I had a sudden worry that I need to share...

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T00:39:01+00:00

Yeah, if we turn every masculine/ not womanly lady into a 'man' then... Welcome back to the 1950s!

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T19:22:13+00:00

Exactly. This is why the far left drives me crazy, because it's so contradictory. (In all honesty, I am sliding from middle-left to center left.) Refusing dick = violence? WTF, that is the craziest shit I've ever heard. Cutting them OFF would be violence, but... JFC! I am now tempted to get banned from r/Actuallesbians just to see what their response is to these contradictions.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T18:47:27+00:00

Oh no. No. Don't let her transition. She may be running from sexism and lack of acceptance. Send her to r/detrans to make sure she knows what she's getting into.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T07:14:09+00:00

This is just... SMH. I'm a lesbian. Shut up, weird person.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T23:29:32+00:00

I have dreamed of holding hands. It is the thing I want to do most. I never had any internal homophobia, but more worried about external responses.

I want to hold hands more than sex at this point. It's so sad, but true.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T20:45:04+00:00

I am on Ovarit and I will post this there as well. I am glad to know i'm not crazy. I just feel like i'm wearing a tin-foil hat all the damn time. And you might be right about the Tech Companies. To me, it seems like a cost-saver as well. TW don't need maternity leave and period sick-days. I am also wondering if females will only be able to go into 'female' jobs like teaching once this is all over. It worries me.

And I HAVE heard of TIM OBYGN. It's NASTY! Thankfully I haven't needed to go to a OBYGN. But, yeah. I honestly would rather have a MALE OBYGN than a TIM.

I wonder how long this will roll until women are like, "OMG! My job was taken and I can't raise a sex-discrimination case."

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T00:37:23+00:00

I totally understand. I do think people are allowed to have headcanons. But don't force it on other people! That should be fandom law.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-10T18:15:08+00:00

Rape, rape, rape!!!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T21:11:07+00:00

I agree. AE is awesome. The forum got a few drops of pollution leaking in, but otherwise, it's pretty damn awesome.

And lol about the porn. Yeah... I don't think straight men would like that as much.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T05:09:57+00:00

Wow. I loved listening to this.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-29T01:07:45+00:00

I guess we won't need actors anymore-amiright? I mean, who can play what is getting stupid. It's always been stupid. With the exception of race, but things that you can't see shouldn't matter.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-26T23:28:33+00:00

Ugh.... this is dehumanizing. Women don't WANT boobs. We HAVE them if we like it or not.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T18:09:18+00:00

This. 100% this. Sexism is somehow worse now than when I was a kid. And that wasn't too long ago.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T01:43:50+00:00

Well said!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T01:00:05+00:00

This Bs needs to stop. People make honest mistakes. This is why people who are Non-binary get a bad rep. Yes, I believe there ARE people who are that, but the numbers are much smaller than they are. Remember Prince talking about how he's not a man or a woman in his songs?

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T20:01:51+00:00

I don't see a problem with asking questions and allies are good to have in my opinion. Anyway, I have a thought on this. I never had Q used on me as an insult, but I learned it was a slur from reading coming out books and a 'so you're LGBT Harry" book. I still view it as rude and I don't like the common use of it. I have tried to make peace with it, but it's still unsettling to me, because it WAS a slur and used to hurt people. As for reclaiming, I still don't like people who use it reclaimed.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-10T19:51:14+00:00

This is disgusting!!! I want to hug that poor lady!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T17:18:21+00:00

Seneca!!! Cries in Ancient History

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-26T03:37:21+00:00

She's a woman now, so make her wash the dishes, do the laundry and see how long it lasts. No, seriously. Show your brother what it's really like to be z woman and I promise he will ditch it real quick.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T01:00:56+00:00

Nah, to tolerance camp mit das! /S

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T23:40:22+00:00

I am not in agreement with the far left or far right. I call myself, liberal, but not progressive. I think there should be more moderation on both sides to an extent.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-16T23:28:47+00:00

First, let me reassure you that it is NOT extreme to be a lesbian. Being monosexual is NOT wrong, nor is it hateful or bigoted. Your sexuality and lack of interest in biologically male bodies is perfectly okay. Would you call a straight man that doesn't want to suck a dick extreme?

THANK YOU! Because I know I'm not "'''hateful'''', but dating is a pain and I feel very annoyed with a friend is trans who calls herself a lesbian as well. T_T But anyway, Thank you for your words and lesbian-positive love. And no, I would call him reasonable. Anyway, I grew up in the middle-vanguard before Marriage Equality and I feel like everything went crazy after that.

And yes, I would never tell anyone why I won't want to date them. I like your vibe idea.

Thank you for these tips and it's good to know that if I put myself out there, I won't be on the market long. :) (Now I am excited!)

And wait, you make Macrons as well? I just decided to learn to make them a few weeks ago! What recipe did you use?

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-16T21:51:39+00:00

YEAH! Go Girl!

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T23:27:31+00:00

I love what you wrote. I don't think you're my generation, but I agree with what you say and yeah. Women aren't going to be hired over TIMs, which makes me sad. And ID politics in the workplace drive me crazy. Thankfully, I think I will be going into a more conservative profession.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T21:38:40+00:00

...eek. That is worrisome. Not to mention that Tran= sometimes a get out of jail freecard.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T19:58:40+00:00

Okay. I will do so tonight. XD I might get kicked off of Reddit, so I am debating if I want to make another account. But I kinda don't. I HAVE To do this. I will report back later.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T17:20:10+00:00

Yeah, I would be called a Terf no matter what, so I joined the 'darkside'. Because my sexual orientation is not a gender. Fuck them and everyone who changed the definition.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:20:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I want to support LGB groups, but I worry about my job if Trans Radicals find me somehow. My profession is small and everyone knows one another. But I will always be Lesbian. And yeah, I will attempt to stand up for myself and my fellows Lesbians. I am mad that the other day, I didn't correct someone for calling themselves a lesbian. :(

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T00:19:31+00:00

Thank you! I am glad to know this trick.

It really is, isn't it? I feel like I m crazy, because I'm on here on the 'lowdown' because I don't want people to get mad at me for being a ''''terf'''. but I don't want to date anyone who is a transwoman. Why is it viewed by some as '''wrong;''' to want to date ACTUAL WOMEN?!! The fucking world has gone crazy!

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-09T21:42:59+00:00

I agree. I might not agree with Right-leaning LGBs, but I respect them. It makes me sad how people 'hate' them. They are people, too.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T21:05:15+00:00

metoo did get overrun and that's why I am torn if I like it. It quickly felt like a witch-hunt occuring to anyone who ever did anything wrong. And You're right. No one would care about lesbians or gays. :(

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-20T20:04:08+00:00

Yeah, it's so depressing. I feel like a crazy person when all I want is a long-term monogamous relationship with a female. Shouldn't be too much to ask for, right?

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:15:15+00:00

Thanks. I will do what I can. I am Lesbian for life! And PROUD AS FUCK! Thank you all so much.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:47:07+00:00

YES. Delete the people porn.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:32:37+00:00

OMG, you are a beautiful person. Enjoy you're awesome ban.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-12T03:32:39+00:00

Okay, so before you remove this post, I didn't know where else to share. This story made me cry a bit and I wanted to share it. Because this man deserves so much love. I thought posting here so if you so wish, you can send some his way as well.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-06T18:24:14+00:00

Same. It makes me MAD that TRUMP of all people are the ones protecting sex-based rights. If TRUMP can get it, it makes me worried about how dumb the people are who don't.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T18:12:33+00:00

My best argument is, if sexuality is fluid, then conversion therapy should 'work'. (And hence many people would not be LGB).

But it doesn't work, so sexuality is not fluid.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T03:08:50+00:00

I understand and feel you. *Hugs"

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T02:44:26+00:00

Thank you. I am thankful I am not wrong nor am I crazy. I just worry I'm jumping on the bandwagon too quickly. But I never wanted to date TIMS. I will try to keep it on the low-down- even in my own house. And I will be careful to root out TIMs. Yeah, I also love to sing, so I'll be sure to ask them what kind of voice range they have. (There are no Female Tenors or basses!)

It has, honestly. I didn't view them as a cult and I know there are good Trans people, but I think things are getting out of hand. I get pissy when TIMS and others are messing with my dating! Grrr!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-16T22:46:07+00:00

Thank you so much! I worry, because I am also really bad at remembering faces and guessing ages. Thanks for these tips and yeah, I will ask for unfiltered photos.

It makes me mad and why I quit dating sites.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-27T18:00:06+00:00

I agree. I'm a sane anime fan and these trenders are annoying. Looking at the TV Tropes page linked above, I am having Envy Gender War flashbacks. I could argue that most of these characters are just unrealistically intersex or that some characters just like to crossdress. I get concerned with anime characters looking so young sometimes. I refuse to watch a lot of Slice of Life Highschool crap, because the characters look about 6. Ew.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-27T17:43:55+00:00

Me too! It's so awesome. Sad about the stupid thing with the mod being banned. But at least it's still there.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-26T16:46:05+00:00

Anyone got some popcorn?

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-12T18:13:08+00:00

Most likely Biden. Because he is an actual politician. Pence scares me. But not gonna lie, I am tempted to register no party. But on another note, if we equalize the T, then other laws might equally apply. Just because we still have laws against sex offenses and all. T isn't throwing those out. If they stop whining, it will get back to sane.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-04T01:48:28+00:00

I hate 2020. The year I found myself torn for a moment on WHO to vote for. I have decided I am not crazy about either party,. But I can't sit this election out.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-04T01:39:33+00:00

Yes, but just make sure it's its own state. So, you can make the laws. I would suggest making a house-party network for lesbians. Because of laws.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T18:26:03+00:00

...I was banned from R/Southpark? Otherwise, no other bans at the moment. I assume though that I'm banned from a LOT of other subs because I post on R/Detrans, AGBs and r/Centrist.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T00:54:28+00:00

I love collecting coins and trading cards.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T20:13:34+00:00

I totally agree. I cringe, too.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:42:03+00:00

Thank you! :)

PUSSY RIOT!!!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:21:24+00:00

I honestly hate 'Sapphic' as well and I don't like Sappho, because I think she was a creep. Greek or not. And I love Ancient History.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T01:58:42+00:00

I agree. I say https://ruqqus.com/ should be our next stop.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-16T22:56:12+00:00

Thank you! This is what I worry about. NOT knowing. Forming a trust and then BAM! Not a lady. :(

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:46:05+00:00

Make Viagra illegal, pass laws that criminalize male masturbation (every sperm is sacred!) and see what happens when the men return.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:41:29+00:00

I agree with you. Asexual is a thing and I don't like all the micro-labels, but I think just basic Aces (Model aside) belong. I mean, I laugh at Demisexual Pan Lesbians, too. But Asexual has SEX in the name and deals with sexual attraction.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:33:44+00:00

I want to know this too. It pisses me off that LGB are the only ones being targeted.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-20T20:40:36+00:00

Thanks and I honestly don't really date for fun. XD

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T17:13:40+00:00

Oh no! Ich bin cancelled!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T23:36:38+00:00

I don't know either. Valid is worse, I think.

I understand that about sexually. It isn't a line, but I think we need a better frame, because people don't think there seems to be one anymore. Lol.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T23:34:59+00:00

Wow. You said everything I wanted to say. I completely agree with this. Congratulations. You have achieved the highest award from me.

And yes, some guys are handsome. Like many of the new Star Wars cast. :)

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T21:45:56+00:00

Also, I figure you already know how to do this, but encrypt and password protect your documents. You can do this in Word/microsoft and Adobe.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:52:23+00:00

Thank You! (I feel so proud right now!)

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-29T06:43:03+00:00

Don't give a damn.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-26T03:39:53+00:00

Barf.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-22T17:38:46+00:00

I would say Asexual is part of LGB, because it's a sexuality (more like lack of) that differs from the norm. The oppression faced by Ace people from what I've learned is from the world's mass expectations of getting married, having kids. Sex is the most important human experience and if you don't like it you're 'weird. broken." So, I think Aces face a different kind of script than LGB, but both are hit by the "don't you want real love? What about kids? What will the neighbors think? You just haven't found the right man/woman. It's a phase." Script.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-10T23:45:38+00:00

That's true and it's a small problem. What we made an 'codename interest?" like something boring that everyone knew was a 'lesbian' thing? So, we can gather the newbies? Like a 'bug hunters society?'

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-10T19:41:19+00:00

No, no! We need to use: ▼

Because it's a call-back to our flag. :)

The one people 'hate'.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-05T06:39:38+00:00

Hugs

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T20:19:30+00:00

Do it. Just do it and #peaktrans a lot of other people.

LesbiSilly · 2020-09-03T19:58:56+00:00

Ugh... Such a pain.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T20:28:43+00:00

Well, then Talk to her asap.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-19T01:04:03+00:00

Thanks for the warning. I'm sorry people are bad. And yeah, I don't think we have any lesbian ANYTHING anymore. I'm not mad at the shops, but this makes me sad. :( Because I could have been more active and been in the community. But honestly, the crazies of all kind kept me away.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T16:56:16+00:00

Good job, Victor Victoria!

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-18T00:51:09+00:00

No idea, but I like my monogamy.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T21:02:21+00:00

You're super-welcome!

It does feel off and impolite. And of course I am happy to share. I appreciate people asking these kinds of questions.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T08:03:01+00:00

Thanks and good to know, I will claw anyone's eyes out if needed. Man or woman.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:39:15+00:00

Let's go to Venus. Lots of women there.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T04:16:11+00:00

I am glad there is NO bandwagon. I will trust myself.

Thanks! I have never tried any of the things I suggested, but they should help.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T03:58:50+00:00

I hate the term 'Queer', because it still SEEMS RUDE to me. And yeah, I wanted to distance myself from it up until literally YESTERDAY, because I was struggling with sexism and feeling 'lesser'. I also didn't want to be a LESBIAN in the past because... I don't know. I had good role models who were, but for some reason, I decided that Gay fit me. I think it was that I didn't like being a lady and lesbian meant lady.

I don't know why people respect people who use 'homosexual' more. I guess because it's a medical term and is more clear? (Somehow??)

I know! I think anyone on here who is on a dating app should use Lesbian or True Lesbian so we know they really are. Or something like that.

LesbiSilly · 2020-07-17T01:39:13+00:00

Smile??? Lol.

metoo did get overrun and that's why I am torn if I like it. It quickly felt like a witch-hunt occuring to anyone who ever did anything wrong. And You're right. No one would care about lesbians or gays. :(

LesbiSilly