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[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

So, he's a straight guy with kids who's sex drive died with age? Might want to see a doctor about that.

Or is dad not meant to be literal here?

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

'Dad' and 'daddy' are terms some gay and bisexual men use for older gay and bisexual men. Not sure why, but it might have something to do with the fact that some gay and bisexual men have issues with their fathers.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sometimes I like the idea of calling an older woman mommy, it's hot. But thinking about it, it's actually perverted lol

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah that would be weird...

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

But then who doesn’t? 😂

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. I love my dad, and he's a good dad, but he’s not perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect parent.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's also 2 or 3 other issues. Many people say it in a purely sexual way but don't perceive it as being related to biological parents. It's more like a power dynamic thing.

Then you have the literal sugar daddies which both parties are just using each other...

Then you have a more outdated relationship where older men would actually fill in the gap of a custodial family figure because families would often disown their gay sons and that overlapped with a sexual relationship. I'm sure it wasn't totally healthy but it was better than dumping teenagers on the streets.

[–]KingDickThe2nd 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I thought it was saying that he wants to be a "sugar daddy" without the sex, but it looks like you are right.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh, at least he's gay. That's better than what I thought. Should probably still check with a doctor, loss of sex drive can be caused by a number of health issues.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

So he’s married to a man and occasionally experiences sexual attraction. Intriguing.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

So he's larping.

lmao!

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 16 insightful - 15 fun16 insightful - 14 fun17 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

It's easy not to feel sexual attraction when your husband dyes his beard radiation green and stretches his ear lobes wide enough to fit three dicks.

[–]DimDroog 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

KJ: What influenced you to start “Ace Dad Advice”? CD: I downloaded TikTok earlier this year at the urging of my barber. He told me I’d dig it. I was like, “No, that’s for kids. Not my scene.” But I downloaded the app anyway. And I made this video identifying myself as asexual.

BHAHHAAAA!

Tiktok makes Twitter look like a sober, reasonable platform of discourse.

All of a sudden, I’m getting a ton of comments and messages. ‘I’ve never seen an ace person who looks like you.” “I didn’t know ace elders existed.” “I didn’t know there were ace adults out there

Ah, that old dopamine hit feels good.

It's a rush getting positive attention.

At least he is gay, so there is that.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

‘I’ve never seen an ace person who looks like you.” “I didn’t know ace elders existed.” “I

Even they know it's a teenager fad, lmao!

[–]Rag3 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder how many of those pins on his jacket describe aspects of his personality identity

[–]julesburm1891 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Literally don’t even talk to me about any of this unless you are actually Morrissey.

[–]Tikiri 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

🤣👏🏼💯

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You cannot be asexual, and gay, bisexual, heterosexual, etc. as people who are asexual are not sexually attracted to anyone.

But the whole "bear" thing has been a joke for 30 years, it used to describe larger masculine hairy and bearded white bisexual and gay men, but now it is a catch all for anyone morbidly obese and it never applied to anyone of any other race.

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel bad for his husband and their partner, but it's no wonder why the "husband" has a fuck buddy on the side since the asexual guy and he do not have sex at all.

[–]fijupanda 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

uhm... so gives advice on what? how to keep a beard? I don't get it.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do they ever stop to consider that a key reason why asexuality is poorly understood is because they do such a bad job explaining it or they don’t even try to? I hear “asexual doesn’t mean X” a lot. But like what does it actually mean. So many words, so little explanation.

FYI, Tim Gunn is also another (former?) gay-paired man who says he is asexual and has been celibate for decades. Seems a bit more straightforward since he’s not one of those people having an obvious sexuality while claiming asexuality. It seems like it makes more sense when someone is not inclined to pursue any relationships. I know people like that. But for those who do, what are you basing those relationships on? How do you decide who you want to be in a relationship with? Is it just close friends with interwoven personal and social lives?