Will Kate McKinnon peak or transition?

sootsprite · 2021-04-25T00:14:46+00:00

Yes, they forgive other trans males for things like domestic abuse, rape and pedophilia all the time actually.

sootsprite · 2021-03-28T05:01:34+00:00

Is it voice chat?

sootsprite · 2020-12-23T21:42:42+00:00

Nah, Reddit is a lost cause. It's better to migrate elsewhere

sootsprite · 2020-12-15T00:29:31+00:00

I liked the Fingersmith mini series

sootsprite · 2020-12-15T00:28:29+00:00

Ryan Murphy honestly needs to stop

yES thank you.

sootsprite · 2020-12-01T18:40:48+00:00

Pathetic.

sootsprite · 2020-11-17T06:43:11+00:00

Guys already think that, though this "bi lesbian" nonsense certainly isn't helping

sootsprite · 2020-11-16T11:47:58+00:00

I'm surprised at how much pushback there is in that thread. I've peeked at the sub before, though this was months ago, and other "i'm ftm pls validate" posts usually got coddled. But this is a nice surprise!

sootsprite · 2020-11-05T23:47:25+00:00

Personally I'd love to hang out on Ovarit, because it's a website controlled by radfem women, but the interface leaves a lot to be desired. Hopefully they'll improve on it though.

sootsprite · 2020-10-11T09:37:50+00:00

I guess we all do weird stuff when we're kids

sootsprite · 2020-10-10T13:29:22+00:00

Why did you steal books from a LIBRARY?

sootsprite · 2020-10-05T13:45:04+00:00

I get where you're coming from. I look back at my childhood self and I think it's a miracle that I wasn't bullied (teased, definitely, but not seriously tormented) in kindergarten or middle school, as another "greasy little gremlin" who would have been a prime bully victim in many cases.

sootsprite · 2020-10-03T14:38:30+00:00

Good point!

sootsprite · 2020-10-01T13:46:10+00:00

I would absolutely recommend meeting in a public place first to make sure they are who they say they are, and not some psycho. If she's a rational human being she'll understand why you'd want this.

sootsprite · 2020-10-01T13:44:11+00:00

I usually don't like the way mainstream perfumes smell, and they tend to give me a headache, but I own some indie scents I really like. I prefer foody and fruity scents, both on myself and other women. I hate cologne and "masculine" smells.

sootsprite · 2020-09-30T16:19:45+00:00

Is she a lesbian though, or a straight girl larping as a gay guy?

sootsprite · 2020-09-29T11:10:07+00:00

she says she’s still only ever been attracted to men but she’s open-minded.

I think this is part of the problem. I had a friend who suddenly decided she was bisexual (after I came out to her as a lesbian) which shocked me, because she usually seemed disgusted by women's bodies. I asked her if she had ever been attracted to a girl and she said she never had, but it might happen sometime in the future.

sootsprite · 2020-09-28T18:57:18+00:00

I feel like those are very valid reasons to doubt someone's a lesbian.

sootsprite · 2020-09-21T10:52:38+00:00

Something I really hate is that every time you see a male and a female character fight and act horribly towards each other in media it's meant to be "sexual tension" and they usually end up hooking up. I HATE it.

sootsprite · 2020-09-18T03:38:43+00:00

"She said something funny and it made me flannel"

sootsprite · 2020-09-17T17:14:32+00:00

That's a weird take. What would be the lesbian equivalent?

sootsprite · 2020-09-17T17:13:15+00:00

She looks kinda cute

sootsprite · 2020-09-17T17:11:59+00:00

Snuggling up under a thick duvet in my cold room and reading books in the dark, especially spooky books

sootsprite · 2020-09-17T17:06:14+00:00

Unfortunately I'm not surprised that there are gay men who think like that

sootsprite · 2020-09-17T15:07:58+00:00

Same here!!!!! It's always been my dream to attend Hogwarts, and I had no idea this was coming! Haven't been this excited for a game in a long while

sootsprite · 2020-09-15T05:00:12+00:00

lesbianstryd*ck

Of course subs like that is allowed on Reddit, but truelesbians was banned. I'm so tired

On the topic of "gold stars", I think it's fine to be proud of never giving into the pressure of sleeping with men when you don't want to, and I think it's good for other lesbians (especially younger) to see that and realize it's ok to not "try" sex with men before you can call yourself a lesbian.

sootsprite · 2020-09-04T11:21:03+00:00

The most frustrating thing is that many of them refuse to stop calling themselves lesbians even as they're actually dating men, and they actively push that very narrative by claiming that their man is "special" and the "one exception"

sootsprite · 2020-09-04T11:15:12+00:00

Why a teen son specifically?

sootsprite · 2020-09-03T20:24:47+00:00

Harry Styles is genuinely so unattractive though. He always looks greasy.

sootsprite · 2020-09-03T20:16:38+00:00

I totally agree with your first paragraph. If people claim to be a-ok with gays then they shouldn't make it a huge deal.

sootsprite · 2020-09-03T20:09:23+00:00

I don't particularly like being around children and I don't want to have any, ever. I've always hated the thought of being pregnant and giving birth, but it's not the biggest reason. I just hate the thought of being responsible for another person in that way. I want to live my life for myself, at least in first hand. I agree that being a lesbian is a perk in the that regard!

sootsprite · 2020-09-03T20:05:22+00:00

At least you're self-aware. I definitely think that accepting that your child may grow up to be different from how you are, or how you'd like them to be, is part of being a good parent.

sootsprite · 2020-08-30T18:41:29+00:00

Please don’t tell me bisexual women are jumping on the crazy train with the TRAS?

Girl, they've been riding together for a long time now

sootsprite · 2020-08-27T20:09:31+00:00

I like both small breasts and small asses. Bigger isn't necessarily better.

sootsprite · 2020-08-27T20:08:43+00:00

If there are only romantic poems about women and none about men, there is nothing wrong with assuming attraction to women and none to men until something shows up that indicates otherwise. If it was the other way around she wouldn't be assumed to be bisexual.

sootsprite · 2020-08-27T20:04:13+00:00

Very few of her poems survive and she might have wrote passionate poems about men as well

Imagine applying this logic to straight historical figures. "Yes all of the writings from him only indicate sexual attraction to women, BUT he MAY still have written sexy poems about other men that have never been discovered, so let's assume he's bisexual!!!"

sootsprite · 2020-08-26T13:21:12+00:00

Same, I'd rather they were honest about it and avoided calling themselves gay/lesbian

sootsprite · 2020-08-26T13:20:02+00:00

There are definitely women who seem to revolve their lives around pleasing men, but saying that straight/bi women as a group "worship dick" is quite demeaning

sootsprite · 2020-08-24T16:15:45+00:00

Do strangers really just randomly strike up a conversation in coffee shops? That seems so odd to me

sootsprite · 2020-08-18T18:55:59+00:00

Not a big fan of how it's essentially a disembodied torso with a sheet over the head. Almost makes me feel like I'm looking at a corpse.

sootsprite · 2020-08-16T21:25:08+00:00

I'm a dirty casual, so The Sims 4

sootsprite · 2020-08-16T18:02:16+00:00

Hadn't heard there was gonna be a second season, that's awesome!

sootsprite · 2020-08-14T21:56:33+00:00

I'm overweight and I don't think you're evil or an asshole. You can't force physical attraction, though from your comments about your sex life it seems like you've never been that physically attracted to her? I think you owe it to your fiancée to be honest about what you're feeling before you marry her, and then it's up to her what she wants to do. You both deserve to have significant others who you feel attracted to and who feel attracted to you, but sadly it might not be each other. Ideally you might be able to still be friends if you break up, but of course I don't know if that will be possible.

sootsprite · 2020-08-13T23:26:19+00:00

I guess things I'd talk about with a partner and not a friend are things related to intimacy. Unless we're in a relationship they don't need to know about any preferences I have, and things like that.

sootsprite · 2020-08-05T18:49:30+00:00

I don't go to any other sub on Saidit, and as long as users from other subs don't come here to troll us I don't really care what they do on their platforms.

sootsprite · 2020-08-05T18:48:12+00:00

They're always gonna paint us as nazis or whatever else they want to make up about us regardless of where we are.

sootsprite · 2020-08-03T22:47:42+00:00

Thanks for the link :D

sootsprite · 2020-08-03T13:34:02+00:00

I also really want to watch Rafiki :(

The first film that sprung to mind was lesbian thai movie Yes or No, which is quite cute and a feel good movie. One of the leads is a butch girl (called "toms" in Thailand) and a lesbian in real life as well, I'm pretty sure

For those who are interested in a male gay thai series there is SOTUS, which is also a cute and easy watch. All the eps are on youtube.

sootsprite · 2020-08-03T13:20:04+00:00

Once "women with exceptions" understand that wanting to have it both ways actually hurt real lesbians, they are fine calling themselves just bisexuals

Unfortunately quite a few dig their heels in and insist that they're still lesbians, even as they're actively dating men

sootsprite · 2020-07-30T12:16:59+00:00

Idk, Canada seems to bend over backwards for trans people. Would they really dare to call a stunning and brave transwoman a "father"?

sootsprite · 2020-07-27T16:53:56+00:00

If he brings it up again I think you need to be firm and tell your dad that you don't want to hear any talk from him about you having sex with men. He should respect that this makes you uncomfortable, and that it's entirely up to you IF and how you choose to have a child.

sootsprite · 2020-07-27T16:52:09+00:00

Absolutely agree with this. No one owes ANYONE a baby.

sootsprite · 2020-07-27T16:50:45+00:00

I don't think you're expecting too much. I don't really understand her mindset of wanting to keep doing it when she knows it's making you feel hurt and upset. Unfortunately you may not be compatible.

sootsprite · 2020-07-26T09:24:06+00:00

Sorry I saw it posted on tumblr and I don't have it saved, but it was someone recording her at a performance

sootsprite · 2020-07-25T07:57:49+00:00

Unpopular opinion, but I like the pink striped one. I just like the way it looks. I like the message behind the labrys one, but I think it's very ugly from an aesthetic standpoint.

sootsprite · 2020-07-25T07:53:58+00:00

My appreciation for Hayley Kiyoko grew when I saw a clip of her on stage bringing up the rumor of her being bisexual rather than gay, and she shut that shit down. Unapologetic lesbians are best lesbians

sootsprite · 2020-07-24T04:18:35+00:00

I don't think anyone here minds if a bi girl wants to have a mff threesome, they just think they shouldn't harass lesbians about it since they're generally not interested in any sexual activity involving a boyfriend

sootsprite · 2020-07-23T23:31:24+00:00

That sounds pretty awful, for both you and your partners

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