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This is pure homophobia. Female homosexuals and male homosexuals aren't heterosexual people trapped in the wrong bodies, although many of us have felt or feel that way because of heteronormativity. Being a sexual minority can be isolating in real life, and wanting to change your body to fit in can seem like the only solution to date the sex you're attracted to. But that's absurdly homophobic.

Edit to add: in the late 90s during my teens, I tried to pass as a straight dude online. Women clocked me because I was too respectful. I was literally told "a real man would've told me to suck his dick by now" in an AOL private chat. That's when I started emulating straight men by being uncensored/unfiltered/vulgar/explicit. And hypermasculine/misogynistic since I'm black, and black women expect black men to be disrespectful towards them.

Lesbians and straight men are different... straight women can only be catfished by lesbians if the straight women are expecting men they're chatting with to talk like a woman.