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A person I loved dearly recently came out as trans and I don't know what to say to him. by saragini in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You should absolutely stop interacting with this person as much as possible, and tell your mother that he makes you feel uncomfortable. I don't know your relationship with her, but I personally would be concerned about a grown man, anyone really, doing these things around my children. His behavior is alarming and unacceptable, and his mental issues are no excuse for it especially if your mother also knows about it. Please keep yourself safe, do not go out with this man alone or with your sisters, as he is using you vicariously to get his fix. He may seem happier now, but this is the commonly observed honeymoon phase and sooner than later he will crave more attention and persue even more extreme behavior. If he chooses to dress the way he does, that is his business and he should not involve you and use you and your sisters as fuel for his 'euphoria.'

How do I learn to love trans people and the trans movement by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know they're you're close friends, but if they go out of their way to single you out for your views like this and make you feel bad, they must not care very much about you as a person. You don't have to accept their worldview just because they want you to, and you don't have to feel guilty about your views. You've never denied that nonbinary and trans people aren't worthy of human and civil rights, right (most of us don't, but that fact seems to have short legs)? Maybe just set some boundaries about what you will and won't talk about these friends with.

Chris Chan inadvertently exposes why Transgender Ideology is flawed (Internet Person, Christian Weston Chandler) by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The video essayist started calling Chris by female pronouns in the newest episode. Shame to see even someone trying to shed light on the issues Chris faces play into his delusion.

Had a man tell me feminism will fail because it doesn't include men, and it's "divisive." by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like he just wants to live by his own definitions regardless of reality. You'd be a lot happier without him, I wager.

Gendercriticalsociety is gone (to no ones surprise) by MadLass in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can they put some of this energy into some f the porn/rape subs on there? I know they won't, but imagine!

What is it about Valerie Solanas that feminists love so much? I don't understand it. She nearly killed a Andy Warhol. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Something tells me you're asking this is bad faith. Good on you for seeing yourself out.

Reddit really is full of pedos. A young age of consent is nothing to be proud of. by Number5IsAlive in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ew. Nothing will ever gross me out more than men who defend pedophiles. A man who rapes a 14 year old is not some poor misunderstood soul.

Just so you know, there's a new sub on Reddit called r/gendercriticalsociety by please_help in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Doesn't aound like feminism at all, honestly. Sounds like a debate sub.

Losing respect for content creators who support the trans narrative by Depressed in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Predators know their prey.

What are the true definitions of male and female that do not exclude people that have removed all of their genitals and/or can't produce sperm or egg? And why doesn't sex change when secondary sexual characteristics change? by EverydayIsSad in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Say you have a poodle, but you have ita fur styled to look like a Rotweiler. Do you have a poodle or a Rotweiler now?

Losing respect for content creators who support the trans narrative by Depressed in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yes. The sheer willful ignorance and malice in their denouncement of women is a real turnoff, particularly when many of them are women themselves, but we still want to consume their content because many of them are truly talentd and entertaining. It's difficult trying to deal with that cognative dissonance sometimes.

Why do so many women deny the existence of misogyny? by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it really is just too painful for many libfems to accept, as has been said by others before. They don't want to accept that many of their male compatriots and those that they encounter every day might be part of thd problem, so they lash out at radical and gender critial feminists for daring to point it out.

Debra Soh: Science doesn't back up 'Gender is a social construct' by Skipdip in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't buy into her argument, personally. This seems like it was made to confuse.

Most people are sane by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 58 insightful - 2 fun58 insightful - 1 fun59 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

People are getting very tired of kowtowing to a very small fraction of the poulation who hate them no matter what they do. Support for the LGB community has gone down all because of the T, and people are starting to realize yhat there is a difference between sexual minorities like lesbians and gay men and men who have a crossdressing and/or misogyny fetish.

The Democratic National Convention on Tuesday featured a panelist who identifies as a “nonbinary/gender transcendent mermaid Queen-King” by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, the best thing these folks can do is trot out their stuff and peak people en masse. They ask for a lot more than their initial pitch suggests, and most people in real life hold at least slightly gc views.

We should also write Kamala Harris and Biden, of course. We aren't asking for anything besides obvious logic.

Missing r/GenderCritical? Join us on Ovarit, the radfem-run new home for Reddit refugees! PM me for an invite code! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aah hope I can get an invite someday! Thank all your glorious women for your hard work

Am I the only one who *kind of* believes in transsexualism as a valid thing? by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 51 insightful - 2 fun51 insightful - 1 fun52 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No, men cannot become women, and transwomen do not belong in women only spaces. There are no genders, there are two sexes that humans can be. A man with plastic surgery and a surgically created wound is noy the same as a woman. They should be treated with respect and compassion, but they are not women and they do not share in or care about womens' struggles. We do not have the same struggles. The terms 'neo-female/male' are insidious and inaccurate.

I thought you were going to make a point about old school transsexualism, not this nonsense.

Really, all this is very elaborate and just makes me wonder what your answer is for the distinct lack of historical or contemporary examples of TIMs standing up for the rights of women, if they supposedly 'are women.'

Misgender someone? Expect you'll be put in the same basket with this Trump advocate by WrongToy in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope she realizes she's defending the man who legitimized the very discourse that snapped back on her. Open your eyes, Ellis!

Emma Watson's advice for feminists: "If you want to run for Prime Minister, you can. If you don’t, that’s wonderful, too. Shave your armpits, don’t shave them...We want to empower women to do exactly what they want." - Emma Watson. Yep. "She" could always do these before, "she" could do it again. by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We shouldn't pretend Watson herself is out ally in any way, either. The awfulness she endured is inexusable, but you'll find that the women here are more readily able to comprehend that.

Watson IS rich and famous with a large fanbase and the things that she says have consequences. We can respect women without pretending they are in any way helping us.

Apparently TIMs never have male privilege even if they come out very late in life..... by bradjohnsonishere2 in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your friend thinks that she'll be one of the 'good ones,' blissfully unaware that she's on borrowed time and will sooner or later be on the recieving end of abuse from a 'poor, downtrodden' TIM. Then she'll care! Other women don't interest her.

LBGDropTheT crosspost: Disturbing misogynoir among trans women and their allies by marmorsymphata in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ding ding ding ding ding 🕭

Trans women pose no threat to cis women, but we pose a threat to them if we make them outcasts: UTTER BULLSHIT. by GConly in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, they want in on the insults they sling so they can claim to be victims when we're the ones being marginalized. Same playbook, slightly different targets.

In blatant display of misogyny, mod of /r/blatantmisogyny says you must be pro-trans, pro-sex work and pro-kink or else you are a misogynist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Trans-lation: "Thank you, mods, for shielding my fragile ego from the judgements of those whose identity I seek fot myself!"

Trans women pose no threat to cis women, but we pose a threat to them if we make them outcasts: UTTER BULLSHIT. by GConly in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's how they lump us all together, don't you know? Straights retain their sole identity, but now everyone else is 'queer.' No more lesbians or gay men, only queer people. Not erasure or playing into some kind of inherent prejuidice against us all at all. Nope.

Trans women pose no threat to cis women, but we pose a threat to them if we make them outcasts: UTTER BULLSHIT. by GConly in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Men sure love to lie, don't they?

In blatant display of misogyny, mod of /r/blatantmisogyny says you must be pro-trans, pro-sex work and pro-kink or else you are a misogynist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think what 'woke' people don't understand is that the word 'prostitute' is not a value judgement against the person(s) being prostituted, but rather calling out those who are exploiting them. Technically, 'sex worker' as a term applies to pimps and other exploiters, and that's a feature, not a bug.

Transmalesplaining Womanhood by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

You're a man who hates women and GNC people and think you do them better than they do, Robert. No matter how much you try to dress it up, that's what it comes down to. Your opinions about womanhood are inherently flawed.

In blatant display of misogyny, mod of /r/blatantmisogyny says you must be pro-trans, pro-sex work and pro-kink or else you are a misogynist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 89 insightful - 2 fun89 insightful - 1 fun90 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Only the RIGHT KIND of woman allowed, thanks!" Reddit is a place for men, and the women who willingly submit to men.

Am I the only one who hates 'sex work/er?' It's sanitizing the whole idea of exploitation and erasing anyone who is forced into it and lumps the abusers in with the victims.

Japanese model told to “talk it out” with stalker who came to her door by police by radmoon in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Japanese culture hates women so much it's unreal.

r/blatantmisogyny guilty of misogyny by using the terms "TERFS" and "SWERFS" by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The libfems on Reddit are being misogynist?!?! I am shocked, SHOCKED I say!!!! Also funny how they act like they didn't force us onto out own sites. Maybe start talking about the men instead of us, you stalkers! Oh, wait, that might make the TIMs mad, never mind /s

What will it take for people to peak... by joy1090 in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's tragic. Who knows what these young people could have grown up to be instead of being folded into this cult?

So apparently, using sites like WomenAreHuman and This Never Happens to show how the Trans ideology is harming Women is "Cherry-picking" by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

He is a man, his opinion is invalid, full stop.

If trans people were honest with their intentions, he wouldn't be able to claim that.

As an autistic lesbian, this had me speechless by hologram in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

One thing I notice about trans people is that they seem to consider themselves the only authority on any given subject. Narcissim is a powerful drug.

Convicted murderer calls himself a 'TERF hunter' by tarun in GenderCritical

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Many countries think human monsters deserve everything over their victims, particularly women. See Alieen Wuronos who was put to death versus Charles Manson who died of old age in prison.

you people have learned nothing. by billyhaze in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And what are YOU acting like? No one asked for your opinion.

If "gender" ("femininity" and "masculinity") is biological because of sexual dimorphism, then why are we fighting against "gender" when things like having muscles are biologically "masculine" and things like being short are biologically "feminine"? by Nohope in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This means boys that have high pitched voices and are not tall either are less male or look like girls because they have biologically "feminine" qualities and this means girls that are a bit taller than other girls, are not nurturing, are not beautiful, etc, either are less female or look like boys because they have biologically "masculine" qualities.

If "gender" ("femininity" and "masculinity") is biological then why are we fighting against "gender"?

¿¿¿¿¿????? Sexual dimorphism isn't gender and you make no sense. Please to the exit, thank you!

How isn’t it women or certain men who are the true rulers of society? by TamerlaneClubberLang in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Women control the sex" haha

I'm sure he's just a troll, but I bet he actually buys into all that garbage.

Report this petition, started by "Amy' Petrelli the psychotic TIM. He's trying to get Google to change the definition of the word "woman". PLEASE REPORT. by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

How stupid, as if Google already isn't wildlly anti-woman.

How isn’t it women or certain men who are the true rulers of society? by TamerlaneClubberLang in GenderCritical

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No one understands what you're saying, my dude.

Sick of male interpretation of media.. especially feminist analysis [Midsommar spoilers/discussion] by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wouldn't say Midsommar is exactly feminist, myself, but it is a great psychological thriller/horror movie and also has very strong things to say about the human capacities for cruelty and hope.

I would feel more forgiving towards TIMs if they actually fought for women’s’ issues – free and safe abortion for all, equal pay for equal work, guaranteed paid maternal leave, justice for victims of assault/rape, as a few examples – but since their gender identity is an “expression of who they are” by veruscka8 in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's almost a requisite! The polite, levelheaded conversations are the outliers.

Daniel Radcliffe fans giving him credit for writing Harry Potter is erasing a woman's voice yet again. Facts don't matter to this crowd! by Greykittymomma in GenderCritical

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Men can handle any flaw in other men, but women must be punished for any and all real and percieved transgressions.

I would feel more forgiving towards TIMs if they actually fought for women’s’ issues – free and safe abortion for all, equal pay for equal work, guaranteed paid maternal leave, justice for victims of assault/rape, as a few examples – but since their gender identity is an “expression of who they are” by veruscka8 in GenderCritical

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If you ever try to bring this up to a TRA, they either ignore you or claim that akshuallee TWAW and they started the sufferagette movement, all feminism, and human life itself. These people aren't capable or willing to help us.

Now the term "Transition" is transphobic too. You just can't make this shit up. by CommanderGlasses in GenderCritical

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Exhaustion and alienation cause more peaking every day!

The creepy GenderCynical dudes are on saidit now... by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I know that one title in single quotes is sarcastic, but that's actually what they think. They want us to give in and let them tell us what we think and then they'll maybe lay off hating us QUITE as loudly, but not really because nothing any woman does ia ever good enough.

The trans community is missing the point. We don't hate them. We would absolutely be on their side if they would be rational and respect us by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And god help you if you're a detransitioner. Anyone who doesn't tow their line is a dirty transphobe and can be safely tossed under the bus.

The trans community is missing the point. We don't hate them. We would absolutely be on their side if they would be rational and respect us by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The sad thing is the trans people that agree with us are also considered 'evil' by the TRAs.

Fan artist whose entire corpus is built around Rowling's work releases comic depicting her as an annoying hag who gets "what's coming to her", ie assault and it's supposedly funny (translation in comments) by bellatrixbells in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

But trans people are the victims here, guys. JKR is a nasty, horrid transphobe. /s

r/actuallesbians are super paranoid right now about making sure "No terfs get in here." It's kind of funny by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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'Coolness' from men means 'does what I want and nothing else.' I'd rather be a TERF than have some dudebros think I'm an easy target because I crave their approval. I hope they all wake up to this sooner than later.

TiM switches to "boymode" to access male privilege. Cause you know, they're just sooo much more oppressed than actual women are. I wish I could opt out of womanhood whenever some sexist douche discriminated against me! by _UngodlyFruit_ in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine thinking you hired a relatively normal guy for a position just to get called transphobic by him right after you hire him.

r/actuallesbians are super paranoid right now about making sure "No terfs get in here." It's kind of funny by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Plenty of 'I'm not like other girls' out there desperate to signal how 'cool and woke' they are by bashing on other women.

The world will inevitably say NO. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Trans people expect everyone else to kowtow to them because they've styled themselves as the most oppressedest in all human history, superceding actual reality and twisting it to fit a false narrative that places them at the center and forefront of all fights for womens' and gay rights, even though they do nothing but colonize and censor. They burn through all goodwill towards them and end up peaking anyone who realizes they don't like being treated like dog crap on the bottom of a TRA's shoe. They're going to end their own movement with their behavior.

They just keep getting more and more honest. by AntiPorn in GenderCritical

[–]marmalade 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think they mean those binural beat videos on youtube?

hide your uterus ladies, men your testies are 100% safe by Eurowoman24 in GenderCritical

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You know, if you use the precious 'logic' they try using against us, this coumts as 'Karen' behavior from them.

(Any opinions on 'Darren?' I heard it the other day, but it seems nowhere nearly as widely used.)

If you're a lesbian and refuse to sleep with men. There is something very wrong with you. by AntiPorn in GenderCritical

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These brave men should show their support for their trans 'sisters' by dating them instead of expecting lesbians to!

Fell Down The Twitter Shit Hole Again by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Homophobia in action!!

They just keep getting more and more honest. by AntiPorn in GenderCritical

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This kind of thing pops into my head whenever I hear libfem youtubers in fashion subcultures complain about 'sissies' in the same breath as admonishing 'TERFs.' You can't really tell anyone there's a difference when they tell on themselves like this.

TRA playbook, infiltrate and replace, sue, deplatform by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I mean, this IS classic colonizer behavior. Very male.

No Agenda here...nothing to see...move along by joeytundra in GenderCritical

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So being female or homosexual is offensive now, got it!

Is there a dictionary that hasn't gone insane with socially encouraged misogyny?

Trans activists are obsessed with hounding JK Rowling by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Funny how men, even if they're 'TERFy' as all get out, get more repsect on average from TRAs. Wonder why....

Radical feminism is failing because it’s too racist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Be wary of various incompaitble sorts trying to establish thenselves here as we rebuild. We don't need to waste our energy on those who only seek to derail us.

Question about "We resist efforts to limit women's reproductive autonomy" by NDG in GenderCritical

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So if you see the pain and suffering caused every day, why would you want to limit access to contreceptives? Why must your religious beliefs affect my life and the lives of others? If you want us to say "right on, sister! Overturn Roe!", I'm afraid the majority of us do not agree.