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[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I’m not a homophobe so I don’t accept it.

Seems more than a little on the nose to suggest that a lesbian has a male brain or a gay man has a female brain. The thing about homosexuality is you can’t reasonably assume they’re really heterosexuals gone wrong somehow. Like, a hetero “spirit” in the wrong body. Ew. Asking for homophobic studies makes me wonder if you’re coming from a homophobic place here.

Are you suggesting that the idea you’re presenting has any sort of validity?

[–]CuteAsDuck[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm not saying the studies are right or wrong at all, I just presented the studies, and the ideas that come with them so I can spark a discussion about them. If they are wrong, I'd be interested in studies that provide evidence to the contrary (because I realize they sound homophobic).

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’d say that a similarity in brain structure between sexes have nothing to do with sex as it’s understood by everyone except qt and that any connection is one that is forced by a heteronormative bias.

The brain does not determine sex. A male brain is one in a male body. Lesbians have female brains because they are female. Their attraction to women is not a masculine trait and masculinity has absolutely nothing to do with lesbian sexuality.

[–]MarkTwainiac 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Are there any studies that show lesbians aren't male brains in female bodies, and gay men aren't female brains in male bodies?

I meant to say this before: OP, I don't think you understand how scientific research & debates work. It's up to the person proposing a wild hypothesis to provide evidence & arguments backing it up. Asking people to disprove the homophobic, made-up, offensive contention you have put forward is akin to saying, "I've heard people claim the moon is made of Swiss cheese. Are there any studies that show it isn't?"

[–]ColoredTwiceIntersex female, medical malpractice victim, lesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Scientific analysis and scientific method are based on skepticism, experimental proving and empirical accordance to proposed hypothesis.

Even most basic laws of physics are tested and being perceived skeptically thousand times every year - in tries to find any flaws or something that was not yet taken into account by them.

It's up to the person proposing a wild hypothesis to provide evidence & arguments backing it up.

It is basic rule of Hitchens's razor - burden of proof is lies on a person who is claiming something that is challenging established status quo. And if they fail to prove their position or provide any reliable evidence - their position should be dismissed until such proofs are provided.

And in general - The Russell's Teapot argument and thought experiment are exactly about this.

Interesting that religious philosopher's critique of Russell's Teapot is very similar to critique of biology by gender activists.

Russell said that if God made anything that changed objective reality - then burden of proof is lies on person who is claiming that God is objective reality.

And all his critique was based either on "God as idea" and on "subjective perception of individual" or their "feelings and beliefs" - in other words not challenging what Russell said at all.

And similar situation we see in Emma's or Collin's threads when they are discussing biology with gender activists - they are providing facts, statistics, researches, but receiving in answer talks about subjective perception or feelings.

[–]BiologyIsReal 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A female brain trapped in a male body, or viceversa, makes no sense. Your brain is a part of your body. Having an atypical brain doesn't make you the opposite sex.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

There are articles on brains of lesbians being similar in structure to the brains of men and brains of gay men being similar in structure to the brains of women

Does that mean that transbians have male brains?

[–]VioletRemihomosexual female (aka - lesbian) 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Good one!

[–]CuteAsDuck[S] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

... That's a good question. They think trans women have female brains, and lesbians have male brains. The conclusion is transbians have male brains and because they define a man as someone with a male brain it means transbians are men. They just debunked themselves? 🤔

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is just ignorant homophobia. There’s no such thing as a man in a woman’s body or a woman in a man’s body.

[–]kwallio 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Let me first say that I am an atheist, I do not believe in God (or gods) and I don't believe in souls. The mind and by extension conciousness is, in my view, an embodied phenomenon that does not exist outside our bodies. In that sense, there is no way someone could have the wrong body. Or that there could be a "male brain" in a female body or vice versa. A brain in a female body is a female brain. A brain in a male body is a male brain. To me any talk of a female brain in a male body or vice versa is just some sort of coping mechanism by people who are intensely unhappy with themselves.

Brain studies on male vs female brains overwhelmingly show there are very few differences between them other than male brains are slightly larger. Any studies that show different are likely to be based on cherrypicke data like many (if not most) studies based on fMRI. In my view any study that relies solely on fMRI is suspect because many of these studies are not falsifiable or reproducible.

I find science is this area to be kind sus in general because people have been trying for literally decades to show that female brains and male brains are different in order to justify misogyny, or that homosexual brains are something or other in order to justify homophobia. The brain is highly plastic and I doubt that there is anything that people could find that explains either homosexuality or transness with any degree of rigor. If fMRI science was actually valid people would be using it as a diagnostic tool in psychiatry but they don't.

The idea that lesbians have a more "male brain" and that gay men have a more "female" brain is super homophobic. I mean first you'd have to figure out what a male brain a female brain looks like and I doubt anyone has actually figured that out.

BTW I'm getting super tired of the QT "prove me wrong" post. NO U, you prove that YOU are right. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. You can't just claim a bunch of crap that has 0 credible evidence and then go around yelling PROVE ME WRONG PROVE ME WRONG and then claim victory when no one takes you very seriously.

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Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.

Yes. Or at least evidence less than thirteen years out-of-date. Neuroscience moves fast. 2008 may as well be 1980.

[–]censorshipment 8 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

This is pure homophobia. Female homosexuals and male homosexuals aren't heterosexual people trapped in the wrong bodies, although many of us have felt or feel that way because of heteronormativity. Being a sexual minority can be isolating in real life, and wanting to change your body to fit in can seem like the only solution to date the sex you're attracted to. But that's absurdly homophobic.

Edit to add: in the late 90s during my teens, I tried to pass as a straight dude online. Women clocked me because I was too respectful. I was literally told "a real man would've told me to suck his dick by now" in an AOL private chat. That's when I started emulating straight men by being uncensored/unfiltered/vulgar/explicit. And hypermasculine/misogynistic since I'm black, and black women expect black men to be disrespectful towards them.

Lesbians and straight men are different... straight women can only be catfished by lesbians if the straight women are expecting men they're chatting with to talk like a woman.

[–]SilverSlippers 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well for one there is no such thing as "male" and "female" brains. Sure there are brain differences that are more common in one sex or the other, but this doesn't make them male or female brains.

Human males are typically taller than women. Does this mean a 5' 2" man has "female" legs? Does this make a 6' 1" woman part male?

[–]anxietyaccount8 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

gay men are women/female brains in men's bodies

There are gay men who are totally masculine. I think the people who believe this think that all LGBT people are very GNC. Not always...

Also: "lesbians have male spirits", I mean it doesn't get sillier than this. An image of two women kissing each other is super manly, definitely.

Another reason that GCs don't like to say that, is that GC ideology came from radical feminism. We care about men and women, not "masculinity" and "femininity". What good does it do, for feminism, to say that masculine men and masculine women have more things in common than feminine women and masculine women? We promote female solidarity. I know that I personally have much more in common with a radfem (or any woman!) of ANY orientation than some random gay dude.

[–]MarkTwainiac 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There are gay men who are totally masculine. I think the people who believe this think that all LGBT people are very GNC. Not always...

Many gay men are ultra masculine, super macho. In the West, gay culture has traditionally tolerated & made room for males who are not masculine, but it has always centered & most idealized and celebrated men who love being men in men's bodies who love other men in men's bodies: https://youtu.be/YZ1glxX1BiQ https://youtu.be/CS9OO0S5w2k

The majority of gay men fall in the middle of the masculinity-femininity scale. They are neither super macho nor "effeminate." They come across as bog standard or "ordinary" blokes with unremarkable "presentation" & affect. Like TV anchors Anderson Cooper & Don Lemon, Pete Buttigieg, etc. Or Johnny Mathis & Richard Chamberlain back in the 1950s & 60s: https://youtu.be/ES6J8XUIq_4 https://youtu.be/vO4Qt-V4D8Y

[–]MarkTwainiac 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like it’s a really, really homophobic argument. Most lesbians and gay men are well-adjusted and don’t experience dysphoria. It also tries to explain away same-sex attraction in a heteronormative way. I do feel like some small amount of lesbians and gays are transsexuals. It’s why the trans stuff was associate with gay rights to begin with. But most gays and lesbians aren’t like that and it’s just another homophobic trope to say that they are really women or really men.

Also, it doesn’t explain much about trans people either because most trans people aren’t exclusively same-sex attracted and wouldn’t have this brain difference. How are so many people without that also trans?

[–]emptiedriver 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

who later shows love to this other woman, and the viewers' reaction to this drama in the comments was often that lesbians are men (trapped) in women's bodies so the drama accurately portrays lesbians.

If this were true of all lesbians, wouldn't they all be men, and so not be attracted to one another but only to straight women? I don't think this logically works, even if you leave aside the homophobic issues.

And beyond that you have to begin from some pretty unfounded spiritual assumptions, which is fine for your personal beliefs but not reasonable when making a scientific argument. Asking someone to prove why trans men or lesbians aren't "male souls trapped in female bodies" is a useless premise for a debate when you haven't shown that there could be any such thing as a "male soul" to begin with. Answer what you mean by a soul, how does it exist, how is it male, how does it inhabit a female body, and then maybe we can talk about if your theory makes sense. Just using a word and hoping it sort of fills in the blanks through vague metaphors is not science.

It's even more complicated for a "male brain" since that is something that you don't even imagine to exist separately from the body. So why should we consider it to have a sex distinct from the body it spends its entire life as a component of? It's the brain of the body it belongs to, so to say it has a different sex there needs to be a way to explain the way a brain has a reproductive system...

[–]Penultimate_Penance 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is making a lot of assumptions.

First of all what is a 'male brain'. What is a 'female brain'? We need to sort that out before we can judge if there is evidence of a male or female brain existing in an opposite sex body. For now we know that we are a sexually dimorphic species with brain structure that is heavily influenced by life experience and other environmental factors.

Sexism has led to a lot of bullshit science. I'm very weary of this entire concept until more evidence is gathered.

[–]Penultimate_Penance 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Adding to this as well. Taxi drivers have different brains. If a woman has a brain that is more similar to the average man's it makes more to sense to believe that that means women have a broad range of what their brains can be, not that her brain must be 'male'.

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I really hope I'm not overstepping my bounds here since I'm trans and obviously have some views that don't totally conform to being GC (maybe), but I would consider myself as such anyways. If I am disrespecting the rules, beliefs and people here, I sincerely apologize and will not chime into these types of threads or conversations again.

I sort of think you are on to something. But the commenters are also right, this is a rather homophobic view to have because lesbians aren't just straight men in a woman's body nor are gay men straight women in men's bodies, but it makes me wonder if it isn't because homophobia itself is the tipping point that creates gender dysphoria or causes transsexualism--which I think it is (at least for those who are homosexual). True, there's no such thing as a "male brain" or "female brain", but a commonality in early-onset transsexualism is a tendency for the body to develop in a manner more similarly towards that of the opposite sex (the sex itself not actually changing, but development skews in that direction). A person experiences the world with their entire body, so there is a degree of truth in the belief that a trans person might perceive the world and reality more like the opposite sex than their own--it isn't a matter of having a sexed brain, but of skewing towards a total physical perception of the world and in turn self more similar to that of the opposite sex. But, then, why don't all human beings who have a physical development that might skew towards the generalized development of the opposite become trans? I think it's because of homophobia, the belief that it is abhorrent to perceive sexuality in a way that the opposite sex typically does.

Homosexual men and women have fought to be accepted by society as being no less men or women, indeed just human, than anyone else because of their sexuality, because they know they aren't. Trans people try to convince themselves that they too are no less men or women than anyone else. So if a homosexual person were to internalize homophobia to the degree that they could not accept that they were the sex they are, because their bodies and experiences of their selves have developed in a way skews more towards that of the opposite sex, then perhaps it's that homophobia being the tipping point that then causes a complete cross-sex identification. They are, in a sense, "men trapped in women's bodies" and "women trapped in men's bodies", or they experience themselves as such. But of course not really.

And the thought that lesbians are actually straight men and gay men are straight women is absurd, and the very idea is incredibly offensive and denies their humanity on the basis of their physical sex and sexual orientation, by inferring that heterosexuality is the "right" way to experience sexuality. Gay men are men, lesbians are women, full stop. To say differently is to deny their sex. And no matter how much they physiologically might develop as humans resembling the opposite sex, therefore perhaps perceiving life in a way more similar to the generalized manner that the opposite sex might perceive things due to their biology, they are still the sex that they are and are no "less" woman or man than anyone else.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (33 children)

True, there's no such thing as a "male brain" or "female brain", but a commonality in early-onset transsexualism is a tendency for the body to develop in a manner more similarly towards that of the opposite sex (the sex itself not actually changing, but development skews in that direction).

What do you mean? Are you talking about taking hormones and the changes that start to happen? (Not arguing just didn’t understand what you were saying)

A person experiences the world with their entire body, so there is a degree of truth in the belief that a trans person might perceive the world and reality more like the opposite sex than their own--it isn't a matter of having a sexed brain, but of skewing towards a total physical perception of the world and in turn self more similar to that of the opposite sex.

I also didn’t get this. Are you saying that because of transition you think that trans people experience the world as the opposite sex?

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What do you mean? Are you talking about taking hormones and the changes that start to happen? (Not arguing just didn’t understand what you were saying)

No, rather how in early-onset transsexualism children tend to develop with physical characteristics that cause them to resemble the opposite sex more, and sometimes this is associated with non-typical endocrine functioning relative to expected outcomes for a given sex. This isn't to refer to just a few characteristics, but rather a totality of physical and physiological development.

Are you saying that because of transition you think that trans people experience the world as the opposite sex?

No, I'm speaking about prior to transition. I mean that due to naturally-occurring physiological development that results in a body inherently more resembling the opposite sex early on in life, a person (in this case a trans person) would experience life from a physical perspective more like what is typical or expected of the opposite sex (but of course with the exception of actual sex).

So for instance, if a female is closer in height to that of the average male than that of the average female, then she perceives the world from a height that is a more common perception among men than of women--it is not a "male height", but because more males are of that height, then to have that height is to have more in common with males than with females regarding it, seeing the world in regards to height as more men see it. So, the more characteristics that a person develops that would be shared more in common with that of the opposite sex, the more by default one perceives the world from the perspective of that sex. But of course, that doesn't make a person actually the opposite sex or have thinking typical of that sex, but an overall collection of physical features that when combined leads to having more in common with the opposite sex would lead to an overall perception that is closer to that typically experienced by the opposite sex.

A person's perception is more similar to that of the opposite sex, in every way but actual sex. They can never share that perception, but everything associated with it may be shared in common, and could lead someone to be convinced they have the same feelings and thoughts as the opposite sex, and be convinced by it that they actually belong to the opposite sex.

[–]MarkTwainiac 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

in early-onset transsexualism children tend to develop with physical characteristics that cause them to resemble the opposite sex more, and sometimes this is associated with non-typical endocrine functioning relative to expected outcomes for a given sex. This isn't to refer to just a few characteristics, but rather a totality of physical and physiological development.

I'm speaking about prior to transition. I mean that due to naturally-occurring physiological development that results in a body inherently more resembling the opposite sex early on in life

I'd be very interested to see the scientific sources for the extraordinary claim that some children have "early-onset transsexualism" - and that as a result they undergo natural processes that cause them go through "a totality of physical and physiological development" that results in them having "a body inherently more resembling the of the opposite sex early on life."

Not research papers speculating that this might be so based on looking at the genetic & hormonal profiles of adult trans people & the narratives they tell about their early lives. Research science that comes from documenting & studying the physiology of children who according to their parents, therapists, medical doctors & themselves have been clearly trans since they were pre-schoolers or toddlers.

There are tons of people who fit the bill now - including such publicly trans young people like Jackie Greene, Jazz Jennings, Kai Shippley, Trinity Neal and a host of others who were identified as trans by their parents, gender therapists & doctors as young as age two. Influential gender specialists say that kids like these know they're trans long before they can learn to speak, and that they tell the world that they are trans by doing such things as pulling barrettes out of their hair, unsnapping their onesies and liking to have towels draped over their heads after having a bath. Some parents have even gone so far as to say they knew their kids were trans at birth.

With so many kids like this getting medical treatment for being trans over the last 20 years, certainly every possible physical test that could be safely done on them was performed - such as full genetic testing, MRIs, CBCs, endocrine testing & continued monitoring, bone density tests, testing of lung, kidney, heart, immune function etc - so as to show all the physical traits that they have in common with one another that make them trans, and also to make sure they really are trans before putting them on powerful medications such as puberty blockers & CSH and subjecting them to irreversible major surgeries.

Which raises the question: if there really are children who have "early-onset transsexualism" that is inherently physical in origin, as you say, and these children undergo "naturally-occurring physiological development that results in a body inherently more resembling the opposite sex early on in life," then why is there such a huge push to put all these kids on puberty blockers as early as 8, CSH soon after & to do double mastectomies as early as 13 and surgeries reconfiguring male genitals at 15 and 16? Why not just wait for the bodies of young trans people to undergo the "naturally-occurring physiological development" that you say is characteristic of "early-onset transsexualism"?

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I don't think that something like "early-onset transsexualism" is inherently physical in origin, but I think physical development in such a matter is necessary factor if it is to eventually develop. It's likely that many other children may develop physically the same way and never transition; indeed, most children who show cross-sex identification and/or gender dysphoria early in and throughout childhood grow out of it, which makes a good case for waiting to subject them to transitional medical treatments. There shouldn't be a push, but it's there perhaps both out of compassion for children who are seen as suffering, and out of a need for trans adults and anyone who may benefit from affirming that a transgender identity is an immutable, unchangeable, inherent characteristic that's best not to try to change.

It would be erroneous to assume that any child whose development wasn't in line with the standards determined to be typical of a given sex to be assumed that they were going to identify more as the opposite sex, which is what trying to make early conclusions about a child's likelihood of growing up to be trans and deciding to treat it in childhood does.

I'd be very interested to see the scientific sources for the extraordinary claim that some children have "early-onset transsexualism" - and that as a result they undergo natural processes that cause them go through "a totality of physical and physiological development" that results in them having "a body inherently more resembling the of the opposite sex early on life."

Not research papers speculating that this might be so based on looking at the genetic & hormonal profiles of adult trans people & the narratives they tell about their early lives. Research science that comes from documenting & studying the physiology of children who according to their parents, therapists, medical doctors & themselves have been clearly trans since they were pre-schoolers or toddlers.

Fair point and on the nose because it mostly has been retrospective research based on adult case studies, but those research papers are what everyone is making assumptions and conclusions based from--it's where my understanding is coming from, I wasn't even thinking critically there! I suppose if we continue to transition children and adolescents with cross-sex hormones and surgeries that affect development, it's going to be difficult to know if their development or features of their development would have been more similar to that of the opposite sex or if that would have changed at some point, and if so, by how much.

[–]MarkTwainiac 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (27 children)

if a female is closer in height to that of the average male than that of the average female, then she perceives the world from a height that is a more common perception among men than of women--it is not a "male height", but because more males are of that height, then to have that height is to have more in common with males than with females regarding it, seeing the world in regards to height as more men see it.

So Jerry Hall at 6'0 sees the world more as males do, and Jimmy Sommerville at 5'2 sees the world more as females do? Bet Jimmy would beg to differ: https://youtu.be/88sARuFu-tc

BTW, here's Jimmy S performing with Sarah Jane Morris. She's not only taller & bigger than Jimmy, but she's got the much deeper voice. Are we really to think that she sees the world more as a male than he does, and he sees the world more as a female than she does? https://youtu.be/1RHBAd5YUR8

A person's perception is more similar to that of the opposite sex, in every way but actual sex. They can never share that perception, but everything associated with it may be shared in common, and could lead someone to be convinced they have the same feelings and thoughts as the opposite sex, and be convinced by it that they actually belong to the opposite sex.

A person can only become convinced of this only if their views are based on sex stereotyping. The only thing all the members of each sex has in common is our sex, which is about our biology. Except when they relate to our sexed bodies and experiences - I like my dick, I hate my periods - feelings and thoughts and human traits are not sex-specific. Women can be tall, insensitive, aggressive and rude. Men can be short, sensitive, soft-spoken & sweet.

More Jimmy S & the gang to show that males & females come in all sizes, shapes & types: https://youtu.be/Hvlv5qrhDUM

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Physically-speaking, wouldn't they? Only in terms of height, though. And that's only because a height of 6'0" is more common among men and a height of 5'2" is more common among women. They're not seeing things in a sexed-based way, but rather by nature of features more common to a given sex.

Most importantly, I will never not appreciate (good) musical examples in debate and discussion, thank you 😁

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

What would a tall woman and a “normal height” man be expected to have in common aside from the ability to reach high shelves and maybe an assumption that they’re both good at basketball (/s)? Tall people have being tall in common. Tall women have being tall for their sex in common but aside from that I’m not sure what would connect them.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

What would a tall woman and a “normal height” man be expected to have in common aside from the ability to reach high shelves and maybe an assumption that they’re both good at basketball (/s)? Tall people have being tall in common. Tall women have being tall for their sex in common but aside from that I’m not sure what would connect them.

This is exactly what I'm trying to elucidate. Being tall is the only connection, but tall people would share the same perception and experience the world in a way that a short person does not. It isn't sex-based, but by nature of men being taller than women on average, wouldn't a tall woman experience height in a manner more similarly to men? It doesn't make her a man or perceive the world the way a man does precisely because she is not a man, and it is certainly not a sex-based attribute, but her experience of being able to reach high shelves would be one that more men experience than women.

This could apply to anything as might apply to objective difference between sexes. As MarkTwainiac said, it isn't stereotyping so much as "categorizing based on observations of objective material reality that can be scientifically substantiated". All of these things like our attributes and our senses taken together create our perception of everything. As there are such physiological differences between women and men, it would make sense that a person would perceive anything in any way that may be more commonly experienced by one sex than another.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It isn't sex-based, but by nature of men being taller than women on average, wouldn't a tall woman experience height in a manner more similarly to men?

The fact that we are discussing a woman being tall is precisely why she wouldn’t experience it in a manner more similarly to men. She’d be an anomaly. Her height would make her stand out- but it’s worth acknowledging that what’s considered tall for a woman can be considered average or even short for a man. A woman who’s 5ft8 is tall, but a 5ft8 man is not considered tall and could even be mocked for being considered short. A 6ft tall woman is remarkable. A 6ft tall man is not. I’ve even heard a lot of tall women say things about not wearing heels around their (male) partners, because them being the same height or taller than their partner feels awkward to them or makes the man feel uncomfortable for various reasons. Tall women aren’t the standard. Men being taller than women is the standard. So I’d imagine that a tall woman actually had a vastly different experience than men.

As far as the shelf thing, stools and kitchen ladders are accessible enough to most people that I don’t imagine that reaching a high shelf is that extraordinary- and I’d guess that women of middling stature don’t have a huge issue with reaching things that are high up. Unless a woman wants to play basketball or be a runway model, her height is not going to make a huge difference for her.

As far as I see it, women who possess features typically associated with men and men who possess features typically associated with women don’t share anything with the opposite sex in regards to those features, instead they experience being “othered” or even special/remarkable, for possessing features that on the opposite sex are standard. This to me means that they have distinctly opposing experiences than that of the opposite sex, solely because they possess that feature.

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As far as I see it, women who possess features typically associated with men and men who possess features typically associated with women don’t share anything with the opposite sex in regards to those features, instead they experience being “othered” or even special/remarkable, for possessing features that on the opposite sex are standard. This to me means that they have distinctly opposing experiences than that of the opposite sex, solely because they possess that feature.

The subjective experience would be different between sexes, but the objective experience would be the same. The objective experience is banal and merely just the undisputable fact itself that everyone can see and comment on, and the subjective experience is complex, personal and influenced inextricably by a person's sex. It's why a person might feel embarrassed or ashamed of a feature they may have because the world chooses to point out how it's something not typical of their sex, even though the person doesn't necessarily experience it subjectively as the opposite sex. Denying or rejecting or invalidating that person's sex is denying a part of their humanity and personhood, which is why people might cruelly point out and put down those parts of another person, and it's just hurtful. The fact that it hurts means it isn't experienced the same way as by the other sex, where that isn't something that can really be effectively insulted. So it is strange indeed when a person may have features of the other sex and conclude that it is evidence that they are internally the opposite sex, or experience the world subjectively as the opposite sex does.

It would make me wonder if sexual inversion might exist, but is only created by extreme homophobia, to the point they would reject their own sex or find it intolerable. The idea of sexual inversion in LGB people is homophobic and sexist. But because of that, might not an LGB person with internalized homophobia then become convinced or convince themselves that they themselves are sexually inverted? Sexual inversion doesn't sound like anything that can actually occur in nature, but it does seem to me that it could exist as the result of social interactions, environment and pressure, and become a self-imposition that one commits oneself to.

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I get what you’re saying, but I think it would take a combination of internalized homophobia and some type of moderate/sever mental illness for someone to convince themselves that having a feature here and there that is typically associated with the opposite sex makes them sexually inverted. I don’t think solely being internally homophobic is enough to get someone there, I don’t even know if I believe that being internally homophobic and dysphoric is enough to get someone to that thought process. Someone thinking that would likely have several sever mental health concerns that extend past dysphoria and internalized homophobia. That’s just my opinion, obviously. I’m not an expert lol

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It isn't sex-based, but by nature of men being taller than women on average, wouldn't a tall woman experience height in a manner more similarly to men?

Yes, actually, in a very limited way -- barring disease or musculoskeletal disorders, she'd have proprioceptor sensitivity (and density maybe, to an extent) relative to her bone length, joint size, and anti-gravity muscle function. This would be hardwired to her brain and inform her senses of balance, range of motion, and position in space (in averaged terms) more in line with what men of her height experience.

But that would be functioning almost entirely below the level of conscious awareness. Could she make that awareness conscious and assign some cognitive meaning or emotional values to it ("This is me experiencing the outer world at average-man-height")? Possibly. 🤔

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barring disease or musculoskeletal disorders, she'd have proprioceptor sensitivity (and density maybe, to an extent) relative to her bone length, joint size, and anti-gravity muscle function. This would be hardwired to her brain and inform her senses of balance, range of motion, and position in space (in averaged terms) more in line with what men of her height experience.

Thinking more about this, I'd wager that men and women of the same exact height would always have different perceptions of their bodies & themselves based on the measures you mention.

Since men and women have a different center of gravity, wouldn't we have a different sense of balance too? https://youtu.be/_YEmYqziusg https://youtu.be/sZbrVxcvIyE

Not only do we have a different range of motion in certain body parts - the hips & pelvis especially but also the legs and feet - but the female & male thigh bones are angled differently, & thus relate to the knees differently, which causes the two sexes to walk, run, jump, kick, move in water, pedal a bike, ski and so on differently - and to have different rates of lower limb injuries too.

Also, wouldn't males and females have somewhat different anti-gravity muscle function coz of the difference in the amount of overall muscle each sex has, women's generally greater natural elasticity & flexibility, and the impact of the menstrual cycle on women's core muscles, ligaments & other connective tissues?

When comparing the perceptions of self & the world of males & females of the same height in an effort to figure out if being of the same height really would mean having similar or the same perceptions of self & the world as was proposed earlier on this thread, pregnancy would have to be factored in too. After all, 85% of the world's women will have at least one child - many will have several, and some will have a whole bunch. Over the course of pregnancy, women's balance, range of motion, position in space, center of gravity, spine curvature, amount of pelvic tilt, gait pattern all change enormously so our sense of these things has to change too. And certainly, our awareness of the amount of space we take up horizontally is radically altered, and that's something we always have to be aware of - or if for a moment we forget, we get reminded of it when we try to fit our big bellies behind the steering wheel of an auto, into a booth in a restaurant or inside a cramped stall shower.

Now pregnancy is a relatively short-term experience in life, but it is one of those experiences that really does tend to alter women's perceptions of our bodies as well as of the world and our place in it.

(Tangent: This got me thinking about the impact of a woman's height on pregnancy & her perceptions of her body during pregnancy. It's been proven that the taller a woman is, the more likely that her pregnancy will go full-term or past-term, the less likely she will have a premature labor & birth, and the less likely she will have labor & birth complications resulting in the need for an emergency C-section as well as such adverse outcomes as stillbirth, a baby with low birth weight and/or low APGAR scores, and her own death in labor or in the post-partum period. From what women report, there's also evidence that taller women are less likely less likely to experience pregnancy-related chronic heartburn, constipation, urinary incontinence, piles and lower backache. But I've never come across any literature about whether a woman's height has any measurable impact on the mechanics of her pregnant body in terms of balance, range of motion, center of gravity, changes in gait and so on - and whether that, in turn, might cause her to experience her pregnant body in the way a woman of a different height would.)

Back to the matter of height alone, another difference between males & females of the same height is that girls develop breasts at 10-12, and many girls' & women's breasts are quite large. The size of girls' & women's breasts definitely affect our sense of balance, range of motion & our perceptions of our bodies - and other people's perceptions of us & our bodies too. As soon as girls start developing breasts, the world becomes a minefield in which being catcalled, perved on, groped, hit on & treated like a piece of meat by boys & men are part of our everyday experience as we make our way in the world. Trans-identified males who go on PBs & CSH early might experience this. But those who adopt a trans identity later in life won't.

I know slight, pretty boys, androgynous boys and young gay male "twinks" get sexually preyed upon & harassed by boys & men too. But not to the extent that girls do. Coz compared to the proportion of the male populace who are sexually attracted to females, the number of boys & men who are sexually attracted to males is much smaller.

Of course, with CSH, many males who identify as trans in adulthood develop breasts, but usually their breasts are not nearly as large as female breasts often naturally are. Nor would their breasts have the same characteristics, coz being female & going through female puberty is necessary to develop all the milk glands, ducts & lobes that women have. (If Jazz Jennings' tubular breasts are any indication, the breasts of males put on PBs at 10 & CSHs at 11 might differ from female breasts in significant ways.) Similarly, whilst many trans-identified adult males have augmentation surgeries so as to obtain what appear to be quite large breasts, there's a world of difference between how it feels to have female breasts grown naturally since the start of female puberty and having silicone sacs of fluid or gel surgically attached in adulthood. Moreover, when augmentation surgeries are done on males, the silicone sacs are attached to a torso with male shoulders and male chest muscles.

Women who've had breast reconstruction following mastectomies for cancer report that they experience their new surgically-constructed breasts very differently to their original, natural breasts. So I don't see how a male person who gets a factory-made breast facsimiles would have any idea what it's like to have genuine female breasts.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352587815000522

But I've strayed far afield, LOL. Sorry!

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Now pregnancy is a relatively short-term experience in life, but it is one of those experiences that really does tend to alter women's perceptions of our bodies as well as of the world and our place in it.

Just using this as a jumping-off point -- it completely alters perception. You alluded to relaxin, and that fluctuates with the menstrual cycle as well as its big role in pregnancy and childbirth -- and frankly, parts (pubic symphysis, SI joints, the rectus abdominis in diastasis) don't always go back into place . . . if ligaments go into any degree of sprain, even in the knees, for instance, for adjusting to balance a pregnant belly, it may damage or up/down-regulate the proprioceptors around the joint in a way that won't fully reset, so post-partum balance, gait, ROM, etc. may be very different from pre-pregnancy.

That really surprises me about tall women and pregnancy -- I would have guessed the opposite, since connective tissue diseases seem to correlate with height (no data, just an observation). You see it more in self-selected populations like professional dancers and basketball players -- I don't know if they've looked at female leagues, but male basketball players have a high incidence of arrhythmias that commonly feature in valvular disease, which is very common in connective tissue disorders. Clearly something else is going on with height that's advantageous for birth. Huh.

I'm a woman and as tall as the average man in North America, so I do get the "taking up vertical space" and having eye-level interaction aspects of what it may be like in a man's body of comparable height, and I'll own I've used that to hold my ground with men in assertive-but-nonviolent situations before (education and work in male-dominated environments). It has been useful. But all the intrinsic details -- relaxin, pelvic shape, Q-angles, lower numbers of fibers per muscle -- those are uniquely female, and I don't see how they could be "imagined."

And yes to the sexed differences in balance, gait, ROM, center of gravity, those are all in play. Growing breasts is a game-changer. Not just the weight, but the forward flexion, the self-conscious "curling inward" so many girls do because of all the factors you mentioned -- if that persists, it can chronically stress the mid-back, C-spine, TMJs, provoke migraines and autonomic dysregulation and all sorts of unpleasantness. It's basically a postural "startle response" that becomes a lived-in body position, and, well . . . it's sadly self-explanatory, isn't it?

I've seen some really sketchy (non-SRS) surgical outcomes and postsurgical chronic pain conditions -- probably in the hundreds by now. Including women with purely cosmetic breast implants. I'm shocked at how casually reassignment procedures are treated by transtrenders. I had major invasive surgery myself, and though it went brilliantly, it took years to regain my ROM and re-adjust to the postsurgical new-normal. I wouldn't wish that on anyone, and I've seen much, much worse.

No worries for the straying. I could endlessly nerd out about A&P and neurology!

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That is very, very interesting. I wonder if bringing something so unconscious to conscious awareness would then have impact on developing anything that might resemble sexual inversion, or even just gender dysphoria. That seems like it would almost be an overanalyzation of the body and self.

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Totally not my area of expertise, but I think it could potentially be tied in with overanalyzation, in synchrony with other factors. Trauma, certainly -- that casts a long shadow. But I often wonder about other conditions and experiences, tho, like early-onset OCD, synesthesia, scrupulousness, high perceptual sensitivity, high empathy, precociousness, highly active imagination, hypnagogia -- how could all of these interact with the places where sensation and cognition meet, along with real-life experiences, during our key developmental stages?

This is a gross oversimplification (and in no way meant to be insulting), but -- as a ferinstance -- we know that some children have a more heightened sense of empathy than others, and those traits do track into adulthood. What would happen if a highly empathetic child began imagining (idly or actively) very early on what it was like to be the other sex, and was also an early-enough abstract thinker to notice some existential or physical discomfort with "being in a body," and through individual preference was drawn to modes of gendered expression and adornment sanctioned by the child's culture . . . even absent some trauma of rejection or abuse or homophobia, and with not-all-that-uncommon genetic "brain processing stuff" going on -- could we see the possibility of that child developing a transgender identification as a multifactorial adaptation to their uniquely inner and constraining outer circumstances? With adverse experiences, could that identification later develop into something that resembles GD?

In other words, I think it's far more complicated than we currently understand. As they say in the journals -- "more research needed."

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A person can only become convinced of this only if their views are based on sex stereotyping. The only thing all the members of each sex has in common is our sex, which is about our biology. Except when they relate to our sexed bodies and experiences - I like my dick, I hate my periods - feelings and thoughts and human traits are not sex-specific. Women can be tall, insensitive, aggressive and rude. Men can be short, sensitive, soft-spoken & sweet.

Exactly! Even most women and most men who have such sex-stereotyped characteristics won't identify as the other sex, nor would they necessarily be seen as any less woman or man than they are by those who aren't thinking of them in stereotypes. But is it stereotyping to say though that most women are shorter than men, or men are on average taller than women?

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No, it's not stereotyping to say that males on average are taller than women on average. That's categorizing based on observations of objective material reality that can be scientifically substantiated. What's stereotyping is to assume that all males and females think, feel & see the world the same way. Or all tall people, or short people think a certain way.***

But IMO, the bigger problem is with your contention that because some people have some physical characteristics more commonly associated with or frequently found in the opposite sex, but which are not at all definitive of sex - such as short stature, high voice and slight build - then of course those people view the world as the opposite sex sees it, and would reasonably

be convinced they have the same feelings and thoughts as the opposite sex, and be convinced by it that they actually belong to the opposite sex.

Which brings us back to stereotypes - & one-dimensional ones at that. The only way someone could come to such conclusions is if they have a very narrow view of what the two sexes are like in terms of thoughts, feelings & personality. Which suggests to me that growing up and in adult life as well said person has not had much IRL contact with a wide variety of human beings of both sexes - and that in the case of those persons he/she has met & interacted with, there's not been all that much in the way of deep, probing discussions that provide a window into other persons' inner lives and how they truly think & feel about things & how they experience the world.

My guess is, someone who comes to these conclusions did not grow up in crowded household/family with a lot siblings & other assorted relatives always about, that they haven't spent much or any time caring for younger siblings or kids, & their childhood & adolescence also didn't involve a lot of spending time with other families, or in other households/situations where they'd be exposed at close range to all sorts of kinds of grownups & kids alike.

But that's speculation... The point is, I see you constantly making the case that it's reasonable for people to become convinced that their perceptions, thoughts and feelings are the same as or very similar to the opposite sex - and that they themselves are the opposite sex - based on a whole bunch of stuff apart from the defining characteristics of sex itself, as here:

A person's perception is more similar to that of the opposite sex, in every way but actual sex.

All that aside, glad you like the songs! The regressive sexism & sex stereotyping that have come roaring back & are now so popular today really make me nostalgic for the 70s and 80s, LOL.

*** BTW, in these arguments, I think it's best to stay away from height, especially when talking about developing physical characteristics "resembling the opposite sex early on in life" as you were. The fact is, although boy babies tend to be longer & to grow faster earlier in infancy, we all start out life very short - and much of our basic world view gets set before we've reached our full adult height.

Also, growing up, males & females reach adult height at different ages - which can affect people's perception of their own & other people's heights & their sense of what's normal. Females not only start puberty earlier than boys, but we have our main growth spurt towards the beginning of puberty, whereas for males the growth spurt comes nearer the end.

Also, it's best to keep in mind that one percent of the world uses a wheelchair FT - and a much higher percentage of people will spend time in a wheelchair at some point over the course of their lives. Moreover, in today's world, with people spending so much time behind keyboards and in autos when out & about, height probably has less significance in shaping perceptions than previously. With things like online banking & shopping, a lot of short people no longer have to face the hassles of counter heights that are too high & stuff on store shelves that are out of reach as before.

Finally, most girls & women - particularly if they grew up with brothers, boy pals & BFs, and of course if they've been assaulted by males - have an awareness that height isn't a great leveler or signifier of "sameness." A woman & man of the same height, weight & fitness level will still be unmatched physically. He will have much greater grip strength, punching power, speed, musculature & overall strength - & he likely will be able to squeeze her to unconsciousness with one hand on her throat.

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the bigger problem is with your contention that because some people have some physical characteristics more commonly associated with or frequently found in the opposite sex, but which are not at all definitive of sex - such as short stature, high voice and slight build - then of course those people view the world as the opposite sex sees it

But those people don't necessarily view the world as the opposite sex sees it. It wouldn't make sense that something only like short stature, high voice or slight build, or even a combination of those sorts of things, could make a person see the world the way the opposite sex sees it, because of course they cannot be the opposite sex and therefore not experience the world that way. It would take much more for a person to be convinced they see the world and themselves that way, or I would hope at least. I do believe, however, that it wouldn't be the wildest thing to say that the sum of a person's perception based on those attributes might lead to them having more perceptual kinship with one sex than the other. I realize this is a bit fanciful, but I hope that what I'm saying is a bit more clear. I think you nearly understand my point, but I haven't quite found the right words or phrasing to fully get this across.

Which brings us back to stereotypes - & one-dimensional ones at that. The only way someone could come to such conclusions is if they have a very narrow view of what the two sexes are like in terms of thoughts, feelings & personality. Which suggests to me that growing up and in adult life as well said person has not had much IRL contact with a wide variety of human beings of both sexes - and that in the case of those persons he/she has met & interacted with, there's not been all that much in the way of deep, probing discussions that provide a window into other persons' inner lives and how they truly think & feel about things & how they experience the world.

My guess is, someone who comes to these conclusions did not grow up in crowded household/family with a lot siblings & other assorted relatives always about, that they haven't spent much or any time caring for younger siblings or kids, & their childhood & adolescence also didn't involve a lot of spending time with other families, or in other households/situations where they'd be exposed at close range to all sorts of kinds of grownups & kids alike.

You might be right! That could explain much for a person who comes to such conclusions...

I see you constantly making the case that it's reasonable for people to become convinced that their perceptions, thoughts and feelings are the same as or very similar to the opposite sex - and that they themselves are the opposite sex - based on a whole bunch of stuff apart from the defining characteristics of sex itself

I kind of think it's hilarious, because life really can be strange like that. It's downright silly and absurd, yet I do find it reasonable. And despite my quirks, I would like to think myself a reasonable, rational person.

That's a good point about height, too, I wish I'd have thought of a better example first. I had an idea to use different color M & Ms, but I don't want that to sound too dumb nor get lost in details again so I'm trying still to think of better examples.

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I think the flaw (for lack of better word, sorry) in your theory is that any female typical feature on a man or male typical feature on a woman is the opposite of the expectation. And because it’s the opposite, they don’t elicit the same reactions or responses that they would on a person who is the sex typically associated with the feature(s). Does that make sense? Meaning, it’s the very fact that they aren’t the sex typical of whatever feature that makes their experience different. A man with “moobs” is gonna be mocked or considered overweight, a woman with big breasts is often considered a positive thing in society (and the point where a man has “moobs” is still not comparable to the point where a woman is considered as having big breasts, if that makes sense?). Conversely, a woman with a “flat chest” is often mocked or deemed less desirable (ex: the “itty bitty titty committee” thing 🙄).

People are held to the physical standards of their sex, so having a feature normally associated with the opposite sex makes them an outlier, rather than giving them a kinship to the opposite sex- because those features would be unremarkable and likely go unnoticed when they are on a person of the sex they are attributed to. Kevin Hart, for example, he’s the average height for women. But since he’s a man, his height is always a punchline. Look at the height of basketball players, to use that example again- female basketball players average in height somewhere between 5’6-5’10. Male basketball players are often well over 6ft. Allen Iverson is 6ft and was considered a short player (there are shorter players too, to be fair).

It’s the very fact that they aren’t the sex associated with whatever feature that isolates their experience and perception (rather than connecting them with the opposite sex), as well as how they are perceived by others. So a woman with a typically male feature is going to be considered and possibly treated as “different”, where it’s typical and unremarkable for a man, and vice versa. And again, it’s worth noting that the point where it becomes atypical on the opposite sex than the expected is always going to be a point where it’s standard on the associated sex.

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I think the flaw (for lack of better word, sorry) in your theory is that any female typical feature on a man or male typical feature on a woman is the opposite of the expectation. And because it’s the opposite, they don’t elicit the same reactions or responses that they would on a person who is the sex typically associated with the feature(s). Does that make sense? Meaning, it’s the very fact that they aren’t the sex typical of whatever feature that makes their experience different.

I'm trying very hard not to get too wrapped up in semantics or nitpick words, because what I've been trying to describe is a paradox that I think you're actually finding the words to (good on you! And thank you! 😊). A feature or attribute could be not sex-typical for a person, and indeed because it isn't sex-typical it would cause that person to be unable to experience it as the opposite sex does, yet embodying that feature means they appear to be sharing a feature more common to the other sex, which may be pointed out by others by doing things such as teasing. The person isn't really experiencing something the way the opposite sex does, but others, whether maliciously or not, point out the commonality.

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Responding a lot, sorry, can’t sleep and finally figured out how to word what I couldn’t earlier...

Re you looking for better examples: imo, This thread reminds me of tra/qt arguments (not your points, just the conversation in general). The idea that “women can have penises” or “men can have vaginas” or even the “you can’t know what genitals someone has” thing that tras love to say- they say those things because they know that we expect certain parts or features on people based on sex, and they want to diminish that expectation. A person attracted to men may have a preference for a particular penis size- but whether you like ‘em big or small, you still expect there to be a penis when you get naked with them. A penis that’s smaller/larger than you may prefer may be disappointing, but a vagina instead of a penis is a whole different situation for the vast majority of people. When we see articles or coverage of TW athletes, people who oppose TW participation in female sports always point out the height and build of the TW- because those features being pointed out are associated with males.

I don’t think it matters what example you find, it’s always going to be a feature that’s associated and expected with the opposite sex, and it’s that factor, rather than the feature itself, thats going to inform someone’s experience and perception.

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Not to sound callous, but I'm glad for the insomnia, because you're better wording what I'm trying to say as well.

I was actually thinking of the other discussion of athletes and trying to reconcile what I saw as inconsistencies of logic: that sex influences total biological development resulting in differences between female and male bodies in nearly every way, but the way that bodies can vary and defy expectations is a given that makes it difficult or impossible to say something like "being tall is a male attribute" because a woman may be tall too and be just as much a woman as any other and truly perceive things as only a woman can. So, to tie this back to the original post's statement of LGB people having sexual inversion (hopefully using that correctly), part of it is a convincing that someone like an extremely homophobic homosexual person could be convinced that their own features or attributes provide evidence that they mentally/spiritually are the opposite sex. There is no real sexual inversion except that created by one's own self, and to be able to convince oneself something like that about themselves, I imagine it would take looking for every bit of supporting evidence one could find and willfully misinterpret as proof that they are a heterosexual member of the opposite sex "trapped" in the body of the "wrong" sex.

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I think that the “sexual inversion” that you’re talking about is something that would occur on any body by chance. I don’t see how that would be a trans specific thing, which is what your initial comment seemed to suggest. Rather, it would be a thing that just happens to some people based on genetics/what features they inherited from their parents, and that if someone happened to be trans, they’d interpret as a sign they were meant to transition. But the way you phrased your first comment gave me (and I think a few of us) the impression that you were saying that this was a phenomenon that occurs specifically in trans people.

However, I don’t think having developed some typically opposite sex features is ever going to mean someone naturally developed so many of those features that they are a able to really see themselves as a member of the opposite sex. I just don’t know what features someone could develop that would logically support that. I think that people who transition have a mental health issue, but I think someone convincing themselves that because one to a few features on their body is more aligned with the opposite sex means they are trapped in the wrong body would be more deeply mentally ill than the average dysphoric person. There’s just no feature typical of a woman that a man can naturally develop (or vice versa) that I think would reasonably justify that thought process.

Yes secondary sex characteristics can vary- that’s why they are secondary, and we define and observe by primary. Still- someone would have to develop significantly more secondary features typical of the opposite sex than their own for it to make sense that having those features changes their perspective and experience in life, unless they were several mentally ill. And even then, them convincing themselves doesn’t do much to make the idea in their head a logically sound one. I understand what you’re saying now, but initially it did sound as if you were implying that trans people, specifically children, somehow have the possibility of naturally developing physically more in line with the sex they’ll eventually want to transition to appear as, and that doing so informs their perspective. That doesn’t seem to be what you’re saying now. Now it sounds like you’re saying that a trans person may cling to any feature(s) they naturally developed that is typically associated with the opposite sex as a sign or proof that they were meant to transition, even though the rest of their body and features are typical of their sex?

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I usually agree with what you say but I strongly disagree with this. Idk about the naturally developing part, I’ve never heard that and would need to find some type of study to read about it- not discrediting you, it just isn’t something I’ve ever heard anyone say. Also- why would they give blockers to kids if this is a thing? Why would this happen to only trans kids, and even then- only to some trans kids? But as for the rest, I don’t think things like having secondary sex characteristics that are typically associated with the opposite sex makes anyone perceive life more like the opposite sex. A tall woman is still a woman and may face being teased about her height or other types of reactions to her height (just as a short man would) but I don’t think she would connect with men just because they’re both taller than the average woman. She’s still experiencing female function, sexism, etc. I think having an overall collection of features of the opposite sex could possibly just make most people self conscious or affect their personality and some experiences, sure, but it seems a bit of a stretch to claim that they have any insight into what it’s like to be the opposite sex. Idk how to word what I’m trying to say and may come back and comment again to clarify if i find the words, I just disagree

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Furthermore, what sort of person might a bisexual person actually be? If the idea of gender is made up of stereotypes and generalizations, then we know it doesn't exist in the way that a person has a "male brain" or "female brain". The only true difference between men and women is sex, which dictates how bodies will develop and therefore affect perception to become distinctly female or male only in regards to sex, or originating from it. Is a bisexual person both a man and woman trapped in the body of one sex? Not only is the idea of being trapped in the wrong body in this manner homophobic, it's also incredibly sexist.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

True, there's no such thing as a "male brain" or "female brain", but a commonality in early-onset transsexualism is a tendency for the body to develop in a manner more similarly towards that of the opposite sex (the sex itself not actually changing, but development skews in that direction).

I don’t feel like there is any evidence for this. I’ve heard it in a bunch in adult trans peoples narratives, but it usually seems like revision to me. It makes sense for trans people to want to tell a story that affirms how they see themselves currently and saying you had naturally cross-sex features or development, might make you feel more valid in some way. I’m super sympathetic if it helps the person cope in life, but there isn’t any evidence that it’s actually happening.

Also, how you are using early-onset? Every trans person basically says they knew since they were very young so, unless you are speaking about transition age, it’s not really a distinct group. Are you talking about childhood transition? Often times someone may have not experienced a complete puberty if they began medical transition, so it makes sense to say there is a difference because of medical intervention.

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I don’t feel like there is any evidence for this. I’ve heard it in a bunch in adult trans peoples narratives, but it usually seems like revision to me. It makes sense for trans people to want to tell a story that affirms how they see themselves currently and saying you had naturally cross-sex features or development, might make you feel more valid in some way. I’m super sympathetic if it helps the person cope in life, but there isn’t any evidence that it’s actually happening.

You might be right, Peaking. Much of what we know is based on self-reporting which is hardly scientific. I'll admit I'm not sure how much research is based on interpretation of self-reporting, and how much is based on objective observation.

how you are using early-onset? Every trans person basically says they knew since they were very young so, unless you are speaking about transition age, it’s not really a distinct group. Are you talking about childhood transition? Often times someone may have not experienced a complete puberty if they began medical transition, so it makes sense to say there is a difference because of medical intervention.

I'm probably conflating things by trying to simplify by combining different conceptualizations and typologies by different researchers for simplicity's sake since often there seems to be dual etiologies in each of the more popular schools of thought (primary vs secondary transsexualism, early-onset vs late-onset transsexualism, homosexual transsexualism vs autogynephilia). That's not really being very articulate of me, I apologize for that. I'm trying to speak of childhood cross-sex identification that persists into adulthood.

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Thanks for explaining!

I like primary vs secondary transsexual and other ideas like that, but it’s hard to use them reliably with self-report from trans adults I feel like. They aren’t neutral and people want to be part of the better categories so they will form there experiences around that. Like, we don’t see some large numbers of TW talking openly about their autogynephilia, even though it super, super common based on all the studies I feel like. It used to be the same way with gynephilia too. Like all TW would say they liked men, but you’d get to know them and find out they weren’t really that way after all (often in very uncomfortable ways...😬). No need to apologize for anything.

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Very true, no one wants to be pariah, probably even more so when they're already part of a group that isn't widely welcomed with open arms. I'd be curious to do more research and try to better discern what "facts" are merely self-reports, and which ones are objective observation or rooted in scientific study. Do you happen to know if most of those conceptualizations (primary vs secondary, etc.) are more based on objective data than self-reports? I'd like to look it up anyways, just thought you may already have better insight!

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A person experiences the world with their entire body, so there is a degree of truth in the belief that a trans person might perceive the world and reality more like the opposite sex than their own--it isn't a matter of having a sexed brain, but of skewing towards a total physical perception of the world and in turn self more similar to that of the opposite sex.

If I may -- you could break perception down into two categories: physical and cognitive.

Physical perception is . . . well, physical. Special senses (sight, hearing, taste, smell, touch) and mechanoreceptors, chemoreceptors, baroreceptors, stretch and load receptors, etc. are consistent in men and women, like the brain. The only real sexed differences are in how they correspond to centers of gravity (typically lower in women, higher in men), balance and stride (wider quadriceps angle in women), feedback loops in cycles of hormone-driven ligament laxity (women), and most obviously, sex organ function. Beyond that, they are what they are: smart environmental sensors and homeostatic circuits.

Cognitive perception is where the real fun begins. Cognition is hardwired into the physical senses ("Walking on my hands is exhausting and makes me feel barfy, maybe I'll feel better if I walk on my feet instead" or "My heart is skipping a few beats -- everything else seems okay, but the sensation is making me feel really nervous"). But all sense-of-self beyond environmental and autonomic input is cognitive, or cognition-mediated. That includes our emerging concept of "I" in early childhood, the realization that our developing body does or doesn't quite match what we conceive of as "I," or the extent to which what we see reflected back to us by others (mirror neurons) does or doesn't confirm "I."

The sense of being other-than-the-body-one-is-in is purely cognitive, unless there is some seriously weird and rare neurology going on (far rarer than trans). The body is more or less content to hum along maintaining processes and doing body-stuff. The mind, or cognition, and the places where cognition and bodily processes interface (mostly via the nervous system) are where the "I" reflects on what it perceives as gender-conforming or gender-non-conforming.

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The other issue here is that when Fleurista - and others - talk about perception, several different kinds of perception at are issue but often seem to get mixed up.

First, there are the perceptions each individual has of the world & other people in it. Which, as you note, can come directly from our senses and also through cognition or thought processes.

Sometimes due to injuries or anomalies, our ability to perceive through our physical senses and/or our ability to correctly process our sense perceptions cognitively gets altered. As a result, our perceptions can be dulled - in the case of someone who has nerve damage or has suffered burns - or they can be heightened - as in the case of many people who've lost one of their physical senses (such as people who are blind, deaf or can't smell). At the same time, some people have senses that are extra sensitive or have special features - such as people who have "sophisticated" palates, can pick up smells that other people can't, or see colors when they hear music.

Second, there are the perceptions each one of us as individuals have of our own selves and our bodies. Which again come from both our physical senses and from thought processes.

Third, there are the perceptions each one of us has about how other people perceive us, themselves and the world. IME, the way we perceive other people's perceptions is more about our own thought processes than about our usually reliable built-in senses like sight, smell, taste, touch and hearing.

A lot of people make assumptions about how others perceive them that have little or no basis in fact because it's very common for humans to project our own perceptions, inner feelings and beliefs onto others. Also, a certain segment of the population has always been susceptible to assuming that they way they personally experience & view the world is the way all human beings do. But in truth, other people often don't actually see us (or the world) in the way we think they do. Lots of times individuals are utterly convinced others see them in a certain way when, in reality, others don't see them that way at all.

Moreover, many people think that others must think X,Y, Z about them when the truth is that those others often have never paid them much mind or given them any thought to begin with. To paraphrase a famous quote, Most other people don't think ill of us - they don't think of us at all. In our own minds, we are in the starring role, but in other people's minds we often aren't even bit players - we don't even register in their perceptions.

TL;DR version: when people speak of how others perceive them, or how they are perceived in the world, what they usually are referring to is how they think others perceive them and how they believe they are perceived in the world. And in these cases, there's usually a whole lot of projecting and assuming going on.

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Ohhhh yeah.

Third, there are the perceptions each one of us has about how other people perceive us, themselves and the world. IME, the way we perceive other people's perceptions is more about our own thought processes than about our usually reliable built-in senses like sight, smell, taste, touch and hearing.

IMO that's where the fun really begins. And I think it's a critical framework for making sense of experiences like GD, but we rarely ever get there when the bulk of online arguments are about foundational principles (is biological sex real? what has primacy, felt experience or empirical measurables? etc.) and advocacy has actively hijacked clinical practice guidelines and research.

This is really the level I'd like to see the general conversation around GD and transing achieve, because I think it's capable of delivering the most therapeutic bang for the buck.

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Well and clearly put. I should take better care to avoid conflating things like that in the future!

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It's a Gordian knot that's hard (and frequently exhausting) to unpick tho.

What came first, the enzyme or the reaction? The sense or the emotion? The self-concept or the social mandate?

Hardly anyone is thinking this stuff through down to this level of detail (in good faith). My personal feeling is this is an area of enquiry where you get props for just showing up.

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Legit getting #deep... but it seriously is fascinating! And I'm not sure if we could ever have a definitive answer, but I'd like to think it's possible. Or we could at least make some helpful conclusions and discoveries. I appreciate your philosophical mindset, PhilosopherTentacles 😊

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Thank you! 😄 I'm holding out for the Star Trek "we'll know more in a hundred years" option. Meanwhile we're muddling through.

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If you disagree, what are your arguments against what has been mentioned above?

The currency of the studies mentioned (2008).

a) Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 2018: "Analysis of Human Brain Structure Reveals that the Brain 'Types' Typical of Males Are Also Typical of Females, and Vice Versa" (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6204758/)

b) Cerebral Cortex, 2019: "Sex Matters: A Multivariate Pattern Analysis of Sex- and Gender-Related Neuroanatomical Differences in Cis- and Transgender Individuals Using Structural Magnetic Resonance Imaging" spoiler alert - no detectable differences (https://academic.oup.com/cercor/article/30/3/1345/5542405)

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When I accused trans activists of being homophobic and repurposing the "invert theory" I expected them to deny it, not embrace it.