Why is misogyny treated as something that doesn't exist, or at least if it does, isn't serious and can just be brushed off? I feel like so much of TRA ideology would fall flat if we as a society truly acknowledged the existence of misogyny, instead of making light of it and dismissing it over and over.
It's as if because we can have jobs now and have had the vote for 100 years, clearly we're 100% equal and any woman who even brings up misogyny is a "Karen." She isn't one of the cool girls anymore, she's a red faced, probably sexually unappealing feminazi.
Even at the age of 12 I knew boys who, once finding out about feminism, mocked it. Boys who later tried to dispute the gender wage gap whenever a feminist teacher tried to teach some feminism, and then used that as proof that women are not oppressed whatsoever. Boys who went on to bring up male rapes, male suicides, male custody rights whenever a feminist issue was discussed.
But what shocks me even more is when women pretend misogyny doesn't exist. Women who say they're not feminists and instead go "I'm an egalitarian" or "I don't think feminism is needed anymore." Misogyny that is so insidious, so all encompassing, that the very victims of it are the one's who most vehemently hold it up.
So what explains this phenomenon? Why is misogyny not as loaded a term a racism, homophobia, transphobia? Why are careers never over because a man is a misogynist, never mind because he's a rapist? Why do most people seem to have this huge blind spot when it comes to the world we live in?
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