Does anyone else get the sense that "passing" is gaining prominence as a rite of passage analogous to coming out?
Seems to me they are opposing things. Coming out is fundamentally about insisting on the truth, whereas "passing" is fundamentally about insisting on untruth. Transgenderism promoters get upset at the accusation that it's a deception, but I've yet to read nor hear a cogent explanation as to how it is not. They'll say it's "their internal truth" but that can't be proven. Homosexual activity is easily proven.
When you peer into the discussions around "passing" there seems to be a euphoric infatuation with the goal of getting people to not know the truth about which sex one is.
(Side note, they say it's about the concept of gender, but I think that's total bullshit because so many of them refer to their sex as being the opposite of what it actually is.)
I can't help but notice how many of these people also insist that it also be known they identify as transgender. That may be an actual analogue to coming out as it's informing people of something which may be unknown, so it's like an untruth served with truth. Weird and seemingly irreconcilable.
I don't know about the rest of y'all, but coming out was not something I euphorically looked forward to achieving. It was just a thing that I needed to do in order to live more honestly. Honesty in this case was about admitting to something I do--fulfill my desire to have sex and romantic relations with other men. I don't see how that compares to fulfilling a desire to be mistaken as the opposite sex.
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