobia is used to describe the "discrimination" that the ENTIRE LGBTQIA+ community face now

hyunnahh · 2020-07-22T07:03:56+00:00

Thought I was just a straight ally when I first found out about the different sexualities, until I met a few friends that weren't quite straight and started questioning myself. Went from straight to bisexual to asexual before finally realizing I'm a lesbian. It was during the "asexual-demisexual" phase that I realized I wasn't actually sex repulsed, I was just penis repulsed.

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